One more thing Sia please leave Labake alone. She has been more of a friend to me than you imagine. You might hate her for telling me, but you forgot to tell the whole world that you first discussed this thing with Labake privately and she advised you to not ask other people and believe in me. She said she warned you about this website that insults people continously without thinking and you still went ahead to test the waters. What where you expecting? I appreciate heR more as a very good friend and seek her wise counsel these days. Stop harrassing her and coming to this website to pull her into a fight. We both dont need you in our lives anymore. Go and seek solace in your online xtian brothers while we appreciate our friendship more. I am done. Stop buzzing me or texting me please. I dont want anymore problems or insults. We used to be closer than 5 & 6 but now i have realised and being bluntly told that we are like oil and water. We dont just mix and shouldnt mix. Am the evil one like your peeps say and you need to stay clear off me. I am doing you a massive favour. Let me spread my devilsh anti christ evil nature to people who would appreciate me as a person and human and not who i worship! What a waste of 4 bloody years!

Finally in respect of assisting Sia, i believe its every man's duty to assist his partner no matter what and her family if he can afford it. Am a young man and i am doing well in my own business but it could be better. The little i have goes to supporting me and sia because we are suppose to share everything but i read somewhere some accusing me of occultism and how i make my money because i could be so devilish and occultic and its not christlike marrying an evil demon like me. Well, let me see. This demon bought Sia a car when i had no car but was hopping bike around lagos. Sia could not move around after her surgery and i saved money to get her a car. It was a small picanto but it was something to help her move around for a while before she changed her car. I didnt have a car for a year or so because biz was slow but that wasnt a priority. Sia was my priority. Kelechi her brother was my best friend and i made sure everything he needed in school and his present NYSC runs went smoothly. Her mother dislikes the fact i am an atheists but she has never for once insulted me or said i shouldnot date sia. She just says i should change and find god anytime she sees me and i always oblidge to respect her wishes but i never for once had any serious quanta with her. Sia's dad is a military man and has always been military like in his approach and we dont get along too well because of that and i give him his space and he gives me mine. Why then will sia come online and say her family hates me? Why tell the whole world that when it isnt true. All her family ought to have said way back was for me to leave Sia alone cos i would be a bad influence and i walk away. Its not hard and doesn t require all this insults from people here. I agree they are strong christians but i have never had problems with them the way Sia is saying it and if her parents did say stuffs like that privately, why didnt she come out to tell me privately and we sort it out privately?

We have been together for 4 yrs plus and she can testify that i have never quarreled with her before over anything. No matter how angry i get, i walk away and i laugh it over because we always shared all our problems together and we had our code to all ways do that forever no matter how hurt we were and how disturbed an issue we have? Why then come to the internet and lay our problems to the whole world. Well if she was looking for support, she got it and i am happy i now know what her friends and ilk think, so there is no point moving it further. I can't go through this kind of atheist bashing and discrimination tomorrow because i am not a xtian. Its just unacceptable to me and i know such issues will always crop up. I will never be seen as a positive influence in her life in respect of anything outside religion. Sia didnt tell the whole world that i said i want my kids to be baptised and she should influence their religions mind at the early stages but when they grow older, i would rather teach them free will. Do you think am insensitive not to know the role religion, marriage and kids play? Anyway, you have done your worst and i have learnt from it and it will guide me in my future relationship with other people. I have chosen to break up with Sia because she broke our cardinal rule of privacy, exposed me to these catalogue of insults from bible thumpers who have potrayed me as the main anti christ and disrespected me that her family hates me. I dont want any of this, thats why i am communicating to you sia through this medium finally. I dont want anything to do with you anymore. As your friends on this website say, you will be better off without me and it could be good for your spiritual health and being. I 100% support them. Seek for your next boyfriend first as a christian before anything else. Dont look beyond that. Thats what your online new friends have encouraged you to do and i wish you the best of luck. I will leave the key with musa this week, you can come in to take your stuffs. I really dont want any confrontation with you or your people anymore. You win finally

2. Why do christians believe they have the monopoly to criticize and abuse people anyhow. What sia didnt mention is that i engage in more debates and banters with Muslims more about the errancy of the koran and its prophets. I have a neighbour that on a weekly basis we talk about atheism and islam and while i denounce islam so much he is always pounding me as an atheists but we have been living in harmony for the past 2 years and i cherish him as a good friend and neighbour. We only disagree to agree on religious issues but when we are done pounding each other i respect him as a man and human and he does like wise. Why then shoudl sia come online and make it look as if i hate christanity so much?

