opascal74:


You are the stupid one here.... Saint idiot? If ure not married u fit tell us say na only one dick wey dey knack you? If ure married can u swear you got married as a virgin? Na thunder go roast ur puna there.

Yes I agree say chairman Bleep up but this can happen to anybody, he came here for advice and if you have none to answer kindly shutdown ur stupid speaker (mouth) that only works when stupid stuff is about to come out. Ure sounding like one of those goat that is been raised by a female fowl. U dey judge person like say u na Saint, or any of us here na Saint.
Even if you get stupid advice to give ure free but don't insult the guy without saying any reasonable thing. Advance olosho

It's your mother, your sisters, and your entire female generation na be olosho. Go tell your mama wey done dey run through tire like train, make she come talk to me woman to woman. I don't fight with women wrapper like you. Cow!

naijainstinct:
Okay. I hope your brother jumps into the lagoon first. Have a good evening.

My brother who is planning a wedding will not be fooling around, stacking condoms, and going to chilax at a woman's.

But you lots can't relate because you clearly think with your D!!

Lool! I'm having a good evening, the only person who isn't having a "good evening" per se is the bedswerver of an Op and....maybe you!

Go sit in a corner and stroke yourself before you commit another atrocity like your irresponsible friend, vermin.

Lordedifice1:


Peace mass transport is a death transport company
My senior brother boarded them twice he had accident twice its either a trailer will hit the bus or the bus will fail brake and hit another vehicle
Avoid peace mass transit if you want to live

You know this! Thank God for his life.

naijainstinct:
How does this help him?

So he can go jump in a Lagoon or turn to a eunuch.

JudgeNotHi:
I need help. Could she be saying the truth or she's trying to hook.

I'm in a very stable relationship and as a matter fact, I'll be getting married to the love of my world, the one whom my heart continuously long for daily in next month.

Nevertheless, there's this lady whom happened to be an old friend for about 2 years now. We've been very close chat buddies and virtually could discuss anything online to each other (I mean anything). On one occasion, she suggested we meet up at my place to watch a movie Twilight together. Well, since I wasn't doing anything in particular for the weekend and my fiance wasn't in town, why not? (Trust me, my intents was pure and genuine).

The Saturday came, and we did have a lovely time together until the devil struck. One thing led to another and we both ended up kissing and eventually had sex. I wasn't careless not to have not used a protection but I could remember the condom coming off at a Point and was quickly replaced with another new one. Trust me guyz, we both felt bad immediately after the incident and both apologized to one another and that was it.

Fast forward to the present, I got a call from her for the first time after that incident (I had to cut off all communication with her after what happened) and she broke the news to me that she was feeling a little different which prompted her to go do a test, and to my greatest shock, she said it came out positive, SHE IS PREGNANT!!!

How is this even possible? We made our precisely on the 30th of July and the test results shows she's about 2weeks pregnant (Note: the test results shows it was carried out on the 12th of August. Moreover, I never even released when the condom came off into her and we had to remove it. How is it possible?

Now, the mother called and even asked to see me in person that, the daughter already explained all that ensued between us, and I should come and let's discuss our next move, that no daughter of hers gives birth outside wedlock.

In all these, I am so confused. The honest truth is, I never told the lady in particular I was getting married in the month of September. My wife to be does know her as just a friend and that's all but kept my wedding plans away from the lady despite how opened we were to each other.

Nairalanders, I am so confused. I have cried, begged her, pleaded with her to come clean with me, but she insists I was the only one she meet within that time frame. Even in the presence of her mother, she kept asking her, are you sure? She kept insisting I was the only one she had sex with last month.

My world is presently on pause mode as I don't know what to thing anymore. But I am 99.9% sure I am not responsible for the pregnancy. I even requested she used my hospital for a second test and it still came out positive.

I am currently, planning on telling my wife to be the whole truth and before then, involve our counselling pastor. I can't bring myself to tell my family despite the fact her mother keep insisting she comes to see my mother.

My inner most being tells me I am been set up, because I remember vividly on that night, she kept insisting I remove the condom that it was hurting her but I insisted.

Could the pregnancy be truly mine? Do I come clean to my babe? Do I just runaway? So many questions and I am deeply depressed and sad on how I got myself into the terrible mess. At this moment, I deserve whatever insults is thrown at me. I truly deserve them, BUT I NEVER FOR ONCE DOUBT my love for my wife to be, I truly love her...

