charles009:
Good people of nairaland,
Everything you are about to read is not fiction but certain reality.

At the heat of this DNA wahala, a married Ex called me on 6th of Jan to notify me that her son is mine and not her husbands. I remember vividly a certain Saturday in 2015, when we argued intensely over the paternity of the child during her pregnancy. She insisted it was her boyfriends, make una fear women. She swore she was single. Our calculations showed she was ovulating while we had some encounters. She proceeded to block me on all social media platforms and 2 months later, her friend informed me of her wedding.


The issue here is that I am married with two kids and expecting another, she told me her husband lost his job early 2018 and it has been a very rough patch for her family. she says she wants a divorce.

I asked for the boys pictures and it put instant tears to my eyes. Showed a few friends and the resemblance is striking so they said. The most painful of all, he looks not properly looked after.

I am doing fairly OK now, I wouldn't wanna to see my blood suffer, if you were in my shoes how would you handle this. My wife would not want to hear of another child...

Mature advise please...

So she was even cheating on her soon to be married to Bf... Guys get ready, because now once these husbands establish they are not the fathers and reject responsibilities. Guess who these women will turn to Ofcourse the real father whom they already know ���

CalliDora1:
Learn to zip up and save us all this stories. If you didn't go there she won't add you to the list.

He was ready (and still is) to accept full responsibility in 2015 but she denied it was his probably because be wasnt doing well then.. So blamming Him when its clearly her decptive fault is wrong.. Talk to your women, if she hadnt played her games, he would have saved u from all this stories

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Friedturkey:
I'm very sure your "girlfriend" is not up to 18years.. you better dont do anything sexual with her, dont be a rapist

He probably isnt up to 18 years

Flyingngel:
See where bad leadership back home have landed us.

Bad leadership back home brought hate to us across the globe ? .. Gree say you no get sense first .. Then I'll tell you why..

exlinklodge:
Is Rwanda Genocide Being Replicated In Nigeria By Fulanis? 6 Steps To Genocide - FFK

Senior Advocate of Nigeria and former Minister of Aviation, Femi Fani-Kayode has been singing this 'Fulanisation Of Nigeria' and nobody seems to listen. I personally is seeing salient reasoning in all his fears and I thank God that even some notable Nigerians are now giving credence to his ruse.

According to him, this is exactly how Rwanda genocide started and since Buhari's loyalist and those following him blindly are not good students of history, all of us cannot sit and watch what claimed more than 1 millions citizens in Rwanda replicate itself in Nigeria.

FFK have carefully outlined the 6 major steps that brought Rwanda nation to its knees and how they got to the genocide that claimed more than 1 million people. And it will interest you to know that out of the 6 steps, we have now gotten to the 5th stage in Nigeria. We need to stop this impending doom before it starts.

This is no longer APC or PDP thing anymore and I wish this stupid youths and every Nigerian should wake up and see how their future may turn out to be. Below is the 6 steps as outlined by Mr. Femi Fani-Kayode. THE ROAD TO RWANDA: 6 steps to GENOCIDE:

1. The Hutu militia iinterahamwe in Rwanda started just like the herdsmen AKA bandits in Nigeria before the genocide.

2. The Govt. of, Rwanda headed by a Hutu, tactically encouraged them same as the bandits are encouraged in Nigeria...

3. They have a radio station for easy coordination just like new Fulani radio for coordination.

4. The Hutu militias 'Interahamwe' were supported by the Burundi Hutus just like Nigeria bandits are backed by Niger, Chadian etc. Fulanis.

5.Suddenly before the genocide,guns were mopped up from the innocent civilians by the then Rwanda govt. headed by Hutus.Just like it will happen in Nigeria soon.

6.Then the signal is the sudden assassination of the Hutu Pres.,the genocide that claimed over 1 million lives began.

Out of the 6 steps to genocide we have completed 5.

Pray against this bloodshed but be prepared. Pray for peace. Pray for your family. Pray for your towns and villages. Pray for your ethnic group. Pray for your nation. Pray for West Africa. Say NO to war and genocide!

I think Obasanjo is 100% correct, and the agenda is Real and it is coming very fast: Just last week ₦100 billion was approved for Fulani herdsmen; this week Federal Government approved Fulani Herdsmen Radio. This same week Buhari gave order to annul gun license; meaning people will not have what to defend themselves.

What else do you want to hear this generation that lacks foresight? God..

More @ http://www.exlinklodge.com/2019/05/is-rwanda-genocide-trying-to-be.html?m=1

This is the basis of every war even world war 1 and our already had civil war... Someone gets assassinated .. Some people get mad and retailiate .. But the main fact there is they dont retaliate until its been thoroughly proven which involves investigations and confessions.. This and also if the group/tribe that the assasin hails frm feel no remourse or empathy...

Besides with Rwanda it was a majority group vs a minority group ..... Fulani is the minoritiest group on its own

flexyrule:
The greatest weapon of the whole agenda is keeping the enemy in disbelief. I used to debunk any allegation that relates to Islamization because I grew up in the North among peace loving Muslim brethren. But lately, there so many signs to ignore... Just too many.
Nigeria's case would be worse than Rwanda's because in Nigeria it will be a case of Herdsmen, Shittes and Boko Haram combining force to conquer the south and Christian parts of the north.
Please where are those fraudsters advertising Canadian and US visas and residency? I need to fall victim for their scam than fall for the scam of believing that there isn't any hidden agenda being propagated and developed by the muslim/Northern majority.
If you quote me and argue... Then you're part of their success story.

My man nobody can islamatize a country with force in this modern age u shoukd atleast Know this.... Muslims are already islamatizing the world passively, that's why they are the fastest growing religion right now.

Iamkuttie:


#PeaceOut

And so is also armed robbery,kidnapping and money ritual... Should we also give them passes because job no dey??

Adviseasister:
Good evening Nairalanders,

I had to create a new moniker for this, but I believe my guy will know this is for him.

Sometime last year I received a PM from a nlder. After going through his posts, I was pleased and we started talking. One thing led to another and we started a relationship. I must confess he is everything a woman wants in a man, he brought out this part of me I never knew existed and he did it so easily. We started seeing a future, I was happy.

Fast forward to February this year, I noticed a decline in communication. I complained and he blamed it on work. It continued and I had to ask what the problem is, he maintained it was work.

By March, things got worse and I have not been able to concentrate at work. I send him voice-notes and he responds hours later. I send messages and he responds with one word. I must also add he doesn't pick my calls at night anymore, but his NL profile would be seen online, though he won't comment.

I do not know what to do as I can't bring myself to love someone else as I love him. It is a long distance relationship and I do not know what to do. Is it possible he is facing challenges there and doesn't want to share?

Should I wait for him to come around or move on? Has anyone been in this situation before, how did you manage it? I feel so heartbroken.

I do this all the time; make females think I want them then when they get to attention needy I get bored and stop talking to them.. That's probably what you did, you got attention needy, he needs space. Let's hope he's not like me, then its just space he needs .. He'll text you back in a couple of weeks if u give him that

60k for 3g smart phone with 1gb ram and 268 ppi?? ... Lol okay