Just like guys, girls do everything in their power to get the attention of the opposite gender. Surprisingly, some of their actions and behaviours can actually have the opposite effect. In fact, girls may not even realise that they do certain things that drive men away, when all they're really trying to do is draw guys toward them. Here are some surprising things guys find unattractive. So if you're a girl, you should take note of the following.  


Number one, wearing too much makeup. Girls may think that loading up on foundation, concealer, eyeshadow, eyeliner, mascara, lipstick and blush makes them look their most attractive. But no one really likes the look of layers of makeup that can be scraped off like frosting on cake. A face that is two shades lighter or darker than the rest of the body.  



Number Two. Wearing too much perfume. Alot of marketing goes into making women feel they need to buy a certain perfume in other to be sexy and desirable. Perfume is created to help Express individuality. And while smelling a little sweet is a good thing. There's really no need to drown in this stuff. It turns out that men don't like it when a woman wears too much perfume.  



Number three. Being a gossiper. It can seem fun for a girl to Share with a guy all the latest rumours, scandal and stories involving the life of a friend family and co-workers. But surprisinly thus a major turnoff for guys. As a matter of fact many people with a poor self image rely on gossips to make themselves feel better about their own lives. it's a turnoff for guys simple.



Number four. Attention seekers. Girls you probably have someone like this on your Instagram or on Facebook and he drives you nuts. So you can kind of see where guys are coming from. No one likes a person who is vying for attention so transparently and nothing makes a guy back away faster than seeing a woman who is more interested in looking cool than actually enjoying life. Not to mention, this would only make him think that he's just another Instagram prop.



Number Five. Starving themselves when going out, especially on a First Date. Girls put a lot of thought into what they pick from the menu. They may be craving for a big juicy steak burger with fries, but instead opt for a salad. Maybe they want to look like they take good care of themselves, or maybe they genuinely are trying to lose weight. Perhaps they're just budget conscious and don't want to pick a big ticket item. It's one thing if this is how a girl regularly eats and she is satisfied with their meal, but it's another if she starts picking fries from the guy's plate or refuses to eat anything at all. This makes a girl seem like she Not being authentic. Not to mention guys really don't want A girl to order something she doesn't even want, only ended up eating half his meal. 



Number six. Bad mouthing about there ex. Girls may think that bad mouthing their ex around a new guy is a good idea. But this kind of negative behaviour actually makes them look bad. A girl's intention may be to show that she's totally over her ex and to reassure the new guy that he has nothing to worry about. However, constantly criticising ex partners isn't attractive. After all, Not only does, this type of behaviour make a girl come across as spiteful and immature. But her unrelenting fixation on her ex makes it seem as though she's still harbouring feelings for him. 



Number Seven. Being catty to other girls. It's important that you speak your mind and that you stand up for yourself if you are ever in a situation that makes you feel marginalised. That being said, it can be really unattractive when a girl seems addicted to drama and goes out of her way to be mean to others. There's a big difference between acting immaturely versus emotionally secure in charge of a situation and guys will definitely take notice.



Number Eight. Playing hard to get. Playing hard to get is an easy way to strike out with a guy. While it's true that men are drawn to women who are assertive individuals, it's important to recognised that, there's a fine line between being independent and being unavailable. Playing games can make a girl seem highly immature and can give off the impression that she's not yet ready, willing or interested in getting to know a guy on a deeper and more meaningful level. 

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You know what they say. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Beauty looks different to different people. Some prefer blondes, and others brunettes, some like curves and some like muscles. Some get a little specific. But there are changes you can make right now to look universally more attractive, that require very little effort. And it honestly has less to do with looks and more to do with the confidence these actions will give you.

In this article we're going to look at some subtle ways you can make yourself more attractive, all by incorporating styles, reworking your body language and rewiring your brain to think of yourself differently. So let's get to it.  


