slimyem:

@bloodshed,i do have a dico and it tells me behaviour is psychological,a specific response to a specific stimuli or the action,reaction or functioning of a system under normal or specified circumstances.
Ever hear the phrases*behaving in character*or*behaving out of character*?
Your action out of or in character is still your behaviour.i still insist you cannot divorce those two words.take or leave it!

WOOOOSH!!!

BCuZiMBlaCk:

tot as much.

eh?

slimyem:

stop mudging both words up.you cannot totally divorce behaviour from character.
Your character reflects your behavior and vice-versa that is if you choose to separate them.anyone can act deceptively if the situation calls for it but it doesnt mean they lack character or are not well-behaved or whatever you call it.

Get a dictionary before you come this way.

Actually you can seperate character from behaviour.

For example, the laws regulate peoples' behaviour, such as enforcing punishments for robbery and murder. But even that doesn't stop many people commiting such offences, their bad character encourages them to be smarter about it.

Again, people might behave "good" because of fear of punishment, i.e. jail or any other such repercussions and everything that comes along with it.

But they show their real character by exhibiting behavior like stabbing someone in the back (literally and figuritavely), stepping on peoples' toes to get a head, or taking advantage of people if they know they can get away with it and there's something in it for them.


And what's funny is, for example, Nigeria is arguably the most religious country in the world, on top of that they have very HARSH and excessive punishments for crimes, right?!
So if you have to worry about such punishments for such actions, and on top of that, the fear of Hell instilled in most people there, one would assume that Nigeria would not be as corrupt and violent. But that doesn't stop Nigeria from being the most corrupted country (arguably) and that doesn't stop people from stealing and killing each other over there like it's nothing.

I always laugh when I see these women in "abusive" relationships, always defending and loving the men who whoop their a$$e$ and mop the floor with them.

And people always try to justify this by saying "oh, love is blind" and any other excuse of the sort.

I'm not an abusive person but towards females I'm very unreliable, dismissive, not very open, and often ignore them, and that's what drives them NUTS. They keep coming back.

Yes, most women have this backwards mentality, but as long as I get what I need I'm out, since I'm never looking for a relationship/marriage/starting a family etc.

slimyem:

do you mind explaining the difference between behavior and character please?

Your behaviour refers to your actions while, your character refers to the person you REALLY are on the inside.

People behave "good" because they fear reprecussions for their bad actions (which reflect their TRUE nature), but you see their (lack of) character in certain actions they take, i.e. getting over on somebody and doing wrong if they know they can get away with it.

There's no such thing as a "good" girl/woman.

Maybe in behaviour but not character, which matters more IMO.

Didn't really turn to my parents for anything regarding the opposite sex.

Never have/ Never will.

1970/80's Nigeria is very different to London 2011 and beyond.

I CAN.

I just can't/won't keep her. To keep a woman you have to spend money, they are essentially pro$t!tute$.

So I say to hell with that, my money is more important.

Yes they are.

Let them be though, women don't need men, right?! And Black women, including Naija women, bang the feminist drum the hardest.

Yes, when dealing with white women, their attitude seems to be a little more reasonable on the surface at least.

But the thing is, white guys know how to grade h0£s properly. FOr example, if you're fat, you'll never be considered top-notch. EVER! If you're a single mother or over 30 years old, the same thing.

But African/Black put the most useless women on a peddlestool, and tell them that they deserve better, then cry about how much attitude they have and struggle to deal with their enormous sense of entitlement.

LMAO the funny thing is, women who don't stay in shape, have bad hygiene in all areas, and bad attitudes seem to think that a weave would somehow magically overcompensate for all that.

[i]THEIR [/i]hair??

lailaiwala:

That cuz you're a child-molester.

WOW, you thought that up all by yourself?? You sir are a funny guy.

LMAO

This sounds like some Boule initiation type stuff.

If you stay involved with her, then as long as you keep posting here I'm gonna bully you over and over again until you leave her.

She outright disrespected you. If you tolerate that then Imma do the same.

Over 18 and still a virgin?

In 2011 there are hardly girls under 15 years old who are still virgins.

Sad times.

Never.

Stay AWAY from women with kids, she already made one mistake, don't be the next.

And don't bother raising her child just because you wanan get some. Because no good deed goes unpunished.

Yes there have been some girls who I woulda loved to pipe at the workplace, and many of them want some of this as well .

But I resist their advances, avoid them like the plague. My money is more important.

Kill her.

I swear there are ways you could find peoples' whereabouts on the internet.