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Culture / Re: The Burial by beneli(m): 10:48am On Nov 18, 2010
@kokoye,

I do understand where you are coming from though and agree with what you say.

My point, however, is that it's difficult to take a decision about burial rites, which disagree with how your loved ones lived and hoped to die.
It would be much easier if we are bold enough to raise discussions with our aging parents about how they wish to be buried.
In some societies people write advance directives, which includes those sort of things.

My father did not have an advance directive. We didn't have a discussion about how to go about laying him to rest - it didn't seem quite appropriate.
And all i know is that he respected the traditions in which he was brought up and that he also belonged to different groups in the community, who each have their own 'traditions' to comply with.

I ask myself; if i had to borrow money to lay him to rest according to his own worldview, would i do so? The answer is 'Yes'.

So until we are able to change the way we do things, all we are left with is to abide by the expectations of the loved ones we wish to lay to rest.
I don't know how it's done in the rest of ala Igbo or in the part of Nigeria where you come from, but due to my 'ignorance' of our ways, I am left at the mercy of what I am told is the way 'things are done'.
If I did not have the burden of having 'rebelled' against 'tradition' in his lifetime, perhaps I would have 'rebelled' now and done things my way.

But given the burden, it redeems me to do what I am told to do. . . I hope that makes sense.
Culture / Re: The Burial by beneli(m): 8:12am On Nov 18, 2010
^

What of in a situation where you did not abandon them in life, do we refuse to respond to the obligations to the local traditions and culture?

I know that you mean well in your advice but this post has been more about the burial process itself. My wifes anxieties are from the fact that after the things we did do in his life, society still expects so much. . . .

I have been told that I have obligations to the various amaala groups (elder groups) . . . up to five of them; obligations to the maternal inlaws; obligations to the Knights and the church groups etc. These obligations include buying things like cows and crates of different drinks. I ask what happens to people who are not in a position to fulfil these obligations and I am told that they make pledges, which they redeem at a later date.

I have tried to slash down the number of people that would be entertained, but I can't get away with having the quiet ceremony for close family members, which I would have preferred, because 'tradition' dictates otherwise. So i have to make provisions to 'entertain' up to a thousand people, many of who probably did not wish him well.

I don't need to show off to anybody. In my own right I am comfortable- so don't need to 'borrow' to do this - and people who know my father respect him for the foundations he laid for his children. My father lived a good life - he drove the mercedees, which he wanted, had among the biggest houses in the community etc, so I don't have the insecurity issues that would fuel the need to be salvaged by 'showing off'.

My guilt is out of the fact that I did not believe in some of these traditions that mean't so much to him. So, as a last act of respect, I will fulfill my obligations to these customs whether they mean anything to me or not. . . .
Culture / Re: The Burial by beneli(m): 5:44pm On Nov 17, 2010
^

I appreciate your condolence. You are right in some of the things you have said. There are aspects of culture which need to be changed, seeing that human societies are dynamic.

Culture and traditions obviously change as we, who live them, change. As we become more enlightened, we are able to replace some of those traditions founded on ignorance with things, we consider 'more acceptable'. Yet . . . and yet I am not so sure that all the things that we find less agreeable, need to be changed.

I, for one have been shaped more by alien traditions and cultures than those native to my ethnic roots. I have lived more years outside of my homeland, been insidiously socialised into worldviews of the different societies in which my personality have been formed. I have become like a 'hybrid' - a marginal man, who at different points in my life have been a 'rebel' of a sort against some of the 'traditions' of those who have come before me. And at different times, i have almost felt rootless. But as one grows older, one begins to undersatnd that what one accepts as 'right or wrong' - whether traditions, culture or whatever - depends on so many environmental and personal factors. And while it becomes arguable as to whether there are really any absolute rights or wrongs, it is still necessary to respect some of these traditions or culture, even if we don't quite agree with them.

Pardon me if I sound like I am waffling. . . .perhaps, it's a guilt trip or whatever. . . . but while my father was grounded in the ways of old - even though he was well educated and travelled - I, on the other hand, sometimes dismissed some of the things he held on to as irrelevant to my own needs.  But I ask myself now; would a Seikh still go ahead and cremate the body of their loved one, even if that loved one converted to say, Christianity before they died? Would it not be disrespectful for that person to try to use their own interpretations of reality and the understanding of the 'afterlife'  as the yardstick to decide the best way to honour their dead?   