Number one, Take care of yourself by having a good sleep. They don't call it beauty Sleep for nothing. Eight hours a night can work wonders for your skin and overall health. Making you appear more healthy, energetic and fresher, that coupled with a healthy diet will automatically make you feel good in your skin that can also help with confidence, social anxiety, stress, all of that makes a massive difference. Quite simply, when you feel good, you look good.



Number two, whiten your teeth. All those Instagram pictures of influencers with teeth whitening kit have certainly got the right idea. Research shows that a good set of pearly whites goes a long way, In how attractive people think you are. In fact, whitening your teeth is a change most likely to make the most significant difference in how others perceive you. So grab that whitening kit, you got to make sure that your smile is white. What women see is a guy that's unhygenic a guy that doesn't take care of themselves thus why your teeth are looking yellowish or discoloured. This is why your oral routine is just as important, not only does it vet the possibilities of having bad odour which is just disgusting, in and of itself, but it also makes sure that your teeth, remain pearly white now if your teeth aren't naturally yellow or maybe they've just been stained from alcohol or coffee.


Number three, get a fresh haircut. If you've been rocking the same cut since middle School. It's time for a change. As you learned more about yourself, achieve milestones travel and make new friends. Keeping all those experiences in touch with your style is essential. For example, if you're regularly on the go, long hair can be difficult to style every morning. are made Cut that worked in High School no longer frames your face the right way since he grew up. Either way, make that trip to a Barbar or Salon and get a consultation on what hairstyle would suit you best. A hairstyle that perfectly complements your style and personality will automatically make you look more attractive. 


Number four, pick a signature scent. Research shows that there is an incredibly strong link between attraction and scent not the only factor scent can subconsciously influence a person's attraction to another. Now I'm not saying you should use a strong cologne in every nook and cranny of your body that would have the opposite effect. But if you can pick a scent that matches your personality, there's nothing like it. Wearing a fragrance you like can also boost your confidence which was shown in your walk, and in your talk.


Number five, take good care of your nail. This is crucial because if you think about it this is the first impression that you make on somebody, when you shake their hand and it's so crucial that it has the potential of actually attracting somebody or detracting that because when you have dirt on your nails or your nails are overly long again just like the yellow teeth, those are those micro grooming mistakes that men make that otherwise you wouldn't be attracted but when you see that it just grosses people out to the point, they start wondering what else don't they take care of do they even shower and once a girl's mind wanders that far, you're done, you're no longer attractive but the best way to clip your nails is right out the shower, at least once a week, once you had the shower I would tackle all 20 nails of cleaning them and clipping them because your nails are going to be softer and more easier to manage as they've been in the water for a few minutes so if you want to do it fast. This is the best way to do


Number six, take cold showers. To get what you want in life, you have to be willing to do what others don't. And this, this is one of those things, and apart from the natural adrenaline rush and mental callousness This provides. This is a grooming step attractive men can never miss, even if it's winter and it sucked using cold water is less irritating on the skin which means it's not going to overly dry, meaning you're gonna have perfectly moisturise silky smooth skin all over your body, just by doing this one grooving step.


Number Seven. Exfoliate your lips. This is super important, it's something so many men tend to skip because they just don't care about. why do you think women just want to make out with attractive dudes, their lips are probably on point and yours aren't, now there's two ways to exfoliate your lips to make sure that they look plump naturally one is using a sugar scrub this is the easiest and cheapest way to do so. All you do is grab a little bit of sugar, some water, mix it together, And then add to brushing your teeth, you can exfoliate your lips with a scrub that's gonna get rid of all the dead skin and the dryness to make sure your lips look great. Another easiest way to do so in is when you're brushing your teeth. Once you're done, rinse your toothbrush and using the soft bristles of your toothbrush ,you can also exfoliate your lips. This is again gonna lift up all the dead skin and other ruggedness of your lips to make your lips plump and kissable.

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You know what they say. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Beauty looks different to different people. Some prefer blondes, and others brunettes, some like curves and some like muscles. Some get a little specific. But there are changes you can make right now to look universally more attractive, that require very little effort. And it honestly has less to do with looks and more to do with the confidence these actions will give you.

