Family / Re: Newly Wedded Wife Seeks Divorce After Her Husband Lied About Owning Duplex by banmee(m): 12:21am On Mar 08, 2021 |
columbus007: And she can't hold on for him to finish the house that's still under construction.hmmmm. Let me get this straight. You would trust someone who lied to you in order to marry you. Got it. That makes sense. A normal person who ask, "what else is this person lying about"? Then run far away as possible. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Travel / Re: Nigerians In USA, Do You Save More Than N15 Million Yearly? by banmee(m): 7:38pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
overseasnbeyond: Have you ever thought of sending money to assist your family member? Your personal needs?
You are missing the point completely. People are talking about saving 15 million a year. That is insane. The financial rule of thumb is to to have 3 to 6 months of your income in a savings account and the rest in your retirement fund so that your money grows intardem with inflation. When I was in Nigeria a crate of eggs was 3 naira. How much is it today? Do you get it now? |
Travel / Re: Nigerians In USA, Do You Save More Than N15 Million Yearly? by banmee(m): 7:19pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
knowyaself2:
Im surprised that so far you're the only one that has mentioned this. What are you saving 22m for exactly? Money that should be making more money. Nonsense! That is what exactly a lot of people do not understand 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Nigerians In USA, Do You Save More Than N15 Million Yearly? by banmee(m): 7:18pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
overseasnbeyond: W[b]Well saving is NOT a crime as long as you can afford to set aside a little for exigency.[/b]
Set a little aside for what exactly? |
Travel / Re: Nigerians In USA, Do You Save More Than N15 Million Yearly? by banmee(m): 6:51pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
Jaqenhghar:
LOL. Let me tell you my story. I remember when I was still in naija and I was talking to my boss, one woman from UK. I remember the look she gave me when I mentioned me having savings.
We have this hoard8ng mentality that's part of the reason. People forget that 1 naira yesterday is not the same thing as 1 naira today 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Nigerians In USA, Do You Save More Than N15 Million Yearly? by banmee(m): 6:18pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
Optional09:
If you earn 36k a year 5m is too much to save even with overtime. For $15hourly rate which is the average earning of most Nigerians I can't believe that in 2021 people are still talking about saving money. How is this possible? The level of financial illiteracy in the world is mind boggling 3 Likes |
Travel / Re: Nigerians In USA, Do You Save More Than N15 Million Yearly? by banmee(m): 6:15pm On Mar 07, 2021 |
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Business / Re: Fire Raze Potiskum Central Market by banmee(m): 4:37am On Mar 07, 2021 |
EponOjuku: My condolences to the traders.
Why fighting the fire in the market? It is not a fire outbreak, it is just fire roaming around the market Fire in Northern markets are freedom fighters. They are protesting against government's neglect for them.
A stupid as the above sounds, that's how foolish Northerners are when they support bandits and those killing them. Lol. Nigerians and their weird use of the English language. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Politics / Re: Professor Sagay Says All Nigerians Should Carry Arms by banmee(m): 4:33am On Mar 07, 2021 |
EponOjuku:
Fulanis herdsmen can carry weapons against Nigerians but Nigerians can't carry weapons to defend themselves? Your argument is classically stupid.
Why are fulanis afraid of war? Oh, I nearly forgot. After Dan Fodio was defeated by the Oyo empire, fulanis have never won any war again. Not in Mali, not in Senegal, not in Chad, not anywhere. Obviously you didn't understand. Just like a 5 year old wouldn't. As predicted. 1. You seem to forget that Fulani herdsmen carry weapons illegally and it is the failure of the Nigerian system that allows it to continue. 2. Only a confirmed foool will idiotically canvass for war. I have fought in two wars and it is not as sexy as you think. With the barbaric ignorance of Nigerians coupled with their bloodthirst, you guys will be doomed if it ever happens again. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Professor Sagay Says All Nigerians Should Carry Arms by banmee(m): 3:35am On Mar 07, 2021 |
EponOjuku: If this is implemented, the fulani menace will be solved within 3 days. Unfortunately, armed robbery will increase just as it did in Igboland after the civil war. pacespot: I concord with this honest man. Some people saying the gun violence will increase by this, if you have a gun and cannot protect yourself, that is your own problem to deal with. Most evil doers in this country go after the soft target. If everybody is armed, even corruption will be reduced in the public offices. The way some people behave as if they are gods because of the privileges they enjoy will be reduced. Allowing Nigerians en mass to own fire arms is like giving a 5 year old the keys to a ferrari. It won't end well. They might as well say they want another civil war. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Never Have A Three-some, It's Not Worth It - Heartbroken Lady (Photo) by banmee(m): 10:35pm On Mar 06, 2021 |
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Travel / Re: "The Day I Left Vs Now" Transformation Of A Medical Doctor After Leaving Nigeria by banmee(m): 8:14am On Mar 05, 2021 |
Jaqenhghar:
They keep repeating that shít bad leaders . On a constant basis |
Travel / Re: "The Day I Left Vs Now" Transformation Of A Medical Doctor After Leaving Nigeria by banmee(m): 12:54am On Mar 05, 2021 |
Omihanifa:
It's the weather condition over there that's making his skin bright and fresh.
