Education / Re: WASSCE: South-West States To Reopen Schools by Chainex(m): 9:02pm On Jul 15, 2020 |
A welcome development 6 Likes 1 Share |
Health / Re: Russia Tested COVID-19 Vaccine On Humans Successfully by Chainex(m): 2:04pm On Jul 13, 2020 |
okeyglm: don't be deceived. this is phase 1 trial. for a vaccine to be develop. it have to undergo 3 phases. Applaud the first phase |
Science/Technology / Re: How Flying Snakes Can Glide Through The Air (Photos) by Chainex(m): 2:51pm On Jul 02, 2020 |
Openbusiness2: Some snakes can jump, some can stand, some can change color, some can spit, all can swim, all can crawl and all are very crafty............. so, I don't like any snakes at all except the King Cobra Cuz it feeds on other snakes. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Lady Laments As Fine Boy Who Collected Her Number 3Months Ago Refuses To Woo Her by Chainex(m): 8:10am On Jul 01, 2020 |
Unnerve: If this were to be real, then she should be wondering why such a fine guy is not interested in her besides just offering greetings. Perhaps she's not as attractive as she thinks. One beer for u |
Politics / Re: Festus Keyamo On 774,000 Jobs: "Politicians Blackmailing Me" by Chainex(m): 12:08pm On Jun 30, 2020 |
chatinent: If you cannot be bold to mention the names of these 'some,' Keyamo should not bother trying to become relevant. If you were in his shoes, would u do that? 1 Like 1 Share |
Business / Re: Which Bank Is The Best For Savings Account In Nigeria? by Chainex(m): 12:39pm On Jun 29, 2020 |
Scout60: in Nigeria, none is the best. All Nigeria banks get comma. It is access bank today. It might be uba tomorrow.
just choose your own wahala bank that is close to your area and start managing Lols . You have spoken well 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Port Harcourt Pleasure Park And The Legacy Of A “new” Administration. by Chainex(m): 10:28pm On Jun 17, 2020 |
TonyOputa:
Why do you have difficulty with understanding?
Common sense that comes so easy, how can it be so hard for you?
The Port Harcourt Pleasure Park will stand as ONE OF HIS LEGACY PROJECT, how does that transcend to being wike “Legacy for 8 Years?”
How does 2015-2020 count for 8 years?
Why do you choose to be unfortunate? Epic reply |
Properties / Re: What Is Your Worst Experience With A Tenant? by Chainex(m): 1:26pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
Davash222: OP, I wonder why you were persuading and forcing your dad to evict the man. The man dey follow you drag your girl Oga landlord, travel and see. A man who owes another is a thief. Young man, how will you feel if you were owed for long. 3 Likes |
Travel / Re: Refuse Covers Parts Of Surulere After Heavy Rain In Lagos (Viewers Discretion) by Chainex(m): 7:43pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
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Health / Re: I Can't Smell Or Taste Anything, Please Help by Chainex(m): 7:41pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
lastchild: Since 2 days now I just realized that I can't smell nor taste anything,no scent, no odour, no taste, this morning I poured 1 full spoon of salt inside my mouth but couldn't taste anything
am healthy, I don't have any headache nor malaria but I don't just know what is going on
Doctors in the house please help Get yourself checked into a hospital ASAP. Being human requires control of your 5 senses. U might be evolving |
Romance / Re: Do I Tell My Boyfriend He's Not Smart ? by Chainex(m): 7:39pm On Jun 07, 2020 |
cynosuree: Good morning. This issue has been bothering me for a long time, and I feel like it's too sensitive to ask for second opinions from people I know so I figured I'd maybe ask some strangers on the internet.
I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months now and he's everything I ever wanted in a man. Physically, he's gorgeous, and he also loves me alot. He's kind, he's patient, communicates effectively and all. You know, all the good stuff.
But here's the problem, he cannot hold a conversation beyond "what are you doing" , "what did you eat" (and all that boring stuff) to save his life. I'm not even talking about intellectual conversations like quantum theory or anything, normal conversations about stuff that's happening around the world or around us. Anytime we try to, it usually fails spectacularly. He either ends up missing the ENTIRE point and saying something totally unrelated, or he just waits for me to say what I think so he can go "Yeeaaaa that's true" , leaving me really pissed.
