Celebrities / Re: Tuface Idibia Wants To Meet The Boy Who Did A Painting Of Him by Bisjosh(f): 6:50am On Nov 11, 2017 |
Nice gesture 2baba 1 Like |
Family / Re: Nigerian Soldier And Her Naval Officer Husband In Loved Up Photos by Bisjosh(f): 9:38pm On Nov 10, 2017 |
Is he allergic to smile? ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) 15 Likes 1 Share |
Phones / Re: What Feature Would You Like To See Introduced On Whatsapp by Bisjosh(f): 12:35pm On Nov 09, 2017 |
sinistermind:
Highlight the message, then go up to the message menu, you will see delete message it deletes on your phone but it doesn't delete at the receiver's end |
Phones / Re: What Feature Would You Like To See Introduced On Whatsapp by Bisjosh(f): 9:09am On Nov 09, 2017 |
sinistermind:
There already i didn't see it o please enlighten me |
Phones / Re: What Feature Would You Like To See Introduced On Whatsapp by Bisjosh(f): 8:08am On Nov 09, 2017 |
RETRACT ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) 3 Likes 1 Share |
Travel / Re: Lagos Ranked As The Second Cheapest City In The World For Expatriates (Photo) by Bisjosh(f): 8:47pm On Nov 07, 2017 |
I dey vex right now ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) |
Politics / Re: Stop Anointing Criminals - Obasanjo Warns Religious Leaders by Bisjosh(f): 4:21pm On Oct 29, 2017 |
ibkgab001: I'm angry right now
Please someone should tell the owner of this sure and his right hand moderator to remove I believe there is no other God but allah on my page U must have accepted that in order to comment on islam thread 2 Likes |
Health / Re: 8 Reasons To Stop Drinking Coke Every Day by Bisjosh(f): 2:41pm On Oct 29, 2017 |
How about Pepsi ![cool](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cool.png) 2 Likes |
Phones / Re: 9mobile Gains The Highest Number Of Ported Subscribers In September – NCC by Bisjosh(f): 7:56am On Oct 29, 2017 |
I dont believe this. This is a paid news 1 Like |
Business / Re: A Merchant Sings Yoruba Songs In Dubai For A Nigerian Woman (Photos, Video) by Bisjosh(f): 3:26pm On Oct 25, 2017 |
I remember that shop. when i traveled to Dubai last year june i was taken there. They sang wizkid songs and funny yoruba songs.
Lively guys |
Family / Re: I Beat My Wife. What Would You Have Done Differently In My Situation? by Bisjosh(f): 11:17pm On Oct 23, 2017 |
wrongchoice: COURTSHIP DAYS AND MY HATRED FOR WOMEN BEATERS During our courtship days I have always reiterated my stand on men that do beat their wife. I was of the opinion that they are not lesser than a beast. She is very quiet, she hardly finishes her words, and she was full of smile that my grandma named her “smiling smiling girl”. My family members were thanking God for me because of her gentle nature. She doesn’t have friends, she goes to church regularly. I went for her because I have seen a lot of unhappy homes and by all means I wanted to avoid such situation. Before her, I had seen many girls that I love and they equally love me too. I leave them immediately I see a sign of anger in them. So, I told her that all I wanted in my life was happiness and I will make sure I keep the home together and going smoothly in as much that happens. She has her trust issues which I thought they were necessary and not out of control (that was my greatest mistake), but aggressiveness and hatred ,I never had that thought a bit. She didn’t even look it.
MY FIRST SHOCKER After the introduction, she was eager for the wedding despite the fact that I hardly got employed in a small firm barely a year. We fixed the date and arrangements were going. 3 days before the wedding , I told my wife to-be that one of my friends promised to bring event ;ushers for our wedding just to add glamour to the day, she didn’t allow me to finish when she started shouting on top of her voice and with this kind of never seen before aggressiveness. I never saw such red eyes before in 2 years of our courtship and over 6 years as friends. She said my friends and I were bringing oloshos to sleep with for bash eve which I never even plan to have. Her argument wasn’t a concern but I never see her reacted that way. I cried and I knew I was in for a big trouble.
THE REAL SHOW
Fast forward to after wedding. To my surprise, before any argument she would hit me, sometimes slap just less than 2 months in the marriage. I discovered she has the strength of 3 men. We are talking about a lady that never misses any church program as a youth and when we moved to our new area , she became more popular than myself in the church. This went on for a while coupled with terrible issues that I would be taken one after the other.
THE DAY OF LESSON There was this afternoon that an argument ensue base on (what I will share latter) , she took out knife, I collected it from her, she brought out fork I collected it from her, she resulted to my belt and she started beating me with it ,I didn’t even struggle with her just like before. She took her shoe hitting it on my head ,I didn’t even move, I wasn’t even angry self. She bite me on my shoulder and thumb which nearly had that finger off if not for quick medical attention. At this point a question flashed through my mind, “would this be how my live would be going?”. This woman may even ask me to lay flat to receive some lashes if I didn’t make attempt to stop her. I concluded that I have to do something. Then without any iota of anger in me. I raised my hand up and gave her 2 thunderous slaps across her face. She opened her mouth for complete 5 minutes she couldn’t close it. I knew she would be thinking she has over stepped her boundary. She started shouting that I have killed her and all sorts. People that never had me speak in that street for good one year I stayed their plus close to a year she has spent with me were aghast. Since that day many things changed for the worse. Though she stopped hitting me after that, except sometimes when she would push me against the wall and i get some bruises. I later travelled home and my siblings were asking me if my hands were tied to my back while a woman was inflicting all these injuries on my body. They saw both the fresh ones and the old bruises. It was a very big issue that families, church members had to intervene. I can tell you since that day things had never remain the same again. It was the beginning of trouble and unhappy home.
