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Romance / Re: When She Tells You, No Sex Before Marriage by Brandiebird: 10:51am On May 18 |
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Food / Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Brandiebird: 3:12am On May 13 |
TheWinterBird: This looks delicious and healthy! Please share your recipe and process, especially for the broccoli salad, including the dressing and seasoning. đ€€ 1 Like 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: The Difference Between Male Promiscuity And Female Promiscuity by Brandiebird: 12:23am On May 13 |
Donât forget to tag gonorrhoea, syphilis, and HIV in this chat. Promiscuity regardless of gender, is a problem for your mental, physical and emotional health. Stop with this double standards because God made it a sin for all people because of the impact this vice has on society. Itâs gross to validate your worth by the number of Instruments you have seen. Itâs 2024 and we should be evolving rather than regurgitating this backwards narrative. |
Family / Re: .. by Brandiebird: 9:12am On May 12 |
AgentGoat: I really hope sheâs young or that sheâs trolling us because sheâs making herself miserable over shi that doesnât matter. Her âbusiness â doesnât pay a single bill in her home but sheâs willing to scatter her marriage over it. The entitlement and ungrateful attitude is nauseating. She said her husband isnât doing her a favour by putting a roof over her head and food in her mouth. Wow! Sheâs got to be trolling. 6 Likes |
Family / Re: .. by Brandiebird: 9:07am On May 12 |
Reginaoyah: Firstly, Iâm really sorry for what youâre going through, and for the way you are feeling. I understand youâre frustrated and came online to vent. However, he is not doing âwhat men doâ because there are billions of men who donât do what he is doing for YOU and his children. You are only seeing today and the stress you are feeling. Your husband is seeing the next 18 years and how he will meet his responsibilities. Your children are going to need school fees from now until their university. Medical bills can pop up in short notice. You guys need rent and food for the next 18+ years. But you donât care because âhe is a man & thatâs his responsibility.â You sound really ungrateful and you will not win on this negative path that you are planning on. You donât know if old age is promised to us so donât project negativity towards your future. To frank, If your shop folds today, my sister nothing will spoil because your husband is the breadwinner. You seem to struggle with accountability so I will leave you with this; GRATITUDE is the secret to a good life. God is watching over us and gratitude is the language God responds to. Bring love back into your relationship and you will be amazed what your husband will do for you. Continue being resentful, feeling vengeful and sad if you want but that will just eat you up from inside and make you sick. May the Most High make things easier for you and your family. đ Edit: I guess we have to declare our gender because the truth is gender based according to Op: I am a female đ 11 Likes |
Family / Re: .. by Brandiebird: 8:37am On May 12 |
Reginaoyah: Do you not think him paying for everything and taking the burden of your shoulders is him supporting you? Sometimes we get so caught up with the things that we donât have that we take for granted the things we do have. There are single mothers out there, even married women, who are the sole breadwinners in their homes. The things you are worried about are luxuries they canât afford. I honestly think you need to be kinder, appreciative and supportive of your husband for holding the family down. As a woman you can get more by just being nice to your husband. I donât think your husband is some rich man who is being stingy, I think he is a responsible man who is trying to keep his families head above water. He isnât out there spending his money on small girls and neglecting his family. My sister cherish what you have before itâs too late. Treat him well, let him know how valuable he is to your life and family, and stop being resentful towards him because itâs the right thing to do and then you might actually get the same treatment back from him. In all honesty if you took some accountability for your actions then youâd realise that he set you up with a business and you made some poor decisions which ran the business into trouble. Donât be the kind of person who blames external factors instead of reflecting and recognising where you went wrong. Iâm sorry if you feel that I am putting you down or putting all the blame on you. I could just as easily tell you to leave your husband but you know that would not help your situation because you canât take care of your kids and yourself since your husband is the one footing all your bills. 18 Likes 5 Shares |
Family / Re: .. by Brandiebird: 11:58pm On May 11 |
Who pays all the bills in the house? Who pays the school fees and the medical bills? Who pays for food, water and energy bills? I donât like when people just vent online because they only point out what the other person has done to them and what wasnât done for them. 19 Likes |
Foreign Affairs / Re: US Congress Passes Bill That Will Censor The Bible As Antisemitic by Brandiebird: 2:49am On May 03 |
