Career / Re: What Are My Chances Of Making It As A Lawyer In Nigeria? by BREYZ: 1:04pm On Feb 19, 2021 |
MoneyMusthear: Hello Nairalanders,
I've been here for a while now and having evaluated certain things on the forum I think I'll get the sincerest of answers to my question.
I intend to study law; I'm good with my English, have a formidable sense of logical and critical reasoning and naturally charismatic. These should be the basic requirements for intending lawyers( at least, according to the naive me).
Academically, I will humbly say I know my worth: with the beyond-basic knowledge of Government, a fair knowledge of the mechanics of politics and the ability read without wearing out, I suppose a lawyer is in the oven, soon to be baked.
However, my very close confidant advised me to drop the dream and seek something viable. My mother who have not had much to do with lawyers and who believe them to be just hungry folks scavenging for cases from one police station to another doesn't think it's a good shot.
Now, I plead we leave sentiments aside. Be critical with your reply and please, let your comments not be made out of prejudice.
What are my chances of making it as a lawyer in today's Nigeria?
PS: You might have better options for me, like migrating to a computer-related course or learn a soft skill. I've gotten much of that . Just kindly answer the question.
Thanks in anticipation.
Many people will learn too. I am a lawyer, not doing the litigation thing though. Work in a bank and paying my bills. Just be positive and carve out a niche for yourself. |
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Politics / Re: Elder Statesman, Dr. Junaid Mohammed Is Dead by BREYZ: 11:53pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
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Politics / Re: Breaking News!!!! Nmandi Kanu Has Just Accepted Nigeria Govt Challenge. by BREYZ: 8:31pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Makemefit12op: On this day being 18th of February,2021 Nmandi kanu has accepted the federal government challenge to war.he made this statement through his spokeman. They coward that ran away he has come again and some senseless people will die in his stead again. |
Romance / Re: Help, I Can't Get Over My Girlfriend by BREYZ: 7:33pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
Killertune20: Having dated for about 3 years, early this year, we had an altercation, I believe the distance between us caused it cause I moved to a different state.
Late last year she told me about a young pastor who's asking for her hand in marriage, I asked about her stance and she said she didn't see it happening, but 2 weeks after the altercation, she told me she is considering the pastor.
Ever since then, I have tried to move on but I can't, this babe ticks all the boxes for me, for more than 3 years cause we started dating in school while I was in 300L and she 200L, It's been like no other girl existed in the world for me.
Now the usual gimmick "the lord said you are my wife" has cost me something I value so much.
I love this babe with all my heart, now the things I do around her, like forced chats, unreplied messages gets to me, create a pinch on my ego and in a way emasculates me. It feels like she has moved on but I can't.
Now my question, how do people get over people so easily?
Have you ever met someone and felt like she was the one and it ended?
Has anyone been in my shoes and how did you move on?
The happily ever after I dreamt of has become a night mare.
When I see things like this, I dey vex. Move on man. Move on. Stop acting like a simp |
Romance / Re: Baby Dies 2 Weeks After An Encounter With My Fianceé by BREYZ: 1:27pm On Feb 18, 2021 |
kingofchess: I Am Planning To Marry A Lady And This Happened. Pls Help
I am in my early 30 and I have been dating this lady for a year now and we are planning to settle down together and this happened.
There is this 11 months old baby in my compound who is very close to me and she just started walking. The very first time she saw my girl, she was soo scared and started crawling very fast towards her mum and crying. I quickly ran after her and carried her back to where my girl was sitting down, this time, the crying and running became very intense, I was shocked and I asked why the baby was so scared of her and she said she doesn't know.
Two days later, she came to my place and immediately this baby saw her she was scared and crying that was when I jokily asked her if she is a witch and she got angry and left my house. After she left, a lot of questions started running through my mind: like, is she a witch? Does she has a marine spirit? What did that little girl saw in her? In fact a lot of questions. She later called that same night and was like; baby, I am not possess ooh, I should not allow this little baby come between us ooh and that she loves me very much.
To cut the story short, less than two weeks later, the baby DIED. I was so scared if the baby actually saw something in her and she decided to shut the baby up ( I don't know, just an assumption).
