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Family / .. by BrownCarton: 3:20pm On May 21, 2022 |
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Romance / Re: A Girl Is Addicted To Me Like A Drug And It Killing Me by BrownCarton: 10:55am On Apr 05, 2021 |
Yoighaman: Haha.. She is only attracted to the chase, once she gets it, it will no more be appealing. 1 Like |
Romance / What They Don't Tell You About the aftermath of Sleeping With A Cheater by BrownCarton: 10:19am On Apr 05, 2021 |
You all know the story of when a girl is in a relationship, but then meets another guy who she begins to lean more into till she cheats with him and then leaves her boyfriend. That guy she cheats with will suffer deep insecurities that may never be cured. He will continuously struggle to reconcile the initial events with a honest narrative if he tries to pursue a true relationship with the woman. A lot of single guys are actually afraid of commitment because of the scar sleeping with a cheating girl has caused. Especially if they ve witnessed her showing a different personality when contacted by the main guy. The person being cheated on suffers pain, that may go, the cheater suffers a lot of guilt, but the third person will carry on insecurities that last a long time. Be wise. |
Family / Re: My Wife Doesn't Want To Change, I Might Cheat On Her Again. by BrownCarton: 8:46am On Dec 18, 2020 |
jornwhite:OP with due respect, don't listen to this. I promise you she will definitely hate you more if you try the above. Women are first convinced in their minds before anything happens.Everything in life is timing. There is just something about the cheating that will nip in her mind. I can't advise what to do else tho. You wear the shoes so know where it hurts |
TV/Movies / Re: BBNaija: Tony Umez Vs Ozo Vs Nengi by BrownCarton: 1:02am On Sep 14, 2020 |
Ozo: A special type of simp |
Family / Re: ADHD: My Experience And How It Has Affected My Life by BrownCarton: 9:13am On Aug 17, 2020 |
Cchuks27:Hey bro, just checked my login email after a long while and saw you tried to contact me, for some reason, didn't find the link to reply, but you can reach me back. Cheers 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Ex Girlfriend now keeps Disturbing Me. by BrownCarton: 12:42pm On Jun 21, 2019 |
Skmoda360:Not possible again. I ve mentally checked out |
Romance / Re: Ex Girlfriend now keeps Disturbing Me. by BrownCarton: 9:35am On Jun 21, 2019 |
Binidefender:A lot of sentiments were involved. As our families knew each other, so I made a lot of escuses till it got real bad. |
Romance / Re: Ex Girlfriend now keeps Disturbing Me. by BrownCarton: 7:18am On Jun 21, 2019 |
I have someone way hotter than her which we re starting to start off. I believe a woman has to respect you more than she loves you, otherwise, it will all crash. 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: Ex Girlfriend now keeps Disturbing Me. by BrownCarton: 7:02am On Jun 21, 2019 |
mezarddinny:True.. But when she has created false negative claims about me to family and friends. It hurts man |
Romance / Re: Ex Girlfriend now keeps Disturbing Me. by BrownCarton: 6:59am On Jun 21, 2019 |
daddytime:Come down from your high horse Mr. What about when she is so careful in gaslighting you and hiding "evidence". Besides, I was trying to build a honest relationship, so was always forgiving, rather than playing the same games 8 Likes |
Romance / Re: Ex Girlfriend now keeps Disturbing Me. by BrownCarton: 6:57am On Jun 21, 2019 |
bdchange:Mr old and wise.. Man of all wisdom. I hail 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Ex Girlfriend now keeps Disturbing Me. by BrownCarton: 6:52am On Jun 21, 2019 |
daddytime:Seen. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: She Said She Wants Space For 1 Week by BrownCarton: 6:00am On Jun 21, 2019 |
Raydans:I did.. Check my new thread |
Romance / Re: Ex Girlfriend now keeps Disturbing Me. by BrownCarton: 5:48am On Jun 21, 2019 |
