kandiikane:

@blood_shed.
But think about old age, I know now maybe you might be young and you don't want any woman stressing you but as you grow old you will want someone's company, you cannot come home to an empty house each day. Its a very lonely life.

I can hire a housekepper, preferrably 18-25 year old Brazilian. Much cheaper than a wife lol.

Seriously though, I think if people can't learn to live with themselves and love it, then living with others may not make them as happy as they think. If you can't find happiness being alone then nobody else can make you happy, just my opinion and as I've gotten older I've learned to love and appreciate my own company even more.
And marrying and having kids doesn't guarantee that you'll be taken care of when you get older. I know plenty of people who just stick their grandparents in retirement homes and forget them.
But even if I had kids, if I got older and they all grew up I'll just tell them to live their lives and enjoy themselves, that'll be their gift to me, knowing that they've grown up and made me proud, that's all I'd want for them. Their lives go on.

At the end of the day, you came to this world by yourself and that's exactly how you're gonna leave.

kandiikane:

^^Oh wow

why is that? Any that made you have these views?

That's life innit, I don't view things the way most people do.

Regarding marriage, I can't imagine waking up to the same woman all the time for the rest of my life. I can't stand living with somebody else, I'd rather come home to my own space, nobody there to judge or nag me, I'm just free to enjoy my own space.
And living with a woman is trouble because when $h!t jumps off, where am I to go? Not to mention that the fact that alot of laws out here are in favour of women especially in the whole marriage/divorce/family area.

And as for not having children, unlike most people, I don't underestimate how hard it is to raise children, and I don't have that kind of patience. Actually, I think in 2011, bringing a child into a world like this is a fate worse than death, an undeserved punishment.

kandiikane:

People like what who offered to cook for you?

So you will not let your wife cook for you because she is interested in you?

I said I don't trust people "like that" as in trust people easily, or at all actually. NOBODY!!

And here's the ting, I don't ever plan to get married, its very unlikely, not this day and age. Same for kids, and my views are very unlikely to change.

kandiikane:

^^hahhaaaha, I am sure no "bitc[i]h[/i]es" will be cooking for you either

That's aight though, because I CAN cook.

I don't trust women cooking for me besides relatives. One time last year I was in one girl's house and she offered to cook for me and I just left abruptly, she seemed interested in me too (no ego) but I didn't care, I don't trust people like that.

Yeah it was over the top, but boy,

Well, firstly, everybody should learn to cook for themselves, male or female.

I personally can cook, but I ain't cooking for no b!t<h.

Long distance relationships only work when you're banging other people.

BABE!:

What st[i]upid[/i] history!? I don't just accept any random fact(s), like some unintelligent people on here!--lol

I need proof(s). Your observation needs justification!  

History ko, Her story ni! mschewww

Are you serious?

Was Albert Einstein a woman, were the Wright Brothers women?

Actually, you prove me wrong, I could go on.

Bring some facts to the table, I wanna hear this,

BABE!:

Yes! For me to believe you, I need you to provide me  sources and statistics. They must be credible, by the way!  

Doesn't even have to go that far.

Just look at history, nuff said Makindwa.

BABE!:

cHEI! Another Alien!

@ Beejaei mscheeeeeeewwwwwwwwww

Am I lying?

The sexier a woman is, the dumber she is, generally.

Most of the "intelligent" women are either fat, ugly or both.

Like "reverend fathers" aren't humans?

Catholic priests indulge in these acts with altar boys all the time.

^Her>>>>>>>>>>>>All Nollywood actresses.

Nigerian women:

Rude, obnoxious, gold-diggers (well, most women are, but Naija women especially), aggressive, LOUD, confrontational, and definately not all what they think they are.
But I blame the men because they are too pu$$ified to check the women on their bull-ish.


However I haven't seen much of that behaviour from Fulani Women though, I dunno, alot of them seem to remember they are ladies.