In this article we're going to look at some subtle ways you can make yourself more attractive, all by incorporating styles, reworking your body language and rewiring your brain to think of yourself differently. So let's get to it.  


Number one, Take care of yourself by having a good sleep. They don't call it beauty Sleep for nothing. Eight hours a night can work wonders for your skin and overall health. Making you appear more healthy, energetic and fresher, that coupled with a healthy diet will automatically make you feel good in your skin that can also help with confidence, social anxiety, stress, all of that makes a massive difference. Quite simply, when you feel good, you look good.



Number two, whiten your teeth. All those Instagram pictures of influencers with teeth whitening kit have certainly got the right idea. Research shows that a good set of pearly whites goes a long way, In how attractive people think you are. In fact, whitening your teeth is a change most likely to make the most significant difference in how others perceive you. So grab that whitening kit, you got to make sure that your smile is white. What women see is a guy that's unhygenic a guy that doesn't take care of themselves thus why your teeth are looking yellowish or discoloured. This is why your oral routine is just as important, not only does it vet the possibilities of having bad odour which is just disgusting, in and of itself, but it also makes sure that your teeth, remain pearly white now if your teeth aren't naturally yellow or maybe they've just been stained from alcohol or coffee.


Number three, get a fresh haircut. If you've been rocking the same cut since middle School. It's time for a change. As you learned more about yourself, achieve milestones travel and make new friends. Keeping all those experiences in touch with your style is essential. For example, if you're regularly on the go, long hair can be difficult to style every morning. are made Cut that worked in High School no longer frames your face the right way since he grew up. Either way, make that trip to a Barbar or Salon and get a consultation on what hairstyle would suit you best. A hairstyle that perfectly complements your style and personality will automatically make you look more attractive. 


Number four, pick a signature scent. Research shows that there is an incredibly strong link between attraction and scent not the only factor scent can subconsciously influence a person's attraction to another. Now I'm not saying you should use a strong cologne in every nook and cranny of your body that would have the opposite effect. But if you can pick a scent that matches your personality, there's nothing like it. Wearing a fragrance you like can also boost your confidence which was shown in your walk, and in your talk.


Number five, take good care of your nail. This is crucial because if you think about it this is the first impression that you make on somebody, when you shake their hand and it's so crucial that it has the potential of actually attracting somebody or detracting that because when you have dirt on your nails or your nails are overly long again just like the yellow teeth, those are those micro grooming mistakes that men make that otherwise you wouldn't be attracted but when you see that it just grosses people out to the point, they start wondering what else don't they take care of do they even shower and once a girl's mind wanders that far, you're done, you're no longer attractive but the best way to clip your nails is right out the shower, at least once a week, once you had the shower I would tackle all 20 nails of cleaning them and clipping them because your nails are going to be softer and more easier to manage as they've been in the water for a few minutes so if you want to do it fast. This is the best way to do


Number six, take cold showers. To get what you want in life, you have to be willing to do what others don't. And this, this is one of those things, and apart from the natural adrenaline rush and mental callousness This provides. This is a grooming step attractive men can never miss, even if it's winter and it sucked using cold water is less irritating on the skin which means it's not going to overly dry, meaning you're gonna have perfectly moisturise silky smooth skin all over your body, just by doing this one grooving step.


Number Seven. Exfoliate your lips. This is super important, it's something so many men tend to skip because they just don't care about. why do you think women just want to make out with attractive dudes, their lips are probably on point and yours aren't, now there's two ways to exfoliate your lips to make sure that they look plump naturally one is using a sugar scrub this is the easiest and cheapest way to do so. All you do is grab a little bit of sugar, some water, mix it together, And then add to brushing your teeth, you can exfoliate your lips with a scrub that's gonna get rid of all the dead skin and the dryness to make sure your lips look great. Another easiest way to do so in is when you're brushing your teeth. Once you're done, rinse your toothbrush and using the soft bristles of your toothbrush ,you can also exfoliate your lips. This is again gonna lift up all the dead skin and other ruggedness of your lips to make your lips plump and kissable.

