muzeze77:
I can't believe the girl and her mother are being blamed for this, I guess this is nigeria where rape victims are blamed, this is not a setup , no one made baba ijesha to begin to harass a young girl, this is rape , if they did not have the video no one would have believed them, if this was princess daughter she would have done the same considering the fact that this 45 year old man has been raping the daughter since 7 , no one would have believed the girl not even her mother which is why they had to see for themselves

Go and watch princess first video where she was crying. She boldly made it known that it was a setup.

Stop saying things you know little about.

udemzyudex:


Really? Hahaha I laugh in Chinese, deep down you know Atiku even though he is not a saint is far better than Buhari.
FYI saraki still remain one of the best SP we ever have in Nigeria,go and compare.

The bolded alone has revealed everything I need to know about your political ideology.

If those ones become leaders of this country, the signal their actions will emmit will spell dooom for Nigeria.

I know God will not sit back and allow Nigeria to fall into such hands. I know the God I serve.

ezugegere:
Nonsense write up! which Lagosians? Police should stay off our roads! Nobody wants them back

Speak for yourself sir. Policing is a necessity in every sane society.

In clear English. Police should return to the not so hostile states. The ones killing them can continue to. Let them dwell in anarchy. They will soon start killing and eating their offsprings.

Plus, I see an ipob game being played out here. Using protesters as disguise to remove the Nigerian government from the east.

IG should act wisely.

streetfabulous:
No beef or malice intended. All we are saying is that you cannot continue to harass and brutalize the people you have sworn to protect.If you do your job professionally even the people will defend you if need be. The police must understand this and return to duty. The federal government should also please ensure that our police men and women are well paid and protected.

How will they come out when they hear that their colleagues are being beheaded on the daily.

Plus, your not-well-thought plan has caused the mass killing of police and burning of police stations.
Just relax and enjoy the consequences of your endsars campaign.

sinkhole:
actually, Prof earns something like 450k per month, but today is not 1991. What #600 could buy in 1991, 450k may not buy it now.
ASUU is not the only union fighting for improved welfare: medical workers did and they used strike too; oil workers did and they also used strike with the government quickly answering them by reverting to the old payment platform, instead of IPPIS, within two/three days.

What is wrong with IPPIS? Is it not the same currency that will be received?

The government is trying to rid our country of corruption but the corrupt teachers won't allow.

The major problem we have in this country remains corruption. Is this not why people were agitating the demise of Sars?

Students need to come out en mass and call an end to this ASUU. It's long overdue.

udemzyudex:


Strange? Even this government is planning on privatising NNPC even after using it to insult Atiku, they were talking about subsidy being a scam but they are still paying it.

Talking about enriching his friends, what have this government been doing? Nepotism is part of the problem we are facing in Nigeria.

Atiku is not a saint, no politician is a saint in Nigeria because none of them get themselves into power, one or two people apart from the people that voted for them help them there.

The truth still remains, Atiku would have done better.

You mean Atiku and his friends like Saraki, Dino et al will do better? I laugh in swahili.

Corruption will put Nigeria up for sale during Atiku's reign. I guarantee you that.

Bukan20:
ASUU is very stupid, how can a servant tell his master the way he suppose pay him.

what a Bleep?

FG should scrap ASUU

If fg sacks all ASUU staff, nlc will declare a nationwide strike.

Is it a crime to employ people? Many are out there willing to work.

There should be a law that should automatically sack workers agitating if their no work agitation exceeds 6months.

sinkhole:


I was to be a lecturer until I stumbled on my don’s pay slip


You gained your major professional experience in insurance; and then you went on to found an insurance firm: Mutual Benefits Assurance. A lot of people still feel insurance is a tough terrain to weather. What gave you that courage?