He has absolutely NOTHING intelligent to contribute to any serious conversation, and this hurts me alot because it is a HUGE turn off and I'm slowly losing interest in him. It's a very tricky situation because he does/did well academically, he graduated with very good grades but that's about it...nothing more. I didn't notice it at first - before we started dating, or I would never have dated him because it is a deal breaker for me.
I have considered telling him but I don't exactly know how to approach the conversation without being rude/insensitive, I know telling him would really hurt him and I don't want that. I've also thought about learning how to live with it, because no one is perfect right? Maybe I'm asking for too much?
The latter option is what I've been doing and it's gradually killing me. I fear that I'll fall out of love completely with him and end up hating myself for ruining a good thing, because he's a really good guy .
I'd like to know what you think Someone is sapiosexual. Just let go of him. I know that feeling . Find someone close to or on your level. P.S I like u |
Romance / Re: A Nairalanders Fitness Challenge by Chainex(m): 5:38pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
investordj: Another way to say you r getting wet .You ladies can confuse person sha... Specifics please. How? |
Romance / Re: A Nairalanders Fitness Challenge by Chainex(m): 5:37pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
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Romance / Re: A Nairalanders Fitness Challenge by Chainex(m): 5:36pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
NeduLuiZ: Good day nairalanders,I guess this maybe the best section to post this,since this is where I visit most. The pandemic has granted me an ironic freedom,so I decided to embark on a fitness challenge... It's to run for 60days and today been day 20 I've decided to carry my nairaland family along,who knows I might be inspiring others.
Constructive criticism is allowed!
Below is a picture for day1 You look really good. Like wild west good |
Romance / Re: Opinion: If You Really Want Your Ex To Know You've Moved On, Stop Doing This! by Chainex(m): 5:35pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
mhizgracie22: "I'm better off without you", "I like the woman I'm becoming". Do these statements ring a bell? Many of us have come across quotes like this on WhatsApp, Facebook and so on. Whenever we see quotes like this, the first thing that comes to mind is that the individual who posted it, just got out of a relationship.
I find it funny that after a break up, most people try to prove that they're over their exes by posting motivational quotes like the ones above or memes aimed at making their exes feel uncomfortable. For example, a girl who just got out of a relationship with a stingy guy may constantly post memes condemning stingy guys on her WhatsApp status, hoping her ex will see it and feel bad. Or a girl who just got out of a relationship with a guy who constantly ignored her, may start posting motivational quotes like "Don't force yourself on anybody", "don't settle for less", "don't stay where you are not wanted" etc immediately after the breakup.
If you really want to give your ex the impression that you're over them, posting memes and motivational quotes is not the way. The best way to do that is to act like nothing happened, and that should also reflect in what you post on your WhatsApp status or anywhere else. Post normal stuff, don't post anything relating to breakups or relationships. When you constantly post motivational quotes after a breakup, it gives your ex the impression that you're still thinking about them and that you're still hurt. But when you act like nothing happened, it makes your ex wonder if they ever meant anything to you (I'm talking from experience).
You should also avoid making your ex feel that you hate them, scientists say that our pupils dilate when we see someone we love or someone we hate, so when you hate someone, they still have an effect on you physically, mentally and emotionally. It's better for your ex to think that you've forgotten about them than to think that you hate them. I've actually met a guy who was satisfied with the fact that his ex girlfriend still hated him, he said her hatred was proof that she was not over him yet. They later got back together but the bottom line is that when you harbour hatred for an ex, it means you're not over them completely.
