Education / Re: Landmark University Didn't Allow Students Write Exams For Missing Roll Call by ceestar: 6:32pm On Mar 03, 2022 |
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Politics / Re: Jibrin: Tinubu Is One Of The Owners Of Manchester United by ceestar: 1:29pm On Feb 27, 2022 |
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Family / Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by ceestar: 10:39pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Yes it's true but everything has a solution that only if can work towards it Needadvice200: Sorry I had to create new account to remain anonymous.
Please men of the house I seriously need advice. Straight to the point, we've been married for 6 years now and I love her so so much, our compatibilities is 100%. We have a beautiful baby girl and we are still currently living together at the moment. Since we married things has been extremely bad for us unlike before we married. Though I myself was down with sickness for years that almost took my life but God revived me and she stays with me. My business doesn't require my presence (networking) because currently am still getting money but not much. let's say 20k average which of course not much for the family.
Now here is my problem, from 3 or 4 different CONFIRMED sources we were told that my lack of money it's from her that she belongs to a spiritual evil cult (Elegbe omo) that her own is spiritual rags group (egbe akitan, or alakisa) that whoever sleeps with them, their things will going down for them, finance wise and all. I hope I described it well tho and that even she herself is not aware but they do tell her severally. and she has been praying yet things keep getting worse for us.
in fact sometimes ago a pastor saw a vision for her that whoever sees her physically putting on a good cloth that she's beautiful but spiritually it is rags on her body. That she will Pray and fast for 3 days (deliverance) which she did yet things keeps getting worse for me in fact right now I am begging to feed.
When I realized this I stopped having sex with her for months and my business really really improved. Throughout last year I can count how many times we had sex not up to 4 times and I did not cheat on her because I love her so much but for how long? It's not easy to be on the same bed with your wife and not want to have it but anytime we have it we must suffer for it for months. The loan sharks on my neck are up to 7. Am just collecting loan to pay another to avoid their embarrassment. One is even threatening my life now (LCredit) as I could not pay the overdue loan.
My head is full with many thoughts. I love her and my baby which is just 2yrs. i want to succeed, I want my family. how long can we be staying without sex? am so so worried. Though I was told it's not her fault but what can I do because it has been affecting us for years now until now.
I don't know if anyone had a similar experience to please share. I need help because I am seriously considering leaving her but I will take full responsibilities of my baby.
I will be in comment section if case of any questions.
Thank y'all |
Family / Re: My Sister Want To Expose My Secret Life To My Husband by ceestar: 2:59pm On Dec 09, 2020 |
My advice for you will be brief just find a better time to tell your husband if he truly loves you.he will surely forgive you because not every secret can be hidden forever.Nobody is perfect,we are trying to be: its better to tell me yourselve because finding out outside will be a disaster Jceeee: Hello everybody , I came here to seek for advice because I’m in a big dilemma with my kid sister , I don’t want to bore you with long story I will make the long story short. I got married in May 2000 I was pregnant with my first child , I had my first child in September that same year then another daughter in 2002 May , and in July 2002 my husband left for abroad ( I won’t mention the country ) .
I had to move out of the renting apartment and went back to my parents house with my 2 children while waiting for him to apply for our documents, it took him 2 years to settle and for 2 year he couldn’t send us money because he had no documents and job.
My parents were supportive until when my husband got his documents and started working , he started sending us money every month and was working hard for me and the kids to join him but things were not working well for us , they keep rejecting us but he didn’t get tired of us , but I started getting tired after 5 years of waiting, missing him badly , no intimacy and I was lonely and very depressed.
I start seeking attention outside and I met with a married man that I had a relationship with, I got pregnant in 2008 the man suggested abortion but I didn’t want to abort because I was scared to die because I remember a cousin that had a husband abroad , she got pregnant and went to abort , she died instantly so I didn’t want to end up like her .
I had planned with my sister and mum that I should leave our state to another state ( I won’t mention the name ) to go and have my baby then will come back after the baby is 3 months , I and my kid sister left and rented another house in a different state meanwhile we lied to my dad that I had traveled to this country to join my husband in abroad , things was well.
I had my baby another girl in 2009 and we kept the secret for 3 months from my dad and we had to lie to him , it was my kid sister that has given birth to this baby while we were away and my dad got angry at her and he has said a lot of harsh things to her, it was very painful but my sister supported me and didn’t let the secret come out , even to my husband he just knew the baby was my sister , because I was breastfeeding her , we didn’t want to go home yet so we had to stayed here for a year , when I weaned her and we started preparing to go back home, lying to my dad that things didn’t work out and I couldn’t join my husband anymore, we returned back home in 2010 and we had been keeping this secrets from my dad , husband and other people .
