Romance / Re: 12 June - Happy Birthday Ubunja by ashewoboy(m): 5:18am On Jun 15 |
ubunja: Thank you Lord for another year. Thank you for the gift of life.í ½í¹ Happy belated birthday🙂. Ubunja, emancipating men from pvssy slavery. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ashewoboy(m): 8:37pm On May 29 |
Fattprince23: I have this new girl where I work, she's been around for 3 weeks now. Though I was attracted to her strictly sexually but I removed my mind as you don't shit where you eat but as time goes on I noticed her flirting though subtly at first because one day she wanted to ask me for something but she called my attention by caressing my shoulder. I was shocked since we weren't talking then just greetings. But since I am respond to her well I noticed she always want to talk to me or play at any given opportunity because we are always busy. So I'm thinking of inviting her now since I would stop work soon(due to the following reasons, the remuneration is not worth it, our supervisor is toxic and narcissistic and I'm might just be called to serve fatherland at anytime) because she offered by herself to cook and bring food for me to work yesterday but she didn't, so I am thinking of using the opportunity to ask her to still bring the food to my house since I will stop work on Friday. I don't know much about her but I'm thinking of asking her some question after our first round if she agrees to bring the food home. @Bolded. After your first round?😯🙂. You are dreaming🙂. Girl wey never sure say she go give you sex, you don dey dream of first round. Dey play. 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Dikko Radda: Bandits Recruiting Youths For As Low As ₦500 by ashewoboy(m): 10:52pm On May 26 |
Esthered: I relocated back to Lagos in January and the Hausas I see daily at Orile busstop to Doyin is ALARMING. Prior to leaving in 2019, it was never like that. I'm worried that there'll be a clash one day and it will be bloody. Why did you leave and why did you come back? |
Romance / Re: Can You Marry A Churchy Girl? by ashewoboy(m): 9:34pm On May 26 |
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Romance / Can You Marry A Churchy Girl? by ashewoboy(m): 9:34pm On May 26 |
A girl that her world revolves around church. Can you marry her?
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Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ashewoboy(m): 9:22pm On May 26 |
Pukkalolo:
You remember the Bible story of David and Goliath, in which little boy, David knocked out and kill the Powerful “giant” Goliath using just a sling and a stone.
That story was designed to highlight the lessons that you can be little but still achieve giant results. But here's something that most people didn't notice about that story:
David was actually the powerful character in the story, not Goliath.
Here's how...
First off, David already had experiences killing dangerous predators like Lions and bears... A boy who has killed lions and bear in the past is actually a dangerous boy.
Secondly, David was highly skilled with sling. A sling is literally a low-key deadly weapon used in battles in the olden days. You put the stone on it, then you spin it around to gain momentum, thereby converting the rotational energy of the sling into translational energy of the sling projectile. So that when the stone is released, it flies towards your target with the kinetic energy almost as equal the speed of a bullet fired from a gun. Which can practically knock out it's target.
But are those the only things that made David the power character ? Not really!
Then What's it? Well, it's the power of UNPREDICTABILITY.
Let me explain:
When a woman predict something from you, but you say or do something different, she become intrigued and curious about you...
What made David more powerful was the fact that he unknownly created an UNPREDICTABLE situation.
Look at it:
Goliath challenge the Israel’s troops to bring their best soldier from their camp to fight him one on one.. Ofcourse, Goliath was expecting a mighty Israeli soldier to come out and challenge him, so that they can begin an intense sword/ spear one on one fight.
But to his surprise what he saw was a little teenage boy with a sling and few stones running toward him. HE DIDN'T PREDICT THAT. That was totally unexpected. And this actually amused Goliath and so he relaxed and loose guard. And because he loose guard, he lost to David.
When a woman expect a pattern from you, but you say or do something unexpected, she tends to find it amusing and then "loose guard" and become more curious about you...
See what I mean:
When you ask a little kid, "how are you?" The kid automatically respond with "fine" The kid is used to being asked, "how are you" so often that the logical response "fine" has become automatic in his brain.
Same with the beautiful woman: she ALREADY predict how the typical guy will converse with her.
Why?
