I will keep this brief and short.. Ignore any typographical error, please.
I have this boyfriend, we've been dating for years now. The thing is, he doesn't last long during sex, he's a 2 minutes man, as you people call it. There was a time, we had sex, less than 1 minute, yes, I mean less than a minute, just 3 or 4 thrusts and he released. He was shocked, sad and disappointed, I was shocked too. I was even the one cheering him up, not to be sad, that everything will be okay, that's not his fault, he just wore his cloth and left.
This is someone I want to marry, we will soon do our introduction and wedding, and I don't want our sex life to be boring, we are not enjoying s*x at all, and I don't want to cheat on him... We love each other so much.
Please, anybody that has experienced this before, or know how to stop it should advice me on what to do, its not making me happy neither is my boyfriend happy too
Your advice will be appreciated.. Thank You.
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Afromalaika: For those of our children finding it difficult to register for NIN through NIMC offices, most of them no longer needs to sleep at NIMC office again.
NIMC has setup a ussd server to dispense NIN number to them from the comfortable of their homes.
Dial * 346# and follow the screen prompts. Your NIN will be displayed.
*Caution:* before dialing this code, ensure you do the following:
You must dial from a sim that is associated with a previous registration of either voters card, drivers licence, bvn or any other registration that got your thumbprint and photo.
You must have at least N20 call credit on the line
Prepare a sheet of paper and pen or get ready to screenshot the NIN when displayed as it will not be displayed more than once
Do not try the code if on a low charge of battery
We were surprised that no such information was given to candidates at the NIMC's offices until we arrived there apparently because of the money they make therefrom.
So pls spread this info on all social media and inform everyone.
Thanks
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thank you so much for this information. I just got my NIN
Lyydia: There's this guy that we have been dating for 6 months, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.
Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!
Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.
Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.
Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.
My darling, the best thing to do is to put an end to any form of intimacy with him. Date only the guys who have same knowledge of the word of God as you. Sellah
AmicableEd: This weekend, singer Abolore Adegbola Akande aka 9ice will get married to one of his baby mamas, Sunkami who he has a daughter named Michelle with.
Kemi Filani News reports that the two welcomed their first daughter, Michelle Abolanle Akande, five years ago. Sunkanmi Ajala is an event planner based in Lagos.
Here is a sneak peek of their prewedding album and it is super cool!
This is the third time the singer will be getting married.
The singer’s second marriage was through Skype in August, 2018, when he tied the knot with a U.S-based engineer, Adetola Anifalaje, and the union is blessed with a girl.
His parents are, however, distancing themselves from this one because they were actively involved in the first two marriages which have crashed.
Charles1888: I had to create a new account for this
I don't know how to get through to my wife anymore, of which the fault is mine, when we were dating, she showed that she was committed to me and loved me wholeheartedly but I was reluctant to marry her cos she was of age, I wanted someone younger, say under 25, but something important that i have to acquire made me marry all of a sudden and she was the only one available, don't get me wrong, I loved her then, her peaceful and humble soul but for some reason I simply can't understand I felt she wasn't enough, but I was wrong, she was perfect, the best I can ever wish for and more, she is everything,
After we got married, you know newlyweds now, the quarrels about every little thing, it was much then, so this particular incident made me so worked up and angry I made a statement I shouldnt have said, during the heated argument I told her that she was never who I would have married, that she wasn't my specs, she was too old (31 lol) that if someone younger was available I wouldn't blink twice before I'll marry the person.
After saying all that, I wasn't sober about it, she held on to that statement, I knew she cried that night, since then we don't talk, play, gist anymore, we became distant, though I apologised the next morning but things isn't just the same anymore, communication isn't there, she only talks to me when she wants to ask or say necessary things, nothing more, though she still cooks, we still have sex, infact every other aspect is fine except for communication, anytime I come back from work and I'm in the sitting room, she doesn't stay there, she either goes to the room or dinning room, I have begged and begged and I don't want to involve third party cos I obviously caused this, when she got pregnant, she didn't tell me till I saw the strip, when I asked why she said she forgot, and we had plans to celebrate when she takes in, I was sad that day, I begged and asked to tell me anything she wants and I'll do it, I'll make it up to her,,she said she wants nothing that she is fine, I love her, she is my baby, we use to be gist buddies, I missed that and I want it back.
I don't know what to do anymore, it's my fault I know that and I'm sorry I ever said that cos it hurt her deeply, I told her to tell me more evil things so that we will be even, she said she can't that she loves me, we are drifting apart, I can feel it,
Pls help me folks, I came here becos I want anonymous advise, what else can I do to make the hurt go away?
hmmmm this is deep. God has to be involved in this. You said too much though haba why would you say all that? May God heal the fine lady in Jesus’ name.