Did she not tell you that i drive her to church almost thrice a week to attend her virgils or weekly service? I have been dong that for almost 4 years without complain because i see its important to her and she loves her christianity. As a future husband i realised the need to give my fiancee her freedom of worship, help her to grow in what ever she religiously holds onto and try and balance our love life with our religious lives. Why then am i seeing all sorts of wicked stuffs that i would spoil her, destroy her spirituality, lead her to doom, christians should not live with godless people, i am evil, an anti christ. . . blah blah! Why did she not tell you when ever she comes to my house, once a month she uses my place for her cell fellowship bible study and for the past 2 years or so, i make sure i provide all the refreshment for her church members and give them access to everything. Sometimes i might be in my private study working so that they have all the time to their selves or sometimes i give them the whole place to themselves and it has never disturbed me for one bit. It was after i read all these wicked comments that i knew i was wasting my time. I will always be seen as a devil no matter how tolerant i am to her christianity. I will always be the anti christ as long as she has these type of christians supporting her. I have never for once invited her to an athiest meeting or engage in an athiest wooing contest with her. I keep my athiesm to my self and allow her bander around her christianity. Why then should we not discuss our fears in private but come online to start telling every one this sh***t?


Finally, why didnt Sia tell the whole world that the reason i hate her pastor till tomorrow is because its the same pastor she was dating years back before we started dating that beat her pulp black and hospitalized her for a month and then she was just a university friend and neighbour and i felt i owed her that duty to be by her side cos i have always liked her and small by small i ended up paying her hospital fees and promised to do more. I walked to the pastors house after her surgery and promised to murder him if he ever laid his hands on sia again and warned him to steer clear off her. I read one slowpoke here, take that particular statement out of context to make me look like a murder. Yes i said i would murder him because no man worth his salt be he muslim or christian or mormon should lay a finger on a woman no matter how provoked he is and i went to man up to that errant slowpoke called her pastor and told him my mind. Since then, according to her, the church forgave him cos he repented and warned him not to do that again and demoted him at first but later promoted him because to them they saw he had repented and had been very active to show his remorse. I didnt buy that crap then and will never buy that tomorrow. Anybody who beats a woman under the guise of religion is a world class idiot and will continue to be an idiot. He hates me cos i took his girl from him and i hate him cos he brutally brutalised my girl. Its that simple and thats why anytime sia comes back home and talks about anything concerning the pastor or anything christian wise from him, i get angry. So pleas wait for the other person's comment before you call me an anti christ. I hope that David fella is readin this because he seems to be the leader of the bible thumping christians instigating others to insult me because i am an athiest.

Sia if your reading this, please deny anything i have written so far and let your god and conscience judge you

I have read through most of the insults and bad words aimed and directed at me and my person because of sia's post. A lot of people have criticized me for calling out names and attacking sia's post and taking it personal. Well i am not used to this website and since it was sia's way of communicating to the whole world what we specially shared then, i had to reply and maybe some saw sense in it, others saw it fit to insult me continously. Well i am here to set the record straight and it will be the final time i would do so. I have studied how this website works and it thrives on insults and discriminations, so i think its best to follow that path to be in line with what the website promotes, teaches and encourages new followers to follow.

