Family / Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me For A Flimsy Reason. by Biancah(f): 1:54pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
TUANKU:
and another 100% that he won't do that. Do you copy everything your friend (s) does? That's a lame excuse based on stereotype and sentiments, no logic. Does it mean every wife beater learned it from close friends? She is not taking chances, since she has known him for long maybe she knows he takes a lot of advices from his friend, or she knows he is someone easily influenced by friends, some people are just like that. Either way, it's her choice and life to live. 6 Likes |
Family / Re: My Girlfriend Broke Up With Me For A Flimsy Reason. by Biancah(f): 1:42pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
TUANKU:
So you already know what will happen in the future? You know how the friend will advise him to beat her? What an absolute dickhead you are. She is not far from the truth, it is 100% possible. RoyalBlu: "Birds of a feather flock together"
Your girlfriend probably took this proverb to heart.
It's well. She sure did ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) 5 Likes |
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Romance / Re: Why Do Most Ladies Try To Tarnish Ex Image? by Biancah(f): 6:53pm On Jun 04, 2020 |
Even males demonize/tarnish their exes reputation, it is not only females that do it. When people break up, they mostly choose the narrative that makes them a saint.
As for the rape issues, this is Nigeria where visiting of a guy's house means you have already consented to sex. The rape cases would be more higher than this if all victims choose to come out. 3 Likes |
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Family / Re: I Need Your Candid Advise Please by Biancah(f): 3:14pm On May 31, 2020 |
saphireadoo: My husband said he wants to collect the child, he is not interested in marrying the girl. But he was interested in sleeping with her, no insults ma, but your husband is simply wicked. He might also poison you one day if his family asks for it. Your husband did what he did cause he knows at the end of the day, you will still forgive him and take care of his love child. Pressurize ko, I guess they they forced his d*ck into the girl's vagina. 41 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Taking Your Baby To Motherless Home by Biancah(f): 3:04pm On May 31, 2020 |
LawBreaker:
I want the child. The mother agreed that she is gonna let me have him. She said she will allow me take her after five years. But I disagreed cuz by then it is gonna be complicated and she agreed. I want him at a tender age. I will take him to the motherless, when he is of age I will take him to come and leave with me and I will take care of him. Why don't you leave the child with the mother, since she is ready to take care of him till he is 5. Is being in a foster home better than letting his mom take care of him ? If you won't take care of the baby by yourself, leave the baby with his mother till he is five then you can go and take him. Stop being so selfish. 10 Likes |
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Family / Re: Is Nairaland Anti-women ? by Biancah(f): 8:06am On May 23, 2020 |
Mstick: She actually gave him. He kept quoting her.
In his own words he said
I wonder why he didn't go and beg his foreign girls but a Nigerian girl he said so many times have only sex to offer, talk about a dog going back to his vomit.
I followed that thread that day and I was embarrassed on his behalf but I guess you can't really shame the shameless.
OMG ![shocked](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/shocked.gif) You mean Davash collected money from Poco ? I thought he was very very rich with the way he types here ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) . Aww I am disappointed. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: My Husband's Family Is Sucking Him Dry by Biancah(f): 12:13pm On May 19, 2020 |
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Family / Re: My Husband's Family Is Sucking Him Dry by Biancah(f): 8:16am On May 19, 2020 |
OmoDavido: You wey marry first born, what do you expect.
Just be a good wife and don't turn to your husband against his family members.
Like one of my uncle, that his igbo wife has turned against us. Him and his family are enjoying life in USA and touring everywhere in the world, to the extent of even sponsoring everything about his wife's junior sister and taking her along with them to the USA to chop life.
But we his brothers, no dey see shi shi.
Na wa o. This is what the OP was talking about, assuming your uncle was poor and not touring the USA would you care, so his wife is now the enemy ? Why do Nigerians feel so entitled to someone's money ? Why can't you make your own money ? Why should your uncle give you shi-shi, did you hustle with him ? He can spend it anyhow he wants, IT IS HIS MONEY, NOT YOURS. 43 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Unmarried Women by Biancah(f): 8:06am On May 15, 2020 |
bukatyne:
And weaken the society because: 1. It would promote promiscuity; 2. Lead to immoral children.
If they want to stay off marriage, then be like Paul or Queen Elizabeth.
