You have to sit her down and have constructive communication with her,tell her your concern from your conversations you will hear her own side of challenges and fear.If at the end of the day there is no changes of attitude from her you must reach out to the people you knew she respect so much and tell them your challenges if at the end of the day no change.You must take the bul by the horn and do the needful because of your mental health.

You are in dicey situation and I will advice you go your separate way for your peace and mental health,if I have known what I knew today years back I wouldn`t have took the risj I took then but God have mercy on us.My first Son was SS and We lost him in 2002 We had another children after that to GOD be the glory they turned AS,AA,AA.They are three and are doing wonderfully well.My concern on your own case is this issue of abortion which i know have spiritual and physical implication to your life.Let assume that after the first termination and no more pregnancy forth coming what will you do.God will give you wisdom to take the right decision.

I worked for goverment general hospital and am talking from my own experiences in the last 7years,you dont have to do charms or juju to work in Mortuary in as much as your hands and your heart are clean what did I mean by this my statements if you take good care of dead body you dont remove body parts for monetary or financial gain you will have everything going on smoothly for you physically and spiritually.Some people belief that everybody working in the morgue have terrestial power they use,this is big lie from pit of hell.We have people that use juju but as far as am concern I dont belief in any power beside my God.Someone was saying that when you are about to enter morgue you must knock the door three times what a fallacy.In the course of my duty I have traveled far and wide across Nigeria especially Enugu,Anambra,Imo,Okene,otukpo, kuje,Calabar and part of Kaduna to drop the departed souls to their respective family for burial.I have slept on the road in the night with dead body and continue my journey.

It is military tradition that when junior officers are promoted,their senior will be retire because they can`t take orders from thier surbodinate.I saw it coming when the new service chiefs are picked from Regular Course 38 and 39 when we stil have course 36 and 37 in the service.Let them go and retire with their own CASH OUT LOOTS.

NSA brief the CinC on the security situation in the Country and advice the President accordinly,the job of all service chiefs is to report directly to Chief of Defence Staff who is the most senior officer in Nigeria armed forces he report directly to the President.I dont expect a four star general to report directly to NSA who retired as AIG.If anyone have superior arguments kindly bring it to the table.

Mr President the early you change the Service Cheif the better all this statements from Cheif of Army staff is just to deceive you.Pick your new Service Chief from NDA course 40 above and retire all the Brigadier General to all the Lt General let them go and rest.

Three years ago I lost my job and a friend asked me if i can work in mortuary i was scared but when i knew there is no other job forth coming i agree to work there,my first two weeks was full of fear and bad thought but after a month i mastered the job.My job entails to take corpse from one part of country to another,especially south east and part of north central,benue,lokoja,suleja,gboko and other places in the south west.The job is lucrative but you must do away with fear and what people will say.

Conscience is an open wound,only the truth can heal it.

Thanks heaven Leed put smile on my face.

Ibo,Ibo,Ibo