I’m actually an adventurist right from my university days. It was when I was in Part Three that the term Agric Insurance came into existence and I decided to research into it and take it up. In my Part Four, I did a lot of reading; I sought for books and that gave me the confidence that I could do it. My department then said there weren’t enough books and were not going to allow me to do it, but I insisted and pushed so hard till they yielded. I did my thesis in Agric Insurance Development in Nigeria. I actually published about four articles on Agric Insurance during my undergraduate days. So that was the starting point. From there, I was meant to be a lecturer; I wanted to do my master’s in M.Phil; the agreement was that if they allowed me do the programme, I would have to do it to PhD level. I agreed. It was during that time that I stumbled on the pay slip of one of my lecturers: Professor Alimi, who finished his masters when I was in Part 1. He earned N600! I was like what! Is this what I’m coming to do? No way, I said to myself. So when I saw the advert of Nigeria Agric Insurance Company, I applied. They were looking for planning officers. I came first and they appointed me to NICON Insurance instead of Agric Insurance, which was the starting point. Within two years, I wrote their professional examinations and qualified in 1991 and like they say, the rest is history. Yes insurance is a tough call; but I thank God that we did it and God crowned our effort.

https://thenationonlineng.net/i-was-to-be-a-lecturer-until-i-stumbled-on-my-dons-pay-slip/

1991? Sir, have you seen their recent payslip? Profs earn something in the region of 200k to 500k per month.

Is this not good enough?

bizme:
Ask any Yoruba person what oponu means. Then personalize freely it.

That's correct. I just asked someone here.

ASUU surely are oponu.

Nice one bro.

Omezif:
It's too early calling them back, i do not endorsed lagosians. Police have to be teached some lessons to understand that their cluelity and atrocities on human can never be tolerate any more and should behave themselve well and made some changes before resuming their dudy to avoid future choas and crisis.

You see ya sef?

Simple English you cannot SPOKE.

sinkhole:
I can't understand what OP is trying to say

ASUU is a corrupt organization that should be checked.

The lingering situation which ASUU is prolonging being the current strike action is deeply concerning.


ASUU's criminal demands need to be checked.

Previously, they demanded that they be allowed to be part of the admission process of students into universities. They said jamb should not be the one vested solely with such responsibility.

Today, Tutorial centres are offering students admission into higher institutions unhindered. Thanks to the corrupt ASUU. The bidding process for admission is very simple. Settle the tutorial centres, they in turn settle the university staffers and the Nigerian Educational Educational System suffers the more.

No surprises Mark Zukerberg, Jeff Bezos, and other great inventors are not from this side of the world.

I keep saying it. Jamb should totally handle admission of students into higher institutions. Take it totally away from the hands of ASUU and university workers.

Today, they are making another dubious demand. As in, how can you dictatate how you should be paid. Knowing how not so transparent their system is.

Nigerian government is trying to fight corruption in the form or workers receiving double salaries via different or same institutions. And corruption is fighting back.

God help us.

Toks2008:


Better learn boy.

Stup*d boy. That's all you are.

Oya. Run along.

Toks2008:


Cry lol! you have no idea the type of man i am.

Go eat your dinner boy.

You have the guts to call yourself a man.

Child. You know nothing. Just continue your ass licking.

futurerex:
This unstable fellow again!

Obviously very unstable mentally.

Sixfeetbelle:


Thats because they were not breadwinners and the country's economy is not as easy as it used to be. A man handling all the financial aspects of the home by himself will die before his time, unless he's in the top 50 highest earners.

Just like buhari died at 50 but is still Nigeria's president. Right?

I know men who personally ask their wives to stay home and cater. The men are still alive and better

placeofallure:


The arrangement is fair enough if:

1. I won't have to lift a finger and earn any income for the family, and I will have enough to spend to meet all of my "reasonable" needs. Then,
2. If he will go out there and work his ass out to earn every penny that we will need to live in comfort.

But No! Nigerian men, you want slaves in the house who run double shifts. Domestic duties and Breadwinning duties. I've seen on many threads here how guys bash ladies who don't work and depend on men. You can't have your cake and eat it, it's either we're your house slaves and you're the sole breadwinners or we both win bread and slave it out. The truth is always bitter.

Just say you are lazy. Simple.

You go tell your boss to reduce your workload because you a she.

Fearlez:
Toks2008 can't be any other thing than a neutered sellout who will trade likes for common sense.

Exactly. Shamefully true.

debbleopto:


�buhari need go to kitchen and prepare food sometimes if he love his wide

Interesting.

Men with a very busy schedule should leave their compulsory official duties and come home to cook for the woman lounging all day at home netflixing.

Right?

Wow.