This also applies to men.
We see the effect already.
Been married doesn't mean having godly /morally upright children, most of the rapists, thieves, killers were raised in a marriage with two parents. As for promiscuity, what people choose to do with their private part is their business and their right. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: How Can I Do My Wedding With 500k by Biancah(f): 5:04pm On May 06, 2020 |
Go to the registry with your parents, witness, a few close friends and your siblings, sign your prenuptial agreement and your marriage certificate, go for a celebratory dinner . Later go for Thanksgiving in the church, find something to invest your money on, maybe a land, treasury bills or whatever. There is absolutely no need of trying to impress people. My opinion. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Why Do Some Men Say Marriage Is A Scam, But Insults Ladies Who Are Not Married ? by Biancah(f): 10:39am On May 05, 2020 |
I just don't understand, I have seen a number of threads where a lady would say she doesn't want to get married and the males would call her a lesbian, she wants to continue sleeping with her sugar daddies, she is a prostitute. Even married women who wants to leave their marriage also get labeled as a prostitutes who wants to keep sleeping around with different men. I mean if marriage is a scam to the males, why do they keep calling unmarried ladies evening newspaper, why do they keep insulting women who says they don't want to get married ? Shouldn't the males be happy that some females don't want to get married and some men won't finally get scammed.
I have seen a lot of threads where some men tell their gender not to get married and they were hailed for preaching the gospel, but once a lady says she is not getting married or leaving her marriage she suddenly becomes a prostitute. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: Is It Okay For A 20-Year-Old Girl To Marry? by Biancah(f): 8:10pm On May 02, 2020 |
Mosesbutez: For a 20 years old girl to get married, is it right? .......... According the her parents, the guy came when she who just 18 years and still in secondary school but was rejected by the parents bcoz she was underaged and still in ss3 .
Then after 2 years the guy came back again and still begs the parents to marry her but she had wrote jamb this year and is still waiting for the screening and admission to commence. The only reason that guy wanted to get married to the girl is because he said that he like natural fair skin ladies, intelligent and from the same village ( home town ). He had promised her that he would take care of her education when married to her . From the parents view, the guy is from a very good home.
They asks my opinion on the matter and what I thought is that the girl has not matured enough. I hadn't reply to the parents so I seek to get information first before replying. .
The girl in question is my little sister. .. Please I need advice from married or someone that has an experience of it. .. Please Did your sister finally get married to the guy ? |
Politics / Wike: We Can’t Accept Expired Rice, Hunger Won’t Kill Us - Governor Tells FG by Biancah(f): 2:08pm On May 01, 2020 |
Governor Nyesom Wike of Rivers State has said he is not interested in getting accolades from the Federal Government in his bid to protect Rivers State from being ravaged by COVID-19.
Wike also said his concern about the neglect of Rivers State in the COVID-19 fight by the Federal Government was always misconstrued for confrontation.
The Rivers State Governor made this known during a statewide broadcast on Friday, while also speaking on the effort of the state government towards eliminating COVID-19 from the state.
On the distribution of palliatives from the federal government, Wike said he rejected the over 1000 bags of rice because they were expired, adding that it was wrong for the Federal government to have asked Rivers State to go and take delivery of the trucks of rice in Calabar, the Cross River State capital.
He also stated that the disbursement of palliatives to states to curb the spread of the novel Coronavirus was selective and laced with bias.
Wike further berated the federal government’s swift response to Kano’s situation despite ignoring several earlier appeals from the Rivers State Government.
He noted that he was amazed that less than 48 hours after Kano State complained, the government intervened and gave them the needed support.
“What happened in Kano again tells you the inconsistencies and the kind of role the federal government plays. It is really unfortunate.
“When I said the federal government has not supported us, people want to bring down my head. Kano State Governor cried for help and in 48 hours, the president did a broadcast and provided support for the state.
“If they have responded to our request, we would have commended them. What crime have I committed. Is it that Kano state is more important than Rivers state or what?
“That is what happens. Is it that Rivers state is not part of Nigeria? There are those that are bigger than the country. There are also those they don’t see as part of Nigeria.
