Thank you all for the responses..

jeff1607:
You might think your sex life is great until you hear from him deep down, whenever you him about to start, sort him out yourself, he's yours just as u belong to him, he would definitely appreciate it, try making the move first, make him dry.



If the above doesn't work, counselling on the dangers telling him the dangers and the risk he puts the family in and put him in prayer.

Thank you very much...Have been praying for him since I discovered.
I would try to do all of the above...

Donald3d:
Ma'am you didn't say anything about talking to him about it.
Please communicate with him,tell him how you feel about it.
And please pray for him too

Yes I know I should communicate with him... but the issue is how to go about it, knowing that it's a sensitive issue

Caveat: I created this moniker strictly for this thread. Am known on some other threads and I would like to remain as anonymous as possible.
Ok so my husband and I have been married for about 3years now, and I would say so far so good except for some one or two hiccups that is expected in any marriage.

We have a pretty great sexx life, and it all seemed good till I discovered his addiction to pornography and masturbation.
From the little research that have made, it looks like a common phenomena common to the male gender, but if it was just the normal once in a week or two kinda masturbation, I would have looked the other way, but thats not the case here...my husband masturbates every freaking day, sometimes twice or thrice in a day.... I know because I pretend to be asleep and he does it right beside me, sometimes he wakes up very early, goes to the sitting room, and does his thing.

Am worried because this addiction has really eaten deep into him, and his spiritual life would definitely be affected.
Am worried because I no longer feel the intimacy that we use to share.
Am worried because its beginning to affect our sex life because sometimes he doesnt have the drive to have sexx anymore after indulging in the act.
And am worried because I feel he might no longer be getting his sexual satisfaction from me.

Am at a loss of what to do or not do, its beginning to affect me also because sometimes I just get cold and withdrawn when I think about it .

For those that might want to come from the angle of me being stiff in bed and all; no am not, and I would rate my sexual prowess as 8. 5 on a scale of 10.... And no am not ugly, fat, or dirty...

Pls I want reasonable and matured responses. No form of foolery or child's play would be entertained here.