You that you are asking if Nigeria is cursed, also remember that at the peak of covid19 last year a lot of people abroad wished they were in Africa because of the low cases of deaths we were recording despite the fact that we weren't even keeping with the protocols
The problem with Africa boils down to leadership, corruption and interference from the west
Wrong. The only problem with Nigeria is its people. It's people are inherently bad. Abi no be the people make up its leaders? Abi na from Mars Nigeria's leaders come from? 4 Likes |
TV/Movies / Re: Sadiq Daba: Veteran Broadcaster And Movie Star Is Dead by banmee(m): 4:56am On Mar 04, 2021 |
Damn. Met him once. Him, Yinka Craig and Yusuf Jibo. They were young men then. I had a friend growing up who was more outgoing than me and he would insist on going to new places. That's how we ended up at NTA one day just roaming around. It was a fun time. They were surprised and curious to see a couple of 15 and 16ish kids asking questions. He took us on a sort of sight seeing tour and offered to take us to lunch. Those were the good 'ol days when Nigeria was sort of, kind of normal. A good man. May his soul rest in perfect peace. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: Throwback Photos Of Kcee And E-Money Before The Riches by banmee(m): 5:44pm On Mar 03, 2021 |
Everybody just forget the 2nd guy in the picture. He and kcee used to be a group. Quite popular too. |
Family / Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by banmee(m): 10:40am On Mar 02, 2021 |
Jaqenhghar:
The wprk aspect is the part no ine wants to hear. Everyone still falls for that happily ever narrative. Im sure when you remove mobey to upgrade that truck it is not easy Lol. You are so right bro. |
Family / Re: Love Is not always sweet .. 7 years marriage experience by banmee(m): 3:09am On Mar 02, 2021 |
So I bought this truck in 2016. Brand spanking new. I love the truck to death. It has a unique color, strong and absolutely sturdy. It's 2021 and it still looks the way it was when I bought it. Why is that you think? It is because I invest my time in giving it the TLC it deserves. I have made significant upgrades and also make sure the maintenance is constant and on time. I wouldn't trade it for the world. This concept is the same with all marriages. A lot of people think the day you get married you have achieved the best thing in the world. Don't get me wrong. Getting married is freaking awesome especially when you love the person and whoever it is, is also a friend. But, this is a big but, one has to understand it involves constant work. Most married couples take themselves for granted after a few years and wonder why the spark dies. You have to challenge each other on a constant basis to be better than yesterday. No man or woman want's to see their partner stagnant. I don't care how much you love each other, it will get old. Real quick. My spouse and I have grown together in leaps and bounds since we met and got married 20 years ago. She is sexy as phuck, confident, sassy, and witty with a quirky sense of humor. And most importantly, she still looks the way she did when we first met and that is no small feat. This after 3 big strong strapping boys. That didn't just happen by magic. She invests a lot of time working out in the gym, going on long runs, no alcohol, no junk food, etc, so that she can stay sexy for me. So why on earth will someone like that be boring to me. I'd have to be clinically insane to ignore something so glorious. I on my part do my best to maintain my four pack but that thing no easy ooo I swear. ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Celebrities / Re: Meet Mya Yafai, Davido New Girlfriend (Video, Photos) by banmee(m): 11:50pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
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Nairaland / General / Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by banmee(m): 7:19pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
DEMZEE:
That's tribalism nahhh
And Wat influence do they have in Ghana Again, they are the largest tribe and has produced more presidents than any other tribe. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala's First Day As WTO Director-General (Pictures) by banmee(m): 1:11pm On Mar 01, 2021 |
hisgrace090: Very nice of her!
The world accepting our best for overall benefits of the world as we reject them in Nigeria foolishly.
Is there a curs that a reliable person will never leads this country or are we the cause? It is not a curse. It is self inflicted. Nigerians are too corrupt for a normal person to function properly. 3 Likes |
Politics / Re: Pictures Of Boko Haram Training Kids Shared By HumAngle by banmee(m): 1:29am On Mar 01, 2021 |
BeeBeeOoh: Is it not better we go our separate ways so that Northerners will have that their dream country which is Islamic State??
Why should these people be dragging everybody backward with their backward mentality?