Toks2008:


People see what they want to see. an unbias reader will know the fact that i used ''MANY'' to start removes the notion of generalization.

If i wrote this then why should i generalize.

Eeyaaahhh.... Stop feeling sad... No need to cry.

goshen26:
Well, the slavery nature is the reason why our mothers remain in their marriage till now while equality in marriage is why we have many broken homes these days

Well said.

You can tell the quality of an opening post when at least majority agree with it. At least 80%

We can all see the division this thread is creating.

Most men totally disagree with this junk.
Majority of the girls however agree. To their detriment eventually anyways.

Ass seeking and backside licking boys like op that think like this are the reason real men find it hard these days with women.

Just to get pu**y. You lose your reasoning.

Tajbol4splend:
You are going to destroy some people's homes with threads like this because what works in different homes differs, a lot of women who do these things do them out of love and happiness the man has given her

Don't mind the simp. A shame of a man.

Busy men should come back from work and start making their meals. What's the point of getting married in the first place.

Toks2008:
The idea of a wife material by many men is not different from the idea of having a slave in the house... Men want a woman who will be able to wake up as early as possible when others are still asleep, do the house chores and tend to the needs of the kids, the husband and after serving her household, she will go out to make ends meet and latter come back home to make sure her kids and husband are well taken care of and this includes cooking, washing their clothes and lots more... Men want a Nanny, A cook, A laundry lady, house cleaner, An errand lady, Sex provider and many more in one lady who is considered a weaker sex and as if this is not stressful enough, most men would rather boast about the ability of their lady in washing hard fabrics with bare hands, they will talk about how they so much love a lady because she can pound yam the natural way and will be proud to talk about how good their lady is in using archaic methods to prepare their meals... And the worst twist is that even if the lady is pregnant, they will still watch her do these tasks.

So I ask: is there anything different between a wife material and a slave? Will heaven fall if the man assists his wife in the home front?

Does common sense not tell the man that he needs to make life easier for his wife by getting a washing machine, a vacuum cleaner, and several other home/cooking appliances that will make life easier for her. Must a lady even know how to cook before you tag her wife material? What if she just can't cook or is the ability to cook part of success in life?

Please don't get it twisted, I'm not here to advise ladies to be redundant in their homes. Every married lady must be a home keeper, ensuring that her kids and husband are her priority...but nevertheless, in my opinion, a wife material means a gentle, submissive wife who will love you for who you are, tolerate your weaknesses, a Wife Material is a woman who is about her business, can hold her own in a conversation, is generous and can handle money well. A woman who will put your needs first and values her marriage so much that she won't defile it by being unfaithful... And just as the book of proverbs 31 says,...'' a virtuous woman is one who leads her home with integrity, discipline, and more and all the virtues she is practicing are aimed at making the life of her husband better, teaching her children, and serving God'' this is never the same as having a slave in the house in the name of wife material.

My prayer for every man reading this is that God provides for you so that you will make life easier for your woman so that you can look beyond that slave-like quality that many men use to qualify a wife material.


I hope this makes sense.

First time you spit junk and call it a thread.

It is obvious that you just want to trend.

Toks2008, my respect for you just end.

It has been projected that Nigeria will be a world power by 2080. Perhaps our ways will be examples for the rest of those still residing on earth.

It will be better to have Nigerian men in their proper frame of mind before then.

If we start orientating our men starting now, maybe miracles will happen.

MrBrownJay1:
there are two types of men in this world....

#1, the REAL MEN:
- they aint afraid to tell a woman what time it is
- they never confuse biitches/hoes AND "good" women
- they enjoy pussy and they understand that its just an organ (like any other)
- they dont pay for pussy because they understand that coochie comes a dime a dozen
- they understand that if a woman uses her toto to blackmail/fool/con/play with you, you just leave her sorry behind.... and go find another.
- they understand that a good warm wet toto (attached to a skillful woman) is heaven and only gays look down upon such heavenly creation

#2, the BIITCH AASSS NIGGAS (aka donkeys, maga, mumu etc)
- they are afraid of women and will do anything to keep a woman happy
- they are quick to become "captain save a hoe" and date/marry oloshos, as if they were good women
- the minute a woman opens her legs, they lose their ability to use their damn brain
- they often use money to attract women to their sorry lives, because that sthe only thing they have to offer these women
- they hate women, but because these women control these sorry men very easily (with their toto), they are used like a donkey on a carrot.

we all know where men like the OP stand and/or why he and his buddies prefer to masturbate instead of being with a good woman with a warm wet toto. oloshos have had a field day playing with such men, thus they now hate themselves (aka the biitch aass nigga/mumu that these oloshos turned them into)

The wise people out there know better. You are a one-trick ponny.

