beekind:

Let me explain, he says he is not forcing her but if she does not take the fertility test he will not attend the wedding, and he is very likely to prohibit my mom from also attending the wedding and maybe other family members too.

That puts me in a very difficult spot, very difficult spot.

You can convince her to do it as one of the routine test in preparation for your marriage. Seeing that you have also done yours,it shouldn't be a big deal to her. Afterall some churches subject intending couples to do some medical test before they can join them together. If it were her pastor wouldn't she obey? The angle I don't agree to is your father imposing it on you both,it should be an advice to you as he is in the medical line and he shouldn't make it look like a threat!

RepoMan007:
That's an option too but it could be very much hormonal something mixed with financial something. He should slimfit her undies and share with her, love is boundless.

Those women who use pregnancy hormones as excuse for bad attitude will not dissipate such energy when it comes to their bosses at work or their customers.

Real000:
Tinubu is a jonkeys for sure

Contact me for your Academic assignment, just Whatsapp me

If you are a business man who takes his business serious,you should try to be non- partisan online. E get why!

The same people saying"she is your mother bla bla bla"will not say the same if the complaints were to be about ones wife. You will hear them saying words like,"she is a typical Nigerian Woman,Nigerian women are useless..." Talk about double standard!

One way or the other we are people's in-laws. Ask yourself,how do you treat people married to your family,or the people you married into their family? It is always easy to judge when you view it from a third party angle.

hennyholla17:
In need of personal driver. If you are interested, please send an email to Thehivemediang@gmail.com

Location please!

Elliotwaveforec:
Garlic and pawpaw leaf for immune boosting; for stomach upset, ginger does a good job.

How do you mix the garlic and pawpaw leaves?

tunjilomo:
There is a pregnant woman in her third trimester I am acquainted with who has the gonorrhea infection.
But the problem is, she is asymptomatic.
Please is there any medication she can use to treat the infection. The medication does not have to cost too much.

Who diagnosed her?

I remember the advert that year. It was done by papa Aluwe.
" I dey tell you,7up do good o
if you drink am,you fit win Daewoo raser..."

oikirodah:


https://ireporteronline.com.ng/blog/mother-and-son-check-out-this-adorable-picture-of-oshiomhole-and-his-mother-that-is-now-trending-online-pic-of-the-day/

The joy of a mother! I tell you,this woman is fulfilled. Some women have eaten the destinies of their offspring,while some sold them off in baby factories. Irony of life!

Abojupupa:

Peel the tubers, cut them into pieces and soak in water until it gets very soft. After some days, take it out of water, spread in the sun until it dries up. Ensure that rain water does not fall on it, otherwise it will lose its white colour.

Thanks. Do you Mill it after it dries up?

DrAbdulSuleman:
I started dating this girl 15 years ago. Tight body, good personality, all is well. Got married. Things continue to go swimmingly. Her mom is in her 80s and is quite overweight. A few years into the relationship I saw an old picture of her mom when she was much younger and she looked almost exactly like my wife. Started getting worried. Wife turned 40 a few months ago and her chin is starting to get flabby. Just like her mom’s. Her tits are also starting to sag. They’re huge, which was always a plus, but since last summer they’ve started expanding, but in a bad way. She’s starting to widen out in the middle. Her arms and legs are getting thicker. Basically, she’s starting to get her mom’s body. This is despite the fact that she eats right and exercises regularly. Genetics seem to be overriding her good decisions. And it’s happening rapidly. I’m having a harder time finding her sexually exciting. Which sucks, because her personality is still top tier. I’m afraid within 3 or 4 years she’s going to look hideous. And I’ll be a horrible bastard if I leave her just because she got fat, through no fault of her own. Can anything be done here? Like I said, she takes care of herself. Is there any way to fight genetics, or am I destined to have a fat cow for a wife?

Did you just refer to your wife with such condescending term? 'fat cow'. She is repulsing you already! What happens to "for better for worse "?I wander what else she is going through from you. Before you say you are already seeking for help by bringing it online. All I see is a thread created to body shame a woman. Wait till those Nairaland minions see this thread, it will be a field day for them.

I would appreciate feedback on how to make lafun. Just got some cassava tubers and I think processing it to Garri will be difficult as I have no means to fry it.

