A real and genuine mother will feel nothing when her baby sucks her breast
except u guy are looking for something else

I believe it is possobile for one to fall out of love voluntarily or involuntary.
the only difference is that if its voluntary then it is premediated as in i want to look for love elsewhere
but involuntarily when the relationship that exist between the parties loses it spark in that case it is a direct consequence of an action or inaction

Agbizi!! Akain!!! the programme is cool and it's one tonic that ease the stress of Traffic.
Diplomatic Opj and Akas Baba are of a kind but all should watch out for Diplomatic E-X-P.

Most times am driving when the programme is on but if and when i get thru, i wan challenge una authorities to break bottles, shoot gun with their unlimited supplies of water be it cold, hot or even gutter wata. it's high time you pour people coca cola or pepsi to ease the stress of trafficc ooooo

Although am not resident in the UK but i know that the search for responsible Bachelors as well as Spinsters are hard to come by either ways and this is not limited only to the Uk.

Although there are stories of what both gender does to get the Red Passport in the Uk but i believe in a general saying that "as you lay your bed so you lye on it". this is becos a responsible lady will naturally attracts a responsible guy since the irresponsible ones may not find her too charming. You cannot eat your cake and have it especially ladies that wants to be in between i.e those that are responsible but occassionally deviates.

my advice to all ladies goes thus:

1. when a guy ask you out what he sees in you is purely the feminine self which he believe will satisfy his lust.

but when you eventually agrees  to be his girl

2. it is your sole responsibility and duty to convince him that you are different. this you achieve by your genuine attitude, thought, disposition, believe, ideas, understanding and even your contributions (not financially) that you show case during courtship. Please note that at this Stage  if you are vigilant the irresponsible ones would have taken their leave.

However lastly,

3. the decision to take the relationship or courtship to a higher level resides solely with the man. Except a lady fails in "2" above or the man is not6 responsible then all is well.


in conclusion however if you has a lady feels you have fulfill what is expected of you  then know that such a man even if you force yourself on him will not appreciate you so i begt you to take your leave.