You're very, very wicked and stupid.

Infolenka:
Number 5: Uyaiincomparabl

www.nairaland.com/Uyaiincomparabl

Oh ..and my baby girl, Uyaii..She's so beautiful!

Infolenka:
Number 6: Tashashiel

www.nairaland.com/tashashiel

If this person is the same as Descushiel, the rapper, she's the winner of the competition..

Bamzyriches451:
Broo!! Never heard about it before, it was after we shared our horrible news to people that's when they started telling us about them....... This driver kept speeding even when we were warning him

They are not called "flying coffins" for nothing.

I'm glad that you came out alive and well.

Thank God

Cleveraustine01:
Was poisoned 2 times within 3 months by God grace I'm still alive, although I'm still feeling pains from the woundse Inside my heart God exist for those who doubt.

The issue with some of you is that you never ever ever listen. Why do you allow people to get close to your food and personal belongings?

Why?

Fabulouslouie:
I must say that life can take an unexpected turn and make things unbearable.

I was depressed for the better half of my year 200l to 400l. I still wonder how I got through that impossible phase.

Now I slip in and out of depression, but I haven't found a way to manage it properly.

How do you manage depression?

I listen to the preachings of Apostle Joshua Selman of Koinonia!

God is too sweet abeg!

Bamzyriches451:
By April when I was traveling home for my mum's burial, the vehicle I entered (peace mass trans) was involved in an accident.
our vehicle somersaulted three times on the air, we were 8 inside the vehicle but only 3 of us survived including my snr brother....... I still can't get over the shock till now.

People have been warned about this Peace Mass Transit but you guys would not listen. Thank God for your life.

Mine was on a fateful Sunday last month. After debating if I should go to church or not, I went.

In church, I danced like David danced. After the close of church, an uncle stopped me to greet me. I was laughing with him when I took a wrong step - My knee twisted. and the next thing I saw was myself on the floor.

I started crying and couldn't stand up. I was in so much pains. Well-meaning church members came to my aid as I was crying, carried me to a room as I couldn't walk, and a doctor was called to check me.

Herein lies my testimony.

After he checked and cleaned the injured knee, he said "let me just check your BP, are you hypertensive? I said "No sir"

He proceeded to check and went quiet.

I was like "what is it, sir?" He said, "Your BP is very, very, very low" if you hadn't had this sprain, you'd have gone home thinking you were healthy only for you to pass out or slip into coma."

I was duly placed on routine treatment. It's been 5 weeks now and I just started walking properly after the knee injury but I thank God for delivering me from the spirit of death caused by hypotension.

God is real.

Ebubu9:
na your kind I wan marry. Many women make their ex their bestie even inside marriage, and they want their marriage to find peace.

Lol.
Some men do that, too. It's so disrepectful.

The moment I notice that you still talk to your ex or keep your exes as friends, I'm so ex-ing you.

You'd see people come up with all sorts of things to defend themselves such as "I'm not enemies with my ex. We're still friends. I'm mature blah blah"

Okay, Oga, go back to your ex and I'm done. Shikena!

Soulflai:
I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.

I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.

Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.

On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!

I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.

This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.

Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.

If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.

Right now I am just not happy with life afterall.

She is evil. My ex whom I broke up with since last year hasn't allowed me breathe. You know what I did? I got a restraining order against him even though I've been single. So, imagine what I'd do if I'm married.

A woman who loves her man would never entertain any ex. She had to sleep with him while pregnant. So barbaric. You need to end this marriage before things get worse.

How are you sure the baby is even yours??

Abagworo:
Fighting hard to bring Omah Lay down simply because of tribalism. I spit on the poster.

Understand

Woman

I'm a mess

are already very big hits and more will come from the album.

Even Soso

Rahkman:
Oga shut up ur mouth . both" woman "and " I m a mess" na confirm hit, what are u yapping about

I'm always playing "Soso" in my house o. I love it so so much.

NotBeenPaid:
She's 2 years old. Very picky. She doesn't eat food served without bone, meat or fish in it. She eats very little.

Such a beautiful baby girl. I love her already.

Desusi:
You're not doing bad.it's said that Owo igbe kii run,meaning the money realized as a result of packing shit do not smell.Bravo my sister.

The last time I heard this proverb was 20 years ago.

Sambaby7640:
I prefer his debut album. This one no follow. Aside Playboy, Bandana and maybe Ashawo the album no blow.

His first album still gives me goosebumps..