sprayer:
...REAL LIFE EXPERIENCE AND PERSONAL TESTIMONY:
No doubt, a lot of people are going to find your contribution on this revealing thread highly insightful, especially for various Incubi and Succubi victims out there who have been suffering in silence, without knowing what is eating them or how to get a solution. This is going to be comforting for them because now, they know with your true life experience, that they are not alone.

Likewise, those members of the public who feel we have been making these things up, now that there is a contribution from an actual incubus dream-sex attack, should begin to have a clearer view of what we are talking about here on this thread and know that these things (demons) are very real and they affect our lives to no end, if we don't set limits and take control....

I actually came here to delete my post, lol. You were too quick for me. I checked the dates, and thought no one would respond so quickly. I guess I'll leave it up for people read through, since you responded so thoroughly.

I have been having issues (as everyone can see, lol). I prayed for guidance, and help, and I got it. Obviously my life isn't going to change a complete 180 in one day, but I already feel so much better.

The reason I was going to delete this... I was praying, asking God for forgiveness of all my sins (listing every single one I thought of and asking to think of more from God, and that took about if not exactly 3 days, usually at night), fasting some days when I was led to, praying at night, and then, commanding any demons that had no hold over me (because of confessed and forgiven sins), to go to Jesus Christ's feet for him to judge. It's called deliverance if anyone has never heard of it, there are lots of books on the subject, like Charles Kraft's books. Jesus sent us to cast out demons in His name, and I did. I feel so much better today.

After all that, and feeling closer to God, I decided to ask Him for an answer, for discernment, and asked if there are things like spirit husbands, and I got the answer "no". So I believe the demons are really just masquerading as spirit husbands, etc, playing on fear and doing things that look like what people call spirit husband type stuff. I noticed some of the prayers for it didn't mention forgiving any other sins, and I believe it's to keep people from focusing on that aspect, and not dealing with their own sin elsewhere in their lives.

It's obvious demons can cause problems in people's lives, and they love to lie, and they love to keep people from the truth.

I would highly suggest that if someone is having issues as these to look into deliverance. Even if you don't believe me, that spirit husbands are not real, do it alongside the spirit husband prayers and ask God for discernment.

It all starts with really saying you're sorry and asking for forgiveness for your sins. Truly repenting of them. That's always the best way to come to God. It takes away the devil's foothold in your life. The demons may try to stay (even afterwards), but I also prayed this:

"If there are any demons here, who have no foothold due to confessed sins, be bound together to the highest demon and I command you to go to Jesus Christ's feet, I compel it in the name of Jesus Christ and the blood He shed on the cross to forgive our sins. If you do not leave, I ask God to fill me with Holy fire and the blood of Jesus Christ and I ask for the Holy Spirit to kill you, to send you to the final death. Leave now for Jesus, or die in the final death in Jesus Christ's name I pray."

Remember, it's not just a threat, and some may choose to die the final death. I guess it's their pride. Pride always seems to be their undoing.

I would suggest lying down in a bed, in silence, alone before doing that, asking God for guidance as you go. And breathe, they like to leave the body through air mostly, such as coughing, but it can be different for them all. Remember, that fasting may be required for this, as Jesus said so:

Mark 9:25 When Jesus saw that the people came running together, he rebuked the foul spirit, saying unto him, Thou dumb and deaf spirit, I charge thee, come out of him, and enter no more into him. 26 And the spirit cried, and rent him sore, and came out of him: and he was as one dead; insomuch that many said, He is dead. 27 But Jesus took him by the hand, and lifted him up; and he arose. 28And when he was come into the house, his disciples asked him privately, Why could not we cast him out? 29 And he said unto them, This kind can come forth by nothing, but by prayer and fasting.

God bless you all who come here looking for answers. I hope this helps someone.

sprayer:
SWEET SEX IN DREAM, SOUR LIFE IN REALITY

THE SOLUTION:
The Incubus may appear to be stubborn, but with persistence in prayers and following the steps outlined below, he is sure to leave you and never return to disturb your peace and joy in your relationships, and of course, a happy marriage.

1. To start with, do not sleep naked or in colored clothes anymore. Sew a white night dress and cover yourself with a white wrapper/bed-spread/blanket whenever you go to bed.

2. Any time you make love with your human husband/man, take a shower before going to bed. The scent of semen (SPERM) attracts the Incubus or Succubus - the female demon.

