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Travel / Ban On GRE And TOFEL, How True Is This. by Bombaybombay: 8:19am On Nov 11, 2013 |
Some days back i heard visa lotteries has been banned that i can deal with. But what is this am hearing about GRE and tofel. Does this automatically means no more masters or Phd in the US? So dis means our only hope is the B1 and B2 class visa (visitors and tourist visa) or has that also been banned. Sighs |
Nairaland / General / Re: How Many Faces Did You See by Bombaybombay: 8:10am On Nov 11, 2013 |
Chillisauce:Lmao u r d one who needs d eye check up cos d perrson is standing on a face |
Family / Re: How Should I Handle My Almost Cheating Patner by Bombaybombay: 12:49pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
^ u are a home destroyer. 1 Like |
Family / Re: Woman!!!!!! by Bombaybombay: 12:46pm On Oct 26, 2013 |
Using my wife's handle to post. So whats up with me that goes to the market,come back and cook 3 different soups? All in d name of trying nt to put mada under 2 much stress when there is jo nanny yet. See people, i also do part of what is assigned to madam, if i dont do others, must it be a reason for complaints to be brought up? "Mr factright |
Family / Re: Woman!!!!!! by Bombaybombay: 9:42pm On Oct 21, 2013 |
[quote author=dominique]Madam Bombay, You need to find a way to get it into your husband's thick skull that you can't do this alone. You're not a robot abeg. You made this baby together, you're building your home together, then why does it have to be you to do all the house work then look after baby? What manner of heartlessness is that? There are some habits one ought to drop once (s)he becomes a parent, smoking is one of them. So I can only imagine what manner of person goes smoking with friends instead of spending quality time with his family. Since you said you told him and he refused to listen, find a way to make him understand you're not a wife/mum/maid/chef all rolled in one even if it means going on strike. [/ quote] Lol @ strike |
Family / Re: Woman!!!!!! by Bombaybombay: 3:02pm On Oct 21, 2013 |
bukatyne:Lol cos its not awesome. Irony of life |
Family / Re: Woman!!!!!! by Bombaybombay: 2:11pm On Oct 21, 2013 |
Ujujoan: Why do I have a feeling that Mr & Mrs Bombaybombay = Mr & Mrs Jeffizy . . . .Lost. Who is jeffizy |
Family / Re: Woman!!!!!! by Bombaybombay: 11:22am On Oct 21, 2013 |
bellong: @Op,Actually considering my last thread, its bin resolved and forgotten, hubby has really changed when it comes to our communication. Thanks to u all 4 ur contributions. It really helped us. |
Family / Re: Woman!!!!!! by Bombaybombay: 11:08am On Oct 21, 2013 |
Phema: People don't understand. The OP is using this medium to talk to her hubby. He is a very active nairalander.Lol @ he is a very active nairalander |
Family / Re: Woman!!!!!! by Bombaybombay: 11:03am On Oct 21, 2013 |
[quote author=Ennyhollar]It's our deity we have to do it... To be a mother is not easy at all[/quote Oh dear op i knew some one like me will be here somewhere. Smiles. Data d truth its just motherhood, eveb if hubby helps out its just motherhood to play those roles, you know even when i want ro forcefully leave my baby with him, i just still feel restless, checking on them all d time to make sure he hasnt given her something she allergic to. Eventhough am stressed i always still find myself doing it. |
Family / Re: Woman!!!!!! by Bombaybombay: 7:56am On Oct 21, 2013 |
chaircover: How old is your baby?Please dont get me wrong, i didnt post on NL cos am in search of solutions, u know whenever i raise this issue with hubby he says its my job to do them so i should stop complaining, bin dat my marriage is fresh and i was brought up with maids am trying to live with it, am trying to get used to it, i only posted ere cos i bliv there is a mother and wife somewhere who lives like this and would probably encourage me to live with it. Cos me for one am beginning to wonder why women are assigned to sooooo many roles in the home and we also work jobs like the men. |
Family / Re: Woman!!!!!! by Bombaybombay: 12:07am On Oct 21, 2013 |
kulyie: Mrs please live with your decisions and stop whinning.you made a choice to be married so you have to live up to the responsibilities of been married and carry the 'baggages' that comes with it like the afore mentioned.Does that look like whinning to you, i must say you are a guy so i dont expect u to understand |
Family / Re: Woman!!!!!! by Bombaybombay: 10:46pm On Oct 20, 2013 |