The way Christians especially evangelicals love the Jews and Isreal, and the way the Jews hate them always cracks me up! If they get their way (which they will because the Christians are a pushover) they will come for the Quran which says the same thing and more! The zionists are building up a movement that is leading to the path being cleared for the Antichrist to come. It is the Zionistâs and not the Jews who are leading this fight. The zionists have kidnapped Judaism for their evil cause. 1 Like |
Events / Re: Wedding Reception Price In 1982 (see Receipt) by Brandiebird: 6:44pm On Apr 28 |
But that 500 was as hard to get as 50k today so it wasnât that things were cheap but that the N# had value. |
Family / Re: My Husband Kicked Me Out After A DNA Test Revealed He Wasnât My Daughter Dad by Brandiebird: 1:33pm On Apr 28 |
Shiiiiid, itâs the audacity for me! This generation has no fear or shame. Imagine bringing another manâs child into your husbandâs home and then coming on the internet to complain that you have been found out. This canât be real, I refuse to believe this. |
Romance / Re: A Saudi Base House Help Recorded Video Showing Treatment She Got From Her Boss by Brandiebird: 6:00am On Apr 28 |
For all we know sheâs in her husbandâs house because nothing in the video points to Saudi Arabia or employee mistreatment. I pray that she is safe though đâ€ïžâđ©čâ€ïžâđ©čâ€ïžâđ©č |
Romance / Liberal Woman Looking For A Conservative Guy by Brandiebird: 1:30am On Mar 18 |
Am I crazy? I am a liberal woman who wants to work, enjoy equal opportunity but I donât want equal responsibilities because I want a traditional man. I want a strong man who makes me feel secure and protected without all the work and stress required from liberal women while enjoying the traditional benefits from a traditional man. I want to work, give birth and be pampered by my man without having to do all the traditional wifely tasks. I want to be a wife and treated like a princess while maintaining my liberal values as a boss biatche and independent woman. Is this a crazy dream? Am I doing it wrong? How can I incorporate this without being uncomfortable or inconvenienced? What is the perfect blend |
Romance / Re: I Wish I Was Born Handsome by Brandiebird: 12:48am On Mar 18 |
ayjay45:Youâre not very attractive so you havenât won the âgenetic lotteryâ BUT! You could look at yourself as pure. Untainted and clean. These are end times and being spoiled (genetically) and jaded is the trend. Take pride in your purity and the fact that you are untainted and unspoiled. Lol! The trumpet needs to be blown because everyone wants to be a hoe in order to feel special đđđ„Žđ„Žđ„Ž |
Romance / Re: I Slept With My Married Ex by Brandiebird: 2:48pm On Mar 17 |
Donât worry bro, you will paid by your own wife and the slate will be cleared. Just donât be a hypocrite when itâs time to pay for your crimes. New fears unlocked đ€ |
Romance / Re: Do You Need An E-friend To Pour Your Troubles On? by Brandiebird: 2:54pm On Mar 15 |
Iamblessed85: You had to come back and make the same comment 2 months later! The hate is strong in you. Whatâs wrong with someone trying to make a living? Do you know how emotionally, and mentally exhausting it is to be there for someone who is struggling or going through something? Thereâs nothing wrong in charging for something that takes away from you. Psychologists need a psychologist to help them recover from the trauma they are exposed to while doing their job, this should tell you how demanding it is to listen to people and be there for them. Op, you have an innovative idea and I hope you succeed at it. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Man Heartbroken After Returning From Abroad Only To Discover Wife Built Mud Home by Brandiebird: 9:17am On Mar 15 |
Exousiang01: I hear you. I tried watching the video, theyâre not speaking English at all so I looked at the comments on YouTube to figure out what is going on. I think it was much more than $1k because nobody on YouTube was shocked, some mentioned 12M (Iâm guessing Ksh) so I think op is doing what NL is famous for which is misinformation. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Man Heartbroken After Returning From Abroad Only To Discover Wife Built Mud Home by Brandiebird: 7:26am On Mar 15 |
Exousiang01: I donât understand your argument⊠are you vex because $1k can build a house in Kenya (probably some rural village btw) or that you canât do that in Nigeria? |
Romance / Re: Man Heartbroken After Returning From Abroad Only To Discover Wife Built Mud Home by Brandiebird: 7:20am On Mar 15 |
There are some fuckin demons walking around this planet! I swear I couldnât imagine what I would do to somebody who did me like this. Never have I ever loved having trust issues because I couldnât be in this situation. Also, how are you building a house in a vacuum? Iâd have all my family members in on this. I guess some people do the dumbest things. |
Romance / Re: A Vicious Cycle That Needs To Change(pix) by Brandiebird: 5:20am On Mar 10 |
Skooltynz: Romance isnât degrading and insulting black women, nothing you said is in line with what I said. Insulting your own women when weâll all have daughters is sad in the least and frightening in the worst case. This section use to be about people connecting and now itâs become an incel subreddit⊠itâs fuckin toxic and depressing if not dangerous. |