My question is this? If you were in my position what would you have done differently?
you can check the previous post here https://www.nairaland.com/4126638/how-wife-been-terrorizing-me I beg u.....leave. My brother had exact same experience. They were married for 6 years and she didnt change. Pls leave...i know what im talking about. Marriage is not a do or die thing. Would have loved to send dm but cant. Lastly...pls leave that house for a while. Stay blessed 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Testimony Time!! Let's Share What God Has Done For Us This Week by Bisjosh(f): 7:49am On Oct 22, 2017 |
Thank God i was able to secure a better accomodation last week. ![cool](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cool.png) Im soo happy 1 Like |
Food / Re: Catfish Pepper Soup (point & Kill) by Bisjosh(f): 6:34pm On Oct 18, 2017 |
Prefer assorted meat psoup ![cool](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cool.png) 5 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Bolaji Amusan "Mr Latin" Celebrates His 50th Birthday Today by Bisjosh(f): 4:36pm On Oct 15, 2017 |
FisifunKododada: One of Nigeria's best. Him, Baba Suwe, Sam Loco Efe (RIP), Nkem Owoh, John Ibu etc. They will make you laugh till you forget all your problems. I dont think Ibu is funny 1 Like 1 Share |
Properties / Re: CHEAP AND AFFORDABLE FURNITURE by Bisjosh(f): 8:46am On Oct 15, 2017 |
You are good at what u do.
Keep up the good work |
Romance / Re: Lady Snubs Her Lover In Pre-Wedding Photo by Bisjosh(f): 2:54pm On Oct 14, 2017 |
ifeo: fine couple equals fine children Not always 2 Likes |
Sports / Re: Grayson-Onyeka Stephen Keshi: Keshi Jr & Girlfriend Welcome A Son by Bisjosh(f): 9:17am On Oct 14, 2017 |
Go and marry her jor! See his bear bear like ogbuefi! 12 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: “A Househelp Is Employed To Work Not To Go To School” - Lady On Twitter by Bisjosh(f): 11:03am On Oct 09, 2017 |
True sha....
But every house maid with its own agreement.
Some is money, some school others handiwork 3 Likes 1 Share |
Celebrities / Re: Woli Arole Meets Linda Ikeja (Photo) by Bisjosh(f): 10:44am On Oct 09, 2017 |
This Arole needs to take it easy with his smile. His lips are gigantic and it gives me a scare when he smiles ![cry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cry.gif) Dont quote me pls im still frightened ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) 52 Likes 5 Shares |
Celebrities / Re: Omoni Oboli, Uche Jombo, Chioma Akpotha And Toyin Abraham Wow In London by Bisjosh(f): 10:22am On Oct 09, 2017 |
Why that one dey form alhaja
So Toyin don dey bear Abraham abi? 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Korede Obasan Welcomes A Baby Boy (Photo) by Bisjosh(f): 10:18am On Oct 09, 2017 |
This guy can do mumu in movie ehn!
He gestures like a woman...hope hes truly the father
Congrats to him 3 Likes |
Career / Re: 7 Ways To Get Along Better With Your Coworkers by Bisjosh(f): 8:23am On Oct 09, 2017 |
No to office romance oooo Dont be too close to any of your colleagues Do not share your personal life at work Do not be an ass licker Stop being flirtatious (any woman/man u want to hug) If u aint called into a discussion don't contribute or poke nose Dont eat too much Flush after using the toilet If you must fart on your work station make sure no one is close ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) Use mouth spray before talking if you know your tongue gets stale easily. Always use a body cologne ![cool](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cool.png) 5 Likes |
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Politics / Re: Ayade, Lai Mohammed Commission First Decoder Manufacturing Plant In West Africa by Bisjosh(f): 9:15am On Oct 06, 2017 |
Hope its HD ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png) |
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Celebrities / Re: BBNaija Bally Celebrates His Birthday With Childhood Photo by Bisjosh(f): 11:05am On Oct 04, 2017 |
veekid: Oga Bally wey no Sabi flush ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Celebrities / Re: BBNaija Bally Celebrates His Birthday With Childhood Photo by Bisjosh(f): 11:04am On Oct 04, 2017 |
He has sleepy eyes ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) |
Celebrities / Re: Juliet Ibrahim And Mercy Johnson's Throwback Photo In 2009 Vs 2017 Photo by Bisjosh(f): 4:48pm On Sep 30, 2017 |
![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) good how mercy didnt change her skin color |
Career / Re: Welcome To My Office [RELOADED] by Bisjosh(f): 8:56am On Sep 26, 2017 |
mrphysics:
By 11 am you will wake up. 1-2pm lunch time, then you come back from lunch by 3pm, before you sit down to check your phone its past 4 and the day just ended.
Lol lol ![cheesy](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cheesy.png) |
Career / Re: Welcome To My Office [RELOADED] by Bisjosh(f): 8:17am On Sep 26, 2017 |
After loading myself with rice and pepsi this morn, i feel sleepy. ![angry](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/angry.png) |
Celebrities / Re: Photo Of Eniola Badmus And Tiwa Savage by Bisjosh(f): 9:51am On Sep 20, 2017 |
Wrong color of bag for outfit |
Crime / Re: Woman Stealing A Bag At RCCG Church In Lagos Caught (Photos, Video) by Bisjosh(f): 9:35am On Sep 20, 2017 |
This is really uncalled for |