1. Being an Athiest means i dont believe in any kind of god what so ever whether it be osiris, zeus, zapata, sango, allah, jesus, buddah or the sungod. I believe it is a concept invented by man to create hope for a better world tomorrow and for people to look forward to a better life after this horrid world. People will always believe in a god no matter what because it is a trait of man. Man has always evolved with so many gods over the years and will continue to do so as along as this planet exists. In some thousand years time, who knows whether jesus, allah, buddah etc will cease to exist and a new god will arise to give hope to mankind. That has always been the history of man and i would be vindicated over and over again to show man's cling to anything that will give ever lasting life. So it is not necesarily a christian thing as most people here have assumed and castigated me for being an anti christ or bad influence to sia and she knows where i stand and i have always stood on that principle and not because i hate christans. Too many evil words have been targetted at me especially by christians in this website and i am more than convinced everytime i read through the replies by christians here that they are the most intolerant of all the religions and extremely fundamentalist in their approach against non christians. I was expecting the muslims or traditional worshippers to also toe the path of the radical bible thumpers here on this site but i have been impressed at their response. I also admit that there have been some very intelligent Christians that have criticized my atheism but at the same time found time to be extremely objective, I appreciate your criticism and i look forward to exchanging more healthy debates so that i can learn more of the different faiths. As for the radical fundamentalist christians, it only shows why every day i look at christianity and know that even if there was a jesus christ that preached about tolerance, his followers are nothing but a bunch of intolerant and discriminatory lot. One of them called davidan even went as far as saying the bible said you shouldnt judge but to warn and admonish! What gives you the right to admonish a fellow human being because of his religion? Before you know it your admonishing his race, his kind of church, his kind of doctrine etc. Thats cruel and wickedness in its highest form and if such a god encourages its followers to be this intolerant and discriminatory towards fellow humans because they dont believe or worship thier god, then such a god must be the pettiest, self seeking, narcassistic god ever to crawl into the figment of man's imagination and i have nothing to do with such a god or its errant follwers who preach love to the whole world and preach intolerance behind their ass and its one of the things that made me break up with sia. I can accomodate any criticism what so ever from christians in respect of my athiesm but i have never seen a barage of christians come together to exhibit their shallowness and intolerance because i dont believe in their god. I looked at it this way that if we had a quarrel in future, she would invite the whole church or come online to report me and they will repeat exactly this kind of attitude and terrible words to me in future. Why wait to see such abuse in future when she has given me a preview of what to expect in future?

Here i was sitting quietly in my office until my life was altered due to something silly my supposedly fiancee wrote exposing ourlives for no just cause and setting me up for christians who dont know me to insult me to the highest heavens. If she even spoke to me about this, i wont be this demoralized and shakey at work reading all these evil statements made by people calling me this things. Why would she go this far to do it. And your saying i shouldnt blame her. You all forget the 6 pages of insults that strangers from no where have been pouring on me and the people that know me reading this. How far this write up would go is something else. From all your advices she is getting married to a devil because i am not a christian, why should i just let her be in peace since that would stop all these slanderous statements and let me be. We have done so many things together as a couple and this issue of the christian or no christian thing has never cropped up until now on the internet. How would you feel if it were you that you just woke up one morning and found your life being the centre of the storm for no just cause. Do you guys forget things easily? Have you not gone through all the name calling and atheist bashing due to her story. Why should she do this and your telling me i should chill and am childish because she praised me. What sort of praise is that? If she truely loved me why should she lay me out bare for people to castigate me because of my views and these people dont even know me. What sort of advice is she looking for that we havent weathered together for 4 years and we are still going on. In fact what ever. Am done with this episode. Whatever. I will fulfill her wishes so that this castigations will end and i will be in peace. Because there is no way i can ever forgive her for this humilation and if we are even together back, this issue will now truely rise every now and then. It was never an issue to me but it will now be an issue to me. I will have to accept that religious discrimination is truely alive and i am an endangered specie because of my views. I was deluded it will work and was planning to make sure it works to prove people wrong. I accept i was betting on the wrong horse and for those insulting Labake, she has done more for me today that i could imagine. Showing me this website makes me appreciate her more. I could have continued living a false life with Sia and not knowing she had the capacity to stab me in front of strangers. Now i know better and who i can truely call my friends

Liss:

I can understand you are distraught, but pls, be objective about this. The guy didn't call you a monster! Noone is labelling you or tagging you o! Take a deep breath and yawn, you should be be able to read objectively after that!

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Liss i am sorry. I am so distraught at the things i am reading on this website. Its really wicked and to think Christians are the ones condemning and castigating me when they dont even know me just because i say i dont believe in any religion is just unbelievable. You say i shouldnt blame Fantasia or quit the relationship, but isnt this what she wanted by opening it up for people to call me all sort of names and tag me as a devil who is not fit to marry her because she is a christian? The fact she couldnt bring this up with me yesterday shows how dishonest she is and this is the first time i will say it ever to her. What if i was a Moslem or a Hindu worshipper, would it have been different? Her ex pastor boyfriend used to beat her and later apologize for beating her. He beat her up so bad that she was hospitalized and since she was friend earlier, i had to make sure i sorted the bills and confronted the pastor if he comes close to her i will personally murder him. She was in the Hospital for weeks and from then onwards we got to know each other better and i promised never to be someone like that pastor in deeds, thats why she even said that part of me saying i will never beat her and she should stab me if i ever tried something like that. Do you have to be a Christian or Moslem or Atheist to know its wrong beating a woman and taking care of her. Isnt that common sense to respect and value human life. But because i am the godless one, i would change in future and destroy her life and make her godless too. Why am i not doing that now? Why do i allow her go to church every now and then and drive her there. Why dont i poision her now? Somebody made the most stupidest of comments saying this:

That makes no sense. the bible speaks about remaining in an unchristian marriage only on 2 grounds:

1. That both married as GENUINE christians and one backslid. Well you stay in the marriage.

2. Both married as UNBELIEVERS and one got converted . . . stay in the marriage.

However in the event that a single person is a believer . . . you cannot marry an unbeliever.