And when you say; whatever we do after they are gone, is just for us, I hesitate to agree, because in my worldview, those that we love continue to live in our memories. They do not completely die as was so beautifully expressed in the poem by the anonymous poet in my previous post. So, my brother, I am inclined to think that the least we can do when memory is all that is left of our loved ones,  is to adorn those memories with the things, which they consider to be most respectful and dignified. Even if it costs us a fortune.

You see, I think that there is something 'redeeming' about treating the 'dead' the way that they would have wanted to be treated . So in a way, I may agree with you - it is done for our own sake.

@ Inkerd_Nerd, Thanks!
Business / Re: How Much Did You Exchange The Dollar For Today? by beneli(m): 1:40pm On Nov 17, 2010
gowaga68:

USD we Buy 152 And Sell 154

GBP we Buy xxxx and sell xxxx (but seems it will be a lil higher)

Euro WE Buy 207 and Sell 211



There are no rates for the £!
Culture / Re: The Burial by beneli(m): 1:38pm On Nov 17, 2010
@ ChinenyeN and abadaba,

Unu eme'ela.
Culture / Re: The Burial by beneli(m): 10:17pm On Nov 16, 2010
^

Ime'la. . .
Culture / Re: The Burial by beneli(m): 6:03pm On Nov 16, 2010
Sometimes it's easier said than done - especially if the diseased was a reputable man in the community. 

I empathise with Trinigal because the demands from family back home can seem very callous at times, especially to someone who comes from a culture where the dead are actually mourned and where the family of the dead are commiserated with. I know that such demands - to finish off a bigger building, or to buy x number of cows (to appease the different elders or other such traditional groups the deceased belonged to) or to entertain a multitude, many of whom would not even have known the deceased personally - can seem overwhelming, but there are certain traditions that are abided by not because they are perfect, but because they are what they are - tradition. And also, that's the way he would have wanted to go . . .

I will not stand at your grave and weep -

You are not here, you do not sleep
You are the sunlight on ripened grain
You are the refreshing midday rain

When I awaken in the morning’s hush

You are the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight
You are the soft stars that shine at night

I will not stand at your grave and cry
You are not there, you did not die . . .


RIP Sir J. O - you were a great father.
Business / Re: How Much Did You Exchange The Dollar For Today? by beneli(m): 4:46pm On Nov 16, 2010
@ Gowaga68

What's today's exchange rate for the £.
Would this be the same rate at the airports (MMI/MMII)

Thanks.
Career / Re: Welcome To My Office by beneli(m): 10:37am On Nov 11, 2010
^^

Thanks.

I have spoken with the NHIS people already - and actually visited them, sent in a proposal etc - but I have had so many empty promises in the last one year of my trying to make inroads into the Health systems in Naija that one can't help feeling pessimistic about them all!
At the HMO level, there's a reluctance on their part to be clinically audited - they are happy with the status quo - so anything one does with them would have to be through the NHIS - which on paper is supposed to have regulatory and supervisory responsibilities towards the HMO's and related service providers.

I will look into the PATHS people.
Career / Re: Welcome To My Office by beneli(m): 6:57pm On Nov 10, 2010
@ Ajanlekokko,

'Why not look at opportunities in the private health sector?'

There was this thing that the private sector can't afford me! But I suppose I have been deluding myself - something along the lines of overvalued ideas of grandeur! Yep, even Psychiatrists are prone to bouts of madness now and then!

On a serious note, my thinking has been that to access the private sector, I would need to relocate temporarily to Nigeria and since I am not ready for such a move just yet, then I will have to be coming to Nigeria for just a week or two at a time - that's the much I can afford seeing that I don't get paid for holidays etc - and the only patronage that would make such trips worthwhile for me is from the government (state, federal, parastatals such as the Health Insurance scheme, prisons and that sort of thing). They have a way of talking very big money, which you don't hear that much in the private sector . . . .