Ever since then, I have been scared of my girl and I really don't know what to do. Please, I need your candid advice. Please guys, how can i make the moderators move this post to front page. Your girlfriend is a ranking member of the coven. she killed the baby because she will soon expose her and she's embarrassed already. Go for deliverance bro you'll find out more. |
Crime / Re: Help! My Sister Was Almost Raped by BREYZ: 9:13am On Feb 18, 2021 |
RayJr: Advice Needed: My Sister Was Almost Raped
Good evening guys, I trust Y'all had a great day.
I will try to make this as short and simple as possible.
My kid sister texted me on WhatsApp this evening saying she almost got raped by the guy crediting her online wallet for her, I drove straight to my mum's store because I was just leaving the office.
Now I met her and asked what's up.
She has an online wallet where she recharges decoders, pays electricity bills for people, sells airtime and data etc. She is a student and she's doing that business in my mum's store so she could help herself in school.
She said someone sent her 30k to pay his electricity bill and also recharge his decoder for him so she went to the guy's shop to get her account credited but he wasn't there then she called him and he directed her to his house in that same street very close to the shop. She got there and the guy tried forcing himself on her, mind you she's on her period, she refused and during the scuffle she lost one of her earrings, she begged me not to take action that the guy has apologised, seeing that I was very hurt and I wanted to confront the guy at that moment. while she was explaining to me the guy called and kept on apologizing but I'm not having any of that.
I wanted to call some of my friends to beat up the guy but after she begged me, I still want confront the guy, warn him seriously but I need advice on if that's the best thing to do or which way do you think is best to approach the situation?
No insults please. Thank you all If na me, that guy for dey chill for hospital now. Don't mess with my sister ooo, I don't joke with her matter at all. I am here to protect her with my life. No amount of begging will make me not to teach that guy a lesson not because of your sister alone but other vulnerable girls out there. PROTECT THE GIRL CHILD TOO. |
Politics / Re: Saraki-Led PDP Reconciliation Committee In Closed-Door Session With Former Govs by BREYZ: 4:28pm On Feb 17, 2021 |
Asgard13: SACK SECONDUS AND REPOSITION THE PARTY
SIMPLE!
NA HIM WEAKNESS MAKE WIKE APPEAR STRONG..
REPLACE SECOUNDUS AND WIKE IS GONE.. THIS ONE NO SABI POLITICS, TALKING TRASH. |
Crime / Re: Obinwanne Okeke (Invictus Obi) Sentenced To 10 Years In Prison by BREYZ: 7:28am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Heterodox: Okoro go do time You go still dey naira land dey wail when him go come out [color=#000099][/color] |
Crime / Re: Obinwanne Okeke (Invictus Obi) Sentenced To 10 Years In Prison by BREYZ: 7:24am On Feb 17, 2021 |
Heterodox: yen yen yen yen. Okoro go do 10yrs fresh. What do you know? Empty brain |
Crime / Re: Obinwanne Okeke (Invictus Obi) Sentenced To 10 Years In Prison by BREYZ: 5:28am On Feb 17, 2021 |
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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Heirs Oil & Gas 2021 Recruitment by BREYZ: 10:21am On Feb 14, 2021 |
erek: I received 3 mails from them...
1.Completion after sign up mail. 2.Completion of profile mail.. 3. Acknowledgement/ successful application of the job position. I received 3 mails as well. Used chrome browser though |
Career / Re: How Much Was The First Salary You Ever Earned? by BREYZ: 8:33am On Feb 14, 2021 |
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Celebrities / Re: Mr Eazi Surprises Temi Otedola With An Early Valentine's Day Treat (Photos) by BREYZ: 7:25pm On Feb 12, 2021 |
Sundaycomputer: Tomorrow morning I will be the first person at lekki toll gate , Please come with your AK47 we die here |
Romance / Re: A Lady Who Showed Off Her Man On Twitter Was Shocked At The Response She Got by BREYZ: 7:37am On Feb 08, 2021 |
PerfectJUSTICE: A lady met her man on Twitter and showed him off with the caption 'we met on Twitter' followed by love emojis.
It was supposed to be a post full of admiration and love but it was interrupted when another lady showed a photo of herself and the guy on a date, saying they met on Twitter too.