Portlouis:
Here in Lagos, ajao estate it's 1600.
I provoke, I no gree buy o.

E be like say I go resume eating outside o.

I just discovered 'Lebu'. It is smoother and succulent. I never thought I could eat anything aside yellow garri until now. It's between 900-1000

Aust1n:
𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐊𝐈𝐍𝐆𝐃𝐎𝐌 𝐎𝐅 𝐖𝐀𝐑𝐑𝐈

There is no other authority bigger than that of the King in Warri Kingdom

This is a response to those who said Mr Ayiri is still the ologbotsere and won’t agree or submit.

In Warri kingdom, to be conferred with a chieftaincy title, is a very rare privilege. The honour and pride of being chosen by an Olu for chieftaincy title can not be expressed in words. There are various individual qualities that one must possess before he/she can become a chief in the ancient kingdom. The most important quality is credibility and patriotism of the individual for the development of the tribe. Those who are found worthy usually pass through many vigorous traditional screening processes like gold passing through a fire furnace. This process is responsible for the very high level of moral respect the chiefs command through their words, public conducts and traditional activities.

Ayiri Emami, who had been invited for his chieftaincy revalidation. Before the assembly, beads and sword that symbolically confer chieftaincy authority were submitted as the first part of the process after which a title once held by his late father Chief Akonu Emami was offered to Ayiri Emami, an offer he respectfully declined with the assembly as witness.

Ayiri Emami was first in 2021 was invited for revalidation which he turned down then until recently the king and mr ayiri settled their differences when ayiri came for reaffirmation the king told him you need to climb up again so the king wanted to give him his fathers title which is Eyeku of Warri kingdom but ayiri pleaded for ologbotsere and the king said he will need to start from there but Mr Ayiri refused and the king asked him to sit with the congress but he left the palace the king moved forward to give chief Eyewuoma ologbotsere who was also one of the candidates contesting for the title of ologbotsere in 2017 before it was given to ayiri then by Olu Ikenwoli.

Mr Ayiri position on becoming a prime minister no longer exist there are some saying he brought fake beads and fake uda that he still remains ologbotsere I want you to ignore them the last person to hold the title was Chief Rewane and Chief Rewane didn’t give his beads and uda to Mr Ayiri Emami new beads and new uda doesn’t mean anything it is the proclamation of the king that makes you a chief in Warri kingdom.

The King is called Áfọmàsín, Áfọwẹrẹ-tséwẹrẹ! And his words are final he holds the authority to promote you as a chief or demote you he has the power to strip you of ever becoming a chief.

The King Has Spoken God Bless His Majesty Ogiame Atuwatse III the Olu of Warri kingdom!!!

Who gave Ayiri the bead and Uda in the first place?

Entanglement:
this one na jjc!
Make Una fvvvck finish first come get two pinkin!
Dopamine go clear comot from your eye

They already have 4. The 5th is on its way. Just wish them well. No be everyone go collect breakfast.

edoncast:
My ex who i was not yet married to came to my house in my absence to pack my things away .

She had a son for me and he will be 5 years next month .She packed on january 10th when i was in the office. That day she packed ,she still called to ask for money to refill gas which i sent. Later in the evenning ,i called her on my way home to inform her i was hungry ,she replied and told me she already left .I rushed home and find out she actually did .I have visited my son more than 6 times after they left on january 10th .

A week after ,she came to carry my wall fan and my stabilizer .I have to let that go because i was careless not to have changed the key .

I have made several attempts to reconcile though i didnt beat her or maltreat her .Her only problem with me was that i neglected her families and sometimes rude to them .This is a lady we have been cohabiting since 2013 when i helped her for admission into my school.

None of her relatives have contributed a dime to her for the ten years we were together .I will only appreciate her mum for her efforts while she was alive .She is the last born with a sister and a brother .

I was once a good boy to their family when i was doing very fine then .Things went bad when i stopped been nice to their families and her brother ,sister husband and her sister ganged up against me .


I called her 2 days ago that i needed to see my son and she said i should wait for her in Pen cinema Agege TFC.While i was waiting ,they were in my house with a car to pack the underlisted items ! Please ,what should i do ?She told my sister was flaunting my new girl on social media including my whatsapp status but she doesnt want to come back to me ..no be juju be that ? This is someone i went to a radio programme for .The presenter even called her to come back to me which she promised the man.My relatives too took so many steps but failed.