@ Oyb,

'if you cannot guarantee major kickbacks to the requisite govt officials, you will go grey waiting for remuneration. governments are bad customers'

I hear what you are saying. To be honest with you, I am not that puritanical as to shy away from such obligations if that's what it takes to get meaningful patronage. One thing I won't do, however, is to compromise the quality of service i provide, so those obligations - which you have spelt as 'major kickbacks - would be built into the service charge. That's the way of the world, unfortunately. . .

@ Cecegorz,

You is funny with that 'life begins at 40' reminder!

One spin to that saying is that pain is the one thing that reminds us that we are alive - as the dead feel no pain - so there is something about life, 40 and pain. . . . something along the lines of You become more aware of pain from 40. . . something like that!

There's another saying about the age of 40 that goes; a fool at 40 is a fool for ever. Now that one get's me feeling very uncomfortable. . . .!

I have been giving the America job some thought lately but I am still holding out hope that something will give either here in the UK or in Naija that will save me from that hassle of having to relocate. I will probably do the exams and keep my options open. . . just in case. . .   

@ Igelomo,

Thanks.

@ netotse,

What's PATHS, GFAM etc?

I will look into your advice about partnering with some bodies to Consult in Naija. Like you observed it requires being in the right place at the right time and I just feel that things will start to settle once we're all clear which way the country is going, politically.
Career / Re: Welcome To My Office by beneli(m): 3:12pm On Nov 10, 2010
I am off to sign the contract! I will respond to your comments later. Thanks.
Career / Re: Welcome To My Office by beneli(m): 2:00pm On Nov 10, 2010
igelomo:

mm . . . this post is filled
with the word 'problem',
which reflects the insecurity
that I feel at the moment, so I
will just go and sign my life
away the job contract first -
at least that’s security in
these uncertain times, while
I go and explore the options
that are open to me. I thnk u shld nt give up.

I won't give up.
Career / Re: Welcome To My Office by beneli(m): 1:55pm On Nov 10, 2010
AjanleKoko:

^^
beneli,
You sound like my dentist. Seriously, I was chatting with him a while ago (indian chap). He invested a lot of money to set up an oral surgery practice in Nigeria, and he's not really getting the business like he had hoped.

Just out of curiosity, how has the political climate affected your Nigeria business?

I have been soliciting for business (Consultancy in Clinical governance/auditing) with some health-related parastatals in the country. In one of them the person in charge actually asked me to send in a proposal, which if accepted would give me something to do for atleast 2-3years. The guy is at the moment trying to retain his position to be the overall boss of that unit in the country, and like most things in Nigeria it's highly politicized. In another which involves Clinically auditing the health systems in a state, I have been told to wait until after the elections.
Career / Re: Welcome To My Office by beneli(m): 1:28pm On Nov 10, 2010
Perhaps it’s mid-life crises or something but I am losing a lot of my enthusiasm for so many things these days. 

I have been a bit disappointed with the business that I have been trying to set up in Naija. The money needed to refurbish the office to taste is way more than I expected, the response from the ‘market’ has not been encouraging and the political climate has left a lot of promises for Consultancy jobs and retainerships unfulfilled. I had also hoped that a few ventures, which I wanted to do there would be able to sustain the new office until it can stand on its own, but I am currently asking myself; ‘what’s the bloody point - Nigeria is a hard nut to crack anyway!’

I suppose it’s this anxiety about how the economy in the UK will affect people like me, who have been mostly self-employed, in the long term.

The cuts being introduced by the Conservative party, have left a lot of us in a very precarious situation – fewer contracts from the NHS (as they are trying to save money etc) - and I am being tempted to take up a paid employment offer.

In fact, I have been asked to come in later today to sign the contract of acceptance for a job, which happens to be barely 15 minutes drive away from where I live. I am contemplating signing up for about 2 years during which time I will try to re-establish myself – or would have been able to get somebody in Naija to consider me for an appointment! The problem is that the job, which though is a private sector one - and thus offers a lot more than the NHS would have been able to offer me - will still leave me well over 20k per annum shorter than my average previous income as a ‘cowboy’ Psychiatrist. And the thought of all the money freedom that I will be losing leaves me feeling terribly gutted.

