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Romance / Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by burggerx: 7:30pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
eni4real:The truth is that I don't have explosive personality.. If I do, I would have been beaten her quite a few number of times considering the level she has frustrated me to The reason why I need to go in search of a lady who I can handle with my gentleman personality |
Romance / Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by burggerx: 7:18pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
newdawn2017:The reason why I even created this thread is because I'm beginning to suffer for the trauma. I'm becoming sad day by day compared to the way I used to be |
Romance / Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by burggerx: 7:10pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
iRepNaija1:I never said I'm blameless. I have my own flaws too but certainly not rudeness, pomposity, arrogance or disrespecting her family during heated arguments |
Romance / Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by burggerx: 5:54pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
HOB777:Same with me bro.. There's no one I come out plain to about girlfriend's attitude that they don't discourage me She has other good sides but this flaws of hers is disastrous. It's a marriage wrecker and that was why I opened this thread to hear the views of others 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by burggerx: 5:48pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
eni4real:Yes she does but humility is far from her |
Romance / Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by burggerx: 5:36pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Burggerxbabe:I guess you're a troll or maybe you probably share the same traits with my gf and you actually think it's your boyfriend that created this thread |
Romance / Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by burggerx: 5:11pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
darealbabe:My God bless you my sister The thing is that, I saw this things clearly with my two naked eyes when the relationship started newly but I thought it was a minor thing that could be corrected. But right as I speak, instead of it to get better, it's getting worse My ears were blocked when my family observed her and predicted her to be a potential problematic wife but now I'm beginning to see the truth in it.. For someone to even disrespect my family whom I hold in high regard during a heated argument speak volume of the hell I'm going to face with her as a wife 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by burggerx: 4:52pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
bixton:I haven't tried doing what you just said but she doesn't wash my clothes.. I do that myself She has only done that only on a rare occasion and she has made it clear to me that she's not a slave. Only my younger sister comes around during weekend to wash the clothes I wore to office for the week. My girlfriend doesn't do that when she comes around 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by burggerx: 4:37pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
frozen70:I'm being sincere dear and God knows everything I've written here is nothing but the truth |
Romance / Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by burggerx: 3:53pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Didi2d:When I hear all sort of stories like that on Nairaland, I never knew I would be a victim of a toxic partner.. Not even an easy going person like me 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by burggerx: 3:49pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
sacramento1212:She's intelligent, a motivator and a career driven lady which are good traits almost every man wants in a woman but the fear that she will cause separation between me and my family scares the hell out of me Mom and younger sister have both observed my girlfriend to the extent that they predicted that my house will be out of bound for them if I eventually marry the lady. The first time they predicted it, I thought maybe it's because they don't like her but her actions and behaviour has been pointing towards their prediction 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by burggerx: 3:41pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Billyanger:Yes my mom is more sensitive than I am. She can smell an evil person miles away |
Romance / Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by burggerx: 3:38pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
newdawn2017:No I don't have a low self esteem. Let me just say I refused to let go probably because of her beauty and the thrill of people being envious of us when we are both walking together. Only if they know the heating I'm facing dating the pretty lady they envy 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by burggerx: 3:34pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
aniekeme09:She's so stubborn and always want to control me. Each time I talk about her bad attitude which is not something I can't easily overlook, she begins to argue and tells me no relationship is perfect Even if no relationship is perfect, is about condoning a lady who has the tendency to disrespect both me and my parents? I come from a humble background but she's just the opposite of that 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by burggerx: 3:29pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Unpussified:I grew up in a family where humility and good character is our watchword but I just can't be the one that will marry a woman that will cause separation between me and my family 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by burggerx: 3:26pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Drpeey:My mom is smarter than I think... I always conceal her real character from her because I don't want my mom to hate her but she knows everything I've been hiding 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by burggerx: 3:10pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
dustydee:What are you saying? Did you skip the part where I said he has disrespected my family during a heated argument? My family that I don't joke with 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by burggerx: 3:09pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Brightgem:I only meant that was what kept me that long... But I've decided to move on 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by burggerx: 12:07pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Martinez39:I'm not stupid man! The reason why I have stayed this long with her is that I don't know if the next person I will jump to would be worse, which I doubt 12 Likes |
Romance / Re: Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by burggerx: 12:04pm On Nov 27, 2019 |
Unpussified:That's exactly my plan bro... Marriage is not a child's play and I don't want to end up as a frustrated man.. The frustration in this country alone is enough to give one concern talk more of adding that of a miserable wife to it I know there are several other guys in the same dilemma with me and I hope lalasticlala can give this post a wider audience 17 Likes |
Romance / Can My Disrespectful & Unsubmissive Girlfriend Change After Marriage? by burggerx: 7:43am On Nov 27, 2019 |
One thing that scares the hell out of me about my girlfriend is her attitude. When you talk about a disrespectful and unsubmissive lady, my girlfriend is the headquarters of all the disrespectful and unsubmissive ladies I've ever met. Even if she does something good, I don't tend to notice it because her bad attitude has already overshadowed the good side of her Even if she acts respectful to me, it's so obvious she's only forcing it since it's a trait she lacks. Just when a little brawl ensues, curses and abusive words are usually not far-fetched from her mouth. She has even insulted my family before during a heated argument. The only thing my girlfriend is yet to do is to beat me up I believe they say respect is earned but I've done everything a man should do to earn respect from his lady yet this lady talks to me like a kid. No sign of humility at all My girlfriend is not only dominating but toxic and does not accept correction. She makes it look like giving authority as a man is slavery and she questions my authority every time. The annoying part is that she argues a lot and always wants to be right at all times. Feminism is written all over her to the extent that even in movies, my girlfriend will have the back of a woman who is unsubmissive and disrespectful to an innocent husband. Although she acts like a respectful girlfriend in the presence of my family but my mom in question is smart enough to know that she's only faking it despite trying all my best to portray my girlfriend as someone that gives me joy in the face of my mom Before my mom traveled to the UK in September, she sat me down up to three times and advised me to let go of this girl if I really want to spend the rest of life with peace of mind and that if I insist on marrying her, she doesn't have a choice than to respect my decision but she will remind me of her advice which I didn't yield to if I eventually end up as a frustrated man in the future I've tried to terminate the relationship but she cries and makes the whole thing look like I don't love her and that if I do, I should be able to cope with her flaws. There was even a time she told me she doesn't have a choice than to respect me if I marry her and I was like WTF! I have decided to call the relationship a quit once and for all since I'm not in for any future drama. I don't want to end up with a woman that will be rude and disrespect me in the face of my own children. But there's one question I want to ask is that, can a ride girlfriend ever change after marriage? Is it worth taking the risk that she will change with time? 68 Likes 7 Shares |
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