hey gurl, ive been in those shoes, u shuld know theres nothing new under the sun, this is how my experience went, each time we had to meet, it was quiet and boring, even i felt it. at first i enjoyed the silence cos i thot" well, he aint complaining so no sweat" but i bgan to get fed up to even to the extent that when he called, i wud feel slummy to even pick up his call nonetheless talking, it was that grumpy!
BUT,
I TOLD MYSELF, are u ready to loose this guy, NO!
Are u bored and tired and need to make change, YES!
thats how i realized that i wasnt goin to let mere timidness break us apart, and u know what,,,,, we are still together stronger than ever, its been 8months now and no crack. HOW?
i called him and we went swiming, parting and lunch, i figured out, if we both cant talk especially me, then we shud show it, and every outing, we ended up laffing out loud. so jst ask him out for fun. go hang out. and avoid quiet areas, u'll only end up making out and not "knowing him intemately" talking is a powerful aid of love, ive been there av done that, good luck, and hey, dont date him cuz of money or how rich he is or wot car he rides in and wot pef. or watch he wears, u only date and love someone for his simplicity and his ambitions, remember, jst because he aint driving a posh now or an escalade dont mean he wount in some couple of years, check him awt and see if he has the future in his hands, be real,,, be urself. if words aint comming outta ur mouth, dont force 'em. cos if u do, u may end up saying the wrong thing, it happnd to moi! cheers,

loved the contributions, well, y'all shudnt jst heap it on us gurls, i gat a boifrend who cant kiss, im pissed and confused of how to tell em. anyone out there with suggestions shud holla bk o! i like 'em but when the kissing part comes along, am like ' gooooooosssssh, stop pulling m dammn tongue!" he is always like biting and sucking me out, i need to catch me breath man! clues pls, b4 i dith 'em off. contact me: saxypit@yahoo.com, HOLLA!