A colleague of mine who visited from the US over the weekend is seriously encouraging me to join them there. He says that the future is a lot brighter for me over there than in the UK. 

The only problem is that I have just turned 41 and have a growing family, and will need another 1-2 years to sort out my license to be allowed to practice in America (i.e. more exams). And after that, I will have to spend at least 3 years as a Junior Doctor (resident) again! With my clinical experience in the UK and other life experiences, he thinks that once I complete the residency I will be able to start nearer the top (I’ll be about 46 to 47 by then) and climb very high in a very short time. He suggests that I should think of supplementing my income during those dreadful ‘Junior Doctor’ years by ‘moonlighting’.
Moonlighting is another word for more work especially at night - when I should be resting my middle aging bones and planning my retirement to somewhere warm and pleasant.

Hmm . . . this post is filled with the word 'problem', which reflects the insecurity that I feel at the moment, so I will just go and sign my life away the job contract first - at least that’s security in these uncertain times, while I go and explore the options that are open to me. . .
Politics / Re: Osisikankwu Must Be Rejected As A Common Criminal by beneli(m): 11:02pm On Nov 07, 2010
Osisi Ka Nkwu is a common criminal and should be treated as such - his trying to remould himself into a freedom fighter won't wash.

Ukwa people usually don't consider themselves to be part of Ngwa, so one wonders how he, an Ukwa man, can now turn around to claim he is fighting to 'liberate' Ngwa people. If this wasn't such a serious matter, at this point one would have started laughing out loud . . . and even rolling on the floor. . . at the thought of such an oaf, 'fighting' for Ngwa people! The new generation Ngwa are a lot more sophisticated and calculating than resorting to kidnapping and violence to empower themselves. And I am sure a lot of Ngwa people would be embarrased to the hilt by all this Osisi Ka Nkwu business!

The only 'liberation Ngwa people need - indeed the only liberation ALL indigenes of Abia state need - is from bad governance.
Travel / Re: Nigeria Embassy London Worst Management by beneli(m): 12:10am On Nov 06, 2010
PeachyBody:

Hello everyone,

I am new to this site. I am to travel to Lagos in December for a wedding, can anyone advise the routine for getting a visa for myself.

I am not Nigerian, but my boss is, he's the one getting married, am British, and been reading the threads and it seems scary undecided

Any help is appreciated ie: documents, payment etc,

Thanks in advance

You can pretty much get all the information you want on this link - http://www.nhcuk.org/visa-requirements
Health / Re: Warning Signs Of Mental Disorder by beneli(m): 4:57pm On Nov 05, 2010
In the spirit of most of the posts on this thread, I find the following quote from Nikos Kazantzakis to be rather appropriate –

‘A person needs a little madness, or else they never dare cut the rope and be free. . . ’
                                                                                                                    - 
But for information about the narrative of human experiences that we often refer to as ‘madness’, follow this link - https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-244818.0.html
Crime / Re: Another Nigerian Kid Shot Dead - London No Place To Raise Your Children ? by beneli(m): 2:50pm On Oct 27, 2010
ezeagu:

Other Blacks are Papuans, African Americans, Negritos, Black South Americans, people from other areas that identify as black, it could be adopted children, it could be half 'Caribbean/Half African children', etc.

Any "black person" from Africa is "Black African".

There aren't many Black British people without knowledge of a country of origin outside Britain, even among adopted children who's biological parents, most times, leave knowledge about themselves.

@ Ezeagu,

The boxes are usually 'self-ticked' - if there's a word like that! - so there are people who are 'African' who still tick the 'Other' box. As you rightly implied it's really what an individual wishes to identify themselves as, that they tick - 

For instance, an acquaintance of mine from Vanuatu used to tick 'Black Other' because she believes that her ancestors migrated from East Africa, while some of her country men, would argue with this and just tick 'Other'.
On the other hand, some kids of Nigerian parantage - this is not peculiar to Nigerian kids though as kids from other racial backgrounds - who were born here, tick 'Black Other', 'Asian Other' or just 'Other'. It's their prerogative how they want to be classified.

