Stfu! What a sorry excuse for a human being! If only they used a condom that night we wouldn’t be subjected to your bs today.

Only 10 years and you’re making a scene. I have socks older than your marriage.

I got cross eyed reading this, could I get a summary? 😵‍💫

Dizzyyish:
I thought this guy had left this Simple way of reasoning after that his ex-fiancée fiasco, with the very people he pedestalized rushing him like piranhas. He's even using shame tactics, calling opposite opinions "gay", like women.

How many fathers (just in Nigeria) were in the delivery room seeing their child be born, and did it have any effect on things later on? She's surrounded by nurses and doctors meanwhile your friend is dying. Smh.

But your friend is surrounded by nurses and doctors too. This is a question of loyalty and if you would pick a stranger over your own flesh and blood (your child) then you need to grow up. Your friend has his own family by his side, his own father maybe and you are abandoning your own child.

See what the love of money has caused. She traveled across the world for it and killed her baby for it. I don’t know how she only got 3 years jail time though!

This idiot will give birth but complain that dick is paining her! Make it make sense 😂😂😂

ojobolinda:
It is you and ur generation that will suffer!... Am not the reason why you are still single to stupor!

Take your dry 🐱 ahhh out of here! Go seek therapy or come out the closet already ✌️

So you cheated somebody’s son! Women like you make it hard for other women to find love because you had no business finding a man but you did it for your own personal reasons. You might be gay or A sexual but you’re definitely not a heterosexual woman looking for love! You are the problem, love isn’t a poverty alleviation program or anything else other than love! I hope you suffer because you make it harder for heterosexual women to find their happily ever after! ✌️

PeterZoom:
This girl is not beautiful jare. Even the idols are finer than her.

I bet everything I hold dear that you are uglier than her! Bet! 😫

To each their own because I knelt before Allah when I got my PhD 🫶

PS I don’t like July Leos, they are weird!!!

I like August Leos though…😂

Klass99:


Lol , abeg die this woman's matter. I told myself that no matter how tempted I was, I will no longer chook my mouth in her matter. I will quietly read her stories and try to learn a lesson or two from it.

One of the lessons I've learnt so far is that authentic relationships, building good will with others and generally having a good rapport with folks, does count for something.

I recall seeing a post where she said she is a mind my business, do my work, I no send my colleagues kind of person. I am paraphrasing because I can't remember her exact words but that was the gist of her post. You know those kind of people who act like the real OGs, the dey your lane make I dey my lane, kind of people. The sort who basic courtesy and pleasantries are too much to ask for!

All this time she has been on NL soliciting help, I kept thinking to myself, none of this would be necessary if she had a good rapport with some of her colleagues in her past or most recent place of work. One or two of them may have been willing to help and if they couldn't, they may know someone who knows someone with the capacity to help.

But, knowing her, after four market days, she will return with a story of a colleague who wants to throw her out because she refused to follow them to their fetish church. She has used that lie twice now, with two different monikers. She can't even keep up with her own stories, meanwhile some of us read her tales and remember what she previously said.

Mrblessed been off me completely when he said the only advice or comment she likes to hear is send me your bank account details, I couldn't stop laughing the day I saw that post. These days I just read her threads for the entertainment value and any lessons I can learn. Another lesson I took away is that sincerity matters as well.

My sister in God! I love the way your brain works. I have been watching this saga and reflecting hard on it. I remember op from day dot! She really is a character and a lesson for all. The first thing I did was put down the cheesecake and find my running shoes because age is real. The second thing I did was reflect on my relationship with the people around me. As we get older we do fall into that “I dey my lane “ mindset but we have to resist that.

I phoned people I haven’t spoken to in years, I volunteered a few hours a week to get to know more people and to put more good into the world. I can’t (or won’t) help op right now but her lesson isn’t lost on me. We are human, we are flawed, and we are all in this together. I don’t want God to use me as a lesson 😫.

I honestly pray that she finds a way out of this situation but I fear she won’t grow from it. It ******* sad. 😔

LOL! You tried everything! May God make a way for you anyway 🤣

Pdfile 🤢

High carbohydrate intake will keep you full for 24hrs. Rice is the best source and if you can afford meat then you’re set for nutrition for the day.

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None of this is Islamic. You should seek help from scholars who have studied Islam. This looks like bidah (innovation) and that is bad. You don’t need any interventions to reach Allah. Non Muslims can not fast for you and Muslims don’t fast at night it’s from dawn to dusk.

If he’s a Good father figure then find a term that’s endearing and comfortable for you. If dad isn’t then maybe papa or something else that’s comfortable for you that shows him that you are close to him. If this man does more for you than your father then you could acknowledge him and put a smile on his face. It’s not that deep.

I’m sorry! I missed the part about your father passing away (May he rest in eternal peace). Maybe speak to him man to man and let him know that you appreciate him in your life but you can’t call him dad due to the fact that you still miss your father but you could call him uncle or something else that’s respectful. I think talking to him about it would bring you guys closer. That’s if you have that kind of a relationship.

Who are the white women in the pictures you attached?

Mistress has a type because the child looks like him. The daughters don’t even look like him as much as the sweet little boy.

I hate this new generation of “social media warriors “ because there was no need to put these children’s images out here just to prove a point. The worst people are parents sometimes.

Emotional bs from our logical beings.

Reality:

50 years old man looking for his daughter’s age mate to Bleep. She must be a virgin or close and have an unrealistic/ rare body shape.

She must be already established because daddy too broke to cater for your needs.

He is reaching midlife crisis and his D is on its last breath, BUT he says he’s 6ft but he’s really 5’10 max.

He has inherited his ancestral home in the village but it’s his home so…

And they call women delusional 😒

Afonja101:
Though I'm thanking God for finding out, I'm also in pains because of how much i love her.... I just wish i can move on.

If that’s the case then you’re glutton for punishment. You love someone who chose you because you were an option to cover her shame.

You will do whatever you want but be sure of your decision because you will forever be resentful of your wife and that innocent child.

You will believe that she owes you some unattainable level of respect and honour and whenever she falls short you will remember her betrayal. It’s a dangerous path to embark on.

There’s more to life than love. It’s a huge responsibility. That child needs to know where they came from and one day they’ll look for their father. Your wife may even contact him behind your back if you stand in the way.

There’s a lot to consider. Love doesn’t always conquer all. Take some time to think about your decisions and don’t base those decisions on feelings.

I just don’t understand Nigerian humour. There’s nothing funny about this at all! This is something people laughed about in the 1920s when it had shock value.

Take comfort in the fact that you found out 9 years later rather than 29 years later. Also, the pain is fresh because the betrayal is fresh so give yourself time. Give yourself a year or so to heal and then do a test on your second child. If that child is yours then do right by that child and move on with your life.

What she did is more than paternity fraud, she has demonstrated that she will always put her interests before yours and anyone else’s. That is a dangerous person and you are very lucky to find out now before she sends you to an early grave.

She lied for that long and she would have gone to her grave with that lie. She put herself before you and that child. I hope you never take her back because you were a means to an end for her.

The frightening thing about suicide is that the person is at peace once they finally make plans to do it. They are even elated making it more difficult for those around them to actually guess/stop the act.

Most people swear that their loved one didn’t commit suicide because they were “happy” and showed no “signs “ of ending their lives.

The most important time to help people is when they are going through depression. Don’t leave them alone, instead try to find ways to help them. That’s the only window you have to save them.

She did all that just to go back to her seat 😩. That was awkward as 🤬