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Family / Re: Help Me With Budgeting.... My 400k Salary No Longer Takes Me Home. by Barezzoflagos: 1:07pm On Jun 02, 2023
Why not get a decent miniflat at Sangotedo ajah axis for 700k 800k brand new?? And have extra 500k yearly.
The sitting room can also serve as the office.
I'm a real estate agent and can help you secure a place.

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Family / Re: Should I Renovate Our Family House? by Barezzoflagos: 8:44am On May 22, 2023
frozen70:


You have a good plan but however, you have to be careful with the way you want to go about it with out a legal backing

If am the one, I will seat my younger brother down and let him know my plans

Then remind him that he has been collecting rents and you don't normally ask him about the money that comes out of it

Tell him that you want to renovate the house and give it a face lift to generate more incomes for both of you

In this case, you will both meet a lawyer who will draft it with his letter headed paper for an agreement that after all the renovation and it's now having a befitting look for rentals,
You both will divide whatever money that comes into from the rent

So it's now left for you to divide it into two and take half or divide it into three and take two portions because you are the one that sponsored it and untill after you recover the money spent from the renovation then before you will now be sharing it into two equal parts for both of you

If he agrees, get it documented with a lawyer and on a written paper signed by both of you and sealed with the lawyer stamp and sealed with a sticker by the lawyer

Then take the same documents to court precisely state court and both of you can swore an affidavit to back it up with your passport pictures on it

All these is because of the children you guys will have and your wife's too so that non one will claim sole ownership of th I inherited property

As that goes on put down every expensis and back it with receipt and write every expensis down in a book always invite him to go through your reports and if possible take pictures with him as before, during and after the face lift print those pictures out as evidence , after the completion of the project, type out all you have writen and let him sign that he is aware of the said expenses and he was a witness to it
With this, you will not have any issues in future and if issues comes up

You have documented proves and enough evidence
This is the best advice so far..
Family / Re: My Wife Hates My Daughter From My First Wife by Barezzoflagos: 4:01pm On Apr 28, 2023
Fineman2:
My name is John. I am 35 years old. I lost my first wife in 2020, so I remarried in 2021 so that my daughter can grow up with a motherly love.

However, my new wife has made it a point of duty to always maltreat my daughter.

Each time, I want to interfere, she tells me to stay out of it. I know I should stand up for my daughter but I am in love with this woman because she came into my life when I needed someone the most.

I reached out to the family of my late wife last month to allow my daughter to stay with them while I send money for her upkeep, but they refused. They said my daughter cannot grow up without a mother and still grow up without the presence of a father in her life.

I have had several conversations with my wife and I have begged her to accommodate my daughter since she is yet to conceive but she told me to get rid of her from the house.

She practically complains about everything my daughter does. I am unhappy about this but at the moment, I am caught in between the woman I love and my beloved daughter.

Please what should I do?

What's your daughter's offense??What did she do to deserve that hate for that wicked witch?
She has the audacity to direct you sent your daughter out.
Person wey never born oo.Are you that weak??
Abi you no get sense at all??
If you send that girl away..God will punish your and that woman.You ll never see joy again in your life..Wicked people. AND TO THINK YOU'VE CONSIDERED SENDING HER AWAY IRKS ME MORE.

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Family / Re: My Wife Hates My Daughter From My First Wife by Barezzoflagos: 3:55pm On Apr 28, 2023
Fineman2:
My name is John. I am 35 years old. I lost my first wife in 2020, so I remarried in 2021 so that my daughter can grow up with a motherly love.

However, my new wife has made it a point of duty to always maltreat my daughter.

Each time, I want to interfere, she tells me to stay out of it. I know I should stand up for my daughter but I am in love with this woman because she came into my life when I needed someone the most.

I reached out to the family of my late wife last month to allow my daughter to stay with them while I send money for her upkeep, but they refused. They said my daughter cannot grow up without a mother and still grow up without the presence of a father in her life.

I have had several conversations with my wife and I have begged her to accommodate my daughter since she is yet to conceive but she told me to get rid of her from the house.

She practically complains about everything my daughter does. I am unhappy about this but at the moment, I am caught in between the woman I love and my beloved daughter.

Please what should I do?


"I'm caught in between the woman I love and my beloved daughter ".
Please read this sentence carefully and ask yourself if you're actually doing the right thing.
Did your 2nd wife use jazz or kayanmatan on you??
Has she tried your senses with Kutunome?
So you choose someone u married less than 2 years ago over your own flesh and blood? Your late first wife must be rolling in her grave.God rest her soul.
Better send that Jezebel.out of your house and life for good before she kills that child.How can she say she loves you yet doesn't care for a product from your loins.Una two just dey play.
Family / Re: How Dramatic Is Your Mum? by Barezzoflagos: 10:14am On Apr 12, 2023
Peppysco:
This thread actually gives this forum a breath of fresh air, considering the many toxic and divisive ones that have been on display for long, pre and post election.
Reading through the comments, I saw how the topic connected everyone together, regardless of tribe or politics.
A word of advice to the owner of this platform, kindly put forward more of this kind of thread or topics in order to ease the tensions and animosities caused by the election.
It's well with you.
Mine passed when I was 12 and half.
She was tough yet kind and a good woman.
She beat craze for my body but it only made me more stubborn.
Next month makes it 19yrs we lost here.

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Family / Re: How Dramatic Is Your Mum? by Barezzoflagos: 10:10am On Apr 12, 2023
Drjones109:
One thing I will never forget about my mother was a day I told my mother that I have been infected with strange disease... And she shouted with fear... Oh! They have killed my son for me, then she asked, how are u feeling, as in how the thing dey do u.?....... So out of curiosity I told her that my ntanta(dick) is paining me so badly👧👄👂 omo, if u see the way this woman use speed crab my ntanta asif her life depends on it.... U will be shocked.

So I took her hands off my nicker and she started crying so bitterly that I couldn't hold my own tears..... My brother I gat to show her my ntanta in full quantum. Hahahaha
This is the real drama here.

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Romance / Re: Broke Up With My Cheating Partner by Barezzoflagos: 10:10am On Apr 10, 2023
Sorry, you had your hopes shattered...I know how it feels to invest in a relationship hoping it will lead to something meaningful and voila,it crashes.Do we stop loving after such experience ?? No.Dust yourself and move ahead...The best is yet to come.What's meant to be; will be....

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