Because she's used to hearing that style of conversation from men all her life. So when a new guy starts talking to her, she already predict how the conversation will go, and so she already has an automatic logical response for him...
Guy: “Hey beautiful, how are you”
Girl: (she expects that from him) “Hi”
Guy: “You look familiar. Do you live/school/work around this place?"
Girl: (she's already used to men asking her that) "yeah, I school here."
Guy: "so what's your name?"
Woman (she's already used to that from guys): “Stella"
Guy: “Wow! Nice name”
Woman: “K"
Guy: “So how's your day going?”
Woman: (she expects that from him): “fine”
That's a pretty basic conversation, but the issue here's is, she's bored with him because she's already so used to that kind of conversation from men, so she already has an automatic "logical" response to that. And so no feelings is involved from her part.
And that's the key with women: you don't want a logical response from her: you want an "emotional" response from her.
Women are emotional creatures. In order to increase her interest/attraction for you, you have to stir her emotions, so she can feel something for you. It don't matter whether the feeling produce is positive or negative, as long as you are producing emotional reaction from her, you are way ahead of other guys.
Most women often response to me emotionally because I often say thing that they are not generally used to hearing from men...
Me meeting a new lady:
Me: "I haven't even spoken to you yet, but I've learned few things from you already"
Lady: (wasn't expecting that from me, so she got curious) "Really, Tell me, what's that?"
Me: “What I'm about to say might upset you, but to be honest, I don't really give a shit"
Me: (she’s generally not used to men talking to her that way; she’s more curious): “Okay, I'm listening. I want to hear you?”
Me: “You’ve got the most beautiful eyes I have ever seen”
Lady (she wasn't expecting that from me; she laughs): "You are really a funny guy, but thanks anyways…”
Me: "but don't let that swell your head…I think my eyes are more beautiful than yours”
Woman: (she didn’t predict that from me; she laughs again and got more curious) "you are funny guy, who are you please?"
Me: "my name is Chris...introduce yourself to me”
*****Our conversation continues*****
She got intrigued and curious because everything I was telling her was unexpected and unpredictable. Quite a number of ladies are currently into me because I'm totally unpredictable... When they expect certain behavior from me, I behave entirely different..
I mean, think of it:
This is a really long post, but Curiosity made you read it up to this point because:
First off, I began with Bible story of David and Goliath, so in your mind you were like,
"Ok, what's pukka up to with this one "
So you got curious and kept reading...
Then I related the David & Goliath story with being Unpredictable with women...
You didn't get bored with it, because from the beginning you didn't really predict how the write-up will flow...
Never allow women predict you. When she expects one thing from you, do something entirely different. This actually also prevent her from being able to manipulate you. Remember, she can only manipulate or exploit what she can predict.
Intellectual. True. You got me with the david and goliath story. 2 Likes |
Sports / Re: Olarenwaju Kayode And Zinny Olanrewaju White Wedding Pictures by ashewoboy(m): 9:09pm On May 26 |
Ubunja, look at the pictures. Does it look like the woman loves the man? It's evident it's the man that loves her. She does not like him. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ashewoboy(m): 8:44am On Feb 17 |
PinkNature: This is the direction I'm driving towards. Since the inception of this thread, we've directly or indirectly channelled all our energy and time towards women. (Which was great)
But times are changing, I don't know about some of the members here, but having all TRP knowledge, without applying it in real life, is a plain waste of knowledge.
Some people here, will forever remain below the ladder simply because they're;
Overweight, skinny, bad dress sense, dead broke, inability to hold sensible conversations, body odour, shy, inability to last more than 30 seconds in bed, inability to adapt to working environment etc.
Why is all our energy channeled towards women? How many women can you date and Bleep in a year?
Bleep!!! Since COVID till date, all we've been on is just women, women, and women.
Grow some damn balls.. they're other things to achieve in life than just women.