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Relationships are great, there's no denying that. One thing we hear from women often though is that they don't understand what they've done wrong with their love life, and they find themselves single again. 

Well, believe it or not, there are some very common mistakes women make that kill relationships, and in this article I'm going to share with you the five biggest ones,

Number one. Being clingy. If your entire day revolves around your man, whether it's texting him insistently checking up on social media and calling to share what you ate for lunch, then we have a problem. Expecting your man to communicate with you constantly to always be by your side, or to rearrange his life to see your needs are clear signs of cleanness. That said, sometimes clingy behaviour isn't as obvious, and instead it takes the form of being emotionally needy. When this happens, women find themselves upset when their guy doesn't involve them in all their plans, or they need daily reassurance that he still loves her and find her attractive. This kind of desperation is far from attractive, and it doesn't take long for men to grow sick and tired of it. The number one reason why men fear commitment and getting into relationships is because they don't want to lose their freedom. This is why when you act clingy, it doesn't take long for him to find the door. Oftentimes, this sort of behaviour starts off mildly and can easily be overlooked, like wildfire though it can quickly evolve into something much bigger, and when that happens more often than not the relationship goes up in flames. Instead of letting your emotions get the best of you. It's important that you learn how to be your own person. This means having your own interests and activities outside of the relationship. To do so, keep busy with friends, pick up a new hobby or take a class you've always been interested in. Focusing on other areas of your life will not only keep your head clear and attitude positive, but will also give your guy a chance to miss you when you're not around. This is one of the best ways to keep the spark alive between the two of you, but it's not possible when you act clingy. 

Number two. Acting insecure, hand in hand with being clingy is acting insecurely. Allow me to explain how this happens and why it's so unattractive. Think for a moment about the early days of your relationship, you probably felt like a million bucks around your man, and the buzz you shared was infectious. Over time though, you may start to feel those initial butterflies fade and when they do, it's not uncommon for feelings of doubt to come creeping in. If this happens, you might find yourself over analysing or looking for small changes or reasons why you think your man is losing interest in you and the relationship. Unfortunately, this is a vicious circle situation, because if you're bugging him about these things, then he's bound to get bored of her insecurities and leave. Overcoming insecure feelings can be tough, but the first step to doing so is recognising these tendencies in yourself. In fact, you may even think the questions you ask about his female co workers or comments you make about his dating history are justified, but to him, they're much heavier and scream and secure. Of course, you'll have days where you feel less than awesome. We all do. But when those insecure feelings come creeping in, it's important that you keep them under wraps, and don't unleash them on your man, a good tip for getting into a positive confident headspace, is to make a point to stop focusing on the past or the future, and instead learn to enjoy the moment. Instead of looking for reasons why your man wouldn't want to be with you. Tell yourself that any guy would be lucky to have you.  

Number three. Acting abusively. Some people believe that it's okay to take their daily frustrations out on their partner. But that couldn't be farther from the truth. Sure, you might get upset with your guy from time to time, but there's never a good reason or excuse to verbally, emotionally or physically abused him, this kind of behaviour is a guaranteed relationship killer. Maybe we thinking I'd never do that, and believe me, that's what most women say. what so many fail to realise, though, is that their words do more damage than they think. So to them is simply venting is actually belittling and harmful to their man to complicate the situation even further, most time guys won't share the way you've said has upset them, and instead they choose to bottle it up. Since we all like being around people who make us feel good if you're doing the opposite and constantly putting your man down, calling them names or criticising him, then you're going to be the last woman on earth, he's going to want to be with. To prevent this from happening. Think before you speak, and keep your words kind. 