I would follow what he wrote. I am an unbeliever and i make no apologies to it but i will never ever hurt a woman and treat her badly. If i am to be labelled a devil for appreciating women and treating them respectfully because i dont believe in christianity, i will humbly accept that insult and leave Fantasia alone. I dont want to get entangled up in your condescending intolerant and discrimatory way you see and do things. Maybe a woman of another faith maybe Islam, Hindu, Buddah, Orisha or whatso ever might be less intolerant and choose to love me 100% the way i will love her 100%. Sia you got your wish and hope they will still be here to help you get a better man than me. If your prayers led me to you after your ex pastor bullied you into submission and i have been there for you all this while faithfully, maybe your prayers to kick me out has worked and maybe through your new friends i might now see the efficacy of prayers and how they work. Hope you have a better life

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The way folks dont get it. You accepted an atheist money to fund your family and education, now he's a monster even though you had dated a pastor who nearly crashed your life. tasting both lives has done it for you. dumping and leaving you in penury might do it.

Why are you calling me a monster? Do you know me? What does Atheist money mean? Why the labels and tags. Men Fantasia i will never forgive you for this. Just last night we were laughing so hard on the phone planning our future and not knowing you were trying to set be ablaze in public with people castigating for no reason. All of a sudden am a Monster to you by your friends. Gosh i am totally distraught at work now. I hope i dont get laid off or get a query

I dont believe this Fantasia. I dont believe this. When labake told me this morning that you went to a public forum to diss me, i didnt want to believe it because i was so sure you wont do anything this incomprehendable. She sent me the link to this site and i couldn't picture it had anything to do with me until i saw the nick name you used and the issue of the surgery before i knew it was truely you. After all we have been through and the promises we made not to involve third parties in what we do or say, you still went online to bring our whole lives to the world and to make matters worse for no reason i have been called unprintable names from being a devil to an antichrist to an occultist and that i would destroy your future and so forth and on. I really dont believe this to be honest Sia, i really dont want to believe this. We spoke yesterday night for almost an hour and this issue did not come up remotely and here i am reading falsehood about me and you setting me up with so many christians abusing me for no reason when they dont know us. I am still visibly shaken by this and it will take a calm head for me to properly respond to this unless i might end up regretting my words. I have never hurt you this past 4 years and have always adored you despite our religious differences but for you to take it out publicly when i have done you no wrong and allow people insult me tirelessly is quite shallow of you. I might be godless as you put it but i have never ever allowed anybody decide things for me or alowed anybody insult, confront or attack you privately or publicly and i have always respected you in everthing i have done in words and deeds. Even telling the whole world that your family hates me is just the height. Anyway before i come back to state my case, i will have a call with your brother Kenneth and show this website to him and dont worry the way things are going, your wish would be granted very soon since your website supporters think i am the most evil thing for you. Its funny how you forgot to tell them that the family that hates me so much did not fund your university education but i did and even got you your present job. You forgot to add how i take your brothers and sisters like my own family and would do anything for them just to make sure your happy. You forgot to tell them we have discussed this issue of having children and how they should be raised and i have told you that i dont care if you take them to a mosque or a buddist shrine to educate them on the religion of your choice and the only thing i would teach them is to follow their mind and embrace the concept of free will. Instead you have let people here abuse me so much and discriminate against me because i chose not to embrace any religion. I am truely pained by what i am reading and more worried how you have smeared me. Labake told me someone sent it to her before she passed it over to me to read and i have been recieving calls all day trying to diffuse this bad situation. There is a limit to what a man can take and do for a woman and i am more than convinced now that you dont want a real man who would love and cherish you and be faithful to you like i have been all these years. You tend to forget what brought us together and how your ex pastor boyfriend messed you up so much but i kept faith with you and stood by your side and this is how you pay me back by allowing people who dont know me or what i have done for you to abuse me. Remember i always tell you the reason i dont appreciate christians is because of the level of intolerance and discrimination some of them posses and you always say its not true that Christians are the most tolerant people in their words and actions and even christ mingled with sinners and unbelievers. I hope i have been vindicated . Anyway Whatever. Your friend's wishes would be granted. Everybody is saying i would spoil your future and make you unhappy because i dont believe in religion. You know what Fantasia, i also have a right to be happy too and seek peace and have someone cherish me too the way i cherished you. I will leave you to find the christian brother your new friends so crave for you now while i seek my own peace and quiet else where. I will not be bethrote to someone who sees me as a devil and an occultist when i dont even believe in that concept or practice it. I will save you the trouble of your questions to the world for advice. I will leave you peacefully and seek someone else that appreciates who i am and not what i am. Life is too short for me to worry about all these kind of things. Somebody out there would appreciate me and if you look back this past 4 years and think of one horrible wicked and terrible thing i have done to you that will warrant you to make people say these mailicious things to me , may propserity never forgive me and may i never progress. You can now call your parents and tell them the good news that the so called evil devil is out of your life.