Your name was coined from a woman. pink nature. Pink pvssy🙂. Pink is feminine. Dey play. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ashewoboy(m): 4:51pm On Feb 10 |
Ubunja, emancipating men from pvssy slavery. How many likes for ubunja?🙂. 29 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ashewoboy(m): 12:31pm On Feb 10 |
"Impregnating women will have other women hanging around you. They won't come with the express intention of getting themselves pregnant too or to offer you sex. More a case of them just finding themselves subconsciously drawn to you. That's the wombs doing their thing. And one thing will lead to another, (as it always does) and the women, women who should have known better, will find themselves pregnant for a man that has impregnated half a dozen girls in the area. The psychological of these women just got overridden by the biological."
Ubunja, ma pa mi now🙂. No lies detected.
Ubunja, emancipating men from pvssy slavery🙂. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Why Do Women Throw Bra At Male Celebrities? by ashewoboy(m): 7:38am On Dec 16, 2023 |
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Celebrities / Re: Men Can Stay 5 Years Without Sex But Women Cannot Even Stay Up To 2 Months by ashewoboy(m): 7:35am On Dec 16, 2023 |
Whether in relationship or not. Women are having sex. Most men not in relationship are not having sex. |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ashewoboy(m): 3:10pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
chenny360: Nothing anybody want talk here today wey our grandfather in this forum never talk before.... Nothing is new afresh here ..
But as for me.. I'm just putting out my day to day experiences and ordeals in the hands of women to cement the fact that the teaching of our fathers in this forum is not in vain and in futile.,
Everyday I keep encountering the tendencies to simp,but unfortunately I'm saved unless I want to Give willingly..
You see this one just from Blue Moon appear from nowhere... How old is she? 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Share Hidden Secrets Of Life On This Thread. by ashewoboy(m): 4:37pm On Dec 12, 2023 |
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Romance / Re: Have I Been Meeting The Wrong Ladies Or Is It A Nigerian Thing by ashewoboy(m): 9:08pm On Dec 11, 2023 |
CaveAdullam: All (Nigerian) men have experienced this phenomenon. Except those that are strictly introverted or haven't requested a date.
There are plenty of factors underlying the unresponsiveness of women. Factors can emanate from you or them.
1. Women are more open and emotional to men closer to them. Proximity is how you get the better side of women + become aware of their dark sides.
Before a woman can travel from point A to point B to see you through a long distance you must have first created that emotional attachment.
But why do women travel long distances to meet strangers?
This is based on economies. They do it because of money. A prostitute can't become emotionally attached to her client. If there exists any, it is a facade. By the way, prostitutes have men they love genuinely + freely fvck them.
The evolutionary background: women by nature are weak. They need strong men to provide for them and protect them. A stranger can't be trustworthy. Only men in their community will they submit to because they've known over time.
Sex to women is more of security than pleasure. Sex for men is more of pleasures and ego - the boast of a harem.
So prostitutes are because of the money. Because if there is an availability of men to pay their bills and fulfill all their sincere and nonsensical fantasies, prostitution will be non-existent.
Therefore, in rich and developed nations, women engaged in romance for the sake of romance, love, and emotional attachment. While in poor and underdeveloped nations women leverage romance to upgrade their socio-economic status and creep out of poverty and deprivation.
2. She might be in a relationship.
3. She's in a tarrying bad mood. And can't willingly share with you because you are a stranger. With time she may. But as a man, you'll become impatient because by nature you're not programmed to wait and beg for sex. You just want to hit and move to the next.
4. She doesn't like you. Every woman has a man they like or fantasize about. If you are not up to that standard they will ignore you.
5. Appearance. Your looks may not be ranked as acceptable. Using that metric, they set you aside and wouldn't want you to bother them.
6. Absence of flamboyance at first meet.
Women are emotional. So they can easily be cajoled by the presence of flashiness. This again is due to their desire for security. That's why celebrities can score many women + have multiple baby mamas at will.
If you don't express or show flamboyance women won't take you seriously.
Only well-trained women who are self-conscious and disciplined follow a man due to his ambitions, character, and intelligence. These women are the outliers.
7. It's a mind game. Women don't want to appear cheap. So they'll play the delayed and boring game till they know if you are genuine or not. They don't want to feel cheap.
8. Other men are on the radar. Some of these men are 10 times better than you. Some of these men you are 10 times better than.
This trooping of men of all ages and categories is the pleasure of all women. Some of the men are making bidding you can't or haven't. They fill her with hopes and promises. Her DM and privacy are a cluster of men persuading her into a romantic relationship.
