TUANKU:

and another 100% that he won't do that. Do you copy everything your friend (s) does?
That's a lame excuse based on stereotype and sentiments, no logic. Does it mean every wife beater learned it from close friends?

TUANKU:

So you already know what will happen in the future? You know how the friend will advise him to beat her?
What an absolute dickhead you are.

RoyalBlu:
"Birds of a feather flock together"

Your girlfriend probably took this proverb to heart.


It's well.

saphireadoo:
My husband said he wants to collect the child, he is not interested in marrying the girl.

LawBreaker:


I want the child. The mother agreed that she is gonna let me have him. She said she will allow me take her after five years. But I disagreed cuz by then it is gonna be complicated and she agreed. I want him at a tender age. I will take him to the motherless, when he is of age I will take him to come and leave with me and I will take care of him.

Mstick:
She actually gave him. He kept quoting her.

In his own words he said


I wonder why he didn't go and beg his foreign girls but a Nigerian girl he said so many times have only sex to offer, talk about a dog going back to his vomit.

I followed that thread that day and I was embarrassed on his behalf but I guess you can't really shame the shameless.

NoToPile:



The things I read on NL sha.

OmoDavido:
You wey marry first born, what do you expect.

Just be a good wife and don't turn to your husband against his family members.

Like one of my uncle, that his igbo wife has turned against us. Him and his family are enjoying life in USA and touring everywhere in the world, to the extent of even sponsoring everything about his wife's junior sister and taking her along with them to the USA to chop life.

But we his brothers, no dey see shi shi.

bukatyne:


And weaken the society because:
1. It would promote promiscuity;
2. Lead to immoral children.

If they want to stay off marriage, then be like Paul or Queen Elizabeth.

This also applies to men.

We see the effect already.

Mosesbutez:
For a 20 years old girl to get married, is it right? .......... According the her parents, the guy came when she who just 18 years and still in secondary school but was rejected by the parents bcoz she was underaged and still in ss3 .

Then after 2 years the guy came back again and still begs the parents to marry her but she had wrote jamb this year and is still waiting for the screening and admission to commence. The only reason that guy wanted to get married to the girl is because he said that he like natural fair skin ladies, intelligent and from the same village ( home town ). He had promised her that he would take care of her education when married to her . From the parents view, the guy is from a very good home.

They asks my opinion on the matter and what I thought is that the girl has not matured enough. I hadn't reply to the parents so I seek to get information first before replying. .

The girl in question is my little sister. .. Please I need advice from married or someone that has an experience of it. .. Please

Governor Nyesom Wike of Rivers State has said he is not interested in getting accolades from the Federal Government in his bid to protect Rivers State from being ravaged by COVID-19.

Wike also said his concern about the neglect of Rivers State in the COVID-19 fight by the Federal Government was always misconstrued for confrontation.

The Rivers State Governor made this known during a statewide broadcast on Friday, while also speaking on the effort of the state government towards eliminating COVID-19 from the state.

On the distribution of palliatives from the federal government, Wike said he rejected the over 1000 bags of rice because they were expired, adding that it was wrong for the Federal government to have asked Rivers State to go and take delivery of the trucks of rice in Calabar, the Cross River State capital.

He also stated that the disbursement of palliatives to states to curb the spread of the novel Coronavirus was selective and laced with bias.

Wike further berated the federal government’s swift response to Kano’s situation despite ignoring several earlier appeals from the Rivers State Government.

He noted that he was amazed that less than 48 hours after Kano State complained, the government intervened and gave them the needed support.

“What happened in Kano again tells you the inconsistencies and the kind of role the federal government plays. It is really unfortunate.

“When I said the federal government has not supported us, people want to bring down my head. Kano State Governor cried for help and in 48 hours, the president did a broadcast and provided support for the state.

“If they have responded to our request, we would have commended them. What crime have I committed. Is it that Kano state is more important than Rivers state or what?

“That is what happens. Is it that Rivers state is not part of Nigeria? There are those that are bigger than the country. There are also those they don’t see as part of Nigeria.

“They said we should go to Calabar and carry rice. Rice that is expired. How would they even ask us to go to Calabar? If you want to give us something, you bring it. We can’t go to Calabar. We know that our people are hungry, but hunger will not kill us,” he said.

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ShenTeh:


The marriage didn't start like that.

Something must have pushed the man.

Besides all of these are allegations with no benefit of denial or acceptance by the accused.

We mend broken things, why throw away a yet to be broken home.

ShenTeh:


I 'see' your sarcasm.

Marriage takes mutual respect. The traditional approach is that our women are often told to stoop to conquer, while the husband often came around. But I guess this message may not only be late for a sarcastic and bitter wife but for the redemption of a lost home with two innocent kids.

You can redeem your marriage if you humble yourself - see, people will tell you to not take sh!t, that be a woman, etc, but hey, it's your life. Report his misbehaviour to people he respects. They will call him to his senses.

Help him by not rubbing it in. Compliment that by being humble and putting in an effort to salvage what is left of your home. Check tour bitterness and angst. While I strongly kick against domestic violence, I suspect your acoustic tongue and disrespect is most probably the reason for the beating. Redeem yourself.

Everyone responds to love.

Good luck.

jaksmillioniar:
smiles na internet I cant be exchanging word with a jambite.if I decide to tell u bad words u will live nairaland.so keep running ur mouth

jaksmillioniar:
wen u get married den I will reply u. u no get sence in dis time pple died did English save anyone

jaksmillioniar:
take it or live it my dear u need wisdom

jaksmillioniar:

6.forgive him. most keep shouting divorce but if u marry another man and still face problems he will still cheat.will u keep jumping from marriage to marriage.d fact ur man cheat does not mean he does not love u.its just sex.d governor wife said it. if a girl like tacha or mercy naked d fact is 95 percent of men will cheat. but we still go back to our wife cos dey are a million times better Dan dose girl. is low self esteem DAT make a woman park out cos of DAT.
7. fight for ur marriage. ur hubby got a girlfriend DAT sex him well and 24 hours a day.why dont u do it better 25 hours a day.she cook good food why dont u cook better.u feel happy wen ur hubby comes back.