How is this an achievement?

Tell them you'll use the money to be catering for their daughter. Marriage is a union of families, not a trade. Items you offer should be seen as gifts not payment.

Statutory marriage is even more recognised in the world now.

akinjojo1234:


Was the drugs also the cause of her breasts drying up like that

She's also a prostitute.

Cholls:
my brother you are not serious yourself...the only solution to his problem is to 兄弟他妈的你自己

女性は商品です。

trust me.

LastProphet:


What a dumb brain this one has, so women have no sexual urge? That's what you think because of what you hear other dumb men say on SM? Eya women will continue to scam this one for his money for life. So many dumb young boys nowadays, I really like the smartness of these our fish-brained ladies - they sold the lie they dont like sex and can only take money as persuasion and the dumbos called boys keep parting with their money while giving the women what they enjoy even more than the men. MEN ARE SUFFERING THE CULTURE THEY THEMSELVES SET UP WHICH SAYS THE MAN SHOULD DO THE TOASTING SO THE WOMEN TAKE ADVANTAGE OF YOU SINCE YOU ARE THE ONE THAT ASKED FIRST. In my university days had some sensible young men as course mates then - only few guys sent the ladies and by the time we had spent 4 years the ladies piped low and became very humble, just the way this lockdown is showing many of them pepper and they are now crying out to be sexed. Fooolish boys everywhere in this country, tufiakwa!

You sound like you want to cry or something. You must be the voice and champion of women worldwide. Congratulations.

At least the guys are not pretentious about their needs, even if they have to 'buy' it. That's why men are go-getters, whatever the cost. We don't wait to eat only free food like your type.

The lady is telling you they don't need sex or experience sexual urges as much as men, and you're here crying out that they do. If they keep denying their sexuality then men will keep treating them like sex objects and sex commodities. Did they send you to come defend them?

Whatever pleasures women feel during sex are the ones men give to them. Meaning, a woman's sexual experience depends entirely on a man. They're almost sexually dead on their own. How many women can boast of an orgasm? Because their bodies are not as sexually responsive as that of men.

Oga, men are highly sexual beings. Sexual gods. You can go and cry on that.

Because men are sex gods while you women are sex objects. You have very little or no sexual needs and only exist to satisfy men's sexual needs and carry their babies to continue their lineage.

Your only needs are money and food, and to satisfy a man whenever he needs you.

Imagine comparing yourselves to men and expecting men to become like you, when we already reside in an exulted, elevated plane.

In just one ejaculate a man's body releases enough sperms that can impregnate about 50million women. Some men can ejaculate over five times in a day. Imagine keeping all that force and energy contained in one body.

You are the ones that need to upgrade your sexual response and attitude. If men were like you mankind would have gone extinct by now.

Nonsense

unmask:
They learnt how to interact with men....The problem is most girls waiting for that special someone don't realise how important to start building relationships with the opposite sex from a young age.

Most girls that were free around guys get married faster. Free doesn't necessarily mean have sex with them

Just what I wanted to say.
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The so called runs girls know how to make a man feel relaxed and comfortable around them. They're go-getters, what people see as flirtatious. This doesn't necessarily mean being promiscuous.

The problem with the 'good girls' is that they're too discriminatory, choosy and strict. You must meet very high requirements before they even allow you come close to them. They tend to wait for a holy, perfect man to come beg their hand for marriage. You feel tensed and sinful when with them.

Honestly, most of the girls I've felt more relaxed and comfortable around are the free girls. They will so pamper you that you won't know when you fall in love and propose.

Unlike those other girls that will see you and be throwing away their face, because they believe that looking at or being free and making moves on guys means one is a sinner, or wayward.

No matter how bad you think someone may be, there are one to two qualities or tricks you can still pick from them, instead of condemning them completely.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Wow! That's big enough to make food go round this hunger season.

If you want it just say so. Sounds like your vj has not eaten belleful for a long time.

A man's body is designed to react and get stimulated at the sight of a woman's body. This natural reaction is what makes sexual intercourse possible. Two bodies working together to give each other pleasure.

Imagine being with a man, or married to one, whose body is not responsive to the sight of you. Sex and procreation will be practically impossible. Which means humanity will gradually go extinct. The other option is to resort to drugs or other unnatural stimulant.

And think of the pressure you're putting every virile men around you when you dress in an explicit and overly sensual manner. Don't be surprised if they all keep leering at you. It takes a hell lot of willpower for men to resist and suppress the pressure.

This body response is reflexive, natural and involuntary. Many will make sexual advances and propositions at you, or release the pressure with a mental or physical image of you at home. While others will keep fighting it off; but for how long before their resistance breaks down.

