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Family / Re: My Dad Is Having An Affair:Do I Talk To Him Politely? by celt: 12:26pm On Feb 15, 2010
hi, i am truly sorry for your pain. I know something about that pain myself and my two boys went though. in this case it was their mother causing the pain. This was 20 years ago when the boys were young, but your story stuck a cord in my heart. Some parents make mistakes or are just not meant to be fathers(and mothers) should know what is the most important things in their lives are and that is family. You did not say how old you are? Talk to your dad if he is not physically abuse to you, tell him how much he is hurting you and mother and the family. Do it in a calm matter and you may want you mother present. Remember the most important thing is YOU, take care of yourself , your education. If worse comes to worst you still have a family. My two boys did fine and you will too if can be strong enough to get though this, NOTHING IS YOUR FAULT. Your mother may have to make a decision about the relationship with your dad soon, and whatever it is i as sure it will be for the best. Talk to him calmly.
LOVE

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Family / Re: For The Married Folks: What Happens When The Novelty Wears Off? by celt: 11:53am On Feb 15, 2010
LIVE WITH IT. YOU ARE YOU AND SHE IS SHE. ITS CALLED WILL POWER.
Family / Re: Can You Marry A Former Prostitute? by celt: 11:44am On Feb 15, 2010
You can but its not going to be easy. A prostitute goes though a lot of abuse which just keeps building up. Feelings of shame, and there will always be a hatred of men deep down which will reappear at certain times towards her husband. I would say there is a every good chance a ex prostitute is also a ex drug user. I do not agree that the lady. once out of prostitution would go back to it. I think going back to the drugs more likely. If you know your partner is a ex call girl or prostitute of street walker, get her some professional help. Yes a marriage can work but she will have many hangups. Who would not going though that. The husband builds up resentment towards her past, and does not want to talk about it, Maybe in the beginning it did not matter to him but as time goes on without professional help himself her past life will have some effect on him. It will take alot of team work for this marriage to make it but i have seen it happen and i have seen it fail. No one else has to know the past just you two. Only discuss it between your self's when a professional is present. Leave that life behind and the friends that went with it. If possible find a new town. That's all i got, and good luck.

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