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Family / Re: I Saw A Dead Family Friend Two Years Later by bonario1: 12:43pm On Oct 29, 2022
My mom once told me she knew someone who was dead from her home town and the person came to bought something from her and immediately she recongnised the person the person got angry and was restless demands for his change and immediately he left she felt cold.

My friend once told me he had an uncle who was late but kept sending food stuffs and money to his mother until his mother summoned their family members to go and look for him since then he has stopped sending anything to his mother.

My mother inlaw said she knew someone from their home town who she met in another location and she gave her somethings to help her delivered to her family not knowing she was dead until she got back to the village to deliver the item.


Onetenth:
I have never believed in reincarnation but my eyes did saw one yesterday

Here's the story:

Year 2020, I think around may according to his parents because I can't recollect, this neighbor of ours and close friend to my sibling was into cultism.
There's was a cult clash at ikorodu that year and he lost his life, I wasn't told I was there life when police released his corpse to his parents and I was even part of those who digged the grave he was buried. Two years ago oo..


Now, this is year 2022, I saw this boy at orile, he wanted to board the bus I was in with my girlfriend. Immediately we both saw each other I wanted to scream but I couldn't I don't know how. But everyone in the bus saw my reaction, this boy disappeared on that spot.

This isn't a made up story, if there's any nairalander at orile bustop around that time will testify to this.

Omo! I still can't believe what I saw, I cried till I got home, my girlfriend was shocked and speechless as well. How did he do that? How did he disappear in midst of people? Why is he not dead? There's obviously something spiritual about this that I'm not told.

His mom has been hospitalized since we got home and I explained everything that happened. He was her only child. This is so disheartening and scary as well


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Properties / Re: Agents And Landlords Exploit House Seekers In Lagos by bonario1: 12:04pm On Aug 27, 2021
Yes ooo building materials are very expensive now even with workmanship and some tenant after getting an apartment they failed to pay the landlord as the due date even owning rent for more than a year hence, it get the landlord furstrated. some landlord has the property as their only source of income and some tenant are so wicked.

Same here. And to even talk about the cost of materials these days, it's crazy. They won't understand until it's their time to build theirs.[/quote]
Properties / Re: Agents And Landlords Exploit House Seekers In Lagos by bonario1: 11:57am On Aug 27, 2021
I currently have newly built 2 bedroom flat with 3 toilet for rent at sango ota, oju ore iyana ilogbo with borehole water, 150k per annum, agreement and commission #40k if you are interested you can chat or call me on this number 08073147786.


In fact am in a dilemma now
Cos I am dire looking for a house
A room and parlor
Preferably at Sango Ota
But the agents I met are making
Things difficult for me
Cos am not In a high paying jobs
He s demanding 70k extra
On a 80k / annum apartment

Donno really know what to do
Cos my families really needs it [/quote]
Romance / Re: I Lost my job, my girlfriend dumped me and nairalanders saved me from suicide by bonario1: 2:10am On Apr 09, 2020
Tankunland:
It was around early July of 2019 and by this time I knew I and baby was on the verge of a break up because she started disrespecting me so much. She just wasn't seeing any effort I was putting in again. now no one even knows this and not even her from May till June and early July I did bus conductor in Lagos. Thank God none of my former classmates from secondary school saw me.


Anyway back to my story and the second temptation I had. There used to be a customer in my hotel then, let's call him Mr Greg. Mr Greg worked in the apapa seaport. He stayed in the most expensive room in the hotel which was 20k and he had been our customer I think since February of 2018 till I left by April of 2019 and his company paid directly to the hotels account. This Mr Greg was such a quite man and he liked me a lot. He trusted I alone, only I got his meal from Amala junction or those fridde Rice from Cinema.


He gave me his ATM to withdraw money for him and only I entered his room. I thought he liked me because of maybe the way I spoke good English or how we discussed politics or football or the Bible but never women and guess what Mr Greg never invited a woman into his hotel room but each Friday he had a new guy that came back with him till he goes back to work on Monday.

