cutecommend:
Is it bad for Christian couples to have sex after traditional wedding and before white wedding?

This is the answer..
Christian couples can have sex if traditional wedding is the last wedding as agreed by them or their parents etc, and no other wedding after that. But if a couple have another wedding after traditional wedding, please they should not have sex. Have sex only when all weddings are done. You can do only traditional wedding if you wish, you can marry in your father's house etc, as long as both parents approve it..
Lesson: Have sex after all wedding(s) are done.

You are confused.
When a man meets the girls parents and paid dowry for their and does traditional marriage, the parent hands over their daughter to the man. She becomes the man's wife.
As man and wife, can they have sex or not even before white wedding

If not, what is the woman to the wife is she is not the wife?

And if she is the man's wife, where in the bible or any book of law is it stated that a man cannot have sex with his wife?

Ode.
Election that the Democrats know you have lost even before a vote is casted.
Better go to retirement home before work stress kill you.

Agbero woman, pls stop this cheap publicity stunt and tell your husband to unfuck the economy he fvcked up.
What nonsense farming gimmicks under camera are you trying to rub on our faces
You are eating all the vegetables you are growing in the villa, but yet billions are spent for your family feeding. Who are you deceiving.
Pls cut down on your family feeding budget and channel the monies to infrastructural Devt since you and your family are eating what you grow in your farm.
Family Ole buruku.

TechBaron:
You must think typing a shitload of rubbish translate to wisdom.

I enjoy at least 20 hours of electricity per day.

I pay an average of 40k per month which I think is moderate.

My meter isn't classified as band A.

If AEDC erroneously supplies excess power to my area without properly classifying us, that's their business.

If any of the above information doesn't sit right with you, please get a rope and strangle yourself to death!

Some of you just like being rude and troublesome online.

King Solomon, please avoid my mention.

I responded to your comment without abuses. And you replied calling me names. Who started the abuses?

When you resort to subtle abuses in your responses, and then cry foul when you are given same dose of you dish out.

By the way, which part of Abuja do you reside that you are enjoy 20 hrs of power supply and paying 40k?
Am almost certain you are not on prepaid.
The discussion is about Prepaid users not Direct Billing.
So if you are on direct billing and living on the outskirts, the discussion is not for you.
AEDC is charging other areas to supplement the loses in some areas.
So enjoy your 20 hrs power supply at a cheap rate on direct billing in peace. It doesn't pain or affect me at all cos I am on Band B and what I am paying ion my prepaid is commiserate with what I consume.
Thanks.

TechBaron:
Mr. Know it all,

Are you aware that there are people living in the outskirts of Abuja that enjoy steady power supply, and don't even have prepaid meters?

They are on estimated billing, and they pay far lesser than metered customers?

I didn't brag about paying less, rather I feel lucky.

You sound pained!

I thought you have brain, I didnt know your head is worm infested.

Who are customers on Band A, B, C or D? Are they customers on direct billings?
I am talking about people with Prepaid Metres in commercial and high brow locations, you are coming to mention people on direct billing living in Gwagwalada, Kuje and outskirts. Are they on Prepaid billing?
What is the source that feeds these areas? Is it not the Grid that is coming from lokoja directly to Abuja? Are they not supposed to have more power?
And besides, is the discos to charge these poor areas more than the high brow residents? If the people of Gwagwalada most of who don't prepaid meter enjoy steady power, do you think AEDC will charge them as much as what band A prepaid metres are paying? Can these areas pay over 200k monthly for power charges on direct billings?
The difference between prepaid and direct billing is that Prepaid pays before consumption, while direct is pay after consumption.
We are talking about those on Prepaid Band A here, not Direct Billings.
You know nothing!!! So let me not bother my head to explain.
Dunce.

TechBaron:
Toh..

My meter isn't band A. But we get up to 22 hours of power daily.

I spend up to 400k on power annually.

If you have constant power, paying for it won't even bother you.

Dey Play.
If you are on Band B and you are having constant power supply up to 20hrs daily, that means you should be on Band A, the disco will soon move all of you on that feeder to Band A compulsorily because your have met the requirements to be on Band A and would compulsorily be on and A.
You can't eat food worth 10k in a restaurant and then want to pay 6k. That's an error. You must pay for the value you ate.

Secondly, while you are sharping your mouth that so long as there is steady power supply, one would willingly pay, go and ask people on Band A what they are paying monthly. Most of them are begging their discos that they don't want to be on Band A. Many of them are switching off their Metres every now and then to preserve power. I have heard of certain organisations that have written to Discos that they don't want to be on Band A cos the cost is too enormous
But incidentally it is not so. Discos put some feeders (commercial and high brow areas) specifically on Band A so they can charge them heavily. Hence once your residence or business is on that feeder everyone is automatically on Band A and you all pay through the nose.