The advice to cover sensitive parts of your body is first to avoid inconveniencing and putting others under pressure, and for your own safety.

The man is aged already, let him rest in peace.

All men must die.

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The selfishness of the Nigerian government and politicians is sickening. Its only their lives that matter, while the rest of us are completely expendable, inconsequential.

You know your health facilities are below standard and yet never bothered to upgrade them, because you can easily fly yourselves out to enjoy the ones other responsible government established in their countries.

Imagine the millions of innocent Nigerians who've lost their lives due to the ineptitude of the government. COVID 19 is a lesson for all.

You've revealed your true nature already.

It is women that need marriage and are desperate for it, not men.

Women see marriage as a bed of roses, a place of eternal bliss. For most men it is a heavy load and a constraint.

Men were never made to be stuck with one woman for life. The ones that stay loyal are just enduring. One married man specifically confessed to me that, "many of us are not enjoying the marriage. We're just enduring it." Another advanced man that was with us immediately agreed with him.

That's why many married men still 'eat' outside and some marry several wives. While the majority prefer to keep baby mamas and retain their freedom and peace of mind.

Forget all those degree courses with big, sophisticated names. Youll either end up unemployed, underemployed, or 'over-employed' (good job, good pay maybe, but no single time for yourself or anyone. Your life is practically forfeight)

If you're killing yourself to get admission just forget it. If you're still in the early years of study just dump it. Go learn a technical or digital skill, or use those funds to start a business. You'll surely end up better off than your graduate mates. They will even be working for you.

With the present digital information age knowledge is within the reach of anyone anywhere, not restricted to university walls.

Universities are just money-making ventures for their owners. They don't care one bit about your future.

Phenomenal16:
..bla bla
Boom and he called himself a man

No relation to preceeding points

Phenomenal16:
...just like ur moniker name
Black indeed

Leave the moniker. That's not the issue here. Stop grasping at straws.

Phenomenal16:
U want my sympathy
I ain't giving it u

He didn't ask for your sympathy. Keep it.

Please come and borrow my phone and finish this. We have other things to do.

BestAccessories:


All the OP want from her is sex, just sex nothing else.

So if the girl didn't agree to it, what will happen?

What if, it is forced on her since the OP want nothing except sex from her.

He said he just wants sex and nothing else. That's clear enough. All that's left is for her to accept or reject. He said nothing about forcing her.

It seems you're on the conservative side.

Who says you must date or marry every attractive girl or guy you meet.

Some people hook up just to have their fun and pleasures with no strings attached or expectations. Or getting entangled in complicated relationships.

BestAccessories:


You actually need a psychological evaluation?

You are meeting someone for the FIRST TIME and ALL YOU WANT IS SEX?

Who does that?

Brother, make dem no OPEN RAPE CASE on your matter oooo

What if the girl agrees to it?

Must there be friendship, relationship and commitment?

Haven't you heard of hook ups, flings, friends with benefits?
Two mature adults just having their fun and pleasures with no strings attached or expectations. It's far less complicated.

Kimbrielle:

Says who?
Let us stop deceiving ourselves jare I have seen marriages that everybody has blessed yet the marriage failed.
Marriage wey go work go work.As long as the two primary parties of that marriage are in understanding the marriage will work.
The success of their marriage does not lie on parental blessings

One of the problems with us in Africa is we're too superstitious. People think there's a spiritual power in parental consent, and without it the marriage will not succeed.

Your parents role is to suggest, advise and help you to succeed.

He's the one that will live with the partner and the consequences, not the parents. Thats what makes him an adult.

Me that even recover from illness countless times without drinking a single tablet of medicine.

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But let's all be careful sha

MichaelSokoto:
nah die we dey so!

All die na die

The choice and decision is yours, your parents can only advice.

How are you learning the skills with your phone and what skills are in demand in your organization? Elucidate

M00N:


I honestly didn't have any I could give him because I suffer relapses myself that is why am here.

We're all struggling bro. I don't judge or condemn anyone. Just encourage and advise.

A man's body is literally a 24/7 running high-powered living sex machine. All that energy will be released one way or the other, voluntarily or involuntarily.

So what are you doing now as a solution, fornicating?

And was that the 'cure' you suggested to him?


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The Bible condemns uncleanness and impurities, which masturbation is, and other sexual sins also fall under.

The alternatives are to start chasing women around, or depending on a woman entirely for sexual satisfaction, and the attendant embarrassment, shaming, criminalization, expenses, exploitations, drama, hazards and manipulations involved.

Or keep fighting to tame your sexual desires, being a man with supercharged sexual energy in a sexually conservative society.

Choose your battle.