Generally, I find the whole racial profiling thing to be grossly incorect and inherently racist - so I am not into the 'black' and 'white' thing anyway. . . 

In my official reports - and in the reports of a lot of my colleagues who are either of African or Asian background - you're either 'Caucasian', 'of African origin/heritage', 'of Asian heritage' etc . . . while in the reports by my Caucasian colleagues you are 'black', 'white' etc!

Sorry if it's come across as off topic.
Crime / Re: Another Nigerian Kid Shot Dead - London No Place To Raise Your Children ? by beneli(m): 2:22pm On Oct 27, 2010
Ooops

Ezeagu beat me to it!  My post was actually in response to tensors post.
Crime / Re: Another Nigerian Kid Shot Dead - London No Place To Raise Your Children ? by beneli(m): 2:20pm On Oct 27, 2010
^^^

The term 'negro' is not really politically correct. At least not in the UK - and presumably not in North America either - where people actually find it both insulting and demeaning.

The 'Other black' box for racial profiling in the UK would be for say, African-Americans in the UK, 'blacks from South America, who are proud enough to be labelled 'black' - or who didn't see the other box that says simply 'Other'.
People from the Horn of Africa and the so called 'Black British - whatever that is - also tick that box.
Crime / Re: Another Father Eats The Forbidden Fruit by beneli(m): 9:00pm On Oct 22, 2010
snowdrops:

@beneli

nice one. in the amended mental health legislation 2007 in uk of the 1983 mental health act, paraphelia have been forced under the remit of psychiatrists. a really cheeky move. wink

. . . that's news to me, actually. And it's rather inconvenient news at that!

But then, that can also be good for Psychiatric business - especially for those who write medico-legal reports or are Indepedent practitioners. That is until the Psychiatrist is faced with a smart Solicitor at a Mental Health Review Tribunal or in court, who starts to ask difficult questions about 'available and appropriate treatment' . . .

I suppose the majority of them - the real 'sex offenders' . . . like the incestous father in this case - would still end up in jail though!
Politics / Re: Sir Alan Sugar Under Fire Over 'NIGERIA Insult' - BBC call Dr.Tafida 'a Person ' by beneli(m): 11:47am On Oct 22, 2010
What I think is disgraceful about this whole thing is that some Nigerians think it's actually okay for such a high profile person as Mr Alan Sugar to come out with such a 'demeaning' comment about Nigeria.

When the man stated; ' I had an offer like that from Nigeria once and funnily enough it didn't transpire . . .' he was not mindful enough to state that it was an offer from 'a Nigerian' . . .which as a respectable Nigerian I find very insulting.  

Though as Nigerians we like to complain about how things are wrong in our country - which by the way is not a trait peculiar to us alone - we don't need to be patronised by people like Alan Sugar and the BBC.  Nigeria is a soveriegn nation of 150 million people and while there are a few who go about tainting our image abroad by engaging in all sorts of inglorious activities, we are not all criminals. So it is highly contemptible to stereotype a whole nation as Alan Sugar has done.  I am sure that were the shoe on the other foot, the British High Commisioner to Nigeria would NOT have kept silent about it.

So, even if some Nigerians conclude that they themselves are not deserving of any respect from the International community, and as such have no qualms about every Tom, D .i. ck and Harry deriding them both privately and openly, his Excellency Dr Dalhatu Sarki Tafida and many other self-respecting Nigerians should take offence at Mr Sugars ignorant comments. . .
Crime / Re: Another Father Eats The Forbidden Fruit by beneli(m): 10:11am On Oct 22, 2010
Aloy+Emeka:

Is sexual deviance not a mental issue?

Very good question. . .

Sexual deviance – which sometimes falls under the broad group called Paraphilia – is arguably NOT a mental illness. It is considered a disorder of sexual preference. Some may consider it a Social disorder. . .

It becomes a mental disorder only when it causes the individual distress, in which case the focus of psychiatric intervention would be to relieve the symptoms of distress. . . anxiety, depression etc. . . or if it is associated with psychotic symptoms such as paranoia (self-referential delusions in which an individual may feel that people are against them, or that they are better than others, or have special powers etc), hallucinations (when an individual experiences perceptions that are not based on reality like seeing or hearing people that are not there etc), in which case the appropriate medication or other behavioural interventions would be introduced.