It's bad, very bad.

And it's getting worse for the younger males coming up. Woman worship hasn't even peaked in Nigeria yet, but soon it will.

@OP

QUIT!!!!

If you stay with this broad then you're letting her know that you'll tolerate whatever other rubbish she has in store for you.

chiogo:

^^ Hehe, where else do people go to smoke and drink? ==> clubs, bars. .

@topic, umm I've seen grown women, mothers too back home who drink, mostly beer though. Smoking. . .maybe not.
Over here, anyone who parties(a lot) drinks. FACT. So, you'd have to go to such settings - parties, clubs, etc to see. But I'd say naija girls don't get piss-drunk as is the norm here, probably the culture thing. Some are just careful 'cause word gets around esp. in places with a high concentration of Nigerians.

Even in clubs and bars I've been to, I've never seen a Nigerian girl smoke, not once. I did take that into consideration you know, so don't insult me, please. Of course people drink at bars and clubs but I've never seen a Naija woman get absolutely wasted drunk before.

denzel2009:

Duh, Tonto Dike's oesophagus is like a coal chimney.

Really? Didn't even know she smoked.

I've never seen Nigerian girls smoke in person, only in movies/tv.

Smoking is freaking nasty though, I don't see why anybody does it at all. As for drinking, yeah, but I've never seen a Nigerian woman just go all out like some of the women over here.

I mean, there are enough things wrong with most of them already HAHAHAHA!!

You like women that smoke

That's the most unattractive thing a woman can do. smoking is just, URGH,

I don't know ANY Nigerian woman anywhere, be it in Nigeria, here (UK) or in America that smokes or drinks.

And that's probably the only good thing I see in Nigerian women generally.

It's stupid and people should learn to keep their mouths shut, plain and simple.

Is this a joke?

If you said this in person I'll beat some man into you.

xynerise:

By the power vested on me I hereby ban sexyshed and Dubyblood in my thread. So help me God.

OH PLEASE!

Don't watch me, watch your girl. Or is she there coaching you?

Alright, staying on topic, what have you done about this problem?

SexyDuby:

@Blood shed, Dats ok plz! Enuf of your insults plz  

Don't disrespect then, especially for no reason.

God help you if you're like this in real life.

Inked_Nerd:

^^^ You know, I was wondering why you two were arguing because from what I read I could have sworn you agreed with her.

I wonder, I think she's bipolar or something.

How can someone agree with you and you just turn on them? lol

I was agreeing with you then you show me attitude, I just had to check you there.

SexyDuby:

In dis case where d guy's been warning her several times & she still proves nothing can happen, den d guy shuld teach d babe a lesson.
If your man's d weak type, n confesses dat u shuld plz stop bringing your over bottomed friends 2 come tempt him, i feel d babe shuld respect d guy enuf n control her friends or better still stop dem from coming over.
@Blood shed, get dis fact into your skull as im not having any conflict wit anyone.
D girl shuld also put herself in d guy's shoes too naaaaa. HABA!

Yo, chill the fV<K out.

I didn't say you were, I was just pointing out the fact that it's rare that I hear any woman take your stance when issues like this are brought up.

FV<K outta here with that attitude, kmt.

SexyDuby:

Age's nothing but a number. Does she need 2 be told before she stops bringing dose bi*Ch*s into her man's way. she sure ready 2 face d damn consequences. so  

Are you still in your teens? Are you igbo? Like, what's your deal? LOL I'm curious.

You can't be a female because I've never heard any woman come down on another woman like this, unless it's a conflict between women. But not in scenarios like this. This is the kind of tone I hear when women organise a posse to get back at the so-called cheating dog ex-boyfriend.

SexyDuby:

Wonder why some women like playing with FIRE, pscheeeew. Your woman needs 2 be taught a HARD LESSON!

A woman holding another woman accountable?

How old are you?

Chill fam she's young, I swear she's like 16

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