Enwhen:


Talk to him , that's the only way forward , tell him your heart , what u really feel and the way forward that he should try to understand , mostly for future purposes...if he doesn't , better leave him.

I have talked to him alot, at some point I even cried but he still won't listen

I have been with this guy for 2 years. In the beginning, the sex was just okay but just as it does it started to fade off. He got mad about it. He made this huge wahala about it at the time and it really changed the way that I saw sex in the relationship it went from a natural expression to a task I had to fulfill. I tried doing it just to make him happy, but he didn't want it unless I wanted to which was not going to happen every day like he wanted. Something you should know is that I have never had an orgasm with him at all Asin at all at all.
He can have me like 3 times a day and always sleeps after. Therefore, whenever I go to visit him all he wants is just me having sex with him all day and napping in between which is not fun for someone with a brain and feelings. He sees the fact that I want to go out and do things with him as something that friends do and not partners. I feel really used since sex is so one-sided. I have gone to doctors for my new low libido, but they are not helpful. He is not as talented in bed as he claims and says how he has never had any issues with other girls. He just doesn't want to listen to me and my needs, but gets very angry every few months by claiming I am making excuses for not wanting to have sex. I truly am tired because I have a full life with a lot of responsibilities. The last thing I want to do at the end of the day is to deal with this and the pressure. I just want to relax and not have the pressure of someone touching me and asking me for sex all the time. What do I do? How do I close this massive orgasm gap with someone unwilling to change?