one of my female relates never sees anything good in me. she is always complaining about everything i do and criticising me. there was a time i used to tell her abt some things that were going on in my life, because i thought we were close. then we stayed together. throughout the time we were together, she kept on nagging me. if its not that i cannot dress properly, it would be that i did not do the dishes. at first i thought it was normal until it got out of hand. please what do you think is the cause of this? and how do you think i should handle her?

i believe in fate and destiny, as in what will be will be. yes everything does happen for a reason, and in every situation u find urself u r to give thanks. only God knows the reason behind every happening. however if u pray every time things that happen to u could turn out in ur favour, either good or bad.

lol, are u stalking me?

i know they say that beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. i would like you guys to describe a beautiful woman to me. the height she should have, body statistics, skin tone, etc. u can put up pictures if u like. i want to know the Nigerian standard of beauty.

i am talking about my attraction.

theres this guy thats my friend, we talk a lot and hang out together a lot. i have developed an attraction for him due to his looks ( he is tall, dark and handsome) and personality. however, he likes my friend and not me. this is very painful to me. i want you guys to tell me if the attraction is due to love or lust. thanks.

it has come to my observation that black men generally prefer light skinned women. i would like to know why.

theres this guy that i am in love with. he is actually my friend. i fell in love with everything about him; his looks , personality, etc. i have been keeping it a secret because i dont want him to know and maybe use it to his advantage. anyway, recently he has started getting close to my best friend. always flirting with her, teasing her, etc. it even happens in my presence. i feel really bad because i still have strong feelings for him, even though it is secret. pls what do i do now? i did not want him to find out because i did not want to get hurt, and right now i am feeling really hurt.

people say i am pretty, but i am not really flashy in my looks, more like kelly rolands, genevieve, gabrielle union kind of pretty. i have an okay body( thats what i think anyways), but people say its good. dont have the big booty or big boobs kind of body. everything is kind of proportional. the friends i hang out with are kind of flashier than myself. lighter than me, bigger booty than mine, etc. so they tend to get more attention than myself. on my own, i get complements. but when i am with these girls, they tend to overshadow me in looks. do you think ? is it a good idea to keep on hanging out with them? i also would like guys to pay attention to me. but with them it is kind of impossible. what do you think?

i was once chocolate in complexion, but due to constant exposure to sun, i became dark. i want my skin to go back to its original colour, but i dont want to bleach. pls where do i get good effective toning creams? i am not in Nigeria at the moment, but in England. where can i get it here?

i have a close friend that is a guy. he is tall, dark and handsome. i never really noticed until recently how handsome he is. i have noticed now and started liking him. i dont want him to find out because he is kind of arrogant, and also i dont like the way he treated his ex girlfriend. its like he doesnt have much respect for women. inspite of this, i am still attracted to him. what do i do?

who has the prettier face, better body, etc between them?

i was once slim and fit between a uk size 8-10, and i can count the amount of brothers that were interested in me with a few fingers. however since i put on some weight a couple of months ago(size 12-14), a lot of african guys have been interested in me. does this mean that african men prefer bigger women, or does it mean that it fits me to be bigger? i am confused.

people always call me pretty, cute, but hardly ever call me beautiful. what should i do to be called beautiful?

people always tell me i am cute, pretty,etc. but they hardly tell me that i am beautiful. i would like to be called beautiful, but i dont know what to do, should i invest heavily in make up, always be dressed to kill, or start bleaching? they call most celebrities beautiful, what can i do to be called beautiful?

from all the magazines i have been reading about guys, its like they are attracted to either bust or butt. my butt is moderate and i dont think my boobs are that big. i have hips though, but i dont know if that is enough to attract guys. do you think i should try to do something about my boobs, like surgery for instance or use pills for it? i would like to also be attractive like jlo, kim k, etc. what do u think?

please the other day, someone said my bust was small. i am a size 36dd and size 14. is my bust reall small or big? what bra size is considered big?

pls i think that women with big bust usually look attractive/sexy, especially when they expose their cleavage. i would like to know what bra size is considered big because the other day someone told me that i have small bust. i am a size 36dd and size 14. is that small or big?

please can anybody tell me the cause of this?? i dont know where these feelings came from

i am not doing a competition with her. i dont know if she is finer than me or not, i am just wondering why she gets all the attention when we are together.

i am not an attention seeker, a lot has been on my mind for some time now, and i decided to unburden my feelings on nairaland.

i have a close friend and we go to places together. however what i noticed is that whenever we go to places, people always compliment her beauty and never mine. i know that i am not ugly. i am quite beautiful but its like shes more beautiful than me. shes light skinned and i am dark skinned. does it mean that light skinned girls are more beautiful than dark skinned girls because i dont understand why she always gets all the attention when we are together. when i am alone, people compliment my looks. should i continue going out with her? it is affecting my self esteem. and are light skinned girls more beautiful than dark skinned girls?

pls i dont know what to do, i found out that i get turned on by other womens bodies. what do i do? i am also a woman.