Pls don't take to unnecessary condemnation of self. You are such a wonderful girl and u have a powerful energetic spirit. You not pose with nothing, don t be deceived. Your problem is not channelling the beautiful and right energy you have to a right place. You have a good spirit of consistency and resilience in what you do. All you need do is get a job, specifically the job you like and put all these characteristics into work. It is your idleness that is making u to opt for sexual act. The good spirit you carry cant just be idle, it must work and sex is the only place u have put ur mind now and the spirit keeps his work going. So pls don't go cast any spirit out oooo or bind anything, just channel the energy to a more productive Avenue. Get a job or start a business. I will rather advice u start a bizness though. Ppl like you don't fail even when failure is living in ur compound. The spirit of consistency and resilience u carry works for u.