If - as in the case of Paedophilia - the focus of interest is on vulnerable individuals, it becomes a human rights issue and also a matter for the criminal justice system. 

People who for instance have a sexual preference for inanimate objects . . . or vegetables . . . won’t be sent to prison or hospital if they are caught doing so. As long as the objects or vegetables belong to them!  But depending on the standards of the society where they live they may be answerable to the local laws . . . or the local jungle justice!

Bestialism (sexual preference for animals) for instance, is a Paraphilia which in some societies is considered a criminal offence, so the perpetrators would go to jail . . . and not to hospital.

So, while you may find Paraphilias included in the DSM (Diagnostic and Statistical Manual for mental disorders), the general consensus among mental health professionals is that it is NOT a mental illness.
Crime / Re: Another Father Eats The Forbidden Fruit by beneli(m): 8:38pm On Oct 21, 2010
^^^

I doubt that a good lawyer will easily get away with the 'insanity defence' here - incest does not always equate to mental illness.

Only a very small percentage of perpertrators of incest have a recognisable mental illness actually. What is a very common denominator amongst incestouos fathers, however, is their propensity to sexually molest other children in addition to their own. This is driven more by deviant sexual preferences for children . . . or paedophilia. . . than 'mental illness' per se.

His neighbours, who have similarly aged daughters, should be very concerned!
Culture / Re: Delta Igbo, Bendel Igbo: What Does That Even Mean. by beneli(m): 7:03pm On Oct 19, 2010
^^^

No worries.
For next years festival, which we'll endeavour to attend, we'll try to be more 'punctual' a la 'African time'. . .  grin
The take away food you guys gave us to go home with was delicious. Thanks!
Culture / Re: Delta Igbo, Bendel Igbo: What Does That Even Mean. by beneli(m): 6:34pm On Oct 19, 2010
Andre Uweh:

Action from Iri Ji 2010, London.

It appears the festival kicked off in full swing after we left. . . and we missed out on all the fun. Pity!
Politics / Re: Streaks Of Darkness, Plenty Of Sunshine On Abia by beneli(m): 9:27pm On Oct 15, 2010
pete11213:

STREAKS OF DARKNESS, PLENTY OF SUNSHINE ON ABIA

For sometime, Abia State has been in the news for the wrong reasons. The reason is the seemingly high incidence of kidnapping and robbery by hoodlums, imitating the methods of the armed agitators in the Niger Delta. They killed, maimed and despoiled in the name of profit. Adopting crude and savage methods, they carved up parts of Abia and held the people down in great trepidation and anxiety. Thankfully, their activities have been brought to a permanent end by the single-minded and decisive move by the Governor, Chief Theodore Orji to invite crack federal troops to flush them out.

However, for all the consequences, of the senseless sin assembly of kidnapping none appears more upsetting than the bad publicity it brought on Abia State. For a time, all people wished to discuss was the question of kidnapping in Abia. Predictably, that odious news almost beclouded the good works of the governor, as well as the unprecedented edifying things in other spheres that add to the glory of Abia. For those who did not remember, while the miscreants were rampaging, not a few illustrious sons of Abia were elevated to very high positions at the federal level.

The first on the list of these elevations is the appointment of Lt. Gen. Ihejirika, a native of Ovim, in Isuikwuato Local Government Area of Abia State as Chief of Staff of the Nigerian Army. A seasoned and experienced army officer, Lt. Ihejirika’s appointment has been widely celebrated for all the right symbolisms. He is the first Igbo man to head the Nigerian Army, after late Gen. Thomas Aguiyi Ironsi, who was savagely slain in the counter-coup of 1966. It is worth remarking that both men are from Abia State. The most remarkable of all these, especially for the moment, is the irony. At a time, when Abia and Nigeria were being assailed by all sorts of security problems, one great son of Abia State was chosen and given the responsibility for Nigeria’s security and stability.