I dont believe this Fantasia. I dont believe this. When labake told me this morning that you went to a public forum to diss me, i didnt want to believe it because i was so sure you wont do anything this incomprehendable. She sent me the link to this site and i couldn't picture it had anything to do with me until i saw the nick name you used and the issue of the surgery before i knew it was truely you. After all we have been through and the promises we made not to involve third parties in what we do or say, you still went online to bring our whole lives to the world and to make matters worse for no reason i have been called unprintable names from being a devil to an antichrist to an occultist and that i would destroy your future and so forth and on. I really dont believe this to be honest Sia, i really dont want to believe this. We spoke yesterday night for almost an hour and this issue did not come up remotely and here i am reading falsehood about me and you setting me up with so many christians abusing me for no reason when they dont know us. I am still visibly shaken by this and it will take a calm head for me to properly respond to this unless i might end up regretting my words. I have never hurt you this past 4 years and have always adored you despite our religious differences but for you to take it out publicly when i have done you no wrong and allow people insult me tirelessly is quite shallow of you. I might be godless as you put it but i have never ever allowed anybody decide things for me or alowed anybody insult, confront or attack you privately or publicly and i have always respected you in everthing i have done in words and deeds. Even telling the whole world that your family hates me is just the height. Anyway before i come back to state my case, i will have a call with your brother Kenneth and show this website to him and dont worry the way things are going, your wish would be granted very soon since your website supporters think i am the most evil thing for you. Its funny how you forgot to tell them that the family that hates me so much did not fund your university education but i did and even got you your present job. You forgot to add how i take your brothers and sisters like my own family and would do anything for them just to make sure your happy. You forgot to tell them we have discussed this issue of having children and how they should be raised and i have told you that i dont care if you take them to a mosque or a buddist shrine to educate them on the religion of your choice and the only thing i would teach them is to follow their mind and embrace the concept of free will. Instead you have let people here abuse me so much and discriminate against me because i chose not to embrace any religion. I am truely pained by what i am reading and more worried how you have smeared me. Labake told me someone sent it to her before she passed it over to me to read and i have been recieving calls all day trying to diffuse this bad situation. There is a limit to what a man can take and do for a woman and i am more than convinced now that you dont want a real man who would love and cherish you and be faithful to you like i have been all these years. You tend to forget what brought us together and how your ex pastor boyfriend messed you up so much but i kept faith with you and stood by your side and this is how you pay me back by allowing people who dont know me or what i have done for you to abuse me. Remember i always tell you the reason i dont appreciate christians is because of the level of intolerance and discrimination some of them posses and you always say its not true that Christians are the most tolerant people in their words and actions and even christ mingled with sinners and unbelievers. I hope i have been vindicated . Anyway Whatever. Your friend's wishes would be granted. Everybody is saying i would spoil your future and make you unhappy because i dont believe in religion. You know what Fantasia, i also have a right to be happy too and seek peace and have someone cherish me too the way i cherished you. I will leave you to find the christian brother your new friends so crave for you now while i seek my own peace and quiet else where. I will not be bethrote to someone who sees me as a devil and an occultist when i dont even believe in that concept or practice it. I will save you the trouble of your questions to the world for advice. I will leave you peacefully and seek someone else that appreciates who i am and not what i am. Life is too short for me to worry about all these kind of things. Somebody out there would appreciate me and if you look back this past 4 years and think of one horrible wicked and terrible thing i have done to you that will warrant you to make people say these mailicious things to me , may propserity never forgive me and may i never progress. You can now call your parents and tell them the good news that the so called evil devil is out of your life.