You may never want to get back together with them, but they still have a strong effect on you and your mood, so try as much as possible to forget, not hate. Some people might hurt you so much that you can't even control your hatred for them, take all the time you need to heal from the pain, but don't make it obvious to them that you hate them, you don't have to put on a fake smile when you see them, just be civil, avoid sounding angry or bitter. *This is just my opinion, not a fact, do whatever you think is best for you* Note: you should only do all this if you want to give your ex the impression that you've moved on, if you want to hash out the problems between you and your ex, there is no need to act like you don't care about them anymore but play it cool so you don't seem desperate. Also, if the issue that resulted in the breakup is a very serious one, it's better to discuss it and iron it out than to act like nothing happened. This epistle long ohh |
Romance / Re: Quick Release Whenever A Lady Touches Me by Chainex(m): 5:34pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
stanliwise: oga go see a physical doctor jare instead of doing Nairaland consultation Lolss 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Quick Release Whenever A Lady Touches Me by Chainex(m): 5:34pm On Jun 05, 2020 |
stanliwise: oga go see a physical doctor jare instead of doing Nairaland consultation |
Phones / Re: Cubot Dinosaur 4g Lte, 3gb, 16gb, 5.5", 4150mah by Chainex(m): 7:27pm On Jun 25, 2016 |
damn!! please oga ,get the phone and unbox it 4 us. this is my dream phone 1 Like |
Phone/Internet Market / Re: My Experience Using The Tecno Camon C9 + Few Spec And Official Price by Chainex(m): 11:37am On Jun 24, 2016 |
tahhh |
Science/Technology / Re: 10 Breathtaking And Beautifully Captured Wildlife Photographs by Chainex(m): 7:42pm On Jun 14, 2016 |
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Romance / Re: How Do I Make Her My Wife Despite The Difference In Religion? by Chainex(m): 9:32pm On Jun 12, 2016 |
Lets get this straight. U willingly want to end ur own life. In a society where the two faiths can barely stay together u'd rather MARRY! Look here brother yes u love her. but love has and will never be enough. Will u rather defend ur marriage than actually enjoy it? Are u ready to become every bodies ' don't follow in that boys footsteps'.
Marriage when not critically thought through is a recipe for , u know the rest. Dnt kid urself , this has TROUBLE written in bold red. |
Romance / Re: What's your opinion on the Sun Girl On Page 3 Of Daily Sun Newspaper? by Chainex(m): 8:36pm On Jun 11, 2016 |
Peacefulgold: U were lucky to have called and gotn tru wit there number,I've tried number of times but it never connects which make me to wonder if they r of any relevance....well truth b told those babes dey form model....but Na contact Dem need.... GUY , SOFTLY |
Romance / Re: What's your opinion on the Sun Girl On Page 3 Of Daily Sun Newspaper? by Chainex(m): 8:34pm On Jun 11, 2016 |
BLAH |
Fashion / Re: When Padded Butt Goes Wrong (pics) by Chainex(m): 8:30pm On Jun 11, 2016 |
This has got me rolling. The butt loooks like an unripe avocado pear. SMH |
Romance / Re: The Different Kinds Of Nigerian Girlfriends That Exist [photos] by Chainex(m): 8:26pm On Jun 11, 2016 |
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Family / Re: 12 Images That Will Literally Only Make Sense To Nigerians by Chainex(m): 8:22pm On Jun 11, 2016 |
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Family / Re: 12 Images That Will Literally Only Make Sense To Nigerians by Chainex(m): 8:20pm On Jun 11, 2016 |
soo true. At the pregnancy test pic. Cracked my ribs freemanbubble: funny |
Celebrities / Re: Ashley Coco's Outfits For Her Traditional Wedding by Chainex(m): 8:56am On May 24, 2016 |
Nawa to you oh |
Phones / Re: God Repaired My Galaxy Tablet (picture) by Chainex(m): 6:43am On Dec 19, 2013 |
[Wait A Minute, so wetin we suppose do na? Dance Alingo? But dat woman is totally vain oh] |
Phones / Re: God Repaired My Galaxy Tablet (picture) by Chainex(m): 6:41am On Dec 19, 2013 |
Wait A Minute, so wetin we suppose do na? Dance Alingo? But dat woman is totally vain oh |
Sports / Re: Stars Who Missed Out On World Cup by Chainex(m): 3:44pm On Nov 20, 2013 |
u fyn? |
Sports / Re: Stars Who Missed Out On World Cup by Chainex(m): 3:40pm On Nov 20, 2013 |
[quote author=Trail ii]To hell with alaba!!!! Thank God we won't b seeing his ugly face in brazil.[ U fyn pass am? ] |