Romance / Re: A Vicious Cycle That Needs To Change(pix) by Brandiebird: 2:26pm On Mar 09 |
Zxcvbnmghtr: End time things! Our mates have built their societies while the black man spends his days monitoring women. They have innovative ways to bring black women down, traumatised, with zero opportunities. While our resources are robbed from us by smarter men. Itâs fuckin depressing. All black men have accomplished is how to remove pants. Itâs so embarrassing. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: How Do I Stay Contended And Stop Wishing I Was Born Rich (please advise) by Brandiebird: 11:48am On Mar 09 |
Instead of imagining backwards and feeling regret, imagine forward with feelings of hope. Imagination is the building blocks of creation. Imagine your future success, then turn that dream into a goal, then turn that goal into a plan and thatâs how dreams come true. Motivational speech 101! 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Is It Wrong To Give My Neighbors Wife A Lift??? by Brandiebird: 12:07pm On Mar 07 |
Understand the moto âdonât shi where you eat.â You had no business eating another manâs food You had no business walking around with another manâs wife. You did too much, you should be humble, and learn from your mistakes then move on. This is what happens when you donât mind your own business. You better learn from this and change your character. You have no business spending that much time with your neighbours wife. For future reference: you canât be too friendly with neighbours, anything past common decency, respect and simple greetings, youâre doing too much. 37 Likes 3 Shares |
Family / Re: Nigerian Wife Kicks UK Husband Out From Home by Brandiebird: 11:09pm On Mar 06 |
These two bored people think they can act? Absolutely rubbish! Nigerians will discuss any rubbish just to kill time. |
Family / Re: Is Is True That If A Husband Beats His Wife Regularly Then It's Her Fault. by Brandiebird: 2:31pm On Mar 05 |
RevenuesBoost: It seems that you donât understand how domestic violence works. You have a very simplified understanding of dv, because for many people it isnât a misunderstanding that leads to violence but rather a power difference in a relationship. Many women and men who experience violence in their relationships are not necessarily argumentative. Most of the time they are kind, respectful and supportive, and they still get beaten on. The only real solution to dv is to leave the relationship the first time you experience violence. Donât change, rationalise or understand but leave. |
Family / Re: Is Is True That If A Husband Beats His Wife Regularly Then It's Her Fault. by Brandiebird: 12:02am On Mar 05 |
Op is giving Stockholm syndrome đ€. Youâre response suggests that a woman should work around an abusive partner, do things and avoid things in order to avoid an ass whopping. |
Crime / Re: Spanish Blogger On India Motorcycle Tour Gang-raped by Brandiebird: 8:24am On Mar 04 |
White privilege is the reason they thought it would be a good idea to motorcycle đïž across India. I hope they recover well. No other race of people think or even have such a privilege, but these are some of the smaller risks associated with their hobby, it could have been so much worse. 18 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: Woman Curses Ex After Being Tagged In His Pre-wedding Photos by Brandiebird: 7:40am On Mar 04 |
From the comments it appears that she invested in his business with the hope of becoming his wife, and the minute he saw money, he betrayed her and tagged her to add insult to injury. Her curse must touch him, because God doesnât like ugly. |
Romance / Re: So Many Emotionally Damaged Women Out There. by Brandiebird: 7:24am On Mar 04 |
đ„± same old ranting different day. We understand that money is tight and life is frustrating so itâs easier to judge others rather than focus on your own problems. There are emotionally damaged people, nothing to do with gender but weâre use to it on this forum to read your sorrow everyday. In the end, everyone will be just fine. 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Meet Roberto Esquivel Cabrera, The Man With The 19 Inches (pics/video) by Brandiebird: 7:17am On Mar 04 |
If blood went to that thing heâs carrying, he would die. đ. What a cruel joke đ© 89 Likes 7 Shares |
Family / Re: Help! My Marriage Is Giving Me Pain. by Brandiebird: 3:18am On Mar 04 |
It may seem like an insult, and very insensitive for her to say it out loud, but she didnât tell no lies. You are in fact financially challenged, and you took on a responsibility that you canât afford. After accepting your reality and not being offended by the truth, you can stand up to your wife and tell her to get on board or get lost. Make it clear that you wonât tolerate her behaviour and that you will send her back to her people if she continues to make things difficult. If she has any qualifications then find her work within your school. If she canât contribute then she should not stress you out. Donât worry about what people say or think. Please! Use contraception before you bring children into this mess. 25 Likes |
Romance / Re: Who Is Likely To Surrender Between These Two? by Brandiebird: 6:10am On Mar 02 |
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