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Can Talent be learned or is one born with a Talent?

This is a debate that has been on for so many centuries.

Those who support that Talent can be learned believe that it takes determination, passion, hard work and so much patience to learn a Talent.

But If talent can be learned, then everyone can easily become all that they want to be; a pilot, an engineer, an artist, an athlete, a banker….. which isn’t just happening. This is the big question mark.

Now there are others who say we are born with a talent. It is God given, creative and a unique gift which cannot be compared to others but if this is true then why is it that everyone isn’t making a difference?

Why do we have Pacesetters and Spectators? Why do we have Influencers and Followers? Why do we have Winners and Losers?

Are we going to hear the last of this debate? I don’t think so as it is still ongoing.

However there are two things we can deduce from this argument

I. Everyone has a talent whether you learn to have one or it is inborn in you. we all have a Talent.

II. People have a problem making use of their talents. You have a talent but don’t what to do with it.

If you are not heading anywhere with your talent, here is how to harness your talent and make a difference:

1. Do not doubt Yourself. Learn to trust in Your Ability.

We all want to be extraordinary and we all just want to fit in. Unfortunately, extraordinary people rarely fit in.

Have You ever been in a situation where you have a talent but don’t know how to communicate such talent to others? You try so hard to define your gift but it doesn’t fit with the status quo.

You have probably been in this moment where people don’t understand your skill and don’t give your work the attention it deserves.

This can be painful and so disheartening which is the reason why people want to fit into self imposed standards. It is easier to be in the safe zone.

Don't wait for others to recognize your Talent. You need to trust in your abilities. You need to believe in your Talent and embrace your uniqueness.

So maybe your Talent isn’t common and does not fit the Society. Good for you. You have the edge to make a difference.

Before I began my blogging Journey, I doubted my writing abilities. It took a year before I could muster the courage to make a difference. I was waiting for the right time which never showed itself. Today I am glad I made the decision. Everything is history.

2. Learn to Collaborate. Work with Others To Harness Your Talent

You can harness your talent by collaborating with others. When you mix with those that share your interest, you get to stand on the shoulders of giants.

In a Hangout With Elsie, you could see the power of collaboration in play. I stumbled on Elsie’s blog and was not just impressed with her blog, I was also fascinated by her wonderful community.

I therefore became one of her readers which is why it was fun to see all her readers in the hangout, getting to know the friendly and charming blogger Elsie.

Some of the readers were regular contributors in Elsie’s blog. I would never had known anyone nor would I have known about their Talent if I did not read Elsie’s blog. It is great to see these awesome people express their talent by writing interesting Stories.

Never despise the power of a community, you will easily discover your talent and improve on it by working with others.

3. Research for Problems That Your Talent can Solve

You might have the greatest talent in the World but if it is not solving any problem then It is just Paper Talent. Your Talent might seem ingenious and so creative but if no one knows about your Talent, then it is a ghost.

The world is filled with talented people. The world is blessed with Creative personalities and ingenious ideas but it is lacking Problem Solvers.

If your Talent can’t solve any problems then it as good as dead. Your Talent should throw more light to a situation that no one can provide. Your talent should cause a ripple effect and enable one to achieve their goal. Your gift was meant to make a difference and cause a positive transformation.

Don’t hold on to Paper Talent where you express your gifts on paper. Your Talent isn’t meant for show but to make someone’s life better.

4 Invest in Yourself

You need to consistently develop yourself. You need to make an effort to be a Better You. You need to be original and avoid being a version or an impostor.

You might believe that what is so easy for you which is your talent and gift, can be easily done by others. Well you are wrong as no one can easily do it like you. That is why it is called a Talent. Invest in Yourself because you shape the future.

5. Don’t Be Money Conscious. Be Value Conscious.

I have been quizzed by people who can’t understand why I have to give out content for free.

Even my mum feels that I should tag a price on my content before letting anyone read it. I would always smile each time she would say to me “You mean you are not charging EVERYONE for reading your post“. I always have to explain to her the concept of Content Marketing.