This your overused classification of men is getting old. Men know what to expect when approaching women nowadays.



Keep at it. We are enjoying your clowning.

seanwilliam:


U know we talk say we no go dey quote ourselves again... , guy I go crush u oooo

Please ignore her.

MrBrownJay1:


bro, Atlanta is US black gay capital, you will find anything your dirty gay nyansh desires there.... just embrace your homosexuality proudly or go see if bobrisky can help your sorry case.

***spit on floor***

It is okay madam.

Sixfeetbelle:


I honestly don't understand this analogy

I made a post which was getting quite lenghty. So, I summarized it.

But sis, that response was clear enough now.

OK. In simpler words, Things are happening around the world that are not happening to people in our immediate environment. This does not mean those things are not happening.

Look again at your post below.

Sixfeetbelle:
Op, are you sure vagina is killing the men? Cause all those men living up in my street alone are still alive and kicking.

Sixfeetbelle:
Op, are you sure vagina is killing the men? Cause all those men living up in my street alone are still alive and kicking.

Corona virus too is killing people but many still do not believe it exists.

MrBrownJay1:


there is nothing wrong with a man enjoying coochie
there is nothing wrong with enjoying the company of women
there is huge difference between enjoying your woman's toto AND being pussy whipped
there is a huge difference between a GOOD woman who loves and cherish her man AND an olosho who uses her toto to defraud men

if you people believe that we now should be against GOOD WOMEN (and their toto) because some oloshos use theirs to defraud men and/or some deluded men became pussy whipped, then you guys are not thinking straight. the toto is NOT the problem here, the deluded donkeys who fell for these good for nothing women are the problem. getting rid of these deluded men would be easier to solve the issue than staying away from good coochie.

pussy only controls donkey and pussy whipped ignorant deluded men!



well if that is indeed the case, then why dont you put your dikc in another man's anus since you seem to believe that a good coochie is useless, lol!
the reality is that you need a good warm wet coochie (attached to a skilled woman) to have good sex, you cant have good sex without it...and if you are telling us all that you would gladly choose a nylon bag over a warm wet delectable toto, then bro my sincere condolences to you!

you dont even have a problem with women, its coochie you are hating that much....thus my question to you: how long do you think you guys would last (masturbating with your male friends) before you guys start mounting one another?!

Everything said about you is actually true.

Madam, spend more time studying. It will help you. You obviously need the help.

Have a good day.

Ecne:
@OP, I honestly get your point and I'm happy to say 3 years after I implemented these things and more, I am happier today. I am currently training my Boys alongst my path.
I've made much more achievements,
Better focussed on my goals and new aspirations that I get to achieve EFFORTLESSLY.
My blood pressure has GREATLY improved amongst other health benefits.
Truth be told, it's only those that have tried to implement these that can say the good therein.

However, my only worry is my Daughters, I love them too much and wouldn't want any pain (physical or emotional) near them.
And please, don't even think of telling me to live above my love for them, cos I can't and I won't.
Maybe, that's why I'm training them to alongst my path too - to be independent, defensive and confident.

Thanks for your post still, reminds me when I took my decision 3 years ago.

You're a great Guy (thumbs up).

Am overwhelmed with joy right now.

It is not really easy doing parenting alone but what other less life-threatening options are out there? Almost non i guess. No one can do it better than you will.

aaww.....Father's love for sons and daughters. Admirable...

Truth is, over the years, men have left the nurturing duties to women (home and school) but as it is quite obvious today, they have left us a whole lump of mess. Just like Eve did when Adam was away.

You have said it all. Train them the way you expect them to turn out. I suggest all men utilize every opportunity out there to educate young girls on their need to focusing more responsibly on supportive femininity rather than the all-out attack women present today.

May God give you the strength to continue parenting your children well. Bless you sir.