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Romance / Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by Anoymus: 11:59pm On Dec 27, 2020 |
Biglugard:Is there no better way to get your message across aside insult? Check am, have you made any sense from this statement? |
Romance / Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by Anoymus: 8:11am On Dec 17, 2020 |
alphaNomega:Thank you boss |
Romance / Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by Anoymus: 11:09pm On Dec 16, 2020 |
Notatribalist:Noted. Thanks |
Romance / Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by Anoymus: 10:16pm On Dec 16, 2020 |
adekal001:Settle her up with that kind of money and throwey face? Okay oo 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by Anoymus: 8:00pm On Dec 16, 2020 |
Ishilove:Thank you |
Romance / Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by Anoymus: 7:59pm On Dec 16, 2020 |
GiantParrot:Thank you 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by Anoymus: 7:11pm On Dec 16, 2020 |
idu1:You can imaging. After doing all, make she come dey tell me story wey dey touch. |
Romance / Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by Anoymus: 7:00pm On Dec 16, 2020 |
GiantParrot:1. I just support her the little way I can. I never paid her school fees while she was in school I just gave her pocket money not more than 10k and it happens only once every 1-2 months 2. They dread their dad so much cos he is a retired soldier, the fear also rubbed on me on the long run. he just knows me as his daughter's friend. We haven't got that opportunity to discuss intimately yet. Her mum na my padi, I speak to her freely. Unlike her dad 3. I'm not sure. I think they should be responsible for all their own finances. More reason why I'm asking questions, make I no go marry person wey go dey carry money dash their people while I expenses go dey choke me. 4. No sir, she isn't. I am also a graduate, and was fortunate to venture into a booming business after graduation in 2014. I'm also not ugly or handicapped in anyway (I'm sorry if you are a handicap reading this, this is not to spite you in anyway) she's certainly not doing me a favour being in the relationship. 17 Likes |
Romance / Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by Anoymus: 6:47pm On Dec 16, 2020 |
Depressed101:To your question boss, i am quite sure her answers will be YES, she will stand by me when the chips are down but wouldn't change the truth about her real personality. I'm just hoping and praying that worth the while. |
Romance / Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by Anoymus: 6:43pm On Dec 16, 2020 |
Nuyokoi:Hopefully. Thanks |
Romance / Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by Anoymus: 6:41pm On Dec 16, 2020 |
jelel6:Thank you for for your input, I'll like to know the type of woman I want to spend the rest of my life with. I feel discussions like this would broaden one's scope about the lady. Its possible for her to be earning and the only thing she does is to keeping up with trends, getting the latest bags and clothes in town just to feel among while large chunk of my money goes into maintaining a marriage we both started. I wouldn't care if she buys the latest every every with the proceeds of her business from which I started if she's doing her own part of the responsibility even if na steady 5% I'll gladly appreciate. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by Anoymus: 6:32pm On Dec 16, 2020 |
RomanGreen:Thanks for your input bro. And as for the question you asked, she is trying, surprises me with gift once a while but I don't think she would be an enduring type when the chips are down. I have had instances where I spent 15k (drugs inclusive) to remove her troublesome decay tooth just 3 days after I gave her 4k to make her hair. She complained saying the 4k won't be enough for the style that she wants to make. Had to add 1500 before she happily hugged me and gave me a peck. Person wey I spend 15k to commot tooth 3 days after the hair incident. Thought she would be greatful and cut her cloth according to their cloth instead of nagging.. But according to her, she loves me very much and I do too 8 Likes |
Romance / Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by Anoymus: 4:48pm On Dec 16, 2020 |
GOOOGLE504:Many thanks |
Romance / Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by Anoymus: 3:34pm On Dec 16, 2020 |
GIANTPLUSHUB:Thank you so much. 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by Anoymus: 12:39pm On Dec 16, 2020 |
Bola146:My thoughts exactly. Thank you for your input ma'am. 53 Likes |
Romance / Re: Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by Anoymus: 12:38pm On Dec 16, 2020 |
aminu114:wow! 17 Likes |
Romance / Should I Go Ahead And Marry Her With This Her Mindset? by Anoymus: 11:49am On Dec 16, 2020 |
I have a girlfriend I am meaning to propose to during the festive period, she's everything I want in a woman except few exception which might be a hindrance to the proposal. Gist is, my babe is a graduate but lack of work made her to learn fashion designing, she's done with the training and she's very good with what she does. After marriage, I have told her that I'll assist in her business, I'm planning to get a bigger shop space for her and equip it with modern day machines, tools and tailoring materials goods to help make her work lucrative. I'm budgeting about 1.2-1.5m for this. The issue now is that, 3 days ago, I asked her what her role would be if eventually after marriage she gets the shop, equipments and all, where she would come in in terms of responsibilities in the house. Her reply was she doesn't want to assume any responsibility and that it's my duty to cater for the family and she can only help & I shouldn't make anything compulsory for her. So many thoughts came through my mind. One of it was that, where the proceeds of her investment would be going to if I should shoulder all the responsibilities in the house knowing fully well that she makes money. I rang my mum and told her of her response, I was shocked that she backed her saying that I shouldn't have asked her to foot anything in the house that it was my sole responsibility as a man to cater for my family my wife inclusive. My dad too, same thing. Even told my gf mum about it too , she giggled and said I shouldn't have asked her n that it's my duty to provide for my family. They all sounded foreign to me. Or am I the one not understanding? My question now is, why invest that kind of money in her when I'm not sure of getting little or nothing in terms in return help to run the family. That sum of money could get me 4 brand new bikes and 2 neatly used Keke Napep for transportation business. I'm sure I'll be getting returns from these investment weekly or monthly basis. I don't want who wouldn't have any sense of responsibility at home after investing in her, even if she's covering 10% or 5% I wouldn't mind. Mere helping doesn't go down well with me, she might have and decide not to give out. I rather not invest at all and expect nothing from her. I don't know if I'm the one over thinking this things or my parent and her mum aren't seeing things from my perspective or am I being inconsiderate? Criticism, Insults and bashing are welcomed. Thanks 223 Likes 13 Shares |
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