Number four. Control issues. If you're constantly calling the shots, telling your man how to act, or trying to fix him, then he's going to make a run for it. If he feels he has to compete to get his voice heard or like he has no control over the relationship. It's only a matter of time until he calls it quits. Since relationships are about to people coming together to create something special, if only one of you is laying down the law, then the relationship will become a ticking time bomb. The scary thing with control issues is that they aren't always obvious. In fact, you may be controlling without even realising it or mistaken these tendencies as winning because he cares about you. It sounds dumb, but something as simple as being the one who chooses the show you watch, or what you eat for dinner on a regular basis, all stems back to control issues. To avoid this, be sure that you're asking for his input and taking his preferences into consideration, even if the two of you barely agree on anything. Relationships are about give and take, so be sure you're playing a role in both parts of that. It can be tough to change behaviour that's become such a strong part of your personality. So if you notice controlling tendency in yourself, then talk to your guy about it openly admit that you realise you have a habit of being power hungry and tell him that you want to work on it, letting him know that you recognise his behaviour is a first step to overcoming it. Plus, who knows, talking about it sooner than later, maybe the saving grace that prevents him from leaving you.

Number five. Cheating. Everyone has a different idea for what constitutes as cheating. So right from the beginning of your relationship, or now if you haven't already done so, it's important that the two of you set some boundaries and establish what is cheating. This may sound unnecessary, but you'd be surprised by what some people consider it to be, and prevent this kind of heartache, you have to first know since cheating is the ultimate betrayal, it can be hard to bounce back once a partner has been unfaithful to avoid the situation completely make a point to be completely transparent with your man, and let him know about the uncomfortable situations you may find yourself in. For instance, let's say you were the girls and a handsome stranger tries to put the moves on you as much as your man may not want to hear about other guys coming on to you, hearing it from you is so much better than hearing from someone else he knows who may have witnessed it go down. Lastly, remember that double standards do not exist in a healthy relationship. So if you're behaving one way and have different expectations for your man, then the relationship is going to crumble. Instead, make a point to be fair and treat him, and the relationship, the same way as you'd like him to, at the end of the day, men want to be with the kind of woman who brings something positive to their life. No one who sucks the life out of them. If you're acting like a leech putting them down, trying to call the shots or sneaking around behind his back, then you're going to lose him.

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Flattery will get you everywhere, But when it comes to your relationship, it's only partially true compliments that are hollow will fall on deaf ears, or worse, will backfire.

But if you deliver the right compliment and you mean it, it will do wonders for your relationship with that in mind, Below is all of the irresistible sayings that the woman in your life will always appreciate, so read on to discover how to win her all over again with just a sentence or two,  


1. That new hairstyle looks sexy,

What a woman wants to hear is that you notice her specifically. If she has been spending more time putting on makeup and clothes at the gym, or getting a new haircut, colour, compliment her on that, noticing and giving this kind of compliment can show that you are paying attention, which is what every woman wants.  


2. I know you put a lot of effort into it and it shows.

This one isn't so much about what you say, but how you say it. Saying you look pretty is nice, but different than something like, I really love that dress on you. I know you've been working really hard to stay consistent with going to the gym and that dress really shows off your progress. You look great, adding a second layer to highlight reasons why you feel inclined to give the compliment provides more depth and allows for a deeper connection in that interaction.

3. Your an amazing Mom.

If she is a mom saying this validates her effort shows respect for a job that doesn't get much feedback from a boss and shows you are appreciating the hard work it takes to be a mom, 

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Flattery will get you everywhere, But when it comes to your relationship, it's only partially true. compliments that are hollow will fall on deaf ears, or worse, will backfire.

But if you deliver the right compliment and you mean it, it will do wonders for your relationship with that in mind, Below is all of the irresistible sayings that the woman in your life will always appreciate, so read on to discover how to win her all over again with just a sentence or two.

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A lot of people say that women fall in love faster than men do. But that's not necessarily true.

Men and women just fall in love differently and experienced and show it in different ways.

So then, how can you know whether or not her feelings for you are genuine. There are some subtle giveaways to pay attention to. And here are few signs that she truly does love you.

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