Don't expect her to leave them for you easily. You are not the first. And more are behind you.
9. They want a long stream of persuasions and promises before they accept your proposal. Until you do this they will continue to remain boring.
From the above factors, the only one you have control over is your appearance. So, before you step out look good, smell nice, and talk well. Be happy and jovial. Be humorous and social. Whether they accept or reject you becomes none of your business. Just do your part.
Getting women is a game of numbers. The more you step out and interact, the more women you'll encounter and get hooked by a number of them.
Meanwhile, as a man, you must go for a woman who likes you genuinely. These women you don't need to cajole or convince. They just like you + want to be in love with you. They will make you wish and pray for an eternal romantic relationship.
Have you seen secondary and university lovers? That's what I'm talking about. Genuine love.
Thanks. It's secondary school lovers. That university girl is probably a jambite🙂. By the time she enters 200 level to 400 level, she becomes a bad girl. It's only in secondary school that a girl will love you genuinely |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ashewoboy(m): 8:53am On Dec 03, 2023 |
Rizzputin:
Alright, so let's make a few things abundantly clear. (If it's not already.)
She's fùcking that guy. But not just him, a host of other guys are probably digging her out too. Ranging from guys in her area to her classmates etc.
Few weeks back a guy was stuck in a similar situation as you. So he came here to post his story. We had a few back and forth on what his next steps should be. And after he followed everything I told him, he fùcked her in less than month.
You should do the same. I read where said you didn't want to fùck her anymore. That's a bad idea.
Try to get your dìck inside her for the reference experience. No point investing all that time plus 10k only for you to back out. You learn nothing from doing that. Plus, you're more likely to make the same mistake again.
Anyways, I'll zoom in on your situation the same way I do with other guys. And we'll divide this post into two so we can do that: "what you did wrong" and "your next moves "
Let's jump in….
----What you did wrong.
● First off, you may not realize it but the girl likes you. In fact, she has thought of fùcking you.
The problem is her desire to manipulate you and take your money is FAR greater than her desire to fùck you. That's why she placed you in the bf zone.
If you were a hook up material like I advocate guys become, her desire to fùck you would be ENORMOUSLY higher.
You asked someone if good girls exist. That shows you're clearly suffering from the Passion Paradox. There's no such thing as a good girl.
Every girl can be bad or good depending on the man and situation she's in. Any girl can, and will manipulate you if you give her enough room to.
Becoming a hook up material greatly reduces your chances of being manipulated. And increases her urge to fùck you higher than the eiffel tower. In fact, she'll rather manipulate other guys so she can please and fùck you.
One of the ways you could have displayed hook up material qualities was to fùck her within the first few times she came to your house.
Ideally, within the first 3 weeks. By wasting time, you made her see you as an option for manipulation.
Now, you're not in a very bad spot. There's still a good chance of turning things around at this point. Assuming you haven't gone back to simping like most people do
You see, if the thought of fùcking you hasn't crossed her mind, she wouldn't ask you to date her. No girl picks a total loser to be her bf.
And that's where your opportunity to let your hook up self shine through lives.
She knows sex could potentially happen in the relationship but she's willing to risk it to get all the money she can from you.
But it's a good thing it hasn't happened
●Another terrible thing you did besides wasting time is telling her to choose between you and another guy.
Write this down on a piece of paper: Until your dìck or fingers has been firmly lodged in her pùssy and mouth at least 3 times, her sex/love life is none of your business.
If she doesn't bring it up, ignore it. The only exception is if she has a bf that could potentially shoot or stab you and we won't here you from again lol. Asides that, it's not your business
In fact, she should be th one trying to poke nose in your love life. Or begging you to choose her over other girls in your life.
You're giving the guy an unnecessary advantage by acting insecure. Just do your thing. If she wants to date you, she'll be the one asking for a relationship.
Keep an eye out for my post on the right way to get a girlfriend.
●Also, telling her you love her. Or you want to date is another bad idea.
Especially if it happens before you fùck her. She should be the one voicing it. Or hinting at it.
Well, it's a good thing you've realized your mistakes.
