Pukkalolo:
This is one reason why I usually frown on the idea of passing a female shit test because it create weak ideas like the one you have now.
First of....one thing you should know is that the person giving the shit test has higher status and authority. While the person passing the shit test has lower status. It doesn't matter if the person is passing the shit test in a alpha or nice guy way.
Look, the goal isn't to pass her shit test; the goal is to put an end to the shit test ASAP, and prevent it from happening again.
For example, when a student shit test his teacher by misbehaving, the teacher sees it as a sign of disrespect. The teacher knows he must put an end to the shit test. So he quickly asset dominance by punishing or flogging the hell out of the students.
If the Boss sees that the staff is making attempts to shit test him, he will quickly asset dominance by giving him a query, suspension or sack letter.
Using the definition of shit test you gave...
"A shit test is a challenge or obstacle that is intentionally designed to test your confidence or resolve, a test to gauge your strength."
That's an excellent definition, but you screw it with very poor examples...
For example,
She: "You’re short.”
You: “I won’t be, when you’re on your knees”
If you're a game junkie, that would seem like a dope comeback response. But what you don't realize there is that, the lady just insulted you.
If a student tells his teacher "you're short", the teacher will take that has an insult and quickly asset dominance by punishing or flogging the shit out of the students.
If a staff tell his Boss, "you are short", the no-nonsense Boss will will quickly asset dominance by giving the staff a query, suspension or sack letter.
The teacher or Boss quickly place punishment in order to prevent that shit from repeating itself.
But there you are.....a woman insulted you by saying, "You’re short."
Instead of disapproving her immedately, you ignorantly fuel her ego her by responding with, “I won’t be, when you’re on your knees,”
Now, she's thinking, "Wait...I just insulted this guy by saying "he's short." Instead of him disapproving my rudeness, he's there still nursing the idea of me giving him bl*w job. It's
a pity. Men are just so desperate for sex."
As a result, this will fuel her ego, and so she'll feels more entitled; then the back and forth verbal spar will continue bitterly:
She: "You’re short.”
You: “I won’t be, when you’re on your knees”
She: "Ok, maybe in your dreams. Keep deceiving yourself. ”
You: (your dope response in an attempt to pass her shit test).
She: (you fuel her ego further, and she feels more entitled...she mockingly responds again )
You and her continue in the verbal spar back and forth, trying to out wit or dominate each other. This will continue for hours, days, weeks, month. The interaction will probably lead to nowhere, and you will still not Bleep her despite your efforts.
Why?
Because, a woman going back and forth with you in a verbal spar is usually a sign that she doesn't respect you or appreciate your presence.
That’s because for a woman to effectively verbally spar back and forth with you, she needs to feel that you got the time to take her bullshit.
And when a woman feels that you got the time to take her bullshit, she doesn’t respect or appreciate your presence.
When a woman is genuinely into you or respect you, she’s very often nervous around you, unsure of herself and careful with her words. Women only go back and forth in verbal spar with men they aren’t really into.
The reason going back and forth verbally doesn’t work is because she immediately assume you and her are equal. Remember, women don't want to Bleep a man who's below her or equal to her; they prefer to date or Bleep a guy who has higher value/authority than her.
When she say, "You’re short.”...with your response: “I won’t be, when you’re on your knees.”
She immediately can tell you got the time and availability to eat her bullshit. As a result this give her more opportunity to throw more shit at you.
Like I said, the goal isn't to pass her shit test; the goal is to put an end to the shit immediately. That's what the Top G would do. The Top G would "humble her ego" and give her the opportunity to either repent of her behavior or get the Bleep out of his presence.
For Example:
She: "You’re short.”
The Top G: “Uhmm! So you are one of those judgemental ladies that go about passing negative remarks to others”
She: (explain herself or get upset.)
The Top G response didn't fuel her ego, but rather he gives her the choice to either #1. explain herself or even apologiy OR #2. Get upset and pissed off
If she humble her ego and explain herself, it's a win situation for him because, she'll automatically stop the shit she's putting up and she'll be more careful with her words. This will increase her respect and interest in him.
If she get upset and pissed off, it's still a win situation for him because it's even more easier to seduce a woman who's upset and pissed off. Only the Top G's understand that.
Again, I hear things like, to pass her shit test, you need to have game.
The same way I frowned at the idea of shit test, is the same way I frown at the idea of "game."
Women don't sleep with you because of your game. Women sleep with you 'despite' your game. Meaning, she didn't give you the pussy because of your so called game. She gave you the pussy because she was already into you from the moment she saw you, so she just manage to tolerate and endured your silly game.
Women get Hot and they enjoy sex. Experience has taught me that if a woman likes you, she will find a way to give you the pussy.
If she likes you but not giving you the pussy, then one reason might be because you're not creating a cooperating vibe.
When women throw the so called "shit test" at you, you are suppose to use it as opportunity to create a cooperating vibe, NOT a competitive power struggle vibe.
Using one of your example again:
Woman: "You probably say that to every girl.”
You: “Do you say that to every guy you’re attracted to? I have a 7-date rule anyways, so keep it in your pants.” (Challenging her)
If you're a inexperienced or a game junkie, that would seem like a dope comeback response. But what you don't realize there is that, you just created a competitive and power struggle vibe...
That will cause her to raise her guard up, act defensive and get ready to counter all your 'game' moves:
For example:
Woman: "You probably say that to every girl.”
You: “Do you say that to every guy you’re attracted to? I have a 7-date rule anyways, so keep it in your pants.”
Woman mtcheww) "I don't care. To hell with you and your 7-date rules, so keep it in your boxers. ”
You: (your dope response in an attempt to pass her shit test).
She: (raises her guard up, act more and more defensive and close off).
You and her will continue going back and forth... She will keep acting more and more defensive and close off in response to the game you are spitting. This will continue for hours, days, weeks, month. The interaction will probably lead to nowhere, and you will still not Bleep her despite your efforts.
Like I said, the goal isn't to pass her shit test; the goal is to put an end to the shit immediately...That's what the Top G would do. The Top G use it as an opportunity to create a cooperating vibe.
For example,
Woman: "You probably say that to every girl.”
Top G: “how I talk to other ladies doesn't really matter...The only person(s) that matters right now is you and I.....and I believe there are lots of cool things I'll learn about you.
This response will immediately inspire her to relax and raise her guard down because now she assumed you are a normal guy that just want to get to know her.
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