Another remarkable elevation is the appointment of Mrs. Rose Uzoma as the Comptroller-General of Immigration. She is the second woman to hold that position in recent times. Considered very dedicated and highly competent, Mrs. Uzoma’s elevation did not come as a surprise. She measures up to the mould of the kinds of persons that come out of Abia State. There is no point stressing what Nigerians should expect at the end of her tenure. Whatever her mandate is, you can be sure that the commission will be run efficiently. She will be dedicated and passionate. And she will leave the place better than she met it. That is how Abia people are.

As if these were not enough, the Police Service Commission (PSC) also elevated two Abia indigenes to the position of Deputy Inspectors-General of Police (DIG). The first is Mrs. Ivy Uzoamaka Okoronkwo from Arochukwu. For some years, she was Assistant-Inspector –General of Police (AIG). Many thought she would have become the first female Inspector-General of Police (IG). But she was only made DIG and number two police personnel in Nigeria Police. Okoronkwo is widely respected for her integrity, efficiency and professionalism. Widely versed in law and other issues, the very beautiful woman is another recent crown on the glittering head of Abia State.

Mrs. Okoronkwo is not alone. Another great son of Abia was also elevated to the position of DIG. He is Mr. Azubuike Udah. Until his promotion, Udah was the AIG in-charge of Zone 2, Lagos. Those who are familiar with the workings of the police will tell you that you must be an insider to be given charge of Lagos. Holding that position meant that Udah knew his salt. But then, there was a pointer. He was the AIG in-charge of Zone 9 in Calabar. He was involved in both the battle against militancy and execution of amnesty programme that has fairly calmed the unrest in the Niger Delta. Udah hails from Bende Local Government Area of Abia State. It was his close attachment to his state that led to his involvement in the botched amnesty programme in Abia State. These two appointments in the police tell a story about the quality of Abia people. There are just about seven DIGs. For two to come from Abia, in spite of the intrigues, balancing and politics, and the wide field of states, underlines that Abia people clearly rank among the first class Nigerians.

In normal times, talking about all these would amount to some immodesty. But things have gone down on the face of Abia. Things have happened to scrawl dirt on the illustrious heritage of the people. So people now forget that the man who built the Eastern Region when he was Premier, Dr. M. I. Okpara was from there. They have also forgotten Dr. Jaja Anuchia Wachukwu, the first indigenous Speaker of the House of Representatives, Prof. Eni Njoku, the first Vice Chancellor of the University of Nigeria, Nsukka, Navy Commodore Ebitu Ukiwe, the former Chief of General Staff, Mr. Paul Ogwuma, the former governor of the Central Bank of Nigeria(CBN), Major General Ike Nwachukwu, the former Foreign Affairs Minister, Chief Ojo Maduekwe, Mazi Sam Ohuabunwa, the Chairman of Pfizer, and also lately Mrs. Arunma Oteh, the Director-General of the Security and Exchange Commission (SEC). There are indeed, many significant others in numerous fields –industry, banking and finance, commerce, academia, arts and governance. However, the contributions of these illustrious men and women, and indeed, their star quality stand in danger of being obscured by the deviance of a few misguided citizens who chose to live by the gun of mischief.

Now the next question is: is there a thing for Abia in these appointments? There is enough reason to believe that Abia stood to gain from these appointments. The reason is that almost all their responsibilities relate to security. It will be inexcusable, even for their careers, from the sort of madness in Abia to continue under their watch. If a Chief of Army Staff and two DIGs cannot keep Abia quiet, then their appointments would have been in vain. In reality, these appointments have taken away the difficulty the governor was having in impressing the Federal Government, the enormity of the insecurity in Abia. All that is required now is for the governor and these men and women to work in concert to uproot the problem so that the task of rebuilding Abia can begin in earnest.