Finally God has been great that I had to joined my husband in 2013 after 11 years of waiting , it was a wonderful time to be with him again , my kid sister got married in 2014 she had a daughter with her husband before marriage born in 2012, so the husband accepted her with my daughter that she pretend to be hers , she went to her husband house , leaving my kids with our parents , she only took the daughter she had with her husband and I used to send them money as usual until in 2015 my 2 daughters I had with my husband joined us abroad and my other daughter stayed behind , I had to convinced my husband that my sister baby should join us too which he was okay and grateful to my sister because she had been the one taking care of our children in my absent so we started applying for documents for the girl, but they kept rejecting it but we didn’t give up, at that same time my sister has also wanted her biological daughter to be included in but I was frank with her that we couldn’t add her daughter because the daughter that I had is known to be hers so if we had another daughter it would be wrong , so this has caused a lot of problems between my sister and I that she called me an ingrate after everything she has been doing to me , but I was never ungrateful to her because I take care of her daughter school fees in a best private school but I just couldn’t take her abroad with us but she is adamant that her daughter should be here too.
Luckily my daughter which to my husband is my niece has joined us this January 2020 , she knows me as her auntie and my sister her mummy , She is doing well my family is complete , I have also had 2 more children with my husband two cute boys but my sister has been threatening and blackmailing that she would tell my husband everything about my daughter , I had begged even our mum has been begging her not to spoil my marriage but she wouldn’t listen.
I’m scared she would tell my husband and my marriage will be over. I don’t sleep well and anytime when my husband get back from work , my heart beat faster thinking that he has found out about the secrets and I’m no longer in peace. he loves my niece ( daughter ) so much that he doesn’t treat her any different from our 4 children but I’m getting so scared , have been taking blood pressure medication because of my sister threatening me.
Please I know a lot of you would insult me because I deserve it but all I need is advice from you .
please if you could offer me some , I just don’t know what else to do |
Politics / Re: Boko Haram Hits Maiduguri After Buhari’s Departure by ceestar: 6:42am On Feb 13, 2020 |
Wow...I love dis Heavensent01: [s][/s]
so how long do we want to continue savaging this stupidity?. I mean how effective is this your useless comparative analysis to end this foolishness bro?
if this money spent on this political killing in North is spent on building at least mental hospital, won't you be going for brain checkup regularly?
many of you kids here can be so annoying |
Politics / Re: Boko Haram Hits Maiduguri After Buhari’s Departure by ceestar: 6:40am On Feb 13, 2020 |
Why....what happen to ur sense ?....senseless post usba: We will overcome, no matter the wishes of Bokoharam and its supporters on nairaland jubilate, their end is near.
Lol Let us share Jonathan Records that many fools want to foist on Nigeria:
1. Under Jonathan, Churches were bombed, no Christmas passed with out a church being bombed. Under PMB, no church has been bombed. It was so bad, that a Christian attempted to Bomb a church to try spoiling PMB record.
Do we want Jonathan's Nigeria where churches are bombed?
2. Under Jonathan, Nigeria Troops ran to Cameroon to avoid fighting BH, under PMB our Military has put BH on flight that even Shekua confessed that he is tired in a YouTube video?
Do we want Jonathan's Nigeria where our soldiers were scared to fight BH because of equipment?
3. Under Jonathan, BH occupied a territory the size of France and Belgium combined, under PMB all territory are fully recovered and denied space to operate freely.
Do you want Jonathan's Nigeria where BH occupied our territory?
3. Under Jonathan, BH attacked Police HQ, UN HQ, Eman and many places in Abuja and far from the theatre of war like suleja, Logo etc. PMB has curtailed their evil to largely Maiduguri and seasonally Yobe.
Do you want Jonathan's Nigeria were all the country lived in fear of BH?
These are just a few, when you see Christians saying they prefer Churches being bombed under Jonathan than none Under PMB then you know they are hedonistic fools whose greatest pain is no loot money. |
Politics / Re: Amaechi: It’s Impossible To Complete Lagos-ibadan Rail Project In April by ceestar: 8:40pm On Jan 22, 2020 |
Did you know how many years amaechi spent as a sitting pdp governor lonelydora: At least, you gave a good reason.
No PDP person is allowed to say anything on this post. If for 16 years PDP did the little Amaechi is doing, we won't be here today. Yeye people.
Before you quote me, note this....I am neither PDP nor APC. Just a patriotic Nigerian. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Liverpool Vs Manchester United (2 - 0) On 19th January 2020 by ceestar: 8:34pm On Jan 19, 2020 |
Make they just give Liverpool d trophy...make we start another season jare 1 Like |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Newcastle United Vs Chelsea (1 - 0) On 18th January 2020 by ceestar: 9:23pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Newcastle United Vs Chelsea (1 - 0) On 18th January 2020 by ceestar: 8:47pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
Oya cheerful giver....u go soon share reach last three Lordjb: there is love in SHARING 1 Like |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Newcastle United Vs Chelsea (1 - 0) On 18th January 2020 by ceestar: 8:43pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
For where....arsenal wey dey share point Lordjb: Up Gunners |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Newcastle United Vs Chelsea (1 - 0) On 18th January 2020 by ceestar: 8:39pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Newcastle United Vs Chelsea (1 - 0) On 18th January 2020 by ceestar: 8:30pm On Jan 18, 2020 |
Which season u dey ooo Confirmedzombie: Imagine Conte keeping Hazard and Costa on bench in a crucial match like this.
