bros that was a wise thought but to be candid with u , u are in the wrong path. this is cos the salary in the Army (Armed Forces in general is nothing to write home about) the officers in the armed forces have so regards but its the rank and file they are treated like shit.their salary is very,very poor.right now a private in the nigerian army is paid 13 thousand naira a month, and the lowest officer rank collects about 37 thousand a month. it may sound unbelieveable but it is true.i'll not advise even my enemy to join the army as a rank and file.i'll only do that if i notice there's almost no hope for that person,i mean if the person is a stark illiterate and does not have any discernible skills.but its better to open a provision store than to join the army as a rank and file.
back to your question- as an officer you won't regret it.your salary is decent,you'll get the allowances the govt releases to you from time to time but as an other rank believe me your life is f----d up, you will never get your allowances made for you from the government this is becuase the officers will take theirs and also take your own too. that is the corruption in the military for u. i also want to use this medium to beg the government and those in authority to pls help monitor and make sure the rank and file gets their due rights and allowances. this will go a long way to help the nigerian military and gives it a good name outside.
good luck.

hello, friend i am pleased to let u know that u did nothing wrong, you only went after ur heart. i also think ur friend is not man enough to stand his words. two he also don't know what he want for himself. i will want to encourage that u ignore him and move on with ur plans. if u must know there is no intimate relationship with ur ex lover, so even if there was something btw them and he affirmed he has nothing with her. bros u are free and have don nothing wrong. i wish u the best! cheers[size=8pt][/size]

hi, brother all i have to say is just be prayerful and keep ur eyes up. this days girls can be very tricky just to get what they want. i will u the best in ur search

hi brother i wish you the best!  i like your courage of expressing yourself because some guys will find difficult to do, so kudos to you again