Was to move to a very high-end brand new apartment, she has seen the pictures but never been there. She followed me there first time, but before we entered the building, I pretended I really needed her phone for an emergency. She was obviously on my back while using it till I went snooping. It basically got dramatic, neighbours got involved. In my mind, I was happy I d confirmed my suspicion. Gave her her phone back with no reaction whatsoever. She got so dramatic on something totally irrelevant with the neighbours and smashed her phone on the wall. We both drove off from there without saying anything. I then blocked her on all mediums. Few hours later, she came to my house, asking me to open to talk which I refused. Left hundreds of calls, I told her to talk from outside. She waited for hours till past midnight and came back the next day. I still won't show any reaction. I only told her from the balcony to kindly go home as I ve decided I won't let her get too familiar again. She would then go and come back to damage something in a bid to get me to react which I didn't. I then dropped off her stuff with a friend so I don't get to interact with her. Now it's literally happening every day. Some part of me almost felt bad, but another part of me is very happy leaving her to sulk up the guilt. She was a nightmare. I believe many guys here can learn from my experience. When she shows signs of dishonesty. Cut it off and move one. Unless you want her to manipulate you into the untrusting insecure controlling freak. Nothing good will ever come out of it. 30 Likes |
Romance / Re: Ex Girlfriend now keeps Disturbing Me. by BrownCarton: 5:46am On Jun 21, 2019 |
Well, I thought I was dealing with a normal headed girl, so called her one day and told her that I wanted to let go of the past and if she feels all these games will still not stop, let me know and I will move on. Basically I don't want to keep talking or dragging things. She said yes.. But you know.. As usual.. Too many lies continued, doing stuff in my back. At this point she will literally ignore my calls for a full day and come back in the evening with a silly escuse we both know was a lie. I sucked up all this in. Used up all my mental strength not to react. At some point, I had to tell myself the truth,... This will never work out. But for me to leave, I won't want the story to be-the crazy guy who was insecure, emotional and controlling. I literally wanted closure, but she won't give. Basically she will push me to the wall to react, but will not break up, so if I do, it became my fault. I gave myself a day to end all of this, cos my life was taking a sht.. Wasn't eating or doing anything well. She basically was manipulative as she will not want me talking to other girls, but will be so secretive with her phone. I knew I needed to find the truth, but she will never tell me, so I made a plan. 6 Likes |
Romance / Re: Ex Girlfriend now keeps Disturbing Me. by BrownCarton: 5:46am On Jun 21, 2019 |
Every major fight ended up with me explaining till she even started saying.. "You are talking too much. I ve heard." Yet she will go back to something funny again. After this last breakup, I felt like a disaster, and literally begged her. Although, I would beg for like a day, then back off like 4days.. When she sees I ve stopped begging, she comes back. All these made me totally emotionally unstable. I struggled hard at work, wouldn't eat. Yet she kept taking me for a fool. Affection was literarily non-existent, calls and communication became short and dead. Another breakup followed suit. In fact, I did this one myself cos I wanted to test her commitment, but we mutually came back again after it. At that point, I was mentally a wreck! I don't advise any guy to go through this crazy route. 6 Likes 5 Shares |
Romance / Re: Ex Girlfriend now keeps Disturbing Me. by BrownCarton: 5:46am On Jun 21, 2019 |
Few days after, I saw she was daily calling nd texting the guy. I gave her an ultimatum, which she agreed to. However, the next day, she wasn't picking my calls in the evening. I drove to her place and waited and saw she came back late at night with the guy, but then she went out with her big aunt. I tried to confront her, her aunt got involved, but she spinned it all, where I felt like the wrong and went home. . On getting home, she broke up again. This time badly. She didn't return calls, blocked me everywhere... Etc. Well, I ve given a whole lot for this girl, starting from the beginning. We ve had many situations she has (almost) cheated, but instead of breaking up, I assumed she needed me to explain to her why avoiding such situation was a better idea. I literally spend hours on multiple calls explaining to this girl, so it doesn't look like I am dictating, instead I am guiding. |
Romance / Ex Girlfriend now keeps Disturbing Me. by BrownCarton: 5:44am On Jun 21, 2019 |