Why did God even create something like Luggard? I blame him too. But you have to understand, he thought he was dealing with human beings. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: Meet Mya Yafai, Davido New Girlfriend (Video, Photos) by banmee(m): 4:26pm On Feb 28, 2021 |
1Sharon:
The typical 'but ur mom is a woman' argument
Maybe his mom wasn't shít? His mum was/is. You get your perception of life from how you grow up and the people you surrounded yourself with. Why am I not disappointed? As expected. 1 Like |
Nairaland / General / Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by banmee(m): 2:37pm On Feb 28, 2021 |
DEMZEE:
It's not possible in the first place
There's no evidence that shows that matriarchy is a good system.
Women don't see equality, they see weak or strong men. They hate seeing emasculated men. It kills them from inside. Their hypergamy can't stomach it. That's why they date and marry upwards, not downwards. The Ashanti in Ghana is matriarchy and they are about the largest tribe 3 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Meet Mya Yafai, Davido New Girlfriend (Video, Photos) by banmee(m): 2:31pm On Feb 28, 2021 |
Jakumo: When a woman has borne a child, her breasts droop and flatten, while her belly gets loose and flabby, which all adds up to be one major turn-off for many males. That is why married men are most likely to stray from their wives the instant pregnancy enters into the equation.
In short, wives are for breeding and child rearing, while nubile young women are for hot sex and fun times. Rich men, as a rule, hastily upgrade to tender young single women with pert jiggly breasts and toned midriffs, the instant their wives grow fat from bearing babies. Blame nature if you will, but the male human being is hard-wired to seek out fit young women that have NEVER been pregnant. Once that woman's belly grows large with a baby inside, the sex drive of her husband DIES.
Expect our man Ned Nwankwo, of the Young Puszy fame, to hurriedly dump his child-bride of last year, since she has borne a bouncing baby for him, thereby becoming a housewife with zero appeal to the billionaire. Time to move on. So you are basically talking about your mother. I wonder how she'll feel hearing her son son say she was born only to breed. And if a woman does not invest in trying to get back her shape after birth, she deserves anything she gets. My wife is more than 40 years old but she will shame any 25 year old woman anywhere. 17 Likes 4 Shares |
Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by banmee(m): 2:16pm On Feb 28, 2021 |
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Celebrities / Re: Wizkid's Riverside House, Yacht And Studio In Ghana (Video) by banmee(m): 12:31am On Feb 28, 2021 |
Jaqenhghar:
Even animals migrate to where they will thrive. For those that can't migrate, they adapt or die. Bros, I respect you but I am very disappointed in your comment. Animals know they are animals and act as such. These guys are an entirely different breed. 1 Like |
Foreign Affairs / Re: How The US And Iran Became Adversaries - A Brief History (Photos) by banmee(m): 12:12am On Feb 28, 2021 |
Qathafi: So it makes sense to you that someone with nuclear weapons should nuke another who wants to acquire nuclear weapons to smithereens?
You're very smart and not gullible.
You think you are st.upid abi? Or have you not heard Iran vow that they will do all that they can to wipe Isreal off the face of the earth? What would do if it were you? |
Nairaland / General / Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by banmee(m): 11:11pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
DEMZEE:
Nigeria need an overhaul of its political system and structures not feminism or gynocentrism.
Our culture which is patriarchal is okay So a matriarchal society is bad? |
Nairaland / General / Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by banmee(m): 10:49pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
DEMZEE:
Nawa ooo
U are a bloody idiotic simp dude
I don't know how any sensible man will buy feminism, it beats my imagination aswear sighs*** What scares you? Why are you so threatened? You go ki yourself if you get oga wey be woman oooo. 1 Like 1 Share |
Nairaland / General / Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by banmee(m): 10:46pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
BLOODYSPERM:
Only Islam and the women are not complaining if not they would have abandoned the religion
Define oppression? I don't get it, providing for your household as a man is now oppression, what's these world turning too? Women focusing on raising children is now oppression,it's ok Read my post again. After you have mentally ra.ped for a long time it becomes normal. Look at Nigeria for instance. The way you all live is normal to you but it scares the living daylight to a normal person. 2 Likes |
Nairaland / General / Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by banmee(m): 10:44pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
DEMZEE:
Peele o
U are supporting Wat is finishing and alienating men sexual mating strategy and ensuring women are the dominant gender in the society and u say I shouldn't call u a simp....okay ooo lol Again you do not understand what that means. Your ignorance allows you to use words that boosts your impotence. 1 Like |
Nairaland / General / Re: Things Every Lady Should Know Before 30 by banmee(m): 10:37pm On Feb 27, 2021 |
BLOODYSPERM:
What of men in Arab societies like UAE where they are prospering
My mum is married to my Dad and doesn't see herself as a slave
Good wife lovely mother
Explain the rising rate of single motherhood which is a social crisis in western societies
Divorce is now acculturated by alimony and favourable biased family court legal system , you argument is fallacious
If you had read my initial posts, you will read where I said the Quran have been used to subjugate their women. Their woman have been societally suppressed for hundreds of years to the point where they believe it is normal now. Over there they use religion. In Africa they use religion and poverty. 1 Like |