Most simps will still be living in delusions. Thinking the more they spend things will turn around. Which it never does.
----Your next moves
Now it's time for the fun part. Getting your John Thomas between those legs of hers.
● To kick things off, check if it's been up to a week between the last time you texted her and you reading this post.
Meaning, you've been ignoring her. If it is, you can prompt her to hit you up by posting something naughty and funny on your status.
When she does, vibe with her normally. Just be chill. Don't act butt hurt or desperate.
The goal is to get her to come over to your place.
Where you'd introduce her to the new you.
● Once she's over, don't ask about any guys. Ever. Especially that guy currently blowing her back.
If she brings him or any other guy just calmly smirk and say "wetin concern me"
Then change topic or go back to what you were discussing.
You want to give her the impression that she's almost got you but not yet. It will drive her crazy.
I can't list all the ways you'd display your hook up material qualities. But doing the things above should put you in a better spot.
Stay away from lovey dovey bs. And just have it in mind to put your dìck inside her.
However, don't act desperate or needy about it. Maintain a chill, laidback vibe throughout. Resist any urge to spend on her or give her money. Even if she asks. In fact, especially if she asks.
At your skill level, I doubt if you'd knack her first time she comes over. Though if you did, kudos to you
But don't worry about it tho. You should do it by the third time she comes over after you've followed everything you just read
Now that I'm writing this, I just realized there seems to be huge list of guys who would like to fùck a girl that seems to just be running away or friendzoned them. Might write a book or post on that.
Anyways, less of boyfriend mindset. And more of hook up material vibe and mindset.
I see you pounding that àss. And if you're Iike me that loves to torment other men… you can make her cancel plans with other guys just for you or have her suck your dick before she goes to kiss them (girls have crazy fantasies)
Yes, I know I'm evil (sometimes) But such is life.
You are giving ubunja vibes🙂. Sex first🙂. 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Would You Leave A 250,000 In A Private Company For A FG Job of 100 thousand? by ashewoboy(m): 7:22am On Nov 11, 2023 |
BigIyanga:
If you want to grow… you dont need it. I have met young FG govt workers in Abj/Lagos who dont know how to use computer.. Uni graduates witj Zero MS office skills
Shey them dey collect big salary or not? |
Romance / Re: Would You Leave A 250,000 In A Private Company For A FG Job of 100 thousand? by ashewoboy(m): 6:50am On Nov 11, 2023 |
Lalasticlala. Let's go to home page. |
Travel / Re: Categories Of Nigerians Who Shouldn't JAPA Abroad (especially UK) by ashewoboy(m): 6:49am On Nov 11, 2023 |
ednut1: your phone no get google![](/faces/huh.png) Rude much. Tell me more about them from your own experience. |
Travel / Re: Categories Of Nigerians Who Shouldn't JAPA Abroad (especially UK) by ashewoboy(m): 6:14am On Nov 10, 2023 |
ednut1: Remove senior chartered account. KPMG, PWC, EY,BDO, and the other audit firms are filled with Nigerian accountants who were hired directly from Nigeria. People wey dey collect 400 to 600k monthly in Nigerian audit firms enter Uk to collect 46k to 65k pounds per year. Which starting all over be that![](/faces/huh.png)
You are earning well but you dont have peace of mind, your company or business is suffering from trial and error govt policies, health care is shitty. Why do you think they wont japa![](/faces/huh.png) Just knowing about BDO. Tell me more about them. |
Romance / Re: Why Do Women Throw Bra At Male Celebrities? by ashewoboy(m): 5:19pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
You guys should stop.
Ladies only now. Comment. |
Romance / Re: Why Do Women Throw Bra At Male Celebrities? by ashewoboy(m): 12:02pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
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Romance / Re: Why Do Women Throw Bra At Male Celebrities? by ashewoboy(m): 7:58am On Nov 09, 2023 |
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Romance / Why Do Women Throw Bra At Male Celebrities? by ashewoboy(m): 5:42am On Nov 09, 2023 |
When women throw bra at male celebrities, what is the aim? There is a trending video of a male celebrity that a woman threw bra at him while he was on stage.
Women,why do you throw bra at male celebrities? What's your aim? |