I dont care about marrying him. I am not looking for a husband or planning to get marry. even though I am 29 now , I just want to have a good time. So if a man doesn't do his job, then he deserves bad words.

I have used worse words than that on him!

I had a big fight with him yesterday (on my birthday, I can't even believe it). It's not mama's issue anymore. On my bday, no flower, no chocolate, no wishes...he didn't call until I called him to ask what the heck he has been doing. He explained his car is broken and he thought i was with my friends and busy. I told him earlier i would be busy on my b-day with friends, otherwise i have nothing to do. He didn't even suggest any idea to celebrate after knowing it.

I am so tired of lecturing him and act like a b**ch. BTW, i am 4 yrs old than him. i guess that explains. I kinda figure out our problems: 1. he is poor (cause his dependence) 2. no trust between us (i still go out with other guys, but he is my favor). If there is no financial support, it's hard to maintain a relationship in 21 century.

I guess you guys are right, I should be less bossy and more relaxed, cuz he is maybe just my casual BF or a date.

I know I may have issues. I am a little demanding. Got spoiled from last Boyfriend. I just don't get it. Some men would rather spend more time with his old mama than his hot/young date he has lived in the same house with mama for his whole life.....dont you feel bored His biggest excuse is no money. But everybody starts his life w/o money!Also, he just got back from overseas study this year, so he is not ready to move out. Never believe men's excuses.

I talked to him about this couple times and he just said I am jealous. I admit that, but the same time, I dont get it. Maybe I am from a very independent family. My family is not tightly attached to each other, but it doesn't mean you dont care or love each other.

Today is his mother's b-day. I have no comlaints he ditched me again(for his mum). But tomorrow actually is my B-day, he didn't seem care. only said: oh..you never told me..i will buy you a b-day dinner next week. Who cares about his/her B-day dinner after one week later. Ridiculous!

I am not planning to dump him now...cuz we somehow fit each other on other way. But every woman will dump a man if he doesn't put her at first place. That's just how things work for me.

Thx you for replay.

I hate Mama's boy. They are gross. Actually I am dating one (kinda of) now. I am thinking about dumping him. He is a very manly man. Tall and sporty. Almost 25 but still live in with his mama. Have dinner and chat everyday, his mama calls him very often. I doubt his mama still does his laundry. He seems really care about what his mama thinks! Spare me, almost 25....you gotta have your own life. He has lived in that damn fxxx house for 20 yrs with his "great mama".....come on....it's ok to get out and make more new friends. He doesn't have many friends. cuz he spends most of time with his mama.

Last saturday, just because his mama ordered food for him, so he blowed off a date with me. Because he said it's rude to not to eat the food at home with his mam if his mama already had food for him. Watever. But I like him a lot, but eventually i will dump him.

I JUST CANNOT STAND MAMA'S BOY. Actually his mama is a nice lady even weights about 300 pounds. I just simplily think mama's boy especially after 21 yrs old still live in with mama is gross. He explained due to the financial problem and high rent. I understand that, but still, you should be independend even living in with your mama.

Just please don't show too much emotions with your mama in front of other women. It's crappy!