Romance / Re: The Bitter Truth For Struggling Guys In Relationships by banmaster(m): 9:54am On Aug 20, 2015 |
Word I love this, nice one bro Rapmoney: Ignore this post if you are too lazy to read, please!!!
In life, there are two types of people as regards human reasoning; the idealist and the realist. People who hold idealist view of life see events that happen around them as 'how things ought to be but are not' while people who hold realist view of life see events that happen around them as 'real facts or occurences' and should be accepted without pretending as if we didn't know that this is how things truly are!!!
With deep thoughts, I write this post. I am not afraid to face criticism; neither am I afraid to express my thoughts. I am a realist. I believe that events that happen around us as humans are real!!! Often times, things 'ought to be' in a particular way but in reality, they are not; so it becomes necessary to accept bitter and painful facts! Especially, when they are real!!!
We live in a material world and whether you like it or not, material things play a lot of important roles in our everyday life. As a struggling guy, loving only one girl whole-heartedly might end up leaving you with numerous emotional scars! . This is due to the high level of emotional pressure you would put in the relationship and the possible outcome of getting dumped, especially, when you don't have the resources to spice up the relationship. A struggling guy with low funds would find it difficult to spice up his relationship even when he has the intention to do that . In order not to lose the girl, he might start being too protective/desparate and pester the girl with phone calls, texts messages and numerous 'I love you's' in order to be assured that he is still loved! Common!!! That's trash! Are you begging to be loved? After displaying all these, she would dispise you and might even dump you because the truth remains the same...relationships without trips, surprises and outings are as boring as hell!!! Pretend at your own risk!!! . If truth be told, all young ladies want the good things in life, even those that put up what I call 'social media good face'. You cannot obtain total loyalty from a girl when you are lacking! Don't make the mistake of trying to force her to be loyal; you cannot!!!
Women, sometimes need to feel jealous that their man could be taken anytime by another woman. This can put them back on track when they 'backslide' romantically...but this can only be made easy when you have the resources. She knows fully well that ladies will not flock around you if she leaves you today or tomorrow. Don't love just one lady if you are still on 'struggling mode' . The love pressure you would mount on the relationship might make her get fed up quickly with you and eventually get your ass dumped painfully! Again, I am a realist and I am telling you that sooner than later, your ass will be dumped if you don't have the resources to 'oil' the machines of relationships!
As a struggling guy, you should buckle or lace your shoes and tighten your belt very well. You must set your priorities right. There is what economists call 'scale of preference'. What is on top of your scale of preference? Is it your education or career? Or is it trying to please a girl with your meagre earnings all in the name of seeing her pleased with you? Do you want to waste your youthful years trying to please a girl that might end up being married by another dude, who was probably hussling seriously, while you were doing your usual lovey-lovey? Book of Ecclesiastes says 'Money answereth all things'. Take note, 'all things' and not 'some things' . Take the pains now and strive to be comfortable and you will avoid the painful experience of trying to please a girl!!! The love between a man and a woman is not AGAPE LOVE, let us stop deceiving ourselves!!! It is not the type of love described in the Synoptic Gospels and in the Epistles of Apostle Paul...it is called EROS and it costs something!!! Yes, the eros love goes for something; it doesn't come with nothing and that's the bitter truth we all need to accept ![wink](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/wink.png)
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Romance / Re: Share The Crazy Things You Did While In Love by banmaster(m): 11:07am On Sep 30, 2014 |
Been a muslim, I use to attend sunday service and wednesday evening service coz I'm crazy in love, what's do I get at last ? #breakup# 4 Likes |
Nairaland / General / Re: True Life Story: My Ordeal With An Alien/Demon/Witch by banmaster(m): 10:23am On Sep 01, 2014 |
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Nairaland / General / Re: True Life Story: My Ordeal With An Alien/Demon/Witch by banmaster(m): 8:54pm On Aug 31, 2014 |
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Culture / Re: The Green Snakes Of Okposi, Ebonyi State by banmaster(m): 11:44am On Jul 08, 2013 |
I just remembered my days in Ebonyi, 135, Ezamgbo amudo... NYSC sweet oo |
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Celebrities / Re: Mark Zuckerberg: 28 Little-known Facts by banmaster(m): 10:22am On May 15, 2013 |
Encoredme: The life of a great guy in summary. One day, I'll get there ![wink](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/wink.png) How old are you ? |
Celebrities / Re: Denrele's New Super Hot Pictures! by banmaster(m): 10:04am On May 13, 2013 |
Decryptor: This guy really needs help! I never imagined that he would turn out like this in those days when we aired together on the set of the national kids' TV show "Speakout". He looked so promising then. I feel so pained to see him this way now He needs rehab |
Celebrities / Re: Banky-W With Kate Henshaw (Picture) by banmaster(m): 9:53am On Apr 12, 2013 |
dopeJemi:
So if u dream say banky w and kate dey date, u go beLieve? And do u think banky w is singLe? Banky z 32 and kate is either 42 or 43... U do d maths Kate is 44, I want you to know that age is just a NUMBER in a relationship |