This should tell you who Mr Greg was and I never judged him, I never saw him less a man or less human or looked at him in that condescenting manner because who was I to judge anyone. Yes I loved my shola but I wasn't particularly a saint when it came to women as well as I was good looking and tall and had many girl's at my Beck and call.


Now back to Mr Greg, there was a day he got back from work when I was still working in the hotel and he called the intercom and told me to come to his room and when i got there I met him with just his towels round his waist and he told me he had a hard and a strenuous day and needs me to massage his body for him, yes it was weird but because he was one of the biggest customers we had I had to oblige him and when I was massaging him I could hear him moaning silently and I told him I had to go but he turned around and faced me and he had a big hard on and he told me he would get me a job that would pay me over a 150k a month even with just my secondary School certificate if only I agree to be his lover. I was angry and full of rage but I told him I would keep this between us but he most never call me Into his room ever again.


So I already knew who Mr Greg was and what he wanted with me, so when I became so broke with my shola putting lot of pressure on me I called Mr Greg that early morning of July and told him I needed his help financially so he said when he closes from work he would drive over to my bus stop and pick me up so we go talk and true to his words by 8pm I think he called me to come outside and I told baby and my kids I was going out to bring a nice meal for them and and Mr Greg drove all the way to that Mega chicken before agidigbi and he bought me some nice meals I haven't had in a while and bought a take away back for my beautiful family at home and he drove to a dark and lonely spot around Guinness and asked me what I needed money for and I began telling him I wanted to learn how to fix CCTV and learn how to drive a car and as well give babe some money to learn how to make cake and he asked me how much I needed and I said 80 to 100k and he smiled mischivously.


Now all this while I thought Mr Greg was such a gentleman. Whenever I bought food or anything for him he always left his change with me, he was a man of few words but that smile was so devilish and mischievous. Anyway back to the story Mr Greg smiled and got his wallet out guys and brought out some newly minted Dollar note and right there he removed 300 dollars and he showed me and said this is just beginning of what he would do for me if only I agree to do something for him now and I asked him what does he want me to do and he said if he nuts in my mouth after I give him a Mouth Action.


Now guys you can imagine how helpless I was, I already told shola I was coming home with some money and this was what I had to do for it. I shade a some tears in the car and asked Mr Greg if he couldn't help me without me doing that and he said I'm lucky he likes me if not he would have told me to eat his ass as those guy's I see that he comes with into the hotel with him even do more difficult things than a Mouth Action and as he was saying this he was smiling mischievously and telling me he doesn't give guys second chance but because he loves me and loves my long legs and has fantasies how I would cry when he slides his dick in my ass.


I kid you not guys this is so real and even remembering it now is making me so sad. Now I was got between the devil and the deep blue sea. I told him ok that I was ready to do it, I just needed help from somewhere and money so badly as i felt the pressure at home and as he removed his belt and took his seat backwards and removed his dick he said NOW SUCK IT BABY and gets your money I realised if I did it then I was hooked forever and I would always go back to him for more and right there I regained my senses and told him no more and he gave me 2k I think and dropped the food he bought and speed of and I deleted his number and since then I haven't heard or seen Mr Greg and let me just add I now respect married men and father's that work to provide for their family