Indeed, it would appear that some synergy is coming into place. From the interactions of Mr. Udah with stakeholders in the build up to the failed amnesty programme, he as a trained professional has a firsthand knowledge of the patterns, roots and manifestations of the insecurity in Abia. And this, one can say, he has made available to his colleagues. Beyond this, the recent deployment of troops in Abia, appears to take an unprecedented form. Rather than a sprinkling of soldiers, a huge number of troops are to be stationed at Ohafia, Asa High School in Ukwa West Local Government and Ngwa High School in Aba. What this means is that enough troops are on ground to police the swath of territory where the hoodlums roomed, killed, despoiled and maimed without challenge a few weeks ago. It was also a great relief to see that the Joint Task Force (JTF) on the Disturbances on the Niger Delta was able to participate in the search for the 15 school children abducted in Aba. Before now, all such suggestions were hard to brook because of bureaucratic encumbrances. Their incursion; there is reason to believe, must have been made easier by the directives of the Chief of Army Staff.

In all these, whether the presence in office of these men and women will be of benefit to Abia depends on a large extent on the governor. Specifically, it depends on whether the governor wishes to succeed in defeating the insurgency permanently. A lot also depends on whether the governor sees opportunity in the cocktail of coincidences that has carried these Abia persons into very strategic offices while he keeps watch as governor of their state. Everything about the temperament of the governor indicates that he wishes to succeed. He has spoken of his willingness to deploy resources to ensure lasting security in the state, and expressed a wish for the troops to stay for the long-haul. These are very good indications of a willingness to succeed. Once he restores security, it is easier for him to get on with the business of governance. And that is the right wish, or goal to pursue.

While it is safer to await the fruits of this optimism, it is impossible not to place on record that out of Abia, has come four fine citizens on whose shoulders the nation has placed enormous responsibilities and indeed, confidence. They represent what Abia is, its true face, and the quality that the people strive to attain. There is huge ray of sunshine on a temporary streak of darkness that fell on Abia.


. . . the good works of the governor, such as?
Culture / Re: Delta Igbo, Bendel Igbo: What Does That Even Mean. by beneli(m): 3:22pm On Oct 15, 2010
^^^

We will come.

I am usually very punctual. . . i find the whole 'African time' thing a bit rude, actually!
I do hope that the festival is usually child-friendly and that kids - below the age of 7 years - attend. My kids wouldn't want to be the only ones of their age there!
Culture / Re: Delta Igbo, Bendel Igbo: What Does That Even Mean. by beneli(m): 10:44am On Oct 15, 2010
Culture / Re: Delta Igbo, Bendel Igbo: What Does That Even Mean. by beneli(m): 10:28am On Oct 15, 2010
Andre Uweh:

Sometimes, anti Igbo campaigners posts are so laughable. The Obi of Owa was in London this summer and was visited by Igbo sons in London. The Obi does not go about denying Igbo but preaches for unity between Ndigbo and Nigeria. On several occassions, I have been tempted to post photographs am not suppose to post. Any one who wants to know if Ikas are Igbos and belong to Igbo organisations should attend this years Iwa Ji festival of Igbo Youths U.K. Location: Monarch, Edmonton. Unit 7J Nobles Road, Eley Industrial Estate.
One of the cultural dance groups is even an IkaIgbo dance group. Date 16/10/10. (sat).
You are invited.

@ Andre,

Is there a website for this and what time is the festival from?. . . I am thinking of taking my kids along, seeing that this is Black History month and this would most certainly give them a lot to talk about at school.
Politics / Re: JTF Kills 172 And Arrest 237 Over Aba Kidnappings by beneli(m): 10:15am On Oct 13, 2010
niceprof:

Even the uninformed knows that kidnapping in Abia state is politically motivated,it became pronounced when the rift in PPA became apperant.The Fedral government have  been non-chalant about it cos they (PDP)were weignig their options on how to  takeover Abia State.Now that Abia is in PDP bondage,FGN is deciding to do what it ought to have done and save innocent lives that have so far been lost -playing politics with innocent lives.

When Theo orji decided to dine with the devil(PPA) didnt he know that this will be the outcome if  he ever tried to back off? when he agreed with them to stage manage the alleged shooting spree attempt  on his life in the earlier days of his administration,didnt he know that the game could be taken farther?  The innocent lifes been killed in ABA are not that of kidnappers cos we all know that there are only two kidnappers in ABIA STATE -PDP AND PPA.
 
So let the security outfits stop these extra judicial killings and go after the true culprits:PDP-THEO ORJI-PPA(ORJI UZOR KALU)

Spot on. . .

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