An engagement ring isn't a gift. Its something that has to be returned if for any reason the wedding does not hold. Unless the two parties marry then get divorced, that is the only time it doesn't have 2 b returned. Such is life,

lol @ tetris! allow d guy nw, guess he's here 2 jst stir up some s**t!

oi! doesnt anyone else have any opinions on this, come on

like wheneva they talk she is brief, always cold n generally acts like 'iron maiden' With all these tings out in d open and still having d pics n all d memories. Has she truely moved on or is she deceiving her self? Is it possible 2 move on like dat, wid all dat stuff not affectn u. Also when asked 2 return pictures, refuses too and yet acts like ur d last person on earth she would want 2 talk 2! I mean dis is a true story, is it jst a solitary case or all gals r like this @ times. Ne clues abt wots going on?

Are Women Always Confused?

This female, who has been separated from her ex for some months, still has all the cards, presents and basically everything from the relationship still out in the open. She still uses his pet name for a few things but doesnt holla at him at all. No calls, no meeting, nothing

What does it mean?

Thx Kajad will try, nutin to lose so will give it a try!

^^^ wuz jst wondering, know sum1 dat wnt there. Been there a couple of times. Well thx 4 ur advice, home girl is listening to dads views more n more so wots a guy 2 do but wait n c wot happens,

thx 2 every1 so far who has responded, will try 2 stride 2wards an amicable agreement,
p.s desiree r u in UKC??

smartsoft<---- its kinda diff 4 u! U're a guy. I believe a gal can't just get up n say oh no, im gonna marry so n so. And she's d only gal on top of dat!

Well she loves her dad dearly and she has tried but he keeps saying no, its d sort of situation where u want 2 please both parties but someone in d end has to give or b let down. Her father is kinda old, so causing any heartache 4 him would really tear her apart. @ times we tot abt jst sayn **** it n go on 2 do wot we wnt, @ d end of d day im nt gonna marry her dad! But d ting we realize is, marriage aint no little ting and in life 4 such tings i believe it is vital, extremely important 2 get d blessings of d parents on both sides! When u marry, in a sense u marry d family aswell (no literally obvsly) No blessings could cuz probs, if parents curse or dnt bless thier kids i believe it could really catch up wid u n come round and bite u in d *** when ur nt lookn. So no rebeling over here, jst lookn 4 a way of changing his mind, but dats difficult cuz dewd doesnt even want 2 meet me!

Hello all, i'm new 2 d board and its gud 2 find a helpful n fun place 2 communicate wid each other. Well straight 2 d point. I've got a big problem wid my love life, i'm Yoruba, born in england - sent 2 school in naija but ive been back in england 4 d last 7 yrs. I have/had a girlfriend who i've been wid for 3yrs and a bit we've always planned on getting married its jst sumtin dat was d next step, we're d perfect couple (well in our eyes neway), she's Igbo - born and breed in the Uk, but she lived in naija 4 abt 2yrs when she wuz much younga. Well my point is we r not thoroughly breed nigerians who have spent their whole lives there, we cant see the differences in tribes as much as our parents do.

2 cut d story short, her father has recently told her that he would never give her away 2 a yoruba person, he is dead serious, my parents arent bothered about who i marry they are more liberal in a sense. They just want 2 know who d person is and know their character and sort oif family they are from, which i think is as far as it should go. Anyway her dad is saying no way 2 yoruba, funny thing is they are 5 in the family and none of the other kids have gone anywhere near nigerians in terms of marriage, so u would think he would be happy that she wants 2 marry 1 @ least!!! Well i cant blame him or be angry @ him, she's his only daughter, d last born, who can blame him, he would naturally want 2 protect his daughter. But proterct his daughter from wot? Wots wrng wid yoruba? Why don't Yoruba and igbo mix? Wots d history or reason 4 all dis?

Well i just wana know, is dis a common occurence, ne one wid experience of dis? Is there any advice on handling d situation? Do i just walk away or fight on, cuz i really do lover her, n its painful cuz we're seperatd jst bcuz of dat,