Stoically not strikingly

Where you quote the VP as saying "he will strikingly bear" actually read "he will stoically bear"

Very well said. quote author=continentalceo post=68196051][/quote]

Esseite:
What i dont understand is why saraki who is a multi billionaire,
a proxy director with multiple banks,
a senate president,
a wealthy royal family,
a one time governor,
a personal friend with the governor of kwara would bankroll a bank robbery killing 33 people, for what reason really?
To disstabilize the state he controls?
To hurt the loyal governor his friend?
To steal the bank monies he has in abundance?
To kill policemen who protect him?

What really?
This war is personal...

Saraki possesses all of the titles you have listed and even more. But the Police have not accused him of of sponsoring the robbery. Only that Karma just obtained his address for crimes long commited and forgotten.

Op, sounds to me like classic anger transfer. You're taking you're lack of control of the situation with marriage & fam and placing it on your wife's shoulder. She was as powerless as you were and her 'swallowing' all this nasty behavior of yours is a power trip.

Remember she's a victim also, even more than you as you're now her daily tormentor/bully. If you can't get out of the marriage that you're feeling trapped in, then think of her as you're cell mate.

Lastly, get over you're self! if you can't, or will not, stand up to you're parents for your happiness & independence then you've made you're bed; make the best of a bad situation with you're wife OR leave. Grow up.

Hi joeldameety,

How far with your search? Which did you end up with and what was the experience like?

Thanks