I remember getting home that night and dropping the meal for my family and just went into the bathroom to cry with the shower on and after she ate she came into the bedroom and asked me where is the money I went to collect and I told her the conditions that was attached to the money was too much for me to do but she flared up we exchanged lot of words back and forth and that innocent kids were just looking at their parents and right then and there she said I'm too lazy and can't do what other men did to make money amd provide for their family and I can't provide for her and the kids and thank God she didn't give me that baby. Gosh I flared up and I'm so sorry I hit her, I slapped her and I just hope she knows I'm so sorry for that action. I told her how i provided for that kids and her from January of 2017 till May of 2019 , I paid her daughter's school fee, I told her I regreted taking her back, I regret even falling in love with her and how I foolishly got the apartment because of her and her bastard ( I still feel bad about saying those words to her) immediately i said those words and she cried so much and i went to apologise to her and begged her while also crying and while saying sorry to her she said these exact words to me ONE DAY I WOULD REALIZE THAT EVEN BASTARD HAVE FATHER'S AND I WOULD ALWAYS BE A PART OF HER BECAUSE THAT BASTARD IS MINE, I told her to explain that words but she said it's nothing, I begged her so much to tell me if Samuel was my son she said he wasn't but Samuel was growing up to look exactly like me, gentle like me, calm like me, generous like me and those words played in my head all through the night and after that episode i knew we were almost done as we were just clinging on straws and now to the last temptation and break up with my shola
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Your late Ex girlfriend has already told you who the father of samuel is as I quote her statement :- ONE DAY I WOULD REALIZE THAT EVEN BASTARD HAVE FATHER'S AND I WOULD ALWAYS BE A PART OF HER BECAUSE THAT BASTARD IS MINE, samuel is your biological son focus on your career and when you are comfortable enough to afford DNA pls do so you would have confidence when her daughter father comes back for Samuel.
You have really gone through a lot and thank God for giving you another chance to live alot of people have commited suicide over little problem and there also lot of people facing bigger problems at this very moment. Not all single mothers are evil some of them got pregnant through rape, some it is their first time while others are bad girls. @OP you mess up by accepting her back with 2 kids but some of us get lost in love and unable to think deep however, your age and inexperience got part of you.

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Business / Re: I Want To Go Into Keke Napep Business, Please I Need Some Guidelines by bonario1: 1:36am On Mar 15, 2019
ifortenet:
Please I need the agreement too, kindly send to netzfoet@gmail.com



odiereke:
It's good business, u can send your email address so that I can forward you a good Agreement Template you can reach with anyone you want to give it to.

., i am interested in the business an ready to buy and give it out has hire purchase so i need the agreement template please kindly send the templete to my email addresses:- AFOTECHMULTISERVICES@YAHOO.COM OR FEMILUVU11@YAHOO.COM.
THANK YOU.
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Business / Re: I Want To Go Into Keke Napep Business, Please I Need Some Guidelines by bonario1: 1:32am On Mar 15, 2019
i am interested in the business an ready to buy and give it out has hire purchase so i need the agreement template please kindly send the templete to my email addresses:- AFOTECHMULTISERVICES@YAHOO.COM OR FEMILUVU11@YAHOO.COM.
THANK YOU.
Business / Re: What Business Or Investment Can I Go Into With 1millon Naira? by bonario1: 9:16am On Jun 08, 2018
egorov:


You wanna know how much I've made from dog breeding? I bet you will be begging to join the biz. And if you properly read my.question on that thread, I said d lady said she has a thousand euros, not me looking for it bring her here. Your mindset is too shallow

Peace

And let me tell you something, the first dog I bought for 70k and was on 10k feeding per month, gave me close to 2million naira after 3yrs, before I sold her out. Although the money didn't come all at once. You asked me how?

First oestrus cycle came at 10months, she littered 13puppies, after taking out the return pup, I sold each pup for 60k minimum. Do the maths.

Second oestrus cycle.came, 9puppies

3rd, 10puppies

4, 7puppies

Don't be a thomas and stop discouraging.people.on what you know nothing about

If you have a dog with a very good pedigree, you won't sell your puppies less than 150k, each. Just imagine you have 10of them
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bros I am interested in the business please can you kindly give me necessary information and guidelines on how to start dog breeding.
Business / Re: How Do You Ship Container Of Product From China To Nigeria? by bonario1: 11:03am On Apr 17, 2018
motherfucker:
Thank you sir. It is my first time and I need to know.

From sketches of research I have done, it will cost me so much to use any of recommended shipping company in the mini importation threads, almost $20,000 because they charge per kg but if I use a container shipping company it is gonna cost me far far less... Around $1200-$3500 to ship a container from China because the shipping company charge per cubic meter.