3. Get some Sea water, recite Psalm 24 from the Holy Bible into it. It says, 'The earth is the Lord's and the fullness thereof', pray into it asking God who owns the entire earth and everything in it to come into your home, cleanse it and dislodge any evil spirits sharing your home and bed with you.
In the prayer, make sure you renounce your connection with the Incubus family. Declare to the Incubus you don't want him in your life anymore and that he should allow you to live your natural life.
After the prayer, sprinkle the sea water (now prayer water) all around your home (both within and outside) to cleanse your place of abode spiritually and that shall mark a new beginning for you, devoid of unwanted spiritual interference in your life and relationships.

4. Stop eating groundnut temporarily, especially the one still in the pod, if you are pregnant.

5.Anytime you are pregnant, avoid going to the village or announcing to everyone you are pregnant. If possible, conceal the news from distant relatives and even close relatives by changing location until you are delivered of the babies.
This is because evil people or enemies can invoke an Incubus against you to attack you while you are asleep and such an attack usually results in miscarriage.
By the way, please note that even if you've never had anything to do with an Incubus before, enemies can invoke it against you just because they want to create problems for you in your journey through life. So, pray harder, this is no joke.

6. Get closer to God, serve Him diligently, never leaving His presence for too long.
Apart from going to church regularly, set aside a section, no matter how small, in your apartment for focused praying.
A table and a candle-stand is enough (to set as an Alter to God).
You need to be able to 'communicate' with your creator even in the privacy of your home. You will be amazed at what you will achieve getting closer to God by observing
even as little as 10 minutes meditative quiet times at your praying table once every night before going to bed or early in the morning when you get out of bed.

7. On your praying table, let a white candle be lit after your nightly prayers for God's Angels of light to guard you through the night against all evil attacks either from
satanic humans (who may want to invoke Incubus or other bad spirits against you) or demons ( who choose of their own volition to come after you for their own wicked and selfish interests).

8. Make sure you observe your dreams and ask for their meanings; God will be talking to you in your dreams, take note.
You can contact me with details of your dreams for full analysis and meanings if you don't understand them.

First, I wouldn't call it "sweet sex" in dreams. When I was in college, I started having "nightmares" not the kind most people think of, but the kind that paralyzes you. I believe they started happening after I met my fiance, because I remember telling him about them. He said to say a prayer, I've memorized and used it during the day, but I found that saying "Jesus Christ" (asking for help, not as a swear) in these nightmares, I would wake up. I would have prayed, Jesus Christ help me, but I woke up beforehand. I still have some, they make it so I can't talk sometimes, sometimes I'll stutter, and get it out, others I have to pray in my head, then pray outloud, then I wake up.

It's been about 10+ years now, but I wonder if I wasn't being attacked in dreams I didn't know about/realize beforehand. Things just kept happening, that keep us apart and unable to marry. This is all sounding like my life. I only learned of the term and this whole thing this week. I had looked up succubus/incubus back when I started having these nightmares, oh how I wish I had seen this post back then!!!

I'm interested in what you wrote about your "solutions". First, I think you should list, renouncing all unGodly soulties, as though the bible mentions the fallen angels as taking humans as their wives resulting in Nephilim, it is unHoly. Species are not allowed to mate with other species, and in Heaven, there is no marriage, so angels are not supposed to marry. Renounce the marriage, and ask for all the evil spirit children to be killed/aborted. Forgive everyone in your life (including yourself) for any grudges or high expectations that weren't met. Ask for forgiveness for your sins and pray regularly (like the Our Father). I've been trying to do this, over and over. I feel like everytime I go to sleep, there are evil spirits who want to get in.

1) Why do you say sleep in white? I'm curious as to why. I am not saying I don't agree, by the way. The way I was led to sleeping in dark clothing recently, almost all black, makes me think there's something to this. I will definitely find something else to sleep in tonight.

3) Why sea water instead of Holy Water? Here's some good prayers for water: http://www.traditionalcatholicpriest.com/2013/04/25/traditional-holy-water/

4) "Stop eating groundnut temporarily, especially the one still in the pod, if you are pregnant." - Why again? I did read a story about a woman who had demon babies aborted through an egg: http://www.deliveranceplace.com/stronghold.html

I'm only curious, my period has disappeared for over a year, and like I said this is all too similar, for me to ignore.

I pray constantly. I thank God for learning about this after so long of having no idea why everything was going wrong like this. God bless you all who are having this issue, and I pray those who don't know about it learn of it somehow. Hopefully these references about "spirit husbands" and their effects will become higher on search engines for people searching for "night terrors" or "night paralysis" or "nightmares" or incubus and succubi, etc.

I hope to be delivered from all evil and get through this. I would really love to get past this!

I just found this list of prayers to help in divorcing from them completely, check them out: http://www.prayersfire.com/dealing-with-spirit-wives-and-spirit-husbands/