Abdgafarplenty: What is lawful is clear and what is prohibited is clear. Don't eat swine, carnivorous animals, animal with fangs. we have many bush meats, chickens, rams and cows and many other Halaal meat to eat. cat is not even up-to Goat meat nor snake better than Chicken
Can u imagine some people! still arguing on what is clear! If they want to eat meat, we have a bigger one (cow) that can't even be consumed by 10 people. Why cat meat would interest someone to eat in the first place?
Subhanallahi. you have to click yes I am a Muslim and believe in shahada just to comment and you did all that just to say things u don't understand. If you truly went to Islamic school and you understood what they taught then, you wouldn't have this issue with Islam. it's never Haram to touch dreadlocks, but to have dreadlocks is Haram cus you wouldn't be able to perform solat cus no ablution possible with dreadlock hair. Allah created us in different nation, with different looks and behavior but he never created Dreadlocks. They're human made. Almost all baby has his hair roughly woven from birth that why Islam asked us to shave a baby's hair before the seventh day. No child ever born with DADA
He only went to Islamic school for going sake only!!
danieloy4: Imagine you found yourself in a Sitting Arrangements like this in An Exam,how do you Cope,What has your experience been like?
For some of us as Students while in school or out of school the period of exams is the best/worst days in school. At some point we definitely must have gone through this sitting arrangements during exams probably when it is selective or departmental courses. There are a few things we dread prior to the day of the exams like; the moments we see exams timetable,the exam venues,the course itself esp if it's the one you don't like at all and the lecturer and the so-called dreaded exam invigilators that you don't want to see on your exam days at all. Etc.
Mehn,there are just so many scenarios,backup plans and experiences one has gone through on exams days especially when sitting arrangements like this doesn't favor you or your friends that you have formed Formation on who would be the Striker,Midfielder and everything just falls apart on that day Or shey na Expo you don carry,keep but that lecturer go just stick to you like glue and no go comot your side and you're in your final year in school?
What do you love or hate about exam sitting arrangements like this while in school?
The moment I step into the exam hall, dnt talk to anyone again, so, this is my best sitting method. Love it.
We tend to behave well n act justly during the month of Ramadan. Why can't we continue to act like we did during the month of Ramadan thruout the year?
celestine2015: Pple are jealous of CR7, that's y they don't see anything gud in whatever he does. He has a contract wit NIKE; meaning all his outfits wil be Nike. Now, dis boot is Adidas.. If he wears it, Nike wil sue him. D only thing he can do is to give it out.. So, giving it to Nani wil be helpful to him(Nani). Instead of keeping it to himself... *CR7#
Mr. Man, is it wearable? A statue boot of one leg? Na waoo, People no go stop to dey amaze me.
The truth is C.ronaldo isn't selfish, he sold two of his golden boots for charity, while your god(messi) doesn't even care if you die besides he not paying tax. Major reason he gave Nani the boot is because He(Ronaldo) wears Nike boots.
Lol! So u are telling me the boot is wearable? And wht if he keeps it in his cabinet? Nike company will frown it? I think he gave the silver boot to Nani for reason best knwn to him.
[quote author=goldfish80 post=47458713]…Can we please stop this fawning over the drama queen that is Ronaldo. He was an embarrassment the other night during the game. What sort of leader leaves the pitch the way he did, his tears was like he was telling his team mates that now I’m injured you lot have no chance. The pained expression, the endless tears, the covering his face, the need for a stretcher when he could have hobbled off.
gocac: Ronaldo is very stupid for trying to play with my intelligence! The truth about this young man is that "If its not all about him then everything is useless" he is not very happy because portugal won, rather because it puts him ahead of others to ballon d'or award. He gave it away because he felt that he is bigger than silver boot. Nonsense!
davimus: In relationships, I have found out that love alone doesn't guarantee the success of a relationship. Love cannot help you stick to one person, after all, cheating isn't always a product of not loving your partner. In fact, Loving someone doesn't guarantee not falling in love with any other person. Relationships work out mostly because of our head not our heart, It's works out because of emotional maturity, empathetic intelligence and self discipline. You see, Times will come when you'll see people that are better than the one you're in a relationship with. In those times, Love alone will not help you, Self control, Emotion, intelligence and commitment will help you. No matter how you feel for someone, The person you're committed to ranks first in your life. You think married people don't see better people than the ones they married? You think they don't feel funny sometimes? You think they don't catch feelings? They do. But understanding that commitment is greater than feelings is a great arsenal to destroy that impulse. You can fall in love with anyone, but building a relationship takes absolutely more than what attracted you to them. It takes more than Love. We are too fond of loving when it's convenient, when it's sweet. We are too fond of loving when love is there but that can only last for just the first 3-6 months of the relationship. After then, You'll realise that the feelings have dropped, It's now your responsibility to make it work, not love's responsibility. Building a relationship is hard work, it's like building a career, It's like pursuing a dream. It's always tough, it will sometimes be so bitter but you can always make it work through hard work .