I am not sure yet as this just research I found via googling and one Nairaland thread from 2010 showed up where someone quoted $1200 and another quoted $3500 or there about.

Please can you help speak to any of the mods to push this to front page? It is very important and urgent!
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there are different shipping company and you don't need to stress yourself much on this.
what you need to do is to inform the company you want to place order from in China to get you different shipping line from China to Nigeria with prices and how many days does it takes their container to arrive in Nigeria. the shipping price and date of arrival is different from one shipping line to another.
what kind of product do you intend to import from China to Nigeria? are you sure that the product is not contraband.
Do you intend to get SONCAP certificate because it is very importation while you are about to clear your goods when it arrived in Nigeria.
Travel / Re: My Regretfull Journey To Europe ( How It All Started ) by bonario1: 12:15pm On Apr 12, 2018
Berliner1:


If ur partner is in Germany then its easier.

Apart from Asylum seekers, anyone working here can invite u over under family reunion category.

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we are both presently in Nigeria.
how is it easy to travel abroad with family visa I have marriage registry certificate?
can you give me guideline on how to go about it.
thanks.
Travel / Re: My Regretfull Journey To Europe ( How It All Started ) by bonario1: 11:38am On Apr 12, 2018
Berliner1:

Are you married or dating someone in Europe?
. yes am married with a kid.
Travel / Re: My Regretfull Journey To Europe ( How It All Started ) by bonario1: 9:42am On Apr 12, 2018
Berliner1:

Firstly visit German embassy website to know the visa type that suite you.
I can only give info about student visa or family reunion.
. please sir I need info on Family Reunion.
Romance / Re: Please Help, I Have Not Been Sleeping Well, My Mind Is Not At Rest. by bonario1: 8:44pm On Apr 11, 2018
SirToby:
Good evening friends. It all started with malaria two weeks ago and i used Lonart, i was relieved for some period and i started feeling feverish again. I ran a test and it confirmed Malaria is still positive, and the doctor prescribed P alaxin, i used it but i started feeling restless and uncomfortable since saturday, i have not been Sleeping well, even in my short sleep i have nightmares. i started using Piriton two days ago but i have not been feeling alright, my mind is so heavy and my heart beats so fast, i can't just sleep. I have tried to calm myself down and my friends also have spoken to me but it has not
been working and i just don't know what to do.

IN ADDITION: I'm a pastor's child and similar thing happened to me last year, i was so sick that i could not sleep for days, i remember i prayed and promised God never to have any intercourse with any woman till i marry if i can be healed and start having a good sleep. But the fact remains i'm not a wayward child and the last time I had sex prior to that prayer was 2015.

But two weeks ago, i was tempted and i could not resist the urge and i had sex with a lady but the sickness has already began prior to the sex but it has not Metamorphosized to sleeplessness and restlessness. I have asked God for forgiveness and i sincerely promise him never to do such again and i'm ready to stand by it this time. I knelt on the alter after Sunday service to make the vow.


But i'm scared maybe God is punishing me for breaking my vow with him the first time and he wants me to confess to my parents that are pastors. Please i need reasonable advise, i'm so scared to sleep whenever i wants to, my eyes are so red as i'm typing now due to lack of sleep. And which medicine can i talk or what can i do to put my mind at rest. Thanks Friends.
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I have similar experience like yours such as having heavy mind and heart beating fast after undergoing different medical test such as X ray, ECG etc it was discovered that I am having typhoid fever and after taking some drugs I got healed.
Career / Re: My Mum Wants Me To Take Over Her School But I Want Something Else. by bonario1: 12:00pm On Jan 19, 2018
CeeJay9ja:


That will affect my time of business. I am thinking of running both but Time factor is my problem
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brother you can run the two together you just have to be committed and willing to make it work out.
the school runs from morning to afternoon and people buy electrical parts most times in the evening so you can employ someone who will help you manage the electrical business then when you close at school then you can resume at the shop.
Career / Re: Please Advise Me, I Am At Cross Roads On What To Do by bonario1: 10:25am On Oct 02, 2017
Confused977:
Good afternoon everyone here. I have been an ardent of this forum so, I felt it wouldn't be bad to bare my heart here as I know I'd surely get an advice that will make me see clearer. Please bear with me as I am not very perfect when it comes to expressing my self in writing. Pls pardon my write-up should you see it as too long. I just want to bare it all so one can know what to tell me. Thanks.
My Name is Amanda. I lost my parents when I was sixteen . I am from a family of five. I was about to sit for WAEC before the sudden demise of my parents. I had to drop out of school cus I couldn't pay bills and my older siblings were still struggling, so I got a job. I worked as a cleaner say for 2 years and I was able to save up something and enrolled for WAEC AND GCE and I passed. I tried my first admission it didn't so the second year someone told me to try a Polytechnic and fortunately I got admitted. I joined school but I kept working and I saved up some bucks and at the end of my ND at federal poly Auchi my G. P was 3.40 yes! I cried for joy.
I. T (Industrial Training) started and I felt it would make more sense If I could start something little within my environment. Since I knew a lot about female bags and wears I held on to the idea and started. My customer base grew as I went from department to department showing and convincing the "big girls" in school about my goods. I approached just anybody so long you female. I kept moving at that pace until I was heavily sought after. My room became my boutique.
Why I am confused now
All glory to God I have been able to establish a good relationship with people who sale to me on credit which allows me own varieties and sell more.
1. Not to exaggerate, I make a minimum of 40 to 45k a month as my own.
2. I ain't rich but I think I am comfortable for a young lady of my age. I will be 24 3rd October.
I focused more on my business and I didn't join my mates for the HND session. My reason was; after school now, I go carry certificate they Waka up and down. Make I kuku use this small money wey I don save use am run my business first as I thought school can wait. could I be wrong?

# I have a course mate who traveled overseas after our ND and she has been encouraging me to come over since I could afford the travel expenses (not to lie, I was considering this also which made me forget going back for my HND.)
Now my question is if you were me would you go back to school? I am of the opinion that schooling in Nigeria without a good back up could leave me frustrated after graduation. No job.
# if you were me would you just continue with your business and open up a shop or would you travel out, get a job and go to school there?
Pls advice Me as I would be turning 24 in no time and I am JUST CONFUSED embarassed I have the feeling that any decision I make at this point would either make or destroy me permanently. Pls help a sister embarassed
Should I go back to school? cus my dad always wanted me to get an education but I feel I should be able to know what works as times have changed.
Pls I am open to any form of advice. God bless.
Cc. Lalasticlala, seun or any mod. I'd appreciate if you can move it to the right section or where it could get a wider view. Thanks
Thorpido
Raine80 et all...
BiafranBushboy
Hakeem4
I can't really remember usernames embarassed
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my personal experience I graduated from polytechnic this year as a full time student with HND degree while I am still running my own business although I do miss some lectures and I am even thinking of not going for my NYSC because of my business.
my advice for you is to continue doing your business while you enroll for your HND program you can study in your state in order to keep your existing customers.
Going back to school for HND will help you grow your customer because you will get to know more people.
NYSC / Re: Prospective NYSC 2017 Batch B Corps Members by bonario1: 2:06pm On Aug 23, 2017
segunk1:
This is an avenue for prospective corpers for the 2017 Batch B. Don't be disappointed if you weren't mobilized for 17A, who knows, it might be for your own good.

Let's meet here to discuss latest news and issues bothering on registration, mobilization and so on.