In as much as I am expressive, I can't do this. It takes a lot of courage to pull this stunt.[Qquote author=NaijaTushboy post=78112573]If A Girl Walks Up To A Man And Expresses Her Feelings; Is She Cheap Or Brave?* Your opinion please[/quote]
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same way it isnt a crime 4 people 2 react when a person decides to bring her personal issues to public domain all in d name of speaking out or speaking up. and thats y i asked what exactly were ehi & dabota speaking out against?
Hey we should drop this already... it's a pleasure engaging you in a meaningful chat...
haappy sunday 2u too. then if u feel ur speaking up is tied ur life, then u shouldnt complain when people react about what u say. by d way, what exactly are ebota and ehi speaking up about that will make them die if they keep silent?
I don't think she was complaining about how people perceived or took the matter, she was only trying to school people who thought speaking up was a crime... �
just imagine u live in a compound made of 10 families and then on every occasion u come in contact with ur neighbours (public domain),u always pour out ur heart and "speak out" giving details about ur private affairs with ur husband(diary). can u control what ur neighbours will do with that information or how they will react to such information? its d same way if u take ur private life (diary) and then u "pour out ur heart" to strangers on social media(public domain), people u dont no. will u b able to control how they will react to such information? if u cant control what u say to people, then dont expect to b able to control how people will react to what u say
well it's better to speak up than die in silence.... happy Sunday
How did d world bully them into silence? What is d content of their speaking? Is it that "d world bullied them into silence" or that d world didn't find what they are saying worth listening to?
when people say "don't bring your problem to social media platforms" or "don't say no one is interested" forgetting that social media is our new diary.
I agree with her 100%... Speak up do not let the world bully you into silence, there is help.
Letenwam: Former Beauty Queen, Dabota Lawson seems to have waded into the controversy generated Ehi Ogbebor’s call out post against her husband Ken Braimoh.
According to Dabota Lawson, gone are the days where the media will give you a false identity and you can’t do anything about it. She further added that it’s unfortunate how even people close to you will never go and defend you publicly, while strangers will go all out to defend you. Read her post below;
People are saying “ DON’T BRING YOUR MATTER TO ?NSTAGRAM “ . Please go and sit down somewhere . Gone are the days where the media will give you a false identity and you can’t do anything about it .
If you’re hurt , in pain or going through hard times . SPEAK UP, PLEASE SHOUT LET THE WORLD HEAR !!! Don’t go and die for nothing in silence in the name of “ how will it look?” MY ANSWER: It will look how you want it to look or how ‘they’ want it to look if you don’t do something about it …. “ what will people say? “ MY ANSWER : ‘They ‘ will say whatever they want to say regardless, most times not in your favor, so say your own ,…. “ what about tomorrow “ , well honey ,tomorrow is Saturday.. It’s not easy to keep up with each and every person in our lives these days.
The economy is tough , no one has time to be looking at your face wondering if you’re happy or not . Truth is Some people just want to bask in the joy of bad news about you , sis let them know.
It’s unfortunate how even people close to you will never go and defend you publicly, they are seeing , reading , watching you go through it all, yet they do nothing. It’s strangers that will jump on your matter and fight for you publicly . So If you don’t stand for yourself who will
The ones who drags leadership with their husbands have extra lives abeg..... Dear husband, come quickly and spoil me silly, you are the head of our home, love you forever.
Griezwoman: Zonal PPRO, Dolapo Badmus, this evening shared her thoughts on Feminism and what in her opinion it should really be about.
In a post shared on her IG page, Dolapo said most people who claim to be feminists have no idea of what it is all about. She advised married feminist women to stop ''dragging'' the leadership of their homes with their husbands. She also opined that feminism has been the root cause of many cases of domestic violence.
Oh she was controlling you all the while and you guys were posting lovely pictures deceiving the gullible ones. Social media will ruin lives i swear if care is not taken.
MrGidifeed: Nigerian Singer, Iceberg Slim speaks after ghanaian actress, Juliet Ibrahim confirms that their relationship is over.
During an Interview with the actress and mother of one recently she confirms she is single and not dating Iceberg Slim.
The Singer took to his Instagram story to share a post saying..
It's a big lesson for all of us to learn when choosing a life partner. Our ears should be kept very close to the mouth of the Holy Spirit.
ariyike87: Do not get me wrong Sir. Tiwa is in the entertainment business, you know it's not easy to stay relevant there hence the many stunt they pull. Yes, she has to make money; the reason why we all engage in one business or another is to make money.