Surprisingly, that wasn't enough interruption because another lady, making the third one, showed off a photo of herself on a date with this same young man and she captioned it 'small world' and that they met on Twitter. Exactly why I don't take pictures whenever I go out with them ladies. I no fit make that kind mistake 6 Likes |
Crime / Re: My Boyfriend Drugged And Raped Me. by BREYZ: 2:55am On Feb 08, 2021 |
Girl9999: I created this account to hide my identity. I'm in a very emotional condition at the moment. I've been crying since morning. I've not left my house, not even for church. I've lost the will to live, all because of what happened yesterday evening.
I've been dating this guy for two months. I thought he was a great guy. He was always nice to me, smart and hard-working. I lost my virginity at the age of 18 in University and it was to someone that just wanted to have sex with me. He lied about loving me. All he wanted was sex and when he had his way he abandoned me and dated another girl in my department. Since then I've had a fear of relationships, most importantly of sex. I vowed to only have sex with someone I was going to marry; someone I was certain loved me.
When I met my boyfriend, I thought he was the one. We vibed well and we were both in the same field of work. Everything seemed to click. I opened up to him about my experience and my decision to have sex only when I was ready. He agreed and said he was going to respect my wishes.
Yesterday he visited me at my apartment. This wasn't the first time he was visiting me. We paid each other visits all the time. This time he brought a bottle of wine with him. I prepared food, we both eat and he served us some wine. The last thing I remember is taking few sips and then everything else is blurry.
Next thing I am waking up by 8am this morning with a severe headache, cramped legs and a sore feeling around my vagina. There was something that looked like dried semen on my left thigh and some around my breast. I could also perceive the scent of his perfume on my body. He raped me. The man that claimed to love me raped me. I haven't spoken to anyone since morning, all I've been doing is crying. My phone has been on silent all day.
I want to report him to the police but first I want to look at his face and ask why he would do this to me. I already planned on having sex with him soon. Why couldn't he wait? I want to involve my parents and his parents as well but I don't want this news to spread and take a hit on my reputation. I'm confused about what to do.
Why are men like this? I feel defiled and violated. My mind has been constantly flooded with suicidal thoughts all day. If I make it through this, I'm done with relationships forever.
Na wa. That's all I can say. Sorry you leant about life the hard way. You were even planning on having sex with him soon just two months of dating. Na wa. Like what has this world turned into? You lost your virginity at 18? Like something isn't right somewhere, the foundation is faulty. Anyways, kill that nigga who raped you, you've got 101 reasons to do so. Stop categorizing men, your foundation has been faulty. Whether you are done with men or not, we know in a couple of months you'll still fall victim to another guy, if what happened at first didn't open your eyes, the second one won't. Its just a matter of time. May God heal you though. |
Romance / Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by BREYZ: 6:37pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Affamefuna:
I saw that! so u will take the life of another cos of a fiancee and bring ur own life to an end? Now ask urself is that fiancee as u call, her not a wife o, worth d shedding of blood? U really shock me bro, me don't put woman matter for head Hello bro. This dude broke the bros code, why knack the fiancee of his friend? This is a serious issue. Even if the girl in question is loose, isn't he suppose to avoid any form of attachment between them? He betrayed his friend and people like him don't deserve anything good. |
Celebrities / Re: Ebuka Obi-Uchendu And His Wife, Cynthia Celebrate 5th Wedding Anniversary (Pix) by BREYZ: 5:57pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
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Romance / Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by BREYZ: 5:09pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Affamefuna:
So u will kill another cos of a woman u are not even married to? That's someone else's fiancee he slept with not just a girlfriend. A fiancee. |
Autos / Re: SOLD!!!07 Nigerian Used Honda Civic For Sale @enugu by BREYZ: 4:54pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
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Politics / Re: 2023: Northern Youths Beg Umahi To Contest For Presidency (Photos) by BREYZ: 4:00pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
Kosiso12: 2023 : Northern Youths Beg Gov. Umahi To Contest For Presidency
By Wisdom Nwedene
Northern Youths in Jigawa State, on Saturday, pleaded with Governor David Nweze Umahi of Ebonyi State to contest for 2023 Presidency.
IGBERE TV reports that Umahi who was on working visit to Jigawa State was welcomed by thousands of youths in the State.
