Let Mary Odili go and swear in her Governor!

Nonsense! Is Valentine's day all about sex?

Don't try to selfish, if u value her that much,then her happiness comes first! My take.

Distance urself from toxic women!

Indeed, the PDP has become consistent and sustain problem of this country. They have succeeded to put d country more than ever before on the threshhold of ethnicity, tribalism, nepotism and religious devide. The Nigerian spirit has been completely eroded. The Nigerian project is death and buried by PDP. The very foundation upon which the country stands had been deflated by wanton corruption. Over the period of four years, the PDP has shown they can't (exception of corruption)survive. It's becoming worse by d day that they can't survive in an ocean ( country) free of corruption. What's happening today in Nigeria by PDP is that they r gasping for corruption to survive having been denied of same for d past four years.

MztaIkp:


But does he have the constitutional power to issue such directive?

Yes he has d constitutional power to issue such directives for compliance of d supreme courts decisions on caretaker committees in LGCs.

omowolewa:
Malami should just encourage the parties concerned to go to court.

Malami should be clear in his statementd, people would misconstrue his advise as judgement which only a court can order given his position.

There r litany of Supreme court decisions declaring illegal caretaker committees. Which court again do u expect them to approach? Malami has done d needful, only that he needed to give them ultimatum to comply and such should be accompanied with a sanction of such Gov.

DonFreshmoney:


Is it your clicking?? Why are you telling us? Why cant you mind your bleeping business? Only fools fear scammers, or hackers. Mind your business OP and stop posting crap

One of them sported!

Mokason28:

Ode please go read your books and stay off my mention ... dignified goat

Go continue in ur consumption of "ogogoro" and leave intellectual discuss.

Mokason28:

Like I said earlier... I don’t reply childish people

I don't join issues with daft otherwise I end up dignifying them!

Mokason28:
Rivers and Lagos State equals Amechi and Tinubu Heads Money launderers
Mr Magu please sir be bold enough to mention the names of people and companies involved in this heinous crime

Because they r g govs of those states. Buffon!

Hmmmmmm

xcabczyxabczzzz:

Do you know what took him to Iraq?

What took him to Iraq? Tell us! What took Trump to one of d sites hit by Iran?

Victorclean1:
Qasem Suleimani will be enjoying her 72 virgin in the kingdom of Allah. Oh I wish I can have my own virgins


Please please pleeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaassee I need my 72 virgins

Go and attack a police outpost so u can have and enjoy ur share of 72 virgins in hell.

Beat d shit out of her and get d idiot pedophile arrested and prosecuted. After disciplining ur sister, much later in d day draw her close and give her d best advice u needed to give to her!

ZIMDRILL:


its not complicated at all if we take out corruption, she get half of what they aquired during the marriage

The problem is that most people are not educated to know their basic rights in marriage

And cultural route is biased towards women

My dear, this can only b possible if d marriage was contracted under d law. As it is, the marriage was contracted under d native law n custom. Except she produce credible evidence to show that d investments were jointly owned. What if d second woman get him contract a marriage under d Act? She will loose out completely because d second woman hold better title. My advice: let her stay put if d man ain't violent on her or d kids, if he's violent on her or d kids, she should take that up with d authorities ASAP. 27 years of marriage ain't a jock.

Aaronsrod:


I caution all Nigerians against this 'Thanksgiving'! You see how we approach Halloween!?!

The same evil Oyinbo spirits whe give them flight and televisions also makes them appear as angels.

Once they take your emotional power you fall into their web of demonicalsim.

If they approach you with smiles, FLEE!!

That's how they approached us with smiles and b feeding our monkey with their milk every morning and evening with their Panzy, unknown to us they where targeting our monkey. When everyone weren't at home, they came steal our monkey from d cage. Their smile is pregnant with meaning!

the only time he got angry was when I asked him to go and change , I didn’t raise my voice , I only told him the clothes doesn’t look nice for the special occasion that was when he told me to keep quiet and I did.