The problem is that Nigeria is a jungle where service providers cash in and exploit subscribers and charge them more than neccessary.
Indomie noodles took price to 1k for superpack, people abandoned it and sought alternatives. when they saw that their sales has drastically dwindled, they crashed the price by half. Meaning it was an exploitative price increment.

Sleep on POTUS .
This one done lose election even before votes are casted.

Werey Trump is the next US President once again. Nothing can stop that from happening.

Typically, Nigerians are ethnically biased people.
And the worst thing is that the new generation of youths have further widened the Ethnic gap.
Even within all the ethnic groups, there are still deep divisions that runs down into communal and family lines. Even within same family, there are still divisions.
The underlying fact is that Nigerians are selfish people who only cares about themselves or no one else.

That's why we now play Politics of religion and ethnicity. Whether the candidate of our ethnic origin is capable or not, it doesn't matter, he must win at all cost. And when he wins, he must remain there whether he fails to perform or not.
Nigeria and winch mentality.

Lol.
However, Life is usually Buyers and Sellers, Head or Tail, Winner and Loser.
Someone must get Poor for another to become Rich.

Hmmm.
But Oliseh and Mikel talk too much. Even wetin them no ask, they will talk.
Anyway, football is a career where footballers don't respect each other, so expect bad mouthing to thrive.

The Judiciary in Nigeria is the most useless arm of government.
It is only a Lawyer or judge that will see clear evidences against a culprit, and even if the accused admits to a crime, a useless Nigerian lawyer will still go and stand in defense and plead not guilty for him.
Imagine the judiciary trying to cover up for a dogged face dollar thief like Ganduje.!!!

Honestly, there is absolutely nothing honorable about the Law profession when Lawyers and Judges are no better than Bandits and Arm Robbers given the way they run the judicial system.

It will be easier for Judas Iscariot to enter heaven than anyone in the law profession in Nigeria to enter heaven.
Such a shame.

Adaisback:
everyone cannot be like your sisters and your mother. Little wonder you are very versed in such subject

You didn't answer my question: Did you lose your virginity before 16yrs?
Ada, Can you swear??
Don't worry, I won't tell anyone that you couldn't keep it intact. It wasn't your fault. Nature Called, and you yeilded.

jedisco:


So what happens in western nations that for decades increase their minimum wage annually- in line with inflation?

Are you advocating that Nigerians should become poorer of maybe we reduce our minimum wage to 8,500 to fight inflation?

As the government posits it needs to cut spending to inflation, they should start with themselves. The exorbitant expenditure and thefy if the executive and legislative are of government is a main driver

No country has ever increase salary above 200%.
Labour Union are demanding over 700% salary increment. That's crazy and will ruin the economy.
The countries you talk about increase in small percentages of 20 - 50 %. That way the increment won't have adverse effects on the economy

Okay

AdeCityzen:
Let them Just pay the minimum wage maybe it will ease the pressure, it's 670-750 in Ondo state all this while. Any petrol station that sell above this are not patronize here unless it's panic buying

Minimum wage ease which pressure?
Did you attend Economics class at all?
What did they teach you about demand (more money) push inflation?
Make them pay new minimum wage and see how demand for all items will increase and push prices of these items upwards.
We are in deep trouble caused by Tinubu.
Nigerians should catch Tinubu and line up and give him a knock on the head each to reset that his useless Emilokan brain.

Hmmm

Adaisback:
Mama, maybe John is dead. Chai ! A virgin at 103?

Hey, it sounds unbelievable cos you lost yours at 14yrs?
How many body count by time u are age 22yrs??
Her generation and yours are different.
Then virginity was important, your generation, money is important.

ChiefOkporghe:


You're a bigger fool for not reading the OP (and understanding it).

Who is this Monkey behind me
Let me explain what I mean to you in simple language:
If your wife works and earns 100k and she is spending 700k, and you know she is spending more than she earns and you also hear she is allegedly stealing but you keep quiet, you are an accomplice and a thief.
And if u kept quiet while she stole and her action didn't embarrass your name while she kept on stealing, pls do well to keep quiet after she is prosecuted for stealing. Her prosecution shouldn't affect your name now.

Too bad, your irredeemable low IQ won't allow your understanding what am saying.
Now get the fvck off my back, lowlife dimwit.

VULCAN:
You started off well but by the end you had derailed like a Nollywood movie.

Kindly go back and read again so that you won't embarrass yourself any more.