P.S:
Cc: Yokiti,
Crazyman,
Ogbeche77
Mynd44
Lalasticlala

To help foster unity on this thread, 17B .
should please introduce themselves in this format:

Alias/Moniker
School/Institution
Course of Study
Year of Graduation and lastly,
Where you wish to serve

Thanks.
. Bonario1
yaba college of technology,
industrial maintenance Engineering,
2017,
lagos, Ogun or Oyo state
Education / Re: Yabatech Bans Cooking In School, Students Cry Out by bonario1: 9:19am On Aug 19, 2017
HeWrites:
According to a report from our source who pleaded anonymity –
The school authorities banned “cooking” in the school hostel, and according to our source, this act was dubious because the ban was revealed after they had paid for the hostel accommodation fees.
However, according to the memo the ban of cooking was essential in order to forestall fire outbreak.

An excerpt from the memo reads;
Under no circumstance should students cook in the hostels.This is essential to forestall fire outbreak and inconvenience to other students
Contravention of this regulation may lead to suspension from the hostel.

http://www.yabaleftonline.com/yabatech-students-ban-cooking-school-authorities/


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yabatech is becoming something else the hostel was opened 3 weeks to first semester exam. the fire incident that occurred in the school recently was caused by electrical fault and it has nothing to do with the student because it was not cause by them.
I was in Yabatech on Monday or Tuesday this week and i heard gun shots in school around pass 8pm while students were running up and down for their safety I later heard that it is been occurring over a month and still nothing has been done by the school management I even heard that someone was shot beside the school library and yet nothing has been done to stop this occurrence.
Business / Re: Palm Oil Biz.. How I Lost My First Capital by bonario1: 12:11pm On Aug 07, 2017
Maryam1234:
The best place you can get quality palm oil in Nigeria is Kogi East,you can quote me anywhere.No colour,No smell,No addictive.Just pure and natural palm oil and guess what at a give away price.I myself have interest in Palm oil business,I have gotten the market but my only bottleneck is transportation,because as a kogiet I can get my oil conveniently from my village at most 10k per 20 liter,and the cheapest price I can resel is 16k.Please you can pm me,I will link you up with producers of palm oil for free but,you have to be critical minded,because I will advise you taste what you are buying before making payment,and don't try to involve middle men in your business transactions as they can be dubious at times.thanks.
.. Am interested in the palm oil business and i want you to link me up with produces of palm oil this is my WhatsApp number 08073147786 thank you.
Properties / Re: Can A Single Guy With Income Of #60,000 Build A House by bonario1: 10:32am On Jul 04, 2017
it is very possible for you to build a house if you are able to save between 20-30K a month. you just need to get half plot of land between 120-150k in Ikorodu area. please make sure that the land is not a swampy or waterlogged area. you should plan to build a house BTW mini flat and 2 bedroom flat and the rooms should not be too build because the more the space the more the money you will spend in building the apartment.
after acquiring the land rest a little and save some money for the foundation pls note don't buy ready made or fabricated blocks instead buy a trip of sharp sand and mould blocks with this you are saving cost also a BTW 5-10tons of granite or gravel for the foundation the price of granite is high but it will make the foundation solid after you are done with the foundation rest a little and save money mould and erecting blocks then gradually you continue building the house.
please note:- make sure that you supervise or ask someone to supervise the project for you because the bricklayers are very funny they can steal your cement resale it and tell you that the cement you bought in not enough.

don't be discourage you can do it and also if you have a business you can do with the money you can buy the land, do the foundation and leave it provided the land is secured from omo oniles then start a business and use the proceed from the business to continue building the house.

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Education / Re: PROVE to show that Making First class In UNI Is Harder Than Distinction In POLY by bonario1: 11:43pm On Mar 24, 2016
Well I think your assertion is not correct I am currently doing my HND prog in yabatech and I have some friends in my department and other departments who are either withdrawn because they couldnt meet up with their GP grades and some who finish their ND with pass ended up being best students in their respective class in Unilag and some other schools.
My friend who graduated from unaab was an ex president of his department he was an ND holder and also testify that polytechnic is difficult to get good grades than university.
There are other areas of study that makes university better than polytechnic but not grades and I think polytechnic students studying engineering,architect, Slt and other design courses are far better than the University students based on their pratical exposure

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