“They said we should go to Calabar and carry rice. Rice that is expired. How would they even ask us to go to Calabar? If you want to give us something, you bring it. We can’t go to Calabar. We know that our people are hungry, but hunger will not kill us,” he said.
Governor Wike also said the state will review its permit for the movement of oil workers because many oil companies have been flouting the state’s orders.
The Rivers State Governor, therefore, assured that his administration will continue to do its best to protect the people from COVID-19. https://dailypost.ng/2020/05/01/coronavirus-we-cant-accept-expired-rice-hunger-wont-kill-us-wike-tells-nigerian-government/amp/#click=https:///STKafblWQZ 134 Likes 14 Shares
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Family / Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Biancah(f): 6:59pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
ShenTeh:
The marriage didn't start like that.
Something must have pushed the man.
Besides all of these are allegations with no benefit of denial or acceptance by the accused.
We mend broken things, why throw away a yet to be broken home. The home is already broken, there is nothing to mend. The man can marry one of his side chick and continue beating and cheating on her. In most Nigerian marriage most men feel like they can cheat, beat and behave anyhow, so there is a 100% possiblity nothing pushed the man. The woman should leave with her life intact, there is nothing to mend! Marriage is not a do or die affair. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by Biancah(f): 6:28pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
ShenTeh:
I 'see' your sarcasm.
Marriage takes mutual respect. The traditional approach is that our women are often told to stoop to conquer, while the husband often came around. But I guess this message may not only be late for a sarcastic and bitter wife but for the redemption of a lost home with two innocent kids.
You can redeem your marriage if you humble yourself - see, people will tell you to not take sh!t, that be a woman, etc, but hey, it's your life. Report his misbehaviour to people he respects. They will call him to his senses.
Help him by not rubbing it in. Compliment that by being humble and putting in an effort to salvage what is left of your home. Check tour bitterness and angst. While I strongly kick against domestic violence, I suspect your acoustic tongue and disrespect is most probably the reason for the beating. Redeem yourself.
Everyone responds to love.
Good luck.
Na wa o, see advise. Let her be humble till he kills her, when he comes back after cheating she should tell him sweet words and pamper him. If it was your wife that is cheating, would you also take your advice ? You would remain humble right? 21 Likes |
Family / Re: Taking Care Of My Wife's Niece : Please Advise Me!! by Biancah(f): 7:46am On Apr 22, 2020 |
@ Conyema12 Come and update us, what happened to your niece ? Did you finally take her in or her other grandmother did ? |
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Family / Re: 7 Things To Do If Ur Hubby Cheat On U by Biancah(f): 1:30pm On Apr 11, 2020 |
jaksmillioniar: smiles na internet I cant be exchanging word with a jambite.if I decide to tell u bad words u will live nairaland.so keep running ur mouth Why the hell would I leave nl for you ? Which bad words would you tell me again ? I will end up in Shiloh or what ? 1 Like |
Family / Re: 7 Things To Do If Ur Hubby Cheat On U by Biancah(f): 1:16pm On Apr 11, 2020 |
jaksmillioniar: wen u get married den I will reply u. u no get sence in dis time pple died did English save anyone Hopefully I won't get married to an idiot with low IQ. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: 7 Things To Do If Ur Hubby Cheat On U by Biancah(f): 1:09pm On Apr 11, 2020 |
jaksmillioniar: take it or live it my dear u need wisdom You need the wisdom more and an English teacher ![lipsrsealed](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/lipsrsealed.png) 4 Likes |
Family / Re: 7 Things To Do If Ur Hubby Cheat On U by Biancah(f): 12:52pm On Apr 11, 2020 |
jaksmillioniar: 6.forgive him. most keep shouting divorce but if u marry another man and still face problems he will still cheat.will u keep jumping from marriage to marriage.d fact ur man cheat does not mean he does not love u.its just sex.d governor wife said it. if a girl like tacha or mercy naked d fact is 95 percent of men will cheat. but we still go back to our wife cos dey are a million times better Dan dose girl. is low self esteem DAT make a woman park out cos of DAT. 7. fight for ur marriage. ur hubby got a girlfriend DAT sex him well and 24 hours a day.why dont u do it better 25 hours a day.she cook good food why dont u cook better.u feel happy wen ur hubby comes back. The type of bullsh*t I read in nairaland eh.. 4 Likes 1 Share |