Strange thing is that my mum isn’t the only one with such perception.

Maybe you have jumped from one business to another without understanding the process of Self Discovery. Maybe you are so Money conscious that you are looking for quick fixes and shortcuts.

Well here is the thing, you should not think about making money to the extent that you ditch the process of building your talent . You should not hold on to shortcuts just to make quick cash.

Money is a by-product of meeting needs and it only comes when you add value. If you do not have any means of adding value, then money will never come to you.

If you develop your talent and learn to harness it to make a difference and solve an extraordinary problem, the money will come.

So Focus on the main thing; You Have Something to Give.

Source: http://www.awazieikechi.com/you-got-talent-harness-to-make-a-difference/

Having a personal domain name might not sound receptive to you and if so, it is not your fault. Why would you ever want to have a personal domain name anyway?

Think about this; don’t you think it is great to type yourname.com and see all your works, your legacy, creativity and passion? It will be awesome to be able to check out your online space and be inspired by your wisdom.

So I am here to let you know that having a personal domain name is worthwhile and here are 4 reasons your Real Name matters in the Domain Space.

1. Don’t look down on Personal branding

Personal branding is a big topic on the internet and I think that it has been made so complex that people equate branding with big companies.

Do you know that the humble beginning of branding starts with you? Remember that gesture that you make that is only unique to you or the words that you say that makes everyone recognize you instantly. That really is branding

So having a personal domain name is a great way to stand out. Being on a social platform isn’t enough; just having a presence on LinkedIn is just a tip of the iceberg. You need to be unique on the crowded online space to make a difference.

There are so many great things you can do with your personal domain name. Need some inspiration; check out these awesome people that are using their personal domain names to make a difference. Davidadeleke.com, elsieisy.com, Yemisiagusto.com, sisiyemmie.com etc.


2. Google Likes Your Name

There is this debate about the relevance of domain names when it comes to search rankings. So it is not surprising that one is advised to pick a domain that is unique, relevant to the niche and search engine friendly.

However, Google is becoming smart these days and they are mostly interested in quality content. This leaves you with the option of being creative with your personal domain name.

You have the opportunity to use your name to showcase your expertise and creativity. Your personal domain name does not have to be pointed to your website alone, you can do the following

i. Create a personalized email with your domain name. first@lastname.com

ii. Design and showcase a superb landing page that reveals your work. Check these examples.

iii.Use your Domain name for link shortening /forwarding

iv. Show albums or even invite people for an event

I just listed a few out of many awesome ideas. It is all left to your creative genius and for Google to amplify it.

3. It is about Reputation

Have you ever tried to type your name on Google search and see the result? You might discover the following:

I. You are not the only one bearing your name
II. There are information about you that are not ethical or professional
III. Your name does not even exist in the search. (If you discover number 1)
IV. Your name is used for SPAM. It is painful and can spoil one’s image

If you haven’t suffered through any of this then count your lucky stars but you still need to think about your reputation.

4. What You Can Control

First impressions do matter. Being on Social Media has its benefits but ask yourself this question, is your data 100% safe on Social Media? Can you predict the life line of the Social Media platform? There are so many Social Media Platforms these days

Social Media isn’t an advocate for controlling information and has been known for causing controversies. If you want to create a positive impression, Is it not best to invest with just a little amount of money that will last you a lifetime?

4. Think about the Future

If you have gotten a personal domain name and think that you have just wasted your money, I don’t really think so. If you haven’t gotten your personal Domain name, I suggest you do.

Personal domain names might not be the trend now but in a few years from now, you will need it. The perception of websites keep changing every day and there are more interesting domains popping everyday like .me, .vu, .in etc.

Now there was a time, domain names were expensive and owned by professionals but these days, you can get a domain name at no cost. So get a personal domain name, think about what you want to do with it and do it.

Source: http://www.awazieikechi.com/why-your-real-name-matters-in-the-domain-space-dkngtopblogger/

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Hope this helps.

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