True talk, love only cannot keep a relationship buh commitment and self control. No wonder relationship get to halt after 3 - 6 months and more for some.
Can't believe I have this much time to spare for celebrities' gist.
Although the people involved are non Muslims and their circumstances can hardly relate directly to Muslims' but still, there was so much to learn from it of which number one to me is, don't go ahead with marriage because "I must marry" when there is a major fault spotted in your spouse to be, a kind of fault you know you won't put up with in the long run but because you told yourself "he will change", " no body is perfect " et al.
Yes, change is a constant thing and no human above it but make sure you are ready to endure it if the change doesn't occur. Nobody is perfect but make sure his/her imperfections is 'copable'.
People usually give list of the ingredients they want in their homes but mine has always been two - compatibility and understanding. Love can exist without those two but those two's existence is accompanied by true love and those two help one stand the test of time save God have planned something really different for the two.
Another lesson learnt: Society, culture, people's talk will drive a lot to their graves. May Allah distant talaq from us and us from talaq but when that becomes solution, then it is. Stretching it unnecessarily will amount to greater defect especially when it will still happen anyway.
Just like teebillz and tiwa saga, a close one's dirty linen was washed in the 'community square' each of the couple explaining to who cares to listen, why they have to part ways. Now this is a shameful and disgraceful thing. They would have been able to do this honourably, early enough with 'irreconcilable differences' being all they owe whoever 'cares' to know why. Beauty of Islam, you can still return to each other within the limits set but this grace might be jeopardized the moment you give people CCTV to watch your lives with.
Another thing is some brothers earning 50k monthly want to settle with a sister whose monthly pocket money almost double his salary. Brother, there are still such good sisters though but ehm, Khadija r.a wasn't cloned nor photocopied. We need to be more realistic.
And to sisters, if you are a salafi, don't marry a staunch Sufi, Shi'a and vice versa. This has nothing to do with sectarianism but your marital success. The differences in opinions and ways of practice is a WIDE margin. People who don't really know about their practices have no problem with this but if you are a Shi'a and you really KNOW it, leave the Salafi brother who KNOWS it too, and vice versa. This is a huge incompatibility. We hear things like, 'haba one can change the other na' but egbon mi, that's a rare happening if the two really, like really understand what they do.
And other examples of huge incompatibilities follow...
No home or marriage is perfect. Even couples of over 50 years who are still very much together have many sad episodes and went through tough phases.
You know, when mummy asked me how marriage life was I replied "so sweet mum. I wish it can only get better ( I was this girl really scared of marriage because of the husband and Jannah thing #scary. LOL).
Mummy said " that's good to hear. I wish you the very best and pray it works even better for you than me BUT the down moments will come and how you two handle it will determine its longevity"
Sweet Grammy told me to firmly deposit this up moments in my memory box and remember it to enable me work to get it back when other moments set in " Till tomorrow, I can't forget those lines and sometimes, I get really scared.
The good news is the medicine is there "ISLAM" we have the Qur'an, hadith and the seerah of the family life of the salafiyyoon lead by Habibullah, salallahu alayhi wassalam but we always don't know which particular medicine to use for one illness or we don't know the right dosage.
Wallahi, I wish this sweetness in nikkah just never pause not to talk of taking a turn even for a moment. LOL!
In a nutshell, regardless of the inevitabilities in marriages, we need to lay a good foundation first, then struggle with what follows. Getting married is one, staying married is another aluta. Yes, I believe in qadar just as I believe in freewill.
May Allah help me and every student of this eternal college 'nikkah' and may it be an accelerator of our speed to jannah.
#prayforeveryhome
Well said sister, may Allah help us in the search for a pius partner
Empiree: See world of confused women. This type of women eventually make their husbands become thugs. Sometimes women dont know what they want. Women love thugs.
Islam for Muslims / Re: Islamic Views On Eating Snakes, Cats And Dogs. by Antyna(f): 10:26am On Jul 14, 2017 