Do not get me wrong Sir. Tiwa is in the entertainment business, you know it's not easy to stay relevant there hence the many stunt they pull. Yes, she has to make money; the reason why we all engage in one business or another is to make money.
Why are women so concerned about money? Men just want to drink beer and have some fun. We ain't so concerned about money if not for pressures from women. The whole thing is annoying.
The blame still goes to teebillz sha. He was reckless and impatient about tiwa savage. It's a lesson to other men out there to watch before leaping.
We all do some crazy stuff when in love and shutting the Holy Spirit out
Nollyzonenews: “When You Are In Love, You Do Crazy Things” says Juliet Ibrahim as she officially confirms break up with Iceberg Slim on National TV.
Their PDA’s at events were beautiful, envious with lots of kissing and ass smooching scenes on the gram. There was also news of a possible song from the both of them which unfortunately never saw the light of day.
The Ghanaian actress and upcoming singer who reportedly split with her beau months ago, both share a "LO VE" tattoo together. She has the "VE" half while the "LO" portion is bodied by Ice berg. .
One of their buses almost killed my colleague yesterday... The government should do something fast about them.
autojosh: While we are still celebrating how Molues are getting phased out - behold, Molue reinvent itself in the form of these "BRT" buses.
Well, in actual sense, they are not BRT buses. They were, at a time. But that was before the Lagos state government outlawed their operations on the BRT corridors. This set of buses were part of the LAGBUS-NURTW franchise.
These buses tell a sad tale of neglect. Their conditions show an evident lack of maintenance services. They represent a total contrast from their once luxurious state.
Today, just like Molues, these buses – during trips – are typically overcrowded with passengers. They breakdown during trips. Many of them have no brake or rear lights. They have chassis that are badly in need of bodywork and spray job – even wash job.
The interior are also no better. For instance, the internal walls are grimy and coated in dark colours that are in fact accumulated dirt that has caked over time. It is very doubtful if these buses are ever washed.
The interior also feature tattered upholsteries, dirty handgrips, littered floors, etc.
Their bus conductors – usually 2 or 3 in number - are very discourteous and combative. They typically seen hanging by the door side screaming out for passengers.
Today, the only advantage that these set of commercial buses have over Molues is the absence of itinerant preachers, hawkers, mobile pharmacists, etc.
I still can't understand why people are finding this message confusing. Once you tell your parents about a guy, automatically he's become your husband, but the reverse is the case with pastors; they help you pray throughout the process so you won't make any mistake.
oyahitme: Wife of the General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God, Pastor Foluke Adeboye, Trends on Twitter after mentioning a statement while preaching at the church’s annual Youth Convention this morning, advising the youths to seek the counsel of their pastors first before their parents when they decide they want to get married.
Daddy Freeze came out to reacts to this statement:
Are these people beginning to manifest early signs of senility? - These teachings have no recourse to the Bible! Jesus himself said you shouldn’t give money meant for your parents to the temple, let alone this trash. - I hope these people have access to the wealth and the airplane she and her husband are flying, when they have finished helping them take all these decisions for them?� ~FRZ
She need some education on how to be happy in life irrespective of what one is going through.
HeWrites: A woman has some words of advice for spinsters above 35 years.
Sylvia Ekpedeme Umoh shared her advice on a Facebook group in which she said it is a shame for a single woman above 35 to celebrate her birthday and post photoshopped images on Facebook with funny styles.
Dear Toke, soon God will surprise you PS: Feminism is not all about hating on men, we all need the opposite sex to live a fulfilled life God promised in His word.
In an Instagram live video, the OAP, and writer Toke Makinwa was heard saying, "sometimes like this i wish i had a man to go home,,.... and talk about work" bla bla bla
Furthermore, The beautiful multi-talented media personality made this know on her Instagram stories on Thursday, July 12, 2018.
“So at times like this guys, I wish I had a man to get home to just kick it with and just chat about, and at other times I grab the remote control…tv,” she said. Guys, Toke Makinwa is one gorgeous and talented woman and we wonder why you aren’t shooting your shots!
Toke Makinwa keeps giving hints that she would be an amazing wife and mother only if the right people can see this. Recall a few weeks ago she shared the qualities she posed which would make the best wife and mother ever.
Ennyhorlar: Guys, is this Love or weakness? According to what i gathered, they're just departmental mates but the guy is crushing on the Lady while the lady is bestie_zoning him