76Naira: If you plan to have kids, the earlier the better.
They need you strong and youthful as they grow. A mother at 28 to 33 is way better than at 40 unless you just couldn't help it.
A father at 29 to 33 is way better than 42.

My wife was 24.5 years old and I, 29 when we got married. We have had our planned 2 kids and my wife just turned 30.

If you generally don't have your priorities right, adding age would not necessarily help.

If you have to marry late, stay fit enough to manage tantrums and sleepless nights for they are as sure as time!

Good for you guys!! So how about some of us thats haven't met the right person. What should we do. Kill ourself.

yme, please lets forget this bad blow talk. most ladies still single at 30 are single not because life dealt them a 'bad blow' but because they got caught in the greener grass syndrome. if you did deep into their history, you'll find most have been rejecting earlier suitors serious in marriage with hope that a better offer will turn up. unfortunately when they least expect, the steady stream of suitors begin to fade and they're caught in the lurch.


If you notice George, I made mention of self reason which your point would come under; and not bad blow. My reference to bad blow is something catastrophic, something they couldn't control that befell them, so to speak, Life happens.

Childish day-dreaming and chasing birds, hoping for Danzel is of their making.

God help us
@George you cant just accept any suitor that comes ur way. If the guy is not a christian or doesnt put God first. Forget him. I dont see that are being picky.
@ YME no i havent reached 30 yet. i am still in my mid to late twenties. my own situation is something i cant control. Just havent been lucky to find the right guy and i refused to be treated like crap. I refused to be in an abusive relationship just for the sake of being married.

Thanks everyone for your advice. Just that i have been getting a lot of presure lately and from family and my married friends are not making it easy for me. They keep bragging about getting married like they won a trophy.

Happy holiday NLs'!!

Just wanna know y'all opinions! There is a lot of pressure mostly especially Nigeria women to get married before they turn 25. Is is too late to get married in your late twenties, early thirties?