I'm African-American and he's of the Delta ethic group. Hope that this information helps you help me.

I'm with this guy from Nigeria. I've been knowing him for about 4 years but we are now in a relationship and have been for the past 1 1/2 year. I've never met his parents because they are always back and forth from Nigeria and New York and we stay in the south. I'm so nervous about meeting them.

His brother is getting married and now he's coming at me about our future and I would be totally cool with him because he lets me be me and I know that it would truly be about us being that he has his citizenship already. He is well educated, VERY handsome and chocolate.

Is it true that people is Nigeria view a Nigerian Man marrying a American Woman as something negative? or equal to a African American Man marrying a White Woman? I've heard rumors but would really love for someone to keep it real with me. I've asked him on several occasions but all he says is that some people are ignorant and think that things should remain the same but he's not like that. He is so good to me. I need some tips for when I meet his parents (which will be very soon). He wanted me to meet them last summer when they were in town but I was so scared that I made a excuse about having to work. HELP!