The Youth were holding ply cards with different inscriptions such as, "Umahi Is The Man We Know In 2023", Umahi, We Love Your Good Work in Ebonyi State ", etc.
However, Umahi has maintained that it is not yet time to reveal whether he will contest in 2023 or not as he focused on delivering good governance in Ebonyi State.
Speaking to journalists after he joined All Progressives Congress, APC, Umahi said " In 2023, if God permits, I may be quitting politics, and I will be very satisfied because the miracles in Ebonyi state may just be the reason I was born in the first place and I will be bold, like Apostle Paul that says; “I have fought a good fight, I have finished the race.” Wait unto children and their generation, a crown of success because I believed that the foundation would have been laid for the greatness of this state, Ebonyi and so, everybody runs his destiny."
IGBERE TV had reported that Governor David Umahi of Ebonyi State, on Saturday, officially commissioned Babura Township roads in Jigawa State constructed by the Jigawa State Governor, Alh. Mohammed Badaru Abubakar.
Speaking during the official commissioning of the road project, Governor Umahi says he has observed that the All Progressives Congress is grossly under-reported in terms of the achievements of its leaders across the country.
Governor Umahi who was thrilled by the giant strides of the Governor of Jigawa State, Alhaju Mohammed Badaru commended him for working hard to complement the efforts of Mr. President in National development.
"We have served in various National assignments together and I have come to realize that this man called calculator is but a gift to the nation. Within my short stay in Jigawa, I have seen roads of great quality which means he is a man of quality, roads that will last for many years, roads that are well maintained over a total of a thousand six hundred kilometers, this is unprecedented, this is something to be very grateful to God. He is a man of character and content, this State has become the microcosm of the macrocosm that Nigeria is looking for and I am very proud of you"
He called for a show of patriotism by Nigerian leaders to restore the confidence of citizens in the leadership.
Governor Umahi who during the visit inaugurated some roads like the 12km obubara road and other projects executed by the Alhaji Mohammed Badaru Administration challenged other leaders to take a clue from Jigawa State to improve the lots of the people.
He appreciated the Governor for achieving all he achieved silently without castigating other leaders even those in the opposition parties.
Earlier, the Governor of Jigawa State, Alhaji Mohammed Badaru, lauded Governor David Nweze Umahi for the massive Development in Ebonyi State describing him as a man of the people.
He also applauded him for always standing for the peace and unity of Nigeria.
Governor Badaru attributed the Development in the States to regular assistance and interventions by the Federal Government and commended President Muhammadu Buhari for always being ready to assist State Governments develop on their own.
"There is no village, there is no city in Jigawa State that we can not point at least one project done by our Administration, we will continue to push, God's willing, we will do more with your support.
"Our guest today shared a lot with me in common, first, we are all from the private sector. Second, his calculator is more powerful than mine.
"Even on our way coming, I have to learn a lot from him on the cost estimation of building roads with concrete that is cheaper, stronger and more life and if you have been to his place, you will see tremendously that what he has achieved is unprecedented"
"He is a man of courage, a man of the people, a man who cares always about the people.
"My good brother, the nation will remember what you have done and will remember your contribution in the NEC and will remember all you have contributed to moving this country forward and that is why today, we have him in my town to show him that he is part of me and I am part of him and that is why I bring him to my own town to commission these roads.
"Umahi has done so well in the development of his state that we have seen, I have visited and is so amazed and I am very sure that from the language and interaction that he is a man of good character."
Source: https://igberetvnews.com/1381674/2023-northern-youths-beg-gov-umahi-contest-presidency/ Both APC & PDP are zoning their ticket to the north. E go shock una |
Romance / Re: My Best Friend Tried To Kill Me Because Of A Girl by BREYZ: 3:15pm On Feb 07, 2021 |
chumaZ: Nairalanders I need your advise, please pardon my grammar and my typographical errors as I am under pressure, I will try and make this story short in order not to bore you guys
I finished school 2016 and went for NYSC on Abuja 2017. Unfortunately for me, I ran into my best friend supposed fiancée since I know her too well, we bonded till one day she asked to know where I stay in Abuja, but because I was staying with my aunty, I couldn't take her to my place....