That's where d problem emanated! Madam, learn to address ur hubby with respect and humility. U abused his ego, by nagging him out "to go and change" like u r addressing a child.

U further told insulted him in u trying to tell him d cloth he wore isn't befitting d occasion u both r to attend. What stopped u telling him sweetie here's d clothes I kept or choosed for u, I think it will b suitable for the occasion. Treat ur husband with respect, love and humility and not like one trash. U women nag too much.

However, I am not holding brief for ur hubby hitting u, however d level of provocation. It's only beast that hit women. Before he kills u or u killing him, I will advice that u both agree to divorce, so d both of u go separate ways with ur life intact. That's my candid advice.

Don't do anything further with her without d knowledge of d husband. I have a friend that I am so close to d wife, I dropped her off last month in camp for her NYSC seevice with her husband. I had wanted to raised some money for her but wouldn't kno what d hubby will think because I kno my friend was broke after so much spending. While with d hubby in d evening she called and she had a limited money with her, I had to inform her hubby that I wanted to give her some money but I forgot. He said Bar that would have been thoughtful of me because he gave her a little amount of money. He had to call her and informed her. I didn't send d money to her (even when I have her account details)untill we visited her in camp, right there I made d transfer, immediately she got d alert, she announced it to us and thank us. Never do anything with ur friend's wife without his knowledge, because however ur good intentions, ur friend may read some meanings to it. Diplomatically inform ur friend about it. Maybe while u both r away and she called d hubby, after d call, ask ur friend if that's d wife and asked how she's fairing, then tell him u even send some money to her d previous day or just tell d hubby that d wife called u and she needed money that u hope all is ok. The response of d hubby will direct u on what to do, either to send same or not. That again will bolster ur relationship with ur friend and will strengthen confidence between u both. Such things strengthen and or destroy relationships. My friends wife ones requested for money from me, I called d hubby immediately, I told him his wife to b just called she needed money I hope all is well, he told me u kno women wahala, if I have I should send that he's broke, I had to send same and told my friend we should seat out in d evening. After d seat out, I equally dropped some bar with him. Do not do anything with someone's wife behind d hubby irrespective of ur relationship, it breeds bad blood.

Mike4S:
Thanks for the support. What about the idea of going to write down statement?

Go to the police station immediately and lodge a complain across d counter! Ur landlord or the previous occupant of d apartment may b suspects including d agent. Get d police involve and u will b shock of d outcome. Make sure u have a new key ASAP.

This list doesn't have anything to do with Akwa Ibom, it doesn't emanate from akwa ibom. I am an akwa ibomite and I bet it that marriage list in Akwa ibom state isn't outrageous! This must have been from one of our Igbo brothers.

OttHin:



Op you really need to go back to school

The odd was correct, it's cocoa pud. Papa was a cocoa farmer. He had a large cocoa plantation and that's what he was doing passionately to train his children. May his soul rest in peace!

mezarddinny:
see stupid thinking from someone who claims to get reciprocated when flirting. There are various reasons a woman may decide not to wear her ring.

Pls, what r d reasons, I mean cogent reasons?

Madam, ur husband loves u and it's his duty to protect his family. He didn't marry d house help but u, so understand this with him. There r several instances house helps destroyed homes: both males and females, they can runaway with ur kids or snatch ur hubby or gives wrong information that threatened d marriage. We had several house helps while I was growing up, but none of them dresses my dads room nor cook and serve his food, no, his wife does that. None of the ever clean nor entered my dads room. I later got to understand that one attempted to poison my dad.

Madam, don't created problems when there's none. Your husband has been taking care of u and d family before he lost his job, so do same to him pending when he get a job. Don't listen to friends, b a woman, I mean an African woman.

Obviously, ur hubby doesn't want u to quit ur job, but he want u to reciprocate, show him love, that's what he want. Don't b too bossy with ur hubby because u basically foot d bills now!