samyan12: @op, pls stop trying to be superwoman, if u need help ask for it. All these "dare not do this, dare not do that". U are just sentencing yourself to a lifetime of servitude and depression.Lmao. What makes u think i havent, i didnt get what i wish for inreturn. Am still hoping i would find a way to pass my message across. |
Family / Re: Woman!!!!!! by Bombaybombay: 10:41pm On Oct 20, 2013 |
Efemena_xy:My sister i totally understand u, nd i av but it didnt get me anywhere. I have given up my prayer is d grace not to breakdown |
Family / Woman!!!!!! by Bombaybombay: 9:54pm On Oct 20, 2013 |
Not complaining, just thinking aloud. Sat down this afternoon after a long day of working domestically and career wise, its 9pm now, though really tired but still on duty cos i dare not close my eyes until my baby does, hubby is out hanging out with his friends as usual.. (How lucky he is) no baby worries. Women,sometimes i dont know if its okay to be grumpy, sad, tired and kinda aggressive at hubby, cos sometimes am unconcious about it, and i just find myself doing it, cos its either d baby is crying for attention or food or i have to change diapers, or shez sick and i have to force her to use her drugs cos she hates drugs and manytimes spills it all over or vomits it, hubby's food must be ready, d house must be clean all the time so d baby wont pick up dirts into her mouth, To mention but a few. Sometimes i wish hubby would just say sleep let me change her diaper for you or let me have her bath for you, or let me mk her food for you or let me stay awake all night 2nite to feed her.LOL(in my dreams i guess). Note that am happy being a woman cos its awesome, but sometimes am just REALLY stressed and i cry to make myself happy Women, do u sometimes av questions like these running tru ur mind. If i can just go on vac for just one day. I know. A wise woman dares not think that way. But i think its allowed to be tot, its when its executed there is a problem. I was running a class this afternon and hubby helps me baby seat at this times, i heard my baby cry and i went into the room and found hubby sleeping, smh and lol, while the baby needed attention, i had to back her tru d remaining session of my class eventhough inconvinient, just thinking can a WOman dare sleep while ur baby is awake. And these days to take a maid u need God's direction so u wont get a maid that will put u in trouble, or has a bad spirit, or a maid that will treat your baby bad wen u r not around. if u know wat i mean. Sometimes i get so bored dat i dont wanna watch tv, or read my bible, but i probably wanna just gist with hubby, but u dare not stop them when its time to hang out with the men and Woman cant go with him, cos its a smoking environ and the baby is still too young to go to such environs. Even if mother in law comes would she stay with me forever. Sighs. Being a woman is Awesssome!!! Guess this is a Woman world. God bless us Women, and give us strength to fordge ahead nd love nd live with what we cannot change. Amen. 1 Like |
Family / Re: How Should I Handle My Almost Cheating Patner by Bombaybombay: 7:43am On Oct 14, 2013 |
thorpido: Of course we love.At least you have reasons to love your wife. I am God fearing too i have a job, and i make him happy always. All i want is for him to love, win his love at least for once |
Family / Re: How Should I Handle My Almost Cheating Patner by Bombaybombay: 4:03pm On Oct 13, 2013 |
andromida:This i like thank u ma/ sir |
Family / Re: How Should I Handle My Almost Cheating Patner by Bombaybombay: 3:31pm On Oct 13, 2013 |
Nashville:If i tell u his mum is here now, and guess what she couldnt help. |
Family / Re: How Should I Handle My Almost Cheating Patner by Bombaybombay: 3:13pm On Oct 13, 2013 |
Nashville: Sorry to hear about your issues but you said you rushed into marriage how? Was it that you didnt know him or you kinda trapped him with pregnancy? I am just trying to understand how your courtship was like and if he you had to fight to marry him.Am not dependent on him all around cos i work. I got pregnant b4 we got married cos he asked me to sir, not becos i saw that he loved me. He was really nice to me though an dat was all. But he is nice to everybody(Sad to hear but true). Now sir/ma i dont know if urs becos i got preggy he married me though thats how i see things now though. And i av no where to go back to cos my dad will nucely shut his door on me, and dats all i have |
Family / Re: How Should I Handle My Almost Cheating Patner by Bombaybombay: 3:06pm On Oct 13, 2013 |
Gaggi: Your writing is poor. Most people read fantastic lying tales of marriage on NL and d next thing they start talking of how it is better to be single and such nonsense.I was crying while writing so ignore d mistakes. |
