I am a new NLer and i must say i quite appreciate all the comments i have seen posted. 
I have a problem here and i am hoping you guys will be able to help me out. I met this guy some time ago and we started an affair. He came to be known by my parents and he became a regular visitor at our house as my friend and he was really caring and wonderful. I knew he had done his introduction with a lady( he told me himself) but he wasn't married yet. We were quite an item but all these changed when i got pregnant. He asked me to abort and i refused. I am 33 and ready to settle down for God's sake. He has drummed it to my ears that he isn't going to marry me because he has a fiancee somewhere that he was going to marry. My parents have tried to talk to him but he claimed i set him up. Now i am 5months gone and it is still the same situation.
I really don't know what to do-- can anyone pls help me out. How do i get this guy to marry me?