This is when he needs u and do not do anything stupid by disrespecting him. Show him love and care more than before. U said he doesn't know how to do house chores because of d circumstances of his birth, u know this fact, then why mount pressure on him, he will read meanings to it-"maybe because I have loose my job, I have become house help in my house". That should stop.

daddytime:
Hmmm

You sound quite loving, patient and an understanding wife, and I'd advise you keep at it while hoping he'd find a way to navigate through this present tupsy turvy which most a times are a given in every man's life.

Can't understand his motive for insisting you do the chores yourself even when you could outsource same seeing how he isn't willing to lend a hand.

I honestly feel he needs to take a breather, see things for what they are right now, make adjustments while keeping his head above water, and meeting you at a junction with all the support necessary.

Hopefully, his attitude won't push you over the edge and escalate issues.

Just be mindful of your words and keep being understanding, because anything contra will get him screaming "is it because I'm out of work now"

I see ego and irritability at play here..
I hope you guys get over this...

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What she needs is advice, not adding salt to injury! Madam, ur husband loves u and it's his duty to protect his family. He didn't marry d house help but u, so understand this with him. There r several instances house helps destroyed homes: both males and females, they can runaway with ur kids or snatch ur hubby or gives wrong information that threatened d marriage. We had several house helps while I was growing up, but none of them dresses my dads room nor cook and serve his food, no, his wife does that. None of the ever clean nor entered my dads room. I later got to understand that one attempted to poison my dad.

Madam, don't created problems when there's none. Your husband has been taking care of u and d family before he lost his job, so do same to him pending when he get a job. Don't listen to friends, b a woman, I mean an African woman.

Obviously, ur hubby doesn't want u to quit ur job, but he want u to reciprocate, show him love, that's what he want. Don't b too bossy with ur hubby because u basically foot d bills now!

This is when he needs u and do not do anything stupid by disrespecting him. Show him love and care more than before. U said he doesn't know how to do house chores because of d circumstances of his birth, u know this fact, then why mount pressure on him, he will read meanings to it-"maybe because I have loose my job, I have become house help in my house". That should stop.

jerflakes:


You have a 6-month notice

You know nothing about property law

Bring ur authority, the poster is absolutely correct! Go and pay ur landlord his money!

Oh, no more INEC server, it's now situation room. Wanders, they say will never end. Desperation at it peak!

This lawyer self na dummy! Why will d court examined d cause of action to determined whether or not it has jurisdiction when u have not led evidence to move d court to activate jurisdiction. What confers jurisdiction on courts, is it course of action or statute? Go back to law school and stop fooling urself around collecting professional and appearance fee in vain even when u ab initio know dt d matter cannot succeed. Even at that, u still insisting of appeal. Continue deceiving them and collect money, them ma r fools.

YorubaPrince:
Don't quit your job....

I won't advice you to concentrate all your capital on one venture. Try and diversify (several petty businesses like mini kiosk, Re-selling recharge cards, get a used okada and give to some to ride on ur behalf while they make daily / weekly deliveries, Bet9ja etc... ). This helps you to spread your risks and, try to focus more on the venture with the highest ROI.

That's not a good idea, don't even try it!

donstan18:
You got a lady pregnant, you married her.
Next thing, you connected with another lady while playing chess.
What next? You've started discussing orgasms with her after you both went to see a movie.
Now a short black lady has been chasing her in her dreams



TBH, Never in my life have I seen a BOY as so confused, wayward, deceitful, irresponsible and promiscuous as this OP.


Thanks.

U got it right there, perfect description dough.

She said she doesn't want u any longer, do u intend to force her? Ur child cannot return to u because she's still an infant and u may not have enough to take care of her as u said, u just returned from sanko. Except ur marriage to ur wife was under d law, u can successfully sue her for bigamy and d man for adultery with ur wife and recover damages.

Where's the NAAKISS WORLDWIDE and where's the NANS JCC? They should take over this issue immediately. An injury to one is an injury to all. It's the height of humiliation of students struggle by a woman,a serious desecration of d spirit and throne of aluta.