One Friday morning I got a call from my bestie that his girl is down, that I should take her to hospital, I left whatever I was doing and rushed down to Apo resettlement. When I got there her fiancée was in good condition to my greatest surprise, she begged me not to let my friend know, that she needed attention and all that. She didn't know it will got to this extent, and I agreed with her and bid her a goodbye but she wouldn't let me go until I kiss her.... I swear I had no option if that would make her free me because she was creating a lot of drama already. I kept cool and avoided this girl till I left abuja after NYSC and never mentioned anything that happened between her and I to my friend.
Fast forward to October 2020, my friend called me that her fiancée has an event to attend in Yaba Lagos for a week and want me to accommodate her since I stay in two bedroom apparent alone, I refused and suggested it was better he get a hotel room for her, my friend said the girl have not been to Lagos that it would be better she stays with someone who's familiar with Lagos. I contacted a female friend I know to see if she can stay with her, but my friend's fiancée' complained the place will be far from where the event would be taking place, my best friend was now seeing me as wicked person and I don't wanna help his girl. I had no option than to allow her to come stay with me, I made sure I invited my sister to stay with me for the one week, to avoid temptation. But my sister couldn't stay for a week because of some personal issues, that's how I was left with my best friend fiancée, I don't wanna talk about what I pass through staying with her alone but I ended up having sex with her which I regretted bitterly, when she left Lagos back to anambra I pleaded with her not to chat me nor call me, but she wouldn't listen. She's always chatty and sending me nude which I finally blocked her.
A week ago, my bestie called me that he was in Lagos and would want us to meet, I was reluctant, because I can't stand him after what happened between me and his fiancée, when I got to the bar (venue) the face I saw around his table were kinda strange aside one of our old friend who was with them. Uncle no even allow me finish greeting before I know it a broken bottle have landed on my hand, his target was my face but thank God I defended on time, that's how my blood spilled everywhere and his friends tried to calm him down while other ones was giving me general beating like a common criminal. Thank God police arrived on time, I might have been a dead man today over a girl I never wanted to help.
Please I need help on how to go about this and clear myself from whatever this girl told my bestie, from the little I heard, she claimed I raped her during her stayed with me. Although I have got a lawyer now who is handling this issue but I still wanna clear myself before my friends, none of them believes me maybe because of my lifestyle back in school. Even my family are aware of this ugly issue and are calling me bumper to bumper, because me and my bestie are from the same village and we are like family friends. I don't know how to clear my name. Please help me. I am depressed already, I can't believe my OG tried killing me. If I were your friend, you won't be here telling this crap of a story. I would have made your death look like an accident. You had 101 ways to avoid these but your betrayed your friend. That's his fiancee you slept with not girlfriend bro. He should have shot you at a close range not with a broken bottle 1 Like 1 Share |
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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Please Who Knows This Company by BREYZ: 9:32pm On Feb 04, 2021 |
tonpere:
Nope. I called to know the name and they said it was a new law firm. I lost interest there. Lol. Why na? 150k - 200k is not a small money o |
Politics / Re: Bandits: Our Informants Are Officials Of Zamfara, Sokoto Governments by BREYZ: 9:06pm On Feb 04, 2021 |
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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Please Who Knows This Company by BREYZ: 8:27pm On Feb 04, 2021 |
tonpere:
A law firm using a school's multipurpose hall for an interview Did you finally attend the interview? I couldn't though. |
Health / Re: Port Harcourt Pollution Endangers Residents' Health - BBC by BREYZ: 6:36pm On Jan 31, 2021 |
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Low life, exactly how they behave. I knew you were going to do that world class ode!
Crippled soul. |
Health / Re: Port Harcourt Pollution Endangers Residents' Health - BBC by BREYZ: 6:32pm On Jan 31, 2021 |
Paxxcarl: If you were twice as smart, you'd still be stupid. Everyone knows who's stupid here, full grown adult acting like an overfed frog. You are indeed a disgrace to the male gender. I spit on your useless self. |
Health / Re: Port Harcourt Pollution Endangers Residents' Health - BBC by BREYZ: 6:02pm On Jan 31, 2021 |
Paxxcarl: another stupid key warrior, say hi to ur mom Say hello to your slowpoke of a family. Dimwit |