Hi guys, This is a follow up to my initial thread where my girlfriend.. Now ex... Asked for a one week space. https://www.nairaland.com/5164412/she-said-she-wants-space So a lot happened after the one week space. Honestly, my anxiety got the whole of me, cos she really drenched me emotionally. I found myself becoming a joke of my former self. From the man who will be in control, to the guy chasing for her time. She basically put me on a chasing wheel. After the space, I mentioned we were "working" through things for about a week, until when she did the worst. Basically arguing against me in a confrontation with her 'toaster', taking his side and calling me a liar and driving home with him. I did break up on the spot, but she still came back like she didn't realise what she did was the height. I still thought "well, maybe she didn't understand", so at the expense of my self-respect, I took her back but promised myself that when things cooled down, I will give her an ultimatum to cut off with that guy. |
Romance / Re: She Said She Wants Space For 1 Week by BrownCarton: 11:38am On Jun 20, 2019 |
mayim:Fact.. I ve moved on.. But not without a crazy ending |
Romance / Re: She Said She Wants Space For 1 Week by BrownCarton: 9:18am On Jun 20, 2019 |
pcguru1:I m not bruh.. Haha.. Joined to try get that woman off my mind. Ended up not going further when she came back. But will go again this time fully |
Romance / Re: She Said She Wants Space For 1 Week by BrownCarton: 9:16am On Jun 20, 2019 |
nwanneni:It's the w204. Some have the standard head unit dash with the small screen after it slides and curves open. While some have the standing screen with inbuilt navigation. |
Romance / Re: She Said She Wants Space For 1 Week by BrownCarton: 9:14am On Jun 20, 2019 |
pcguru1:Is suspect that as well.. However, too many crazies happened not even relating to the guy that I feel that once respect is lost, the relationship is dead |
Romance / Re: She Said She Wants Space For 1 Week by BrownCarton: 9:13am On Jun 20, 2019 |
nwanneni:The c200 has this in between corporate/luxury look I admire. Also, mine has a protruding head unit with navigation which not a lot of similar models have |
Romance / Re: She Said She Wants Space For 1 Week by BrownCarton: 6:59am On Jun 20, 2019 |
iPrevail:Man was right to the point 1 Like |
Romance / Re: She Said She Wants Space For 1 Week by BrownCarton: 6:29am On Jun 20, 2019 |
Oluromantic:Word... I ll update what happened after. Was a terrible experience |
Politics / Re: Nigeria Is Only Meant For Visiting, Not To Live In- UK Nigeria Lady (video) by BrownCarton: 11:39pm On May 14, 2019 |
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Romance / Re: She Said She Wants Space For 1 Week by BrownCarton: 10:55pm On May 13, 2019 |
Update. The space didn't last long as we sort of got talking after a couple of days. However, she did something I will say.. No man with balls will ever take. Someguy she used to confide in started talking stuff about me, which I got to know about through a friend. Long story short, I, she nd the guy found ourselves in a confrontation, where she sided the guy, and eventually left in his car. Tbh. it was quite humiliating. Broke up there and then.. However she reached out to me, and in a small conversation, an argument ensued again, as certain family issues were around it all. Now, I gave myself a proper break. Went quiet, hit the gym and bought myself a Mercedes c200 as I ve always wanted to get one. Yeah.. Shez seen my couple of uploads, and yeah.. She has called, which I ve refused to pick. . At this point, I am all about either revenge or just cutting off totally. I know cutting off is the best, but I like her to feel some pain either way at the end. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: She Said She Wants Space For 1 Week by BrownCarton: 12:29am On May 02, 2019 |
iPrevail:I get your point bro. I already said she called me a day after, but I haven't returned it. I was asking what could it mean if/after she calls after a week which is in a few days. Peace |
Romance / Re: She Said She Wants Space For 1 Week by BrownCarton: 12:12am On May 02, 2019 |
iPrevail: I know it is done and I have someone I am talking to right now, but a part of me tells me that the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know |
Romance / Re: She Said She Wants Space For 1 Week by BrownCarton: 11:53pm On May 01, 2019 |
SUPERPACK:LOL.. I already told her I want to marry her, but she said she is not sure she feels the same. She also at some point told me not to call her "babe" |
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