Supporting Chelsea is one of the 1000 ways to die.
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Foreign Affairs / Re: US Imposes Sanctions On Iranian Steel And Other Metals by ceestar: 10:46pm On Jan 10, 2020 |
Make trump just mistakenly send missile to aso rock......make they talk say na mistake |
Sports / Re: NFF Representatives Betrayed Asisat Oshoala At 2019 CAF Awards Voting by ceestar: 10:02am On Jan 09, 2020 |
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Celebrities / Re: Teni Visits Ned Nwoko & Regina Daniels, Holds Discussions On Malaria Eradication by ceestar: 12:14pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
DAT 2nd pics...when police bills yahoo boy 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Tacha Celebrates Her 24th Birthday. Meets Ateke Tom by ceestar: 12:12pm On Dec 23, 2019 |
Wetin musa no go see for gate.... |
Politics / Re: Tinubu’s Bullion Vans: Deji Adeyanju Petitions EFCC (Photos) by ceestar: 9:58pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
Just speaking out of point... So mompha is a public official NGpatriot:
1. The topic is about Tinubu, not saraki
2. Renting a bullion van is not a crime or against the law
3. Tinubu is not a public official and he did not steal or loot any money from you, from your state or from any bank
Find something better to do with your time or just worry more about the public officials looting you own money in your state. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Politics / Re: Tinubu’s Bullion Vans: Deji Adeyanju Petitions EFCC (Photos) by ceestar: 9:52pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
Some people need to deported back to their country.. Are you a nigerian atall... netpro:
Like I always say - the law will run its course. No shaking.
Here is what we know for sure: - Tinubu is not occupying any office in government. - Nobody is accusing him of taking their money. - No bank is saying their Bullion van was hijacked. - Nobody know how much is the van. It can be empty for all we know. - Tinubu have enough financial muscle to put 1 million (1,000,000) and ask for it to be deliver with a van. - The PDP are so empty that all they can only get sustained on Noise. 3 Likes |
Crime / Re: $5M Fraud: Why Mompha Was Arrested By INTERPOL, EFCC - Tosin Olugbenga by ceestar: 12:39pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
[wetin dey missquote author=Nna17 post=83361944]everyday for the thief but just a day for the owner of the house. more revelations will unfold very soon.[/quote] |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Sheffield United Vs Arsenal (1 - 0) On 21st October 2019 by ceestar: 9:57pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
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Politics / Re: President Buhari Departs Abuja For Sochi, Russia (Photos) by ceestar: 4:04pm On Oct 21, 2019 |
Ajala travel... Safe journey 1 Like 1 Share |
Politics / Re: EFCC Goes After Sule Lamido After Atiku's Jigawa Rally by ceestar: 8:27pm On Jan 23, 2019 |
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Politics / Re: Why Some Nigeria Elders Deserve Insult And Not Respect - Omoyele Sowore by ceestar: 8:53pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Apc |
Politics / Re: 2019: Atiku Friends Endorsed Him Not We, Ohanaeze Says by ceestar: 1:12pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
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Politics / Re: Bukola Saraki With Classmates In Kings College, Lagos (Throwback Photo) by ceestar: 1:10pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Efcc go later spot uuuu...spot ko...hotspot niiiii 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Nigerian Military Threatens People Hiding Information About Boko Haram by ceestar: 1:07pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Which information again....sebi na sambisa forest book haram dey...abi dey son relocate niii |
Family / Re: Items For A Marriage Introduction In Imo (Photos) by ceestar: 1:05pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Pls seun come and carry ur pple |
Celebrities / Re: 2Face Replies Blackface After Declaring War On Him by ceestar: 12:50pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
See wetin buhari don cause again |
Politics / Re: President Buhari Speaks On Ogun Politics, Slams Amosun by ceestar: 12:47pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
post=74626325: GOD BLESS OUR PRESIDENT MUHAMMADU BUHARI. . SAI BABA WE KNOW. SAI BABA WE LOVE. SAI BABA WE WANT. another maggar |
Politics / Re: President Buhari Speaks On Ogun Politics, Slams Amosun by ceestar: 12:45pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
Let call a spade a spade...why shovel?....APC na scam |
Politics / Re: President Buhari Speaks On Ogun Politics, Slams Amosun by ceestar: 12:42pm On Jan 10, 2019 |
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