Family / Re: How Should I Handle My Almost Cheating Patner by Bombaybombay: 3:05pm On Oct 13, 2013 |
chaircover: Its one of two things . . .Either He is not in love with you and therefore doesnt care if your feelings are hurt. (You say that you rushed into marriage with him and you have a baby for him. Maybe you were/are not be his first choice.Ofcourse i work. I do all. But its hard to make him sorry. |
Family / Re: How Should I Handle My Almost Cheating Patner by Bombaybombay: 2:56pm On Oct 13, 2013 |
swtchicgurl:Yea ma i am, and i pray, wake up at night sometimes to pray for my home |
Family / How Should I Handle My Almost Cheating Patner by Bombaybombay: 11:47am On Oct 13, 2013 |
Many times writing helps calm my spirit down. I am sad, heartbroken and unhappy. Here is why. I picked his phone dis morning,i do once a while. And i saw his chat with dis gurl. Dis gurl's chat i av always followed up cos i wasnt sure they r just friends. Its either he is asking her to call him, or asking really deep questions of eachother. Now 2day, i saw him saying he misses her but hard to say, or he wants to see her nd d worse, "my P is doing geezgeez as am chatting with you". I tried to confront him and ask him what kind of chat that was eventhough am nt sure it was d right thing to do. B4 i knee it he has twisted everything b4 me. Saying did i catch him cheating. Dat i dont av a point. And i rem d last time i saw his chat with this i asked him y they where dat close, he said shez his padi. He is ere acting as if he did nutting wrong nt a single word of apology, he isnt sober. Am shedding tears nw nt even becos of what he did cos i know dats just a tip of d iceberg. But am sad now cos of d way am bin ignored by him. This same man i make love to like a LovePeddler just to keep him. I do all, i submit. Anyone would advice me not to leave my marriage cos of this, but right now i dont feel respectedaor loved, instead bin apologised to am blamed for picking his phone. How would i pass my message across that am sad, i av cried in front of him he ignored me bluntly. He knows am gulllible, he knows even if i pack out i av no where to go. Is dat y i get treated dis way. I was hurt nd i snapped at him , is dat y i dnt deserve anytin. Anyone will say dont leave ur house for another woman to come in is it not better to be a single mum without a man to stress ur life. Single girls dis institution called marriage can be d worse night mare once u rush into it like i did, cos i loved him and i tot he did too |
Events / Re: Learn Small Chops Cocktail & Barbecues.#5,000 In Lagos.15th & 16th Oct. 2013. by Bombaybombay: 5:22pm On Oct 12, 2013 |
Oblajude: For those people that missed our last training,another great opportunity is available for u. Learn Cocktails,Small Chops & Barbecues with just #5,000.Please i need more details on what this trainning entails |
Events / Need Details On Rentals Around Ikj And Maryland Asap by Bombaybombay: 5:20pm On Oct 12, 2013 |
Any clues on where i can rent chapman mugs and how much it will cost |
Family / Re: Should Married Men Spend Or Give Money To Single Ladies by Bombaybombay: 5:01pm On Oct 12, 2013 |
Emmyk: Sure.Okay. Very well understood |
Romance / Re: I’m Pregnant For My Cousin Again, After 2 Abortions by Bombaybombay: 8:06pm On Oct 11, 2013 |
festivity123: how can u be sleeping wit ur cousine,is an abomination,u have to let ur parents knw abt it and face d shame instead of abortion then die and go to hell.Y would u ask her to tell her parents. U r wicked. Let het abort again, die and go to hell. I think dats a better idea |
Romance / Re: I’m Pregnant For My Cousin Again, After 2 Abortions by Bombaybombay: 8:04pm On Oct 11, 2013 |
silverdam:U r finished!!! |
Family / Should Married Men Spend Or Give Money To Single Ladies by Bombaybombay: 8:01pm On Oct 11, 2013 |
Is it okay for a married man to give a single girl who happened to be his friend money. Or is it okay for a single lady to ask a married man for money. Eventhough they are friends. |
Romance / Re: Wat Does This Mean? by Bombaybombay: 11:50am On Oct 10, 2013 |
masonkz:Smiles. Thanks y'all |
Romance / Re: Wat Does This Mean? by Bombaybombay: 11:09am On Oct 10, 2013 |
Jamey Maxwell: LolU people r sure good at scaring d 'shit' out of me. Let me put wat i saw in his own words "me i no go nack you apako, b4 you become bad tackle". He likes to rhyme with words though. |
Romance / Wat Does This Mean? by Bombaybombay: 5:11am On Oct 10, 2013 |
I saw this statement on my husband's bbm status."make i nac you apako" And i asked wat it meant. He said it meant "to scope" is it true or are there other definitions to this word? |
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