Nairaland / General / Re: 25 Abbreviations You Must Know About by banmaster(m): 11:08am On Jan 26, 2013 |
J12:
Life wan kill me die Laff not be life |
Romance / Re: When A Girl Is Saying No But Her Actions Is Saying Yes by banmaster(m): 10:14am On Jan 06, 2013 |
Naija_pikin 1: what part of your body do you use in thinking?... Certainly not your brain. na leg no mind am |
Politics / Re: Describe Nigeria In Few Sentences........... by banmaster(m): 9:42am On Dec 31, 2012 |
Siena:
Dude, you know he's right, and you getting personal won't alter that fact. Everyone knows Nigeria's in a mess, the majority simply prefer to believe all is well, when even a blind Chimp can see the reverse is the case. Anyways na u talk am |
Politics / Re: Describe Nigeria In Few Sentences........... by banmaster(m): 8:03pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
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Politics / Re: Describe Nigeria In Few Sentences........... by banmaster(m): 8:02pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
illuminutty : A DISASTER WAITING TO HAPPEN In your village abi |
Politics / Re: Describe Nigeria In Few Sentences........... by banmaster(m): 7:59pm On Dec 30, 2012 |
Codedrock: U guys should stop destroying ur country wit wat u say, always wish naija for greatness, just like the americans, wen eva dey wake up in da mornin dey say God bless america, and i believed this av bin helping dem.. So 2 me i see Nigeria as a Developing Country that will soon get developed! Amen. When ?? |
Jokes Etc / Re: Translate This Pidgin English To Correct English by banmaster(m): 11:32am On Nov 16, 2012 |
candieangel12: How many more years are you older than me with? Am your Gns lecturer you failed |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: ‘60% Of Nigerian Graduates Are Unemployed’ by banmaster(m): 11:18am On Nov 16, 2012 |
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Computers / Re: John McAfee Wanted For Murder In Belize by banmaster(m): 11:05am On Nov 16, 2012 |
engineerd:
Typical Nigerian Ape. You criticize other people's attempt at a witty JOKE, but you never offer a "counter JOKE"!!!! OLODO!!!!! Hahahah he don offend you before !!! |
Politics / Re: 101 Arrested Over Biafra Protests by banmaster(m): 6:10am On Nov 06, 2012 |
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Politics / Re: Group Demonstrates In Lagos For Biafra’s Sovereignty by banmaster(m): 9:06am On Nov 02, 2012 |
Balkan:
Lagos is the first point of call. Lagos is an annex of Igbo land. We already know you guys are cowards and laid back. already lagos has been acquired and secured. we are not demostrating in Igbo land because it not in brawl or donnybrook. keep lazying about, buch of senselees bigots.
Do you think that Lagos state still belongs to you clowns. The stage is almost set for an absolute take over. no Igbo man will leave Lagos, for it's part of Biaran empire and colony. But we can allow you to leave side by side igbo if you pledge to remain loyal. Check the history of lagos colony,you will find out that Igbo jews first settled in this area before your Oduduwa came down from the sky and settled in Ife. let me teach you a bit history of your past. You be olodo, no wonder they call you all bigots |
Politics / Re: Group Demonstrates In Lagos For Biafra’s Sovereignty by banmaster(m): 12:01pm On Oct 31, 2012 |
N_girl: You guys should free this guy. How dare you call a human being an accident. Anyway, I don't know if his opinion was due to tribalism but most of what he said is true. I don't think Abiola was a tribalist but I know Awolowo was an extreme tribalist and everyone knows too. If your not a tribalist then you should know too. Also, forget about the fact that OPC is a yoruba group, the truth is that it is/was an extremely violent group to the extent that it was a nuisance to the society at a point. Let see things the way they are and not be even a little bit tribalistic. This could have helped the country a long time ago obviously, it's too late. He writes like an accidental person..lol 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Group Demonstrates In Lagos For Biafra’s Sovereignty by banmaster(m): 8:20am On Oct 31, 2012 |
Zeus I: A ragtag organisation of barbarian states which serves the purpose of cowardly-violence, and a grand dream of Awo and Abiola . 'O' for 'Odudua'(the mythical yoruba ancestors. 'P' for 'Peoples'(rifraffs actually). 'C' for 'Congress'(gathering of confused men). U must have been born on the highway coz that where most accident occur.. i blive ure confused |
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Crime / Re: Uniport Killings: Suspects Charged With Conspiracy, Murder by banmaster(m): 7:57am On Oct 18, 2012 |
CrazyMan: Patience my dear.
Cases like this needs enough time...I believe the adjournment is a welcome development.
It should give the police enough time to lay more charges against them. If the suspect or rather killers had given the 4 boys time to explain it wuldnt had lead to dis, so there is no time 1 Like |
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Celebrities / Stv Confirm Barb West Was Sign On Marvin Record On Morning Sep 25 2012 by banmaster(m): 3:50pm On Sep 27, 2012 |
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Music/Radio / Stv Confirm Barb West Was Sign On Marvin Record On Sep 25, WOW... by banmaster(m): 3:25pm On Sep 27, 2012 |
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Family / A Woman Delivers Half HUMAN/ Half GOAT!!! by banmaster(m): 4:37pm On Sep 25, 2012 |
Unbelievable niaja ooooooo!!! From a woman delivering a horse to a woman delivering this baby in General hospital Jahun, Jigawa State. The monster which is still on the hospital bed at the time of this report has a goat legs and no neck. The woman lamented that this was happening 2 her 4 d fourth time, “I am delivering of such unimaginable element 4 d fourth time”. Hmmm! WHAT COULD BE HAPPENING IN NAIJA OH… GOD HELP US ALL, ABEG! |