@st-kris,sick? Nah. Just curious. At that age,i(and erryone else with eyes)noticed that boys and girls were different,eg,they had round-ish lumps on their chests. Naturally,i was curious. I had a lot of questions. Did they(boobs)hurt? Were they full of water? Were they detachable? Did girls feel them growing?(i knew i couldnt feel/didnt know when my hair or nails were growin,but maybe girls were diff). I had lots of questions and no one wantd to answer me. I didnt have any aunts or maids or anyone staying with us.

@spiked,i'm sure if u were in her shoes you'd do that since you're such a wonderful person,all sunshine and butterflies,the salt of the earth really . Lol. @ edogram the fact that she dated him 4 six years is inconsequential. It even makes matters worse. Can she honestly say she had no insight into the kind of person he was? She saw what she wanted to see,shikena,so now that everything's crashd,she should just endure the 'agony'.

oh, joke? Ok.

because they met me

and you're complaining? But didnt you see that she was busty b4 you hooked up with her or did she just grow them jugs overnight? The funny thing is some small-boobd girls have sagging boobs. How is that even possible? After all,there's no strain on the muscles in the boobs. What i admire abt big busted chicks is the way they package their boobs. The packaging drives confirmed boob connoisseurs(such as maself)crazy,but sometimes,when you unravel the packaging,omo na die o. Fear dey catch person.

pinkie privates? Jeez man,that's harsh. Not denying the fact that he's an idiot,but still.

take her to mr biggs.; D

hold up,you're a guy? Scratch ma last comment. But how come it hurt?

,@op,that's cos it wasnt with me.

i call her mon bijou,babe,sweet thang etc. Most of the time she just calls me sweetie,hun,babe etc.
Then,what's with the middle name thing? She calls me Imagbenikaro or her funkified shortform-Nick.

me,mean? I'm not. I'm just tired of women who behave stupidly then come here and start bitchin about men nd want us to tell them sorry when if they'd had any sense,they could have avoided heartbreak.

kai mehn. This is serious. I had no idea shit like this was going on. It's child abuse,plain and simple. When i was that age,my sisters used to chase me away with slippers when they were changing. Let me watch them? Ke? I used to hang around tryin to get a glimpse of their boobs.(again with the boobies)

no offence,but this is ridiculous. If y'all become the woman described here,then you'l attract the worst kind of men.i'm ok wiv no 1-8,but the rest? She doesnt have to have french manicured acrylic nails(i dont even know what they are),and if she were ma wife,wife mind you,not gf,then of course i'd want her to share her feelings with me,both good and bad. Numbers 14-19 describes a spineless idiot who has no confidence in who she is as a person and as such tries to be someone else. How can you not have a sense of humor,a mind of your own? Abeg o,no one(or at least most guys)dont need a yes my husband,no my husband kinda girl. 20 and 21,again self-confidence is a big turn-on. My woman loves rock music,and it's grown on me. As for independence,who needs a blood-sucking leech? Your fashion sense is your business,as long as you dont look like sumn the cat dragged in. I always say that being sexy is a state of the mind. It's not always about the physical. You can be dressed in next to nuffin and have the sex appeal of a flat pancake,and you can be dressed in a cocoa sack and stil look sexy as hell. It's all abt the carriage.

as for ma girl,it all depends on how angry she is. If she's a li'l angry,she talks,not yells,but talks sha. Sometimes she punches me lightly on the shoulder-and ends up hurting herself,lol. But when she's really mad,she seethes. She gives me The Look,that stare that makes me squirm nd makes me feel like a jerk. She never cries(thank God!). I cant stand it,and neither can she. But all that's in the heat of the moment. After that initial anger,we talk it out. Pillow talk,mostly. We have a rule;we never go to sleep if one of us is angry at the other. So no argument nd it's associated wahala is carried over into the next day.

here's ma question:to the ladies,how do you get when you're angry? Are you the kinda girl who throws knives? Do you break stuff(shatter plates,etc)? Do you yell? Do you throw tantrums and stomp your feet? Do you cry uncontrollably? Do you listen to rock music? What does your partner do when he's pissed off? As for the guys,the same question goes. As for me,when i'm pissed off,i work out,y'know,channel all that anger into productive outlets(which is why yours truly has such a bangin' bod-abs of steel,baby,lol). What about you?

@obnoxious,ma guy,i can see you've been hurt badly,but being bitter about it means she's still got a certain level of control over ur life,and she doesnt deserve that. @topic,sure we get heartbroken. It's just that guys find it harder to truly love,to open up to a woman,to make a commitment,but when we do love,we love just as hard,and when we lose the ones we love,it hurts just as bad.

what else do i like? Her lips. They always look soft and luscious(i dont even knw how she does that-make-up,i guess,but it's so subtle i dont even realize it;she just looks great all the time). They're like some exotic fruit,peachy nd pouty nd . . . damn!

About the boobs,it's a guy thing. We've been together for over a year now(i think. . Lol).

Em,em,ok. I like boobs in general,i think they're great,i mean,damn,they're a friggin work of art! But,i'm completely faithful(so far),and so the only boobs i'm entitled to are hers. That doesnt stop me from being appreciative.

;Dboobs! I love her boobs! I'm a boobomaniac! I love the way they feel against my chest. I love the way they rise and fall when she's asleep. I love the way they jiggle softly when she walks. I love boobs! I love her lips too. Very kissable. Kinda pouty. I like her palms.

@keyremotes,nope,oviedo meghin. Vbohie e?

nope. If she cheats,i'm out. There r no extenuating circumstances.

because they're unsatisfied bitches. Having an unexciting hubby is no excuse. Did she not knw he was boring before she married him?

!lawd have mercy! Wel since she's 'holder' than you,and according to you;'we started out as a friend tho we neva knws our age',and she's tryin to trap you,then i advice you to follow ur heart. Chai. U gbe l'ebo fo.

thankyou oyinda. I didnt know such idiots still existed. Then after displaying their idiocy so fragantly,they'l come to nl and start bitchin abt how some wicked guy has broken their hearts.

surprised at what,exactly?

iice:

Yes, if you are of that frame of mind, eventually things fade.

Love also heals. You find something/someone to love

love heals? na wound? lol

what kind of useless long post is this? i couldnt even read it. onyoshi. if you love a guy who impregnated your friend(that much i gleaned from a reply),then you very well deserve whatever 'agony' you're going through. rubbish. i have no pity for stupid ignoramuses like yourself. dolt!

I'm sorry you lost a person you obviousl care a great deal about. . But you've gotta move on. Still having feelings for him means he's still got the power to control your life,no scratch that,having unresolved feelings for him means you're giving him the power to control your life,and you dont need that. my advice? Mind-numbing sex. trust me, it works wonders . but on a more serious note,engage in useful activities. hang out with your friends. go shopping. Buy absolutely unnesseccary red shoes. Eat ice-cream. Whatever works for you. Just dont mope over him. Don't pine over him,because he does not deserve having that kinda control over your life,and neither do you.