Make una help me beg her to bring my documents and flash .Abi make i paste her no here ?

They met my new gf at home and packed all my things .My gf called me but they have left before i could get home .My sister told me to leave everythimg foe her to allow peace reign that she will return the documents and flash later but i dont trust that bitch .Imagine my gf told me her sister was the one shouting CARRY EVERYTHING !HE CANT DO ANYTHING ..They even attempt to remove my TV but my ex told them there was no time again cos i might meet them at home .

These are the things carted away .Those items marked have been replaced that day and yesterday .The one with red mark are yet to be retrieved or gotten back .


My gf power bank ✅
50k ❌
Mattress ✅
Iron✅
Gas ✅
Pots and all kitchen utensils✅
All my certificates ❌ including NYSC .i have the soft copies in the flash she even took
My pictures❌
Foodstuffs ✅
Drugs ❌ like PCM,ampiclox,flagyl and so on
Diaries ❌
Waste baskets ✅
Packer ✅
My son clothes from cradle till 4 years ❌
My baths ✅
Electric blender ✅
Toasting machine❌
My clothes ❌
Stabilizer ❌
Wall fan ❌
Shoe rack ❌
Small android phone ❌
Android charger ✅
My id cards 4 ❌
My company bank statements ❌
Frying pan❌
My company diaries ❌
Wall clock ❌
Flash drive ❌ This is the mmost cherishable items and i am sure you know why

She has settled her self! Just try and retrieve your documents. If she doesn't want to let go,just get the polic involved.

Fryx:


How does this "read" funny?

Honestly, if my experience got worse, I may lose my leg. Of which I know I will rather take my life than live without any part of my body.

Modified

Thanks everyone for contributing.

You guys give me more reason why I must not take sugar any more.

Moreover, I did a glucose test when I started noticing the symptoms and the doctor told me I’m ok. He even told me the signs are merely sleeping posture, that’s why I continued.

I used to do some indoor exercise before, but it’s been a while I did that.

I just resume today, and should keep up with that spirit.

Can you try alternating soda with smoothies instead. Just give it a try! I just checked those pictures and they are scary 😯

superCleanworks:


seems you don't know the difference.

Please enlighten me on the difference

Could be anorexia or bulimia

My cousins wife who got separated from him and moved to her father's house for 5years just returned 2 days ago that she wants her marriage back. Guess what? The family held a meeting and clearly told her that it was too late because my cousin is already remarried with a child. She moved out with her 3 sons and in that 5 years her family kept her with them and made no attempt at reconciliation. Now she has travelled back to go meet her people. The funny thing is that she supervised the building project of my cousin when he was building his house. She foolishly left the house for another woman to occupy because of pride.

You could have spiced this thread up with pictures,not only links. Nice one!

Afamsi:
Remaining for her to add president to her CV ... Am not surprised because people from brown roof republic no dey marry once or twice, them dey marry reach 7 times

She is from Edo state. Cut the tribal sentiment!

Tunagee:


Sad but true. But is this what men go through in marriage? No wonder beer parlour dey full.i keep telling people 'marriage no be by force' Stay alone if it aint working

There are beautiful marriages, it's just that it's not so publicized. You get to hear of the bad ones because the victims come out to seek for advice or public opinion.

Dennisbulkan:


*session*

Thanks

rainlover:

E reach to run

We deserve the kind of leaders we have. An average citizen has that "reap off" mentality at any slightest opportunity. From the POS attendant,to the pump attendant at the filling station,to a school child. It is pathetic! We are a function of our leaders! The leaders are selected from the citizens. Don't even talk about the attitude of the civil servants. Go to their offices and see how they carry themselves as demi-gods. God help you if you are there with a complaint that requires their assistance. You are own your own if you don't know anybody. The list is endless!

Kobojunkie:
1. You are not being fair yourself. Does OP sound like one who is into his wife?

He wants the marriage to work that is why he has come to seek for advice. If he is not into her,he won't be sexually attracted to her and will be looking for a way out of the marriage. He may have some faults himself though. But all i see is a man that is ready to make amends.