Dieziani initiated the divorce in 2021-not him-its clearly stated there.

She ran away in 2015 to escape justice so they have been living apart since then.

As to the rest of what you wrote - you can be forgiven for the ignorance as Madueke is a notoriously private man. He was already very wealthy before she became Petroleum minister. He had a number of successful business among which was the company which acted as the clearing house for GSM coys. It was responsible for settling the debt from each call made from one GSM coy line to another.

For example when you made a call from an MTN line to Airtel - MTN would have to pay Airtel an agreed amount and his company took a commission for ensuring that transaction went through.

When you consider the number of calls that were made on a daily basis you will understand the kind of money this man was controlling.

I have not mentioned the maritime business he ran and the dollars he was earning.

All in all - he was a Simp who married a pretty but oversexed women in her 40's.

He couldn't control her and he was ashamed to cry out when she was doing Empress Dieziani in Abuja

Anyway, I'm sure he has learnt his lesson now

Next time Don't rush to comment before reading well.

I don't need you to give me Madueke's profile, I already know long ago and it isn't part of my emphasis, so spare me the unnecessary details.
My emphasis is that Madueke kept silent and didn't complain about his name being muddled when Dieziani was Minister and busy looting. Why is he complaining now that the prosecution of Madueke for looting is causing him embarrassment?
You have a wife that was looting as Minister, it was okay to be silent while the money was coming in.
Were his family not flying with Private Jet from Dieziani loot back then?
If he kept quiet then about his name being attached to Dieziani looting as Minister, he should keep quiet as his name is attached to Dieziani prosecution for the same looting.

I don't care about Dieziani or Madueke, but I am saying plainly that if Madueke kept silent when his wife was looting as Minister and he kept quite and couldn't make her stop, he was an accomplice to the looting and he should not complain about her now that she is being prosecuted.
Do you have a problem agreeing to that angle of my point?
Be smarter than you are exhibiting.

Danabu:


Did you read the story at all? Why the insults? It wasDiezani that sued for divorce after her tenure as minister.
If the man is not good to marry his name should not be good for her to use

It is said if the vultue, 's flesh is not good for eating avoid it altoger by all means.

Do you still maintain that the man I's a fool? I doubt! Otherwise, a bigger and irredeemable one uou are!

My dear boy, the issue is not who divorce who?
The issue is which name is Madueke saying Dieziani is embarrassing.?
Where was that name when Dieziani was looting as Minister and Madueke didn't talk?
Is Madueke coming out to speak now because Dieziani is no longer Minister and she is being prosecuted for looting?
My emphasis is that : If Madueke didn't complain about his name then when Dieziani was looting, he should not complain about his name now that she is being prosecuted.

You are too dumb and mentality clouded to understand what am talking, so I won't blame you.
Just shift and go and do your class assignment before you end up with low grades as usual

Neddstark:


I'm no teenager. I'm an adult perhaps older than you. You should take a mental check on yourself. You are the only one insulting Mr. Maduekwe for seeking divorce from his wife. Where is the proof that she spent her looted funds on her husband?
Do you know what it is for the woman you married to stain your family name? If you don't, i insist shut the fûck up.

You are older than who
I wish I can slap that your teenage face for you for that singular insult.

What proof are you needing to show that Madueke enjoyed Dieziani loot in silence?
The wife was staining which yeye name? Wasn't she bearing the name before 2015 when she was looting and Madueke didn't talk?
As a man, you married a woman, you should know her salary and know when she is living big above her salary and means. Wasn't he aware when Nigerians were shouting all over the internet that Dieziani was looting?
He kept silence over the cries of looting and enjoyed the loot. Don't you know that Madueke silence was accomplice?
Why didn't he come out to say that the shouts about Dieziani looting was embarrassing him and divorce her when she was Minister ? He kept quiet while the monies from loot was flowing in during her period as Minister.
As a husband, if your wife is corrupt and you don't complain or do anything to stop her , you are also corrupt and guilty.
Is it as simple as that, and I don't owe you or anyone any apologies for saying that truth.

kelly72:


Hahaha...is it you talking or na sepe dey talk?I I think it is too early to be drunk.
Something serious must be the reason why you read a text without understanding. It maybe bigotry, illiteracy, poor educational foundation etc. But whichever it is, seek help fast.

Incoherent rhetorics from a son of anarchy.
Present your facts straight if you are capable of presenting any and stop being delusional.
The question is:
When did Dieziani stopped being Minister? Was she minister in 2015 under Buhari as president?
You are too dull to know that Buhari was President and Dieziani was no longer Minister then.

So why did the marriage break up in 2015 after Dieziani was no longer Minister to loot? Why not while she was Minister and looted funds was coming in while Madueke enjoyed it?

Dimwit Oloshi like you cannot comprehend.
When I was in University in the early 1990s writing Projects for people, I am sure you were still trying to grow your first set of teeth if you were born by then.. Come here and be insulting your elders as illiterate.
I wish I can catch you to slap that your silly face for you. Who is your mate?

Odidigboigbo:
You guys should read in between the lines, they saperated in 2015, after her ministerial appointments and get divorced finally in 2022. So if they are not together during her ministerial period how did he enjoyed the so called loots with her? Mind you the man in question is not a man of low means. He was two times military governor and former Chief of Naval staff.

Your Mumulity and illiteracy go kill you.
The fact is that most of you on Nairaland claim to know so much and be asking people if someone read in the lines whereas you didn't even understand what you read.
What we are saying is that the marriage ended in 2015 after Dieziani was no longer Minister.
By 2015 when Buhari was president, was Dieziani still minister?
Why was the marriage dissolved in 2015 after she was no longer Minister to loot public funds again. Why did the marriage stayed on all the Period she was Minister? Madueke was enjoying the loot and didn't speak out or dissolve the marriage for whatever reasons before 2015, so why do so after she was no longer Minister in 2015?
Source of looted funds has ceased, and marriage has to end in 2015.

Some of you on Nairaland are plain stupid.
M0rons playing knowledgeable all over Nairaland .

Neddstark:


Were you in the marriage? If you weren't, shut the fûck up and face yours.

Juvenile Delinquency dey worry you.
I no blame you. Na Seun Osewa refused to profile Nairaland users to weed out teenagers and illiterates from the platform.
Ode Oshi

Odidigboigbo:
Did you read the content at all? He said they stopped living together as husband and wife after her ministerial appointments in 2015 before there finally divorced. So if they are not together, how is she bringing the looted funds to him?

You are too dull to understand that once she stopped being Minister in 2015, the source of looting ceased.
Why didn't they separate all the Period she was Minister and looting public funds? Why in 2015 after she was no longer Minister and source of funds has ceased?
Your peabrain cannot deduce that abi?

kelly72:


You read the story, but that small part of your brain that is bigoted will always take charge. No problems but let me straighten your neck;

The marriage fell apart in 2015 after she was appointed minister. Come back to your normal self and read the story again.

Most of you teenagers are peabrains fools who resort to insults without anything upstairs.
When was Dieziani Minister?
By 2015 that you said the marriage fell apart, was Dieziani still a Minister under Buhari who was President by then?
Why did the marriage fall apart in 2015 after Dieziani was no more Minister?
Why didn't it fall apart when she was looting money as Minister?
Oloshi block head come and be insulting your elders.
Werey.

Why have they separated in 2015 after she was no longer Minister

But a serious note, Rear Admiral Madueke is a big hypocrite. When Dieziani was looting and stealing monies, where was taking it to? Was it not to the Madueke home?
When she was spending big far beyond her salary, didn't he see and know that she was stealing public funds? She stole public funds and the Madueke family benefitted and enjoyed the loot, Madueke didn't say he was embarrassed by the affluence. Now the chips are down and Dieziani is being prosecuted for her looting, Admiral Madueke is opening his mouth to talk thrash about being embarrassed about the public shame. What is that
Why stay in marriage and enjoy the loot with her while she was Minister and then divorce her in 2015 when she stopped being Minister?
He is a big fool.

Ok.
Buhari is the biggest scam with rice. That clueless dullard scammed Nigerians with with fake rice pyramid and closed the borders to ban imported rice, and he then lied to us that Nigeria will be self sufficient with rice production, while he knows that his northern brothers were only rebagging the imported rice.
Instead of the price of rice coming down, the price kept going up because the rice were only smuggled and rebagged by northerners.
There are many reasons why Buhari should have been in jail next to Emefiele.

Choiceone1:
. Are u their representative? Poliicians increased all their salaries no word from u, let labour hav 200k too

Continue dreaming. You will wake up and smell the coffee.
If govt even offfer to pay 75k minimum wage, pls grab it with all arms cos they wont pay up to that.

wealthyvic1:


Keep your dirty mouth shut
RUBBISH

Why are you so vexed with me for saying the obvious truth??
No vex, Come and take 2k for dinner.

Call me a bastard if the FG agree to pay 100k let alone the 200k they are demanding.
Mumu that cannot see realities of issues and live with it. All you know best is to insult without being able to make a reasonable point.
Dey dream of 200k minimum wage, you hear.

Drunk