bluespice:

oh well, i guess u need to be a lil bit less friendly
and for the love of all thngs diamond, when ruffians make passes at you,
its within ur God given rights to be less than nice!

u really dont mean u give every tom, d ick and harry ur number once they ask u do u?

well reggie while i personally dont believe in being a lil less "nice" for any reason, i can imagine how you must feel attracting all the wrong sorts.

Still be nice and friendly, but practise being more assertive, so when the loud, bad breath fellow asks you for your number, you REALLY must learn

not to feel bad if you choose not to give him. But after all is said and done, pls pls dont resort to being "a lil less nice" for any reason, you are who

you are, and perfect the way you are, sooner rather later, you will find that guy that makes being you just so worthhhhh it,

my two cents,

word is bond!!!!

Dont get jealousy mate,


Get EVEN,

dude, dont mind all these player haters, lol

on the real, I get where you are coming from, what we say really never compares with what we do,

if she says she likes you and her actions tally with those words, then dont rock the boat,

but if she only says so after you done some romantic shit for her,

bro KICK THE B**CH out of ur life,

we (males) have too many problems,

a chick shouldnt be one,

wurd is bond!!!!!!

naijachix:

guy, all she wants is ur koko, not ur hrt. so giv it to her and look for someone else and giv ur hrt. she prefers to play game. SO RIDE ON WTH HER!

better yet, deep freeze ur heart, then cement it and lock it key combination safe,

what ever you do bro,

dont give your heart to no other lady,

most will just break it,

wurd is bond, !!!!!

Moyola:

Odedo!

whats odedo? or an Odedo?

Bro, take it from me, most gurls dont know what they want, they still wouldnt know it if it jumped out and bit them on the butt!!

she was with you then wanted the other guy, then when she was with him she wanted you,

DAMN, talk about a major vacillitating,

SERIOUSLY BRO,

Move on, you are worth more than she can EVER afford!!!!!,

look MrBrownJay, you are the man, in fact you should be the Minister for Prostitutes Affairs, lol,

I loved the way you fought and intelligently argued you point,

pls hurry up and stand 4 election, you have my vote, Minister of Prostitutes Affairs, lol,

look guys, i was just reading the 1st page and the way Mr.BrownJay and the other dude were going at it and i just had to make a coment, damnnnn, i

could just picture u guys in a court room, nice argument from the both of you.

Can i marry an EX-prostitute to me means can i forgive and forget and put her past behind me, well i wud like to think what better people than me

wud do, lets look at Jesus, if he could have lived long enuff and if he could have married and he met an EX-prostitute who had changed her ways, i

have a strong feeling Jesus would marry her, so if she was really ready to put all that shit behind her, and I LOVED HER, yeah i could marry an

EX-prostitue

peelovee:

oh broda, put a sock in it, yeah its good to respect each others privacy, excellent actually, but when a party gives the other reasons to be supicious,

then by all means use any avenue to find out the truth,

hence thats why some "MARRIED" couples hire Private Investigators to snoop on their partners,

Dont go about blindly saying "trust trust trust",

@ iniguy:, hav u seen the movie "He's not just into you"?, there was something the lead gurl said at the end, about being happy the way she was

even though it meant she might be prone to a lot of heart aches and breaks, well iniguy, thats me, I wont want to be any other way (actually I cant )

than a nice guy, so even though I meet the occasionally User, I know that I will meet the lady worth loving and being nice to in the end, after all they

say, "u cant appreciate real love till you've had a couple of bad love cases",

oh i dont doubt that there are ladies like that, but i think its apalling that the majority are not INDEPENDENT, SELF-SUSTAINING gurls,

i will ask a dumb question here,

why do some women Use, Leech and depend on men?

comon why not stand on ur own two feet and make something of yourself?

I am truly baffled

All over this site I have posted this article, regardless of where it seems relevant or not.

This article wasn’t written out of anger or spite but rather recently gained experience that I consider humorous.

It also shouldn’t be considered a misogynistic write up.

I guess all over the country but mostly particularly in Lagos there exist a breed of women whom I particularly refer to as the USERS. They come in all

shapes and sizes, they are of different ages but ultimately they have a trait common to all of them, they are Users, Leeches, they stay with a guy

not because of what they can bring to the relationship, but for what they can take from it.

Before I go further, I should explain that I belong to that group of men who can be termed “nice guys”; we like to do nice things for the special

ladies in our lives, i.e. spend money, time and show affection. We do all these by the truck loads.

Unfortunately, more often than not this makes us easy prey for the USERs of this world, to the women who see men only as a means to an end,

usually a financial end lol, and the women who tend to exploit our natural kindness for weakness.

I recently crossed path with one such female (hence this article).

We met unexpectedly at my office, she was looking good (of course, Users tend to look good on the surface, that’s what they use to lure in the

interested, ) I was attracted, so I got her number and did the expected, I started calling her and things were seemingly going well, we watched

a couple of movies at the cinemas together (no point for guessing who did all the paying, ), somewhere along the line, as is only natural, there

was intimacy and she actually had me thinking “heck, I might just have found me a great girl here”, yeah right!

Unknown to me, this fantasy was all beautifully orchestrated by the User, to lure me into a false sense of security, because slowly but surely as is

the way with Users, she started showing me her true colours. And mind you the signs are never overwhelmingly apparent, no, they are more like

little isolated nuggets of information here and there that to a more experienced player would have made sense, but to a nice guy like me, they

were totally unrelated.

First I noticed our communication was one way, I did all the calling. When I asked her why she never called, she replied “that was because I was

working and she wasn’t, hence I should have money to call her”, AHHHHHH, the 1st of the many and vastly multifaceted signs of the Users, lol.

Then she told me that her junior sister wanted to tag along to the movies with us one day, , being a nice guy I was like what the hell,

it was a Monday night, silverbird, 900bucks per head plus popcorn for 3 people, that’s not so bad, sure let her come, (Fatal error), for she shows

up not only with her junior sister, but also with her bleeping junior brother in tow,

Then came the empty promises, Her: “I will be coming over to your house for sure tomorrow” Next Day, Me: “where are you?”, Her: “I don’t have

a single naira on me, I can’t come again”, pathetic.

Then the Coup de Grάce, she tells me, “babe we can’t have sex again this month o”, Me perplexed): “why?”, Her: “I made a covenant with

God to be pure this month” , yeah right,

I have since successfully extricated myself from the claws of this User and am left with the ability to sniff out a User a 1000 miles away.

To all “nice guys” out there, there is nothing wrong with being a nice guy, really, yeah we might be targets for female Users, but in the bigger

picture, they (Users) are the ones who have the real problem, one they have to deal with eventually, I mean who prays to live their whole life

leeching on other people?,

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Are hackett tops in or so so yesterday,

Do bear your mind,

what are u people talkin abut!!!!

u people are makin this seem so big,so out of proportion,

look aisha,i feel ur pain,but everyone knows ladies are not so smart

when it comes 2 matters of the heart,why is doin the right thing so hard,

just DONT BLOODY CALL HIM!!!,am sure a lot of of guys must have liked YOU,

but they had to stop calling u cos they had no chance with u,women are controlled by

their emotions and not their logic,OBVIOUSLY,give the power to ur mind and

not ur heart,damn!!!! stop acting like a kid and take charge of ur life like the

grown up i know u are, damn

ladebs, that was very blooody dry, guyyyyyyy u shud b shot,

yo, peace 2all in the house, but the last 2 post soiund like they are

desperate, and are lookin 4 somw white gurl 2 come